jivvie

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  1. @Homer by allowing them to die in their pragmatism. Unless you are stage Yellow+ I doubt you have the core ability to change them. Tier 2 is a boss. Because this is when you are able to make huge differences in people's lives without judgement whatsoever. Everything is fine, just as it is. You love without limit. You do not say "Orange thinking is holding us back." Instead you say "Wow, we could put your interests to great use. What can I do for you? May I suggest this type of approach?" I am not here to judge you. hell, I didn't really want to give this way of thinking because I could be wrong. After all, who am I? I am still majority Green. But I think you aren't incorporating their Orange strengths with your Green. Orange consciousness is not negative. There is some beauty in materialism, ambitious drive, and survival focus. Have you considered maybe your Green thinking is actually holding them down? What if what you want ruins their lives? Please be careful with the ego. THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO I am very strategic in how I apply Green concepts to an Orange thinker. I will watch television with her/him. I think ask them questions. "Do you think they will be happy buying this? What is your view on money? If you lose it all tomorrow what would be next? After that? How do you feel about fixing core issues at the root?" This allows THEM to ponder and open up to you. Most of the time you will hit a dead end but sooner or later, they will come to you for advice when those walls come crumbling down. It may take weeks, months, or years. However long it takes, it is not our jobs to change people. The world is already fine without your little $0.02 you know? Focus on their strengths and uplift them. When times get hard for them, then ease your Green paradigm in. Keep in mind all this is just talk. It is what I'd do and how I think. Doesn't mean jack shit. But hopefully I helped. Even if a little.
  2. Green: FEZ, Undertale, To The Moon, Metal Gear Solid V, Divinity: Original Sin Turquoise: Not yet available. However building a Turquoise infrastructure in game or application form IS my life purpose so I believe I will have the first.
  3. And then use it as a reference haha. I know I will.
  4. I took a lot of what you guys said into consideration. Believe me, I do not agree nor disagree with something without a thorough analysis inside myself. This will take a few month's work. But I am referencing this topic while I come to accept this paradigm. @TheAvatarState Good point. Also, I later realized I did not fully understand Green. After extensive reading I understand I did not fully understand what Green is about and thus will have to take a lot of time to flow into yellow the way I'd love to.
  5. And so I have made a huge mistake in my life. I almost (very closely) ruined my life. I’ve lost pretty much everything. If statistics matter I am: 20% Yellow, 80% Green However my life changed when I was fully Green. The downside is that I did not fully embody Orange ?. In fact, I totally rejected my past employer for his tactics, immoral attitude, and false nature. Orange has by far been the biggest thorn in my side and it’s literally hurting me inside because I’m failing to want to be materialistic and ambitious. I do things just because. Not for money. Not to be famous. But to improve the world and get better. Can anyone that has fully embodied Orange give me tips? Or am I on my own? If that’s the case then that’s fine, I’ll continue reading and meditating. But I don’t see how that will help (considering Orange mentality).
  6. Find your life purpose. Take the course.
  7. @korbes I may be speaking out of my bounds. But I think it’s a big mistake for anyone to stack enlightenment atop their basic needs for survival. Take a look at Maslow’s Heirarchy of Needs. You have to get that base down. That’s what the course is for. It’s crucial before a person seeks college. Before getting a promotion at a job. But before ever seeking to feed the higher conscious over the lower. Just my input. Be careful man. When I did this, it was a massive blunder. Take care.
  8. Here is the scene that helped me find my LP.
  9. This is just my opinion. Because I’m having similar issues. The biggest thing you want to do is incorporate financial strategy and grow into yourself. Listen to Spiral Dynamics: Stage Orange by Leo. Then listen to How To Get Shit Done. Become an economic powerhouse. Then move up into Green, ever you naturally belong.
  10. -I watched futunari a few days ago. Porn got boring. Eh. I’m just being a monkey doing monkey things. -Everyone is everything I have known this for a long time but a video Leo made sorts confirmed it. I spent 4 hours straight thinking about it. It’s true. I’ve felt how it was to be raped by a stranger on the street. I also drowned last night in a sea of whales. -Life Purpose isn’t what most of us believe it is. Honestly, it’s a form of materialism. I have started to realize the life purpose is just a thing to chase to make life meaningful. I have one and yet I don’t. I’m closer to finding the one. -Falling in love has no benefits.
  11. I’ve officially quit MOBAs. The game category. It’s been two months now. But lately I’ve been able to focus on meditation, writing, designing, and coding. I even got a few lady friends in the process. I eat better. I drink more water. I accept people and I’m a lot more social. I think I’ve played like 2 hours of gaming in the past two weeks and currently have nothing installed. I do get tempted when I watch Trick but it’s gotten easier and easier to just enjoy the entertainment after a long day of work. If you’re like me and just want to play games less and get depressed over losses then I can give a tad bit of advice. You’ll die soon. Seriously. I invited this girl over for 5 days. We actually had a lot of sex. Like, a LOT. We smoked (I’m not a smoker), drank, laughed, joked, and balanced each other. I didn’t play a single game in that time. And every night the only thing I thought about next to her was “I’m going to die. And this feeling won’t matter.” So I compared these good times to games, and work, and food. What I realized is that death is inevitable. We can’t keep playing games all day thinking it’ll bring some type of happiness. You have to create something and find meaning. You have to build a connection with other people. That’s my take on it. Games are a good supplement, but a bad solution.
  12. My Life Purpose is to build a mastery-focused free online school for the poor and those that cannot afford college (higher education). My school is designed for students looking into becoming Web Architecture Masters and FullStack Developers. What I need to make it happen: 5 Years Vue.JS (Javascript Mastery) Advanced Mathematics Design Mastery (UX/UI) Advanced Physics Advanced Writing (Poetry and Literature) -> This goes into a new Life Purpose. Already noted in my journal API(Architecture Mastery) Advanced in Linux I have not finished my LP Course. This is because I took everything said in the first 18 Videos and had an emotional realization. This along with the game "To The Moon" pushed me into my childhood dreams. I remember seeing my ghetto and crying, wishing there was a way to learn beyond what I was given. My life purpose makes me cry constantly. Even now. Thank you Leo. Your course is my reference bro. And I will continue til the end. THANK YOU.
  13. It is not that type of website. Explaining it would take a novel and I am personally not interested in writing it all down to the public. Rather just train and build it. It will take a decent amount of time. 5 Years is the minimum.
  14. Is talent really a myth? Yes
  15. I read it somewhere. Wherever it was, it stuck. A great frequency I like to listen to is 528 hz. It helps me meditate throughout all situations. The Frequency of Love 528HZ is a good one.
  16. I think your ego is greater than your higher conscious, friend.
  17. I have dreaded coming to Actualized.org. (The Forum) Personally, I really just felt this was a place for people that aren't as serious about changing as stated. That being said, I will probably not post again until I actually finish the course. I had a crazy amount of bills this month and I decided to just purchase the course instead. 'The Vision' made me cry. A lot. A shit ton. No matter how much I have done. The people I have helped. The abuse I have witnessed from childhood. I never thought to myself "I made it." So I guess I mean to thank Leo for such an amazing course. I am 100% sure that this is what I have always needed. My name is Gjvon Graves. I am a Web Developer. I like to read. I love programming. I love design. Hope to interact with everyone sometime in the future. <3