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@ivankiss reverse psychology sometimes works. If you tell her you're not looking for anything serious, she gets more attached to you. If you tell her you're super into her and want to talk about the wedding, *sometimes* this makes them less attached But it can backfire, word of caution... You need to pick your targets wisely for this to work.

We'll pay money anythin you want.

Thats exactly what i was trying to ask in this question: You just said it better than me. I'm in a similar situation to you, except I'm not hot or sexy, I'm just a white high status guy in a 3rd world country.

The sensation that my head was a penis, and my penis was my head.

Seems to work very well for me. Better than kriya yoga and similar.

1000000000000% accept, embrace and love the possibility of "your girl" having an orgy with all of your male friends except for you, on your bed.

@Meta-Man I hope you've got a respectful relationship with the lord, otherwise that body mind might find a girlfriend anyway regardless of your opinions LOL.

@Member my friends are pretty sure they have free will lol. At this stage of awakening, talking about enlightenment is like talking about pink to a blind man.

Well lets go meta on that. Can you predict when you're gonna decide to have a burning desire to awaken? What environmental factors, genetic factors? Etc? Did you decide when you were going to decide when you were gonna have a burning desire to awaken? Can you point out why you have a burning desire but others don't? Or in non dualistic terms, why you have a burning desire to awaken when its possible not to have one? Does logical reasoning determine the existence of a burning desire for awakening? Is there a moral function for why you must have a desire to awaken at a particular time? Does it happen due to feeling something like empathy or guilt, etc. Are there any rules for when a burning desire for awakening to occur? Notice how the answer is no? Notice how there's no rules or patterns that determine when a burning desire for awakening occurs. If your ego could decide, then a burning desire to awaken would occur off the batt of some moral or logical premise. Because free will for an ego means stuff happens based on logical or moral reason and causation, etc that the ego thought through. The ego doesn't just make spontaneous decisions. The reason why we feel like the ego makes decisions is because, what happens in reality gets interpreted to align with with the ego's opinions and reasons. If you punch me and i punch you back, i believe i as an ego has free will, because logically and morally the right thing for an ego to do would be to punch you back. If i did spontaneous stuff not in alignment with my morals and logical reasoning, like for example do a high five after you punch me, i would feel like the ego is not in control. Free will illusion is perpetuated by this moral and logical ego consciousness causation and prediction of the future. Thats why when God decides not to meditate but your ego wants to, and then you dont because gods in control not the ego, instead of admitting whether you meditate or not isnt up to you, you come up with the lie of procrastination. You cant handle that you are not in control, so you twist reality to support the matrix. Now if your burning desire for awakening occurs without any prelude to any logical or moral cause, then you aint deciding it. Its just happening. Its a miracle, spontaneous. Its not something you decide. For you to decide it, it must align with the opinions and logical reason of the ego, but it doesn't. It just happens.

That whole statement is just completely undefined in my land. I'm on a completely different planet to you. God doesn't force anything. There is no force. Force is something the devil invented/illusion. Its not actually there. Things are just happening. There's no "if you wanna awaken" There's just you awakening and pretending there's an "if" to keep the illusion going.

Each of those conditions and structures have a commonality between autistic people. If there was no commonality, then calling something 'autism' would be a completely ineffective distinction to make. I understand autistic people extremely well, lots of them, even though their condition is different. I'm not trying to make a criminal law reform saying "autistic people shalt feel Love otherwise they be hanged!". Of course just because 1 autistic person can feel love doesn't mean another can. And its not necessarily because of autism, but could be because people have multiple mental conditions, different effects environmental factors, digestive system issues, etc that could affect consciousness. But besides, mental conditions are not a good predictor for determining someone's consciousness abilities and potential. There are spiritually talented people from all walks of life, with all sorts of mental conditions. Teal Swan is a mess and she's better than most people. There are people on here who are seriously fucked up, yet they are on here because they are better then average. And in my personal experience, your mental makeup doesn't really correlate to spiritual effectiveness. Desire for truth and environmental factors (how much suffering and stress your environment forces you through) are way better predictors.

Because I know what autism is, and I can feel what effect it has on raising consciousness.

The bottom line is, you need to be an asshole 20% of the time to get the hottest girls. breaking social norms, boundaries is what someone who is dominant and assertive does, which is hot. The bigger issue here is, are you willing to accept that women are into men who are a bit of an ass necessarily? Or have you judged assholes all your life, and now to be one you're struggling with that due to those judgments? All your life society has demonised you for being an ass. You were ostracised, attacked, your parents got angry at you, admirable spritual teachers said you were wrong for being an ass. Now you are afraid of being an asshole because of that. The real work you need to do is to stop judging assholes. Embrace them, accept them. Love them. Then you can 'transcend' your hatred and judgment of assholes. Once you do that, you're free to be an ass, and not care about the consequences. A harsh reality 90% of people arent willing to stomach, is to have a successful career or dating life, you need to be a bit of an ass. Being an ass is basically stepping over someone's boundaries, or breaking social norms. You need to do that 20% of the time to get what you want, to make a good business or to date a hot girl. You need to do it because, in the real world(not the fantasy spiritual land) people are deeply selfish and survival driven. They aren't principled or alturistic. Even hippies. They aren't interested in fairness. They are interested in manipulation of the situation to fit their needs. Even the ones who paint a grand picture of themselves as being a turquoise, highly principled individual, are 99% driven by fitting their agenda. So if you really want to get what you want, you need to have the balls to step over their boundaries sometimes, otherwise subconsciously they will step over yours. And sometimes you'll get backlash from that. And really getting good at your masculine aspect is the ability to do that, and have the courage to take any backlash that comes from doing that. For dating specifically, you need to do this about 20% of the time.

speaking as someone with clinically diagnosed autism, no.

Thats definitely not an absolute. I know dozens of women(girlfriends) who love 007 james bond and harvey from suits type of guys, which is a knife on the outside but a tad bit of honey on the inside.

Was there ever a difference What you can and cannot do, was never up to you. Disrespect or not, that was always God's choice.

@James123 if i didnt disrespect myself, awakening would be 1000x less powerful. Contemplate why devilry and ignorance and arrogance exist. They are there for a very good reason, to facilitate powerful awakeningz.

@James123 you realise shoo fly is love too? You realise fucking your mum is love too? You realise me calling you an idiot is love too? You realise ego, devilry, cultural indoctrination self deception devilry is all love?

In my last psychedelic trip, i was asking what is love, and I got a strong hunch that I(God) invented love as a way to ensure that i would always chase myself. Invent is the important word there. It was as if I went beyond infinite love and saw what creates infinite love. Which made me question whether absolute love is final.

Hmm, thats not what infinite love awakening was like for me. Infinite love awakening was realising everything I thought was true was the exact, exact, exact opposite of true. And all those mystical experiences in the past of nothingness and everythingness were all just part of the story. Like I was pretty fucken convinced about all those mini mystical experiences... and they were all a story. But anyway we differ there it seems.

but there could be deeper levels. How many times were you 1000% sure that your level of consciousness was total and absolute, but then it wasn't. Of course after a particular state, asking you directly is stupid because you're just me, and you're speaking on the level of language, But how do you truly know infinite love is total? That's a question for God of course.

@Leo Gura Yep that's right. The devil never wanted to not surrender to God in the first place, he was just pretending to, because devil = god How else do you make a powerful awakening?

Right which means God isn't selfless enough to allow you to not surrender. Your gonna surrender whether you like it or not because you're not in control. m8 you're replying to the most autistic, masculine spiritual seeker on here. You're not triggering me, you're feeding me what i want

I dont get how god is so selfless that he can't force you to awaken. Your ego has no free will. Its not in control. Your ego can't choose not to awaken. I'm watching my consciousness now, my desire to awaken or to reveal my self deception and devilry wasn't my little ego's choice. Its just happening.

Status that they earnt themselves is what's hot! But guess what? To get that status yourself, you need everything women find attractive anyway(confidence, dominance, assertiveness, driveness) so its a moot point.