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@Keyhole Because women who have a certain type of trauma are an attractant for a certain archetype of man. They don't simply "get over it" - they "get over it a little bit" and then meet the same sort of abuser again and again. This is what causes the worldview of men being evil. If you beat a dog eventually it will shy away from every human hand or bite a friendly hand. This is how nature works. For example. My dog has never been hit. I can raise my hand really high and slam it down, inches from her nose and she will not flinch. But if I were to start hitting her, she might start flinching when I go to pet her or to give her a treat. Yep I think I agree with you. Assuming most dog owners don't bash their dog, I wonder how much value your dog would get out of going hardcore at all of their trauma. Practising loving kindness meditation on all dog owners, and loving all dog owners unconditionally, even the ones that bashed him/her. I wonder how that dog's world would change, when the dog realises that not every dog owner bashes their dog, but only 1%, and most dog owners love their dogs, so much that its unbelievable. The dogs world would go from all dog owners are evil to only a few are, and now I've got untapped love from all these owners. If you're at that frequency, then yes they are. But if you are not - if you are weak in any way, then you will not experience this. I have met men who were amazing in every other context, but decided just for me - to be manipulative and dishonest. People carry two sides and what they show depends on what you can offer them. Humans are very shallow. That's a super interesting point, but I'm not sure if its True. But if you get over being 'weak' then by that logic, you will have a beautiful guy? Maybe getting a good guy (by the way I'm not pressuring you to do anything LOOL before we start thinking I'm passive aggressively forcing you to be with a guy because I'm the evil patriarchy trying to uphold it and maliciously control your life and make you go to hell) is about getting over your demons within? Instead of how the external world works? Maybe the external world isn't real, and just a projection of the inner world? Humans are very shallow. *some* are. Not all. Not even most. There are so many beautiful people out there, but a few tiny experiences, experiences that make up 1/10th of your life, has to block you from seeing it. Not always. Honestly, I am pretty good at picking up the underlying reasons for people's behaviours. Someone can be abrasive and I will not feel threatened if they come from a good place, whereas another person can be charming and I will see though that. Women have pretty good intuition. You seem pretty good at that too - or you've just developed a habit of seeing the positive in people's comments and twisting them positively, which I really love seeing to be honest, its really beautiful. Are you definitely sure that when a guy compliments you, in your head you're not saying "uggh, this dude is just complimenting me because he's horny and wants to get in my pants" ? Or "omg he just compliments my looks, this dude is so shallow, like all humans" LOL. Here's something interesting, I know 4 guys beyond this forum who say that sincerely and with Love. I don't think you could tell the difference I found it really funny that wordsofliving said she's gonna be asexual hahaha. Based on how serious she is about enlightenment, I could project and say she's using enlightenment as an escape from all the evil men in the world. The poor thing, what she doesn't realise yet (and all enlightenment seeking psychologically damaged people - which there are a lot in green stage spiritual circles) is that to REACH infinite love, you will need to love the opposite sex. Passionately. You will need to adore them and have the opinion that they are the most beautiful, loving, masterpieces that you have ever seen. Because they are all God. Adoring the opposite sex, is a prerequisite to infinite love. God does not have those opinions about evil men, all of them have been dropped. God loves men (and women) so much that it drives him/her crazy. And if you do ever get to the point where you don't see the opposite sex as bad anymore(not that you have to, you can do whatever you want, I do not care what you do), the dropping of the traumas will literally change the universe, change the laws of physics on the fly, that men you only dreamed of in the past will start appearing. That's just how the universe works, the laws of nature are powered from within. Look if this thread derailed into women only want money and status, I would have done the opposite. There was a post like that a while ago, go read those if you're pissed at the one sidedness, those replies were a lot more one sided against men then my post are to women.

I'll help you out, go and gauge wordsofliving's perceptions of men. You'll say no sentence which describes how and why you're triggered, with any more clarity than this one. I infer the same, and based on my experience its true. True yet, there was no 'so much projection' with my comment. I'll give you a hint: I said it within the context of psychologically damaged individuals.

You're projecting that I am a being that has experiences and is talking to you.

Never said communication problems = seeing men as evil, or that women are saying they have communication problems. Lol I see you've been triggered. Have a good day.

Yeah exactly. Lots of men and women hate the opposite sex, largely because THEY THEMSELVES project their own issues onto the relationship. Don't realise it, and then blame the other sex for their issues. Largely these women have had traumas from their childhood or being bullied from work or whatever, and then when a guy does something they don't like, they misinterpret it as reliving one of their traumas, when they guy did it for a completely different reason. I know lots of women and men who are not dysfunctional and are amazing. I know at least 36 couples that have been together and are deeply in love, and some single guys that are just a charm to be around. If you notice, all of the psychologically damaged women live in worlds were all men are evil. All women who got over that trauma or never had it live in worlds where there are good guys out there. Why is this? A large part of a relationship's success comes from seeing why your partner did what they did, and properly communicating why you aren't happy with it. Most relationships fail because of misinterpreting their partners, projecting their own shit onto them, and not communicating properly. Men and women aren't bad people, they are amazing, you're just not seeing it. Also people on this forum are largely retarded because Leo attracted dysfunctional people. Most non dysfunctional people don't search for help because they don't believe they need help hahahaha.

That's what most guys are like. All guys are the same You date other people casually till ya satisified, have short casual relationships or just have one night stands. Or you have a horrible break up 3 years down the line. Which is what will probably happen anyway.

That outer appearance gets taken off in the bedroom. Clothe or shoe styles don't matter there.

Yeah and IMO every guy should strive to be who they authentically are, rather than trying to fulfill some woman's preferences. If you're a feminine guy, don't change that because some pickup channel or some women on the internet said its unattractive. Embrace it and love who you truly are. In my experience, the best pickup for guys is meditation, shadow work and life purpose... things which bring you to being who you authentically are. Trying to be someone you're not to please a woman... is limited and unsustainable.

Dude you live in Norway where its safe to approach people at this time. Stop using Covid19 as an excuse to pussy out on seeing women P.S. I'm in Norway right now.

You'd like to think so, how else are ya gonna maintain that big ego of yours if you can't make your dick feel special and important?

ohhh sorry that's a show? Thought it was my child hood! My God there are too many good men out there! They are everywhere! All over my instagram, these show off dudes that are ripped, loving, feed wildlife and rescue turtles in their free time(when they get time off work of being a doctor caring for poor sick children in pediatrics), donating to moon bears. I'm sick of it! They are everywhere! All these ripped, successful, alturistic dudes all over the place! I'm sick of it! They are taking all the women away! And here I am having to listen to how there's no great guys out there!

If you see a beautiful girl and walk up to her nervously and say authentically "omg I'm just so nervous because you're so beautiful, I'm not use to seeing women as beautiful as you. I had to say hi" She'll more likely appreciate that more than a guy with decades of pickup under his belt, super confident and suave, and walks up to her and says "you're so beautiful, want a drink?" Just gonna leave that there...

@Keyhole My god that brown character is my spirit animal.

Just use your hot, sexy shaman tricks to hypnotise him into thinking you're a wild, sexy tiger. Then see if it 'still wears off'.

I think he does, I signed an NDA to make sure i dont steal his stuff. I'm joking in case I get in trouble for not mentioning that.

Don't worry, when you see what's actually going on, you'll have someone even more hot than that Jon guy. You'll have the creator. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh! Yeah I had to deny lots of feminine aspects of me too and I'm a guy. These days I'm like fuck it. In work I get called too compassionate, a pussy, don't fire people enough, a push over. And I say fuck it if I want to be compassionate I'll fucken be compassionate go fuck yourself. They even tell me I'm not being assertive enough. Its got nothing to do with assertiveness its got to do with being fair and doing what's right in God's eye. The true assertive one is the one who stands up to people who tell ya you're not assertive enough. I got bullied for all of the above in high school, then I went through a phase of being a cu**. Now I'm like fuck you this is who i am. And while I've lost my job a couple of times, never been happier. Its great.

Of course this is obvious. Hello what is porn?? Its not physical its pure imagination! Lol the dream of most guys! If only it was that simple. I would be curious to know more about that too, whether Leo found a 'real' way to have sex via text or not. Yeah I agree. Sex without the love and intimacy is like mcdonalds. With the intimacy its like a highly expensive restaurant. But unfortunately I don't know many guys who agree with me. They have their heart chakra totally closed. Which society's appraisal of masculinity playes a huge role with that. Getting your bf to cry and open up and be vulnerable can trigger his desire for emotional intimacy. But you need to go against decades of social conditioning.

I agree. I think it will just make you die physically.

This heading is hilarious! hahahahahahaha Is this what its like for you at home: "Son why you so down?" "Oh, nothing mum. I'm trying to figure out how to deal with NPCs" "NPCs? You mean that minecraft game you play with you friends?" "No mum, I mean people, they are all NPCs, like the ones in minecraft" "ummmmm ok...." "I came to the realization this morning. Some people just don't think. Some people are just NPCs" "Oh son, everything will be alright. Did you take datura again?"

I'm insulting, and yet you didn't insult me back. You didn't call me names, you stood your ground which most women would not. I think that's beautiful. And no I'm not being sarcastic with this one. I understand you believe this is how men should act. But try, not saying you can, but try to see that imposing how a man should be is not nice. Just like how society imposes rules on how women should be, imposing rules on how men should be is just as hurtful. We all deserve to be allowed to have the space to unfold in our authentic ways, and for us to be accepted and loved by whatever that way is. Jon Butcher has a very different personality to me and most people, and it would be deeply inauthentic and hurtful to try and replicate it. I've seen what its like to have balanced feminine and masculine energy as a man, and while I'm not that amazing, other women really appreciate it.

I'm a passionate feminist and proud of it EDIT: don't worry I'm not trying to take away your autonomy of picking what guys you like, and even if I was, that's impossible because you're the one interpreting everything I say, you're the gatekeeper. I can't touch or change anything about you. Thinking otherwise is a trick you are playing on yourself. Really? Get outta here Without building intimacy?

I didn't watch the whole video, but from my understanding of feminine vs masculine(based on meditation and some books) the masculine does not harbour love, that comes primarily from the feminine. Go read up on chakra work, and the masculine area(root chakra) is super effective for power, energy, direction, etc. Feminine is where loves come from. If you want a guy to authentically love you(again I could be wrong) its going to be because he has opened up to and has integrated his feminine side. A guy's genuine love for you will come from his feminine side. That's definitely the case for me. And all I'm saying is, out of all 50 of my high school class mates, I don't remember a single one that had as much feminine energy needed to authentically satisfy a woman(and I don't remember a girl horny enough enough to satisfy my guy friends). If you find one, awesome! But its not weird for a guy to not want intimacy, rather its weird for them to WANT intimacy! Infact less than 1/50 chance! The world isn't fucked up, this is how it works, what you want is a weird guy, you need to accept that. And you can get a weird guy. I'm not sure how because im not a woman. This comment could suggest you're a passionate feminist. Go look for guy feminists, they tend to be what you're looking for. Also the guys that clean up shit on the ground in green earth day. Also the guys who protest for liberal rights. Also the guys who vote for the greens. And the guys who listen to ralph smart from infinite waters LOL( lol you'll find lots of what you're looking for there, maybe too much hahahahahahahaha)

My take is, our culture has indoctrinated us with the idea that rationality is superior to feeling, because feeling has cognitive biases. The theory says to reverse that. All thoughts steam from a feeling. The thoughts are the leaves and the feeling is the stem. Thoughts tell you something is wrong, and so we try and fix that, but actually what the thoughts say is wrong is not actually what's wrong. That's a cover story. The real thing that's wrong is hidden under the thought in feeling. And that problem is totally different, so different that it makes you laugh you actually believed what the thought told you instead of the feeling. And all world problems, stem from feeling, not thought. People are dying in ethiopia because of something happening within you. And this was great for my breakup, loss of job, and destruction of family relations... Because all suffering was not coming from those things when looking at feeling. And that was a huge insight that help get over these apparent problems. << I'm now officially a pirate because I just stole Phil's IP >> To be honest, its stuff Leo has been hinting about for years, but for some reason Nahm telling it to me gave me a radical shift. Maybe its his presence that gave it. Maybe its being in the presence of his Leo looking face. Something about these Leo looking faces that have this ability to make you a buddha by just staring at them.

You need to understand that there is a very real difference between feminine and masculine energy. Getting confused as to why men don't have the same feminine needs as you is really silly. I'm not criticising, but this is kindergarten level mistakes. Of course guys are into movie scenes more than real intimacy, and if they aren't they have a mental disorder. Now I'm not being dysfunctional, I'm being honest. You think guys mean it when they get all romantic and lovely and cute and chick flickish? God no, they are doing that because they know if they don't, you're going to dump them. They only get deeply intimate with you to settle your intimacy needs, not because they actually like it LOL. If they did, they would love chick flicks instead of fight club and rambo. Hu? Why do they like rambo and not chick flicks? Duh... Its a bit like women with sex. The average girl(I.E. Not horny and isn't terribly int sex) just has sex to keep the guy happy. Its not something that keeps them in the relationship. They are doing it because they know if they don't, they will get dumped. emotional intimacy = sex and physical attraction for a man. You cut out sex, its equivelant to a guy cutting emotional intimacy off of a woman. I know this because I'm a very atypical guy who has feminine cravings (40% emotional intimacy and 60% physical, where the average guy is like 5-10% emotional and 90-95% physical) but I got bullied bad for it in high school, unexpectedly so, because its not normal, its very weird. If I didn't have access to feminine energy I would never have known emotional intimacy was important - and most guys don't. Yeah they hear it on pickup channels that its what you gotta do, but they don't FEEL at the CORE why its important. They robotically do it to get laid. If this was a guy convo it would go something like this: "fuck my balls bro that's fucked, isn't it? I have never been with a girl like this, but I have been hearing story after story from pissed off men on this very issue - and they are rich, awesome duded - and the girl is more interested in talking about bullshit all day then having amazing sex. Does this girl have any hormones at all? Any sexual attraction for this guy? Or is she using him for money. It is becoming an epidemic. Just know that it is not you, women are becoming conditioned to having low sex drives from the birth pill... it fucks up their hormones bad."