jivvie

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  1. Okay. Let’s use your context. Long Term Relationships. Modern women today are not looking for what you are talking about brother. They aren’t. And it shows you obviously have not been in the market or did much research in this market because you would know. Most modern women have the following wants: Good job or career, money (6 figures), good education, goal driven. Traditional women want: security, safety You are researching traditional women in a modern world. Do they exist? Hell yeah. They do. But they are the “pure” women the OP is talking about lmao. No woman with 5-7 partners is a traditional woman. If they were, even the type of men you are complaining about would have put a ring on it. Do not run away from the obvious. Men recognize traditional women. Men recognize a good woman that knows her place.
  2. How to seek attention without asking for it. Example of a man that has not matured.
  3. I did not read that. I apologize. Gonna have to agree in that context.
  4. What equality are you searching for? There’s no equality in love and war sir/ma’am. What type of equality do you actually want from this post. Do you believe equality can actually exist? I would say the term “degenerate” is a bit harsh and maybe so unprofessional but as actualized beings, if you believe equality exists in the dating scene then…. yikes ?
  5. Bro please stop responding to that masculine woman. The longer it goes, the more she fishes for more of your manhood. You gave your opinion, and while I don’t use “degenerate” as the term or speak of women that way, I understand where you are coming from and even my wife agreed with you. 100%. Then she continued making my breakfast. Let it go. It’s causing more issue than worth.
  6. I noticed that too. That’s a bit disheartening. Never thought this would be a platform that does this. very unfortunate.
  7. Do not argue with masculine women. I found it to go in circles. The feminine, silent types always have something to say and it’s usually diamond advice. But topics like these? A woman that understands herself and her man will ignore.
  8. Why? I am not saying I disagree with you but why? You’re missing so many raw details. I swear to GOD that a fine, beautiful woman will choose a whore man over a sensitive boy virgin. In fact, I guarantee it. I hate to say “nice guys finish last” but bruh….. sometimes they don’t even get to start lol. 1. What does masculinity mean to you homie? Please none of that woke garbage here. It don’t work in real world relationships because relationships are meant to skewed from the first date. 2. Women are born with inherent value. Men strive for it. Women determine the family, men determine the date/marriage. 3. A high value man will probably have a few women under his belt because the women are leaving the relationships. (Usually due to money) mMost men do not want divorce nor want to leave the relationship. 4. Men are more open to criticism and new things. They do not create fantasies that do not exist. I employ you to talk to your exes and/or lady you mess with now. Ask her what she wants in a man. Ask her. Most modern women will bring up education, monetary value, goals, accomplishments, equality. Things that men do not want in a woman. Women are lost in modern society simply because these masculine women do not understand us men. They are too damn masculine and it’s unattractive. Men with a lot of women are looked at as Kings because it is a masculine scenery. Wanna bet he provides for those women wholeheartedly? Men provide. That is in our culture and instincts. Women are out of line today. But they have their “equality” so it is what it is.
  9. No problem. Take care and good luck with dating. Competition is high out there. it’s a good thing I’m no longer in that market just giving advice
  10. @universe shaming is a stretch. Shaming is intentional. I don’t want to get into that. It’s a circle jerk. Just saying it’s a stretch assuming they do not mean well. Most men of value do not want a woman that’s had 5-9 men inside her. I surely did not. Which is why I married a 20 year old at 30. (Happily married. And when I say happy, I mean walking on clouds daily. It gets rough, but man is it nice having someone that listens intently and grows with you). She is 23 now and I am 33. Most women just have too many relationships under their belt and it makes it hard to really please them. A lot of them need progressional counseling and a lot of them are manipulative as hell. There’s a reason why you’ve been with a lot of men and still on the market. dating is an intent to marry. Period. If you aren’t intending to be with a person for a long period of time through a date, then you obviously have commitment issues. Men are logical beings. I’ll end it there.
  11. I was born an African American male. I’ve been through modern racism (ain’t that bad honestly) I was molested as a child. My mom died when I was 4. I never met my father. My family was toxic and did not want me. My family forced me to fight smaller kids when I was growing up. I grew up depressed, lonely, fatigued, and felt like I had something to prove. I’ve attempted suicide twice. Once, with pills (I was young and dumb lmao) Where I’m going with this, I am a top 10% earner in the black community, I know 12 programming languages, I read 8 books or so a month, and I have a baller wife. You can turn it around. But do you want to? Read my past posts lol. I used to work at WALMART. I would Uber half way through town every day. I made no money. I had maybe $100 to myself each pay day. Life is hard man. This ain’t Jay Z and Beyoncé brunch. We struggle out here. Gotta be stronger. How? Don’t know man. It’s inside you. Gotta fish it out. what I personally recommend? Take Leo’s course. Can’t afford it? Figure out a way to buy it. Changed my life. Maybe it’ll help you. Good luck.
  12. 1. You internalized this too much. I do not think the original poster was targeting you. If you have nothing to answer to, don’t answer to them. 2. your claims that men do not know what women want is hella ludicrous. Men are still doing their best to build women this fantasy they want. Men are still working very hard to be what women want. Thing is, men are getting tired of building on the fantasy because they’ve realized it’s impossible. 3. Your values are not opinions. They are your truths.
  13. "Disney, wouldn't it be great to see me 2-3 years from now in California making more than enough to get by? Would it not be great to see me a master in my field and building that advanced school?" -A text to my best friend THANK YOU First of all, your course rocks. I have taken it 3 times. Yes, 3 times lol. The first time I bullshitted it and went straight to my life purpose without a great infrastructure and daily schedule. The second time I was like "okay, I got some meat but I am still missing something. I still feel like a dabbler." The third hit the sweet spot. This course is a must for every single human being on this earth. The amount of wisdom and content here is not only jaw dropping, but it changes who you are. People today look at me and instantly love me around. They respect where I sit on this earth. I don't think that $300 was enough. When I was poor and crying in my room from depression, I'd have never thought my consciousness would see the world as I do now. BOOKS I READ THAT CHANGED MY LIFE Walt Disney Malcom X It is not about the Money FIELD OF MASTERY Career: World Class Programmer Language: C++ Hours so far: 300-400/10,000 CONTENT There are hours and hours of content in this course. There are a few things that made me want to throw myself into hot lava and/or quit the course. (Staring at you 100 questions). In fact, I did quit at one point. Not because I did not find my life purpose in some type of way, but because I thought finishing would be meaningless since I have found it. This probably has happened to many. I suggest retaking the entire thing more than once. I feel our egos are so complex that one time is just not enough. I am lucky and blessed in my surroundings so I know that can not happen for most. But if you are lucky like me and can take it multiple times, DO IT. First time was probably BS. At least for me it was. There is so much content here, you can always go back and see that you did not follow all of it or did not take some areas of application as serious as others. WILL IT REALLY HELP ME FIND MY LIFE PURPOSE? Yes. And no. MY life purpose was so hard to really understand. I knew I wanted to be an educator of some sort but just creating a website was just never good enough. It did not feel complete. It did not feel challenging. It felt MEDIOCRE. I retook it and had a moment around the halfway mark. I was starting to feel I was incapable of a life purpose until I saw Bladerunner 2049 (the memory creator scene). You have to put in the work and not really look for the course to bring it out in you. This is really hard to explain because the course helped me but it also didn't help me, know what I mean? Probably not haha. Just do all the work and stay aware of your childhood and interests. VALUE FOR CONTENT Oh boy. Definitely worth the price tag I will say that. Look, I am a poor negro from Texas. I regret nothing. CONCLUSION (BECAUSE I ONLY HAVE TWO HOURS LEFT BEFORE I BUILD MY NEXT PROGRAMMING PROJECT) I really wanted to review this course. It changed my life. It helped me take ownership of myself and LOVE MYSELF. I love the world around me and I will do what I can to spread my love to others. Teens have even come to me online and asked me to mentor them but I am no GURU nor am I someone to follow. I study the topics LEO has advertised and I apply them when I see necessary. I hope more people take the course before it is too late. Good luck. Thanks again bro. <3
  14. I vote for finishing college in communications or business for the relationships and during all that, work on business. Just my 2 cents. You’ll do great
  15. Misleading title. I still work at Walmart overnight. I probably will for the next 1-2 months. Then back to college. Yes, I’ve had previous experience and I am a pretty good Web Developer in all, and I could lose the job today, who knows? But to me, the most valuable moment of this journey was when I received that letter, “We have chose you to be our Web Developer.” I didn’t accept right away. In fact, I stood there staring at the ceiling for a couple hours. This is mostly about how I am learning to Master Orange in spiral dynamics. If you do not know what I mean then seek out Leo’s video on Spiral Dynamics and its Applications or Spiral Dynamics text by Beck via amazon. Strongly recommend The Crucible by the scholar as well. Brilliant insights. This is a simple understanding and I realized this while stocking shelves at Walmart. “You have the choice to play the game as a God or ignore it completely.” That’s it. That’s it! But wait, that’s too simple, it was for me. It didn’t ding until I thought of a game I played a couple months back or so. It was called Pillars of Eternity I believe. In this game you play alongside Gods and in theory, you pretty much are one. You are part of a council that is trying to stop a necessary “evil.” That’s all great and all but that should be ignored. The important part here is that you are a God and the universe obviously needs you. Politics aside. It’s a game. So these people give you a choice at the start of the game. You either deny because you’re tired of the bs because to you, things are fine as is or you fight for the peons(humanity) for the greater “good.” Oh boy, the choices aren’t the best part. The best part is how the game handled not choosing to help. The game ends. You go straight to the credits. You choose to chill and not struggle and hey, you don’t play the game. Essentially, you did best you could. Life went on and you lived your best life. How did this help me? Well, I got crazy enlightened all at once. I realized that me sitting on my ass and being okay with a crap job and riding the bus and getting a gf and sex, and masturbation, and man all that noise. It’s all just part of a game that I HAVE control over. I can decide to chill and let people struggle or I can transcend and help them consciously. I can be toxic or I can be positive. My decisions to be successful or a better person is all just a part of my imagination. That’s when I understood Orange. That’s when I actually became ambitious without the toxicity. Of course I had to work my ass off afterwards by reading books daily and programming a lot but hey, it worked for me. ? Hope it helps someone. Godspeed. PS: Never finished that game. Uninstalled after the credits.
  16. I took Modafinil on my night shift at Walmart. I broke down and cried on my break. During my job I practiced mindfulness. Here’s what I learned. I won’t make you read an essay. I am not in control. I no longer WANT CONTROL Instead of taking an Uber home, I allowed hmmm. Did I allow though? I refused ego. No more good or bad choices. ‘The Choice’ Their choices. They as in my ancestors, past encounters, and animals. Everything. Wow, all people really are on equal footing. A kid working with me came to me and told me “God told me to come to you. Here’s my struggle. “ We shook hands after. I cried right after. My surroundings are as perfect as they need to be. There’s no need to distinguish a nice neighborhood from a ‘bad’ one. It’s all good. I, We, It has a long way to go.
  17. Sorry for not replying to this thread. When I post, I tend to focus on my life purpose after. I have done much mindfulness since then and I choose to keep the results to myself. Thanks for the insights though. PS: I’m not interested in ‘having anyone”. It seems your ego didn’t allow you to read my post fully. no argument here. I get it. But I’m not interested in relationships but experiences.
  18. There are a few things this person brings to me just by watching her content and snapchats alone: 1. She once made me cry. I can't explain what she was doing but it was happiness. She was in the dark room twirling different lights into one (hard to explain) 2. I became motivated when she talked about going green and loving the self 3. Her energy alone pushes me to want to work. It was like Leo on steroids. 4. I'd pay any penny to see her in real life. I do not mean fall in love in the physical sense. I do not wish to bed her or snack on this person. It is a more spiritual connection where just watching her creates this natural high and love for existence. There is only one person that has done this-Leo. The most interesting thing I have seen is the fact that she has A LOT of Orange and Blue friends and yet she talks to them and befriends them like they too are perfect as they are. Even when they do not agree with her at all, she entertains it with understanding. Really helped me understand I have a LONG way to go.
  19. 1. Show me proof that a life purpose will make me successful. 2. Show me proof that God exists. 3. Infinite does not exist because if it did, there would be no meaning to life. 4. My favorite because I used to say this, “show me God.” Ones that are deeply pragmatic believe only in results or proofs. They are highly logical minded. Not saying this is a bad thing. Quite the opposite actually. But it can become a pretty big problem once he/she realizes that this system of thinking is not healthy. Getting into Green, you had to drop this way of thinking exponentially. Well matured Green intellectuals understand that pragmatism is just not enough. There’s a void that can’t be filled in Orange. This is also when I personally started seeing God again. But not as I did in Blue during my time in the military, but as a universal entity. Pragmatism limitations came to you at some point in your life. I’ll explain my own. At some point I kept telling people that believe in religion that their God is false and useless. Because God isn’t real. I can’t see Him. I can’t touch It. The only thing that makes sense is the economy and what’s here. What’s living is what matters. One day I was in church and I cried during the musicals. I felt something in the people and the environment. I realized that God is in people, in all of us. My theory was proven when my younger cousin died. I stayed away for two days thinking about life and death. I found God, I guess. In us all. Being aggressively pragmatic keeps you closed minded. It’s much more useful imo, to balance it with Green values. Or else you’ll end up like me, an immature and insecure version of Green.
  20. Actually, I believe Undertale is a stage Yellow video game. It was done by a developer that wrote the source code, wrote the music, designed the game, and marketed. And his views on the world are apparent. There is no game like it, I think.
  21. Today is Wednesday. That means you have 4 days. That is all you need. The Life Purpose Course is not THAT long. You can do 90% of it in two days. If you can't you aren't putting it first. This allows you to finish the course AND do what you need to do as a result. You see, your egoistic mind is making you choose. But you do not need to choose. You can easily do both sir. Finish the course then you will gradually see your grades skyrocket as a result. You won't become an A/B student because you are a product of Wage Slavery. Look, Wage Slavery is a problem, I agree. But lets not worry about that now. Right now you need a Life Purpose, a Pursuit of Mastery, and good grades. No matter how slice the cake, you need good grades in school. You need good grades because that is the system you are a part of. Do not fight against the system. Adapt and overcome. Awareness alone is good enough right now.