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@Matthew Lamot "or stick to your many enlightenment books" you didn't read anything I wrote, didn't you? Pity. What I told you wasn't a belief, it was a fact that my experience proved to me. I'll take you up on your offer to learn and question my beliefs. But I don't want to hear about your pretentious, obnoxious hatred for new ageism, because as many others see, its so egotistical and dogmatic it makes everyone on here cringe. Give us on this forum advice about how to expand our awareness, actual techniques. Not some beliefs about how mighty your crystalized 8 bc book is. Because when I hear beliefs that are backed up by 0 evidence, and sound like they are being told by an old pissed of British man whose soul purpose is to pressure sell his ego, I as many others do, switch off. If you can't present that, your like every other pretentious, dogmatic jerk on this forum.

Well that's strange, because I haven't read any books about enlightenment, or spoken to anyone about meditation apart from Leo's videos. I never said you had to love yourself, all im saying is that you shouldn't hate people because of their egoism. When you hate someone, you're implying that you think they shouldn't be there, like you are arrogantly telling god( or universe if you hate that word) that he should not have created that. Well guess what, god, who is more powerful, and almighty than what you will ever be, did put them there, they are in awareness, and if you want to reach high levels of consciousness, you better get on god's page, and accept them as well. Question why do you believe selfishness is bad? I guarantee you it will come down to some arbitrary belief, that the universe doesn't obey.

@popi People are complex, sometimes they are selfish, but sometimes they are selfless. They may be selfish in relationships, but selfless in their charity work. Its much greyer than what you think. You can't paint a range of people with just one brush.

@popi why is being selfish a bad thing? I know we have been socially conditioned to put shame upon people who are selfish, but why? Why do you hate selfish people? They are apart, and accepted by this universe as much as you are. God created them

what about if one of those reasons are to develop a connection with someone to sequentially care for them? The reason why you want to enter a relationship is to learn about another individual, develop a better understanding about them, and then to help and care for them, to gain fulfillment from helping someone you share similarities with, and know deeply? Yeah your message does sound cynical, but is there really anything cynical about the selfishness of a relationship? Like what a brilliant way of gaining benefits! Use other people and come up with an arragement to do so! Its much more sophisticated and smart than trying to reap those benefits independently. But you make relationships sound like business deals, there aren't quite business deals, there are(potentially) much more deep and fulfilling rewards from being in a relationship, then comming up with a deal with some bank to rip off civillians.

@bloo stop playing your guitar, and write a book about your life, because that was a fucking intriguing story you told there.

@username upload consciousness???????? What the hell does that even mean?

@soniadoll_ I don't know much about you or your situation, but is asking you whether you have a foot fetish that bad of a thing to ask? Why do you take people's words so seriously? He is probably just trying to make a rather boring event fun and quirky. You don't believe in freedom of speech either dont you? The thing precious leftys like you need to understand is that words coming out of his mouth are just sound waves, that's it. You can easily ignore the meaning of those sound waves, and then the problem will disappear. You say your having trouble sleeping at night because of it. I don't know why, what's the worst thing that can happen? He can get upset that you are ignoring him. And besides, have you noticed that the thing that's stressing you out are just thoughts, they aren't even real. Distance yourself from them. People literally ran directly into line of fire back in world war 2, and you can't sleep because of sound waves exiting someone's mouth? You are making too much of a deal out of this, don't listen to those self sabotaging thoughts.

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I'm currently struggling to decide what courses I should take next semester for university. I'm currently doing a batchelor of computer science. currently I'm not enjoying my course, and I feel like psychology will be more my thing. So I'm considering choosing a fundamental unit/course in psychology at my university, to see whether I would like it or not. Though the only problem is that if I stay in computer science, I really need to change to another university, as my university has a bad reputation for computer science, and that I have ambitious plans in the future for my career. If I choose to do a batchelor of psychology, I will have to redo a unit/course which costs around 4000 dollars. What do you guys think? Should I change to psychology to see if I will like the subject, or should I do a unit of study like physics or discrete maths, which will allow me to change universities and get full credit for my courses?

@Siim Land I work in Artificial Intelligence, my goal is to make the singularity occur in 2030. I sleep 6 hours a night to do it

So I want to get involved in personal development, because I'm very aware of the fact that one day I will die, and if I don't do something now, I'm going to regret it. The only problem is, I'm not entirely sure what I want to do, or what I should do. I know I want to impact the world somehow, or get involved in a startup, but not exactly sure which startup or why. Recently I have taken on a lot of projects, volunteering projects at university, being apart of toastmasters, hanging out with friends moreso(improving my introvertedness). I have been doing these projects for 6 months now, and while these tasks I have taken on for myself are positive, and what a 'good person' does, I'm not feeling any better about doing them. I feel kind of out of place, and weirdly like doing these projects are a waste of time. I'm not getting any meaning out of doing these projects. Its hard to describe, the feeling you get when your doing something that is pointless. Does everyone feel like this after doing activities you should be doing after 6 months, or is my dissatisfaction telling me something? If it is, what should i do instead to improve my life? I don't want to just sit back and piss my life away, I want to do something that will develop my experience, and grow myself.

Hi guys, I think the one big problem or obstacle we face when we try to meditate is our mind saying stuff like "this is boring!" "wow I have 30 minutes left??? This is hell, I can't do this!", "this is so painful i cant explain how painful it is" etc etc. These sort of thoughts are able to make meditation unproductive, or even make us quit our meditation session. Is there any way to alleviate these thoughts, so that we can sit and meditate for longer periods of time? What I have done is picture me relaxing on a nice warm beach whenever I experience thoughts that could potentially make me stop meditating. Though are these techniques appropriate during meditation?

There's heaps of research that shows you how to improve your memory. Here are some tips: - use the Cornell method for writing. Draw as many pictures as you can, but if you are using technology, then use the outline method. Do this on google docs, or my favourite, onenote or evernote. - Look at your notes, and then look away from your notes and try to remember it, keep repeating that. - interweave your notes for reviewing. What I mean is, if you have several topics, try and do the above step, but scatter the content you look at. For e,g. try and remember topic 1, then try and remember something from topic 5, etc. - interleave your notes, so within a topic, dont just try and remeber the exact same phrase, try and scatter different parts of your topic. - reflect on your remembering skills, reflect on what you learnt, how well you went, etc. - make a memory palace for information that isn't that intuitive, but is physical - make memory cues where possible. Ultimately what you are trying to do is use System 2, instead of System 1. Because System 2 is used for consolidating your memory.

You seem to be cherry picking the parts you like, there are plenty of parts of the Quran that doesn't refer to reality. Can you sense a pointing to the truth in any of these quotes: "For those who deny (the coming of) the Hour We have prepared a flame. When it seeth them from afar, they hear the crackling and the roar thereof. And when they are flung into a narrow place thereof, chained together, they pray for destruction there." 25:11-13 -> Why does someone have to prepare the flame, when they are already in it?? Qur’an 9:29—"Fight those who believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, nor hold that forbidden which hath been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger, nor acknowledge the Religion of Truth, from among the People of the Book, until they pay the Jizyah with willing submission, and feel themselves subdued." -> Jizyah is a metaphor? Really? And judgment day has nothing to do with reality.

@Davie the point about meditation is about letting go of beliefs, in the contex of Leos advice. Its about distancing yourself from perceptions you've had about reality. The point here though is not about sitting a specific way, or having a specific posture, they are just beliefs, the thing you are trying to avoid during your meditation experience. Do whatever you want during meditation, as long as it doesnt reinforce your dogmatism.

Hi guys, So I'm originally a hyper rational, new athiest patriot who knows all of the religious counter arguments off by heart. As a new initiative to become opened minded(to the point where I am willing to adopt Christianity) I decided to go to HillSong Church, and have been for the last 6 weeks. At the beginning, the preacher seemed to(from my perspective) conjecture lofty motivation porn, supported by cherry picked, illogical, and non sensical quotes from the Bible, and I would uncomfortably watch everyone get real deeply connected to the words. Richard Dawkin's counter arguments, ripping apart every religious sentence spoke, and my fear of giving into guillibility, made sure I felt out of place within church. Until recently. I had an experience of the ox's tale(which I'll leave 'caught a glimpse' to explain), and concerningly, for the last 2 sunday nights, I've found myself acting like my seemingly sucked in, brainwashed Christian colleagues who really get deep into the words of the songs and the preacher. I now agree with the preachers! Like today, they quoted "Your love, O LORD, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies." and I connected so deeply to that quote today because it reminded me of how deep reality accepted and loved itself in my meditation experience. Even this quote, "We are being renewed day by day.So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal” -> which I once would state is stupid and illogical, now after 6 weeks of Christianity makes perfect sense to me. what is unseen(higher self) IS eternal! that's why you have to go into deep meditation to find it! And what is seen is temporary, our world around us is TEMPORARY! And how god is our freedom(when the ego revealed its true nature; it reveal that IT was the cause of oppresion within my awareness And how they talk about how we need to surrender to god... after that meditation experience, seeing the ego reveal its true illusory nature, and the feeling of just observing an all knowing, all powerful reality consume it, just made me want to surrender to reality so much. Reality knows what 'I' want, way more than 'I' do. There's so much wisdom in the Bible, that while arguing with Christians, I have overlooked! I don't know what's happening to me, how can someone who was apart of the athiest movement fall into the hands of HillSong Church so easily? Are HillSong just that good at persuading people to believe in god? Or is my meditation just having some weird side effects that will pass in time? I'm so scared that I'm being brainwashed, I'm well aware of the abilities of the church to brainwash people, I don't want to end up that gullible, but at the same time I'm feeling a deep connection with Christianity.... even writing that just gives me shivers, after being influenced by so many church warning athiests around me... Has the church officially fucked my brain??

@Leo Gura Why do you need to study the material? What advantages are there to hearing about dogma? I can understand learning techniques, but learning about enlightenment itself seems to me to have no place

@SaynotoKlaus not quite Buddhism but Leoism. I tried going to buddhist meetings, but they were disappointingly BS too. I dont really want to read the bible though, because church has gotten me into the rythmn of starting to interpret things from it, and my work in meditation has gotten me into the rythmn of denying rationalism. Do you think i should keep going to church? Or stop before my mind gets indoctrinated? @BHL_20 ok thanks for the suggestion @Saarah Oh wow theres videos on this, i will

@Baulare you saying that we should NOT read any enlightenment related videos, apart from techniques? Because if you are, I totally agree!! that material is only useful to people who are already enlightened

How do you know that your interpretation is correct? Its all subjective isn't it?

Hey guys, im a very indecisive person. I have in the past, literally spent weeks deciding on small decisions, like if i should go to a party or not, completely wasting a lot of time. I do this because I tend to be, as Leo says, a maximiser instead being satisfied. I feel as though if I make the wrong decision I'm going to miss out on a fantastic opportunity that will change my life, and it can be fustrating because I don't know what the best decision is of course. Anyone can give me some guidance on what steps I should take to delve in and solve this problem.

@Christian Why not focus less on the ego then you do? replace your affirmations with "millions of dollars are present" "my mind is intelligent" "a songwriter is present within me"

@FirstglimpseOMG So happy for you, whoever you are I went through a flash much quicker and less intense that yours about an hour ago, I really hear you when you say that you saw the ego for what it really is, so true! Reading your post gave me so much joy considering I completely got every part of what you were saying. If I was Christian, I would say that I connected with god. I have no idea why it feels so majestic, deep and awesome, but it does!

@JustinS To be totally honest, your confusion is correct, not having free will doesn't make sense, its completely absurd!!! How can 'you' not have free will???? You're making decisions aren't you?? You, whatever you are, awareness, an ego, you must be doing some action?? But here's the thing, you're making the mistake of thinking that you are something. You aren't. identification itself is an illusion. You are undefined, 'you are <fill in something>' doesn't work beyond thought. And this may seem voo doo to you right now, but that's just because you are looking at this from an unrealistic perspective. You are trying to do: cat + dog when you try to think about how you are not existing. It doesn't make sense. When awareness reveals that ego is an illusion, the mindset will change from English to Mathematics, 5 + 6 will be in awareness instead, making perfect sense. Being in a state of connection to the ego, and being in a state of detachment, are literally as different as parallel universes, which you can experience. You not having free will doesn't make sense in a paradigm that believes that the ego is a real thing, or that someone is percieving awareness. But having free will doesn't make sense in a paradigm that doesn't identify with the ego, a paradigm that looks at awareness directly in the face, without any thoughts attached. I dont think you can describe these experiences or understandings, but nothing stops you from trying