Sempiternity

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  1. @Thought Art Thanks, looking for other teachings, sources. @Federico del pueblo I'm pretty self-confident, self-assured, no trauma, good looking, talented, etc. Just lacking proper education on how to Game effectively. Looks like technical game is what I'm looking for. I looked up Todd V and subscribed. Thanks! Anyone else have good resources to check out?
  2. Excuse my ignorance, but what is the source of these terms you're referring to? Is there a video, book or particular teaching these terms come from?
  3. What I'm talking about is reading body-language, looking for non-verbal cues, or best yet verbal confirmation, to gauge whether your physical advancement (in this case a pretty significant advancement) is wanted and welcomed. The way you make it sound, is you say "I love you", and "literally just grab girls and pull them into you", on the very first interaction, without getting any kind of consent whatsoever, or taking into consideration that maybe she might view that as unwanted, or possibly as a sexual assault?
  4. Granted I don't know enough about how US government systems fully work, but wouldn't his be as simple as the President signing an executive order, or passing a Reconciliation bill, that doesn't require Senate majority? Don't they do this kind of thing all the time to raise the budget, extend programs, and avert government shutdowns? So they could just easily dump many billions into the program to shore it up. Where that money comes from is another story, but the US doesn't seem to be worried about transferring billions to this or that on a regular basis it seems.
  5. This is missing a very important key consideration, and that is being able to read body-language and nonverbal cues. I suggest when first approaching a woman on a dancefloor, ask a question, or tell a joke, as an opener, and read her reaction. If she smiles and engages, then you can be more assertive. If she repels, turns away, avoids eye-contact, or otherwise gives you a verbal or nonverbal cue of not receptive to your presence, then that is a "No", and a no is to be respected. To do what Leo is basically saying here, which is to walk to a woman dancing, say "I love you", and "literally just grab girls and pull them into you", is going to get you punched, nasty public confrontation, publicly shamed for abhorrent actions, escorted out by security, charged with assault/sexual assault, or all of the above. This is the time of the Me Too movement and Consent culture, you don't just go up and grab a woman, without being sure she wants that, otherwise you are assuredly going to have steep consequences. Best way to be sure is to ask.
  6. I met someone at a festival this summer. We fell in love almost instantly. She's a world traveler. Makes crystal jewelry. Is a very talented musician and does touring around the country. She has a cabin in the woods, and travels in a van conversion. She's witchy, a gypsy, mystical, and highly spiritual. Spiral Dynamics, I'd place her at stage 50% Green, 25% Yellow, 25% Turquoise. She's grounded, loving, unafraid. The 3rd night we met, she wanted to do Ayahuasca together in her van and have sex all night. She's a true Goddess, and sees the God in me. I share this because I see alot of you wanting high value, high spiral dynamics women. 1st) if you concentrate on making yourself high value, you will naturally attract high value women. 2nd) go to love festivals in your area (or travel to them). They are the best place I know of to meet the most amazing women. Good luck to each of you
  7. Yeah I guess it depends on what communities you're getting into. In your area (I'm super close, in WA), I'd maybe try SHAMBHALA and/or BASS COAST, or ELECTRIC LOVE MUSIC FESTIVAL, next year. I know huge number of friends that went to both, and they're the ritual, spiritual, sacred everything type peeps. At these types of events, there will be ravers, but also the spiritual crowd. Just need to seek out and find the peoples you resonate with. Get in with the communities, and you'll most likely naturally connect with someone in the group.
  8. No neediness here, I have abundance. I think what he's talking about is when you're just starting dating, and trying to 'convince' a woman. We're way past that stage. We're deeply in love. When you hit that stage, you go all in, holding nothing back. I've learned long ago how to manage attachments. So I can go all in in a relationship, and don't have attachment to how long it will last, or if it lasts.
  9. She's complete with herself, and doesn't need anyone else. Only if you can add value to her already amazing life, can you share in it with her.
  10. Thanks, Leo, means alot coming from you.
  11. Good point. Deleting. But, yes she'd be okay with that. Being an artist on social media, she shares her photos as much as she can.
  12. Seems latter statement contradicts the former statement. If you were here to learn you would be engaging in conversation around all this advice being handed to you.
  13. Nonduality = This, now, is all that exists. This, what is within consciousness, now, is all that there is. Your parents do not exist now, as they are not within your direct experience, except as a thought. You have choice in what you think of. Problem is, you think your thoughts / memories are truth, instead of what they are which is just a thought that you are creating now, and nothing more. Learn to control your thoughts. If you think your parents never existed, and tell yourself that with no doubt, that will be your Truth, and be just as real to you as that they exist now. The key is not to have it be that the old memory / thought is truth and you are trying to override it, but frame it as truth is only what you tell yourself and a memory /thought you tell yourself is as true a truth as any. If you create a thought / memory that your parents never existed, and believe that truth without a doubt, then that is truth to you and will be your reality.
  14. Here's a way of going about it. Every night you relax and begin to fade away till everything is gone. There is no more "you', or the world, just nothingness. Then the mind (God/You) begins to create anything it wants. In a way this is death. Every night you surrender to death, and you have no issues doing so. So next time you take a substance, and feel like you're "dying", reframe it as you're "falling asleep". Maybe this reframing will make the transition smoother.
  15. Not on topic, but where I live, Seattle, WA, it is legal to be naked in public. I do it all the time. With groups of friends that also like to be naked. At crowded parks. A small percentage of people have issue with it (which is their problem, as naked is our natural state), most love it and admire the freeness and confidence to be naked in pubic. Even the cops smile and wave. Wish you all lived in a place where you could do this. It is an amazingly freeing experience.
  16. Seriously, how is this guy still allowed to post these utterly dumb questions again and again and again. He's had how many posts locked for low quality? At what point do you just ban him, because he is obviously not learning anything at all. Is this what you want this forum to be?
  17. @GreenWoods Seriously, thank you for all the work you do and share here. It is honestly the saving grace of this forum, and the type of intelligent informative discussions I would ideally like to see on a forum dedicated to higher consciousness ideals, instead of the low consciousness stupid shit that is 99.9% of this forum nowadays. Please keep up the amazing work and keep sharing.
  18. I've been 14 years since 2003 which was my first. It was truly life changing. Like literally changed my life. It's not a festival, it's something unexplainable. My advice: Don't stay in your camp. Go out and explore as much as possible. BM is overwhelming. The environment is harsh. You'll want to stay where it's comfortable. Resist that urge. You will run into the most magical things out there, but you have to venture out to collide with them at that exact point in time and space. Try to go out every night till dawn if you can. Always bring a backpack with you at all times, even if you think you will just be gone for a moment, trust me you will get lost for hours. In the pack: Shaded goggles for day, clear goggles for night, sunblock, protein bars, snacks, full water bottle, cup, hydration tabs, mask for dust storms, gifts for others, headlamp with red light (doesn't blind others and yourself at night), toilet paper (the portapotties run out at night), and whatever you need to keep you going such as caffeine, adderall, coke or whatever. During the day, people can succumb to heat exhaustion in less than an hour. The hospital tents are always full of people from severe dehydration and heat exhaustion. Take care of yourself, and keep hydrated. Drugs will effect you differently there, as the environment is so different, so take it slow. Have a good bike. Electric is preferable. You'll have alot of ground to cover every day. Always use your bike lock. people will most definitely take your bike. Take care of your feet. It's 9 sq miles, and you'll be doing alot of walking. Every night before going to sleep, give yourself (or have some else do it) a foot bath in diluted vinegar. Then rub your feet in your favorite moisturizing cream /shea butter. Then put some socks on. You'll feet will be right as rain in the morning, and ready for the day. Go full out, with your heart fully open. This is a chance of a lifetime. Love as fully as you can, and you'll get back that love in ways you can't even imagine till you're there experiencing it. Have a wonderful time!
  19. This is ironic, as I am a masochist. Pain is as pleasurable as an orgasm to me. When at an orgy, I sometimes ask someone to flog or cane me as hard as they can, for as long as they can, till me back is totally bruised, black, blue, and bloody, and I reach the most euphoric state, on par with or maybe even better than an orgasm. Whatever this is Now is perfect. Suffering can't exist Now, as Now is all there is. Suffering comes from comparing to other. There is no other, only Now.
  20. Again, this now is all there is, everything else is fantasy. But, sure, as a hypothetical, pain is neither good nor bad, it is just what is. I am consciousness, I am all of reality. If "pain" is what I am, then that is what is, and there is nothing else than what is, and what is is perfect as it is all that there is. Imagine being infinite nothing. Then you willed yourself to create something, from nothing. And that something was "pain". It would be the most beautiful thing that ever existed, because it would be the only thing that had ever existed (and it's still nothing, as it's all one). That is what Now is.
  21. 1) Wouldn't matter at all. Whatever this is, it is this and not something else, because if it was that then it would be that and not this. This now is all there is. Everything else is just a concept and fantasy. I accept and enjoy this, and don't give any mind to fantasy. 2) I know of a quadriplegic that lives as amazing of a life as i do. Surrounded by women, goes to festivals and parties. Sure, he has challenges, but he fully loves and enjoys his life. And so would I, as that would be what reality is, and peace is fully accepting what reality is, whatever it is.
  22. Survival is not part of my reality at all. I know I am God dreaming up reality, and will for all eternity, so the concept of "survival" is meaningless. But, as I am in this dream reality, all I have to do is enjoy it every moment. For instance, this weekend I was a model in a fetish fashion show, then went to an orgy play party afterwards till dawn. Then Saturday did a photoshoot of 30 models at an underground club, then another orgy till down afterwards. Woke up in a women's bed, and went to a huge 300 person dance club for the evening. Pretty much every day is something like this for me. I've designed my life to be nonstop fun, artistic endeavors, sex, festivals, drugs, partying, connection, love, experiences, celebration, and enjoyment. And I love every moment of it all. I love myself, I love everyone in my life. My life is the embodiment of love. The concept of "survival" to me seems silly. Death is imaginary. This dream will be forever changing, and I will love whatever this dream is, for all of eternity.
  23. So what? What does it matter what Republicans think? Alot of people loved serial killer Ted Bundy. He was charismatic and charming. He said he was innocent, and all the people that loved him believed him and fought for his freedom. But the law is for justice, regardless of how people feel about it. They still arrested Bundy and fried him for his crimes. Trump is overwhelmingly guilty and deserves to pay for his crimes, regardless of who doesn't like it. They can protest and whine and cry all they want, just justice and the law needs to be done regardless.
  24. Yep, sounds exactly like what i witnessed.
  25. I saw UFOs in the desert of Eastern WA back in 2004. I'm skeptical. I tried to find any logical explanation, tried to find any rational scientific explanation. But, nothing human made or nature based can move from one point in the atmosphere / sky to the other side of the sky in a half a second. Nothing on earth can. That's light speed. I spent the whole night watching 6 of them doing erratic, impossible, movements. Days later there was an article in the news of local sightings, so I wasn't the only one that saw them.