Paulus Amadeus

@okulele, ah such an interesting reply! Thank you!! I really relate to how you talk about what you thought when you were pursuing your original life purpose. I have these thoughts all the time too. Very interesting how it all turned out for you eh, I'm really happy for you! @Equanimitize, thank you man! Of course I know these things, but it's really nice to hear them from someone else too. Thanks!!!

Damn, Leo is about to get LAID on his tour!

Amsterdam is waiting for you Leo! I know in my own personal circle at least 5 people that would attend for sure. I honestly think you might need a pretty big venue here in Amsterdam.

@Thesingularity good point!!

This is some awesome stuff that guy wrote to show that english can be used to prove bullshit though! Proof: Consider the following list: At least one sentence in this list is false. I'm not the most handsome man in the universe. Suppose sentence 1 is false. This means that there are no false sentences in the above list. But note, sentence 1 is on the list, and is false by assumption. This contradicts our assumption, and hence our assumption must have been incorrect, and this means that sentence 1 is not false, i.e. it is true. So far we have shown that sentence 1 is true, and it says that there is at least one false sentence in the list. Since there is only one other sentence, i.e. sentence 2, and sentence 1 is true, we conclude that sentence 2 is false. Therefore, I am the most handsome man in the universe. QED ?

Alright, so this is how it improved my life: 1. Thought me how to have fun with strangers 2. gave me a healthy relationship with my sexuality 3. Gave me the confidence that I know I can achieve big changes if I set my mind to it 4. Gave me cool sexy girls to share my life whit 5. Gave me a TON of really fun stories to tell and to think about. 6. Made me realise what love is and what love isn't 7. Gave me a super awesome and supportive girlfriend. So plenty of reasons I would say . There are enlightened people who have wives! If you are not interested in dating because you are just 'being', you wouldn't be hanging out in the dating and relationship section of this forum.

@XYZ Stuff is just not that black and white man. @bejapuskas Well get better at relating to girls then! This whole thing is probably your mind looking for a way to not deal with all the scary girl stuff that you feel you need to deal with.

Relationships can be really amazing and lovely. I think they are among the things that bring the most happiness and fulfillment to non-enlightened people. Don't assume you know everything about relationships just because you've had a few of them.

@Cortex Are you advising us to not give advise anymore?

I'm in a open relationship and it works. It's not zero drama in my case but it's very much possible and actually really cool and interesting. And there is just as much comfort and security in an open relationship as in a normal one if you think about it. Both might end because one of you finds someone they like more. You just know yourself and the other enough so that you think it's not likely to happen. And ideally even if it would happen you would still love eachother after the break-up. Than for me it's a relationship that's really worthwile. Otherwise what you call 'Love' is a 100% conditional on the fact that the other person behaves in the way that you want. Have you ever really loved someone if the moment they break up with you, you hate them? That has obviously nothing to do with love. And yeah, I love this girl more than I've loved my girlfriends with whom I was monogamous (granted neither of us has slept with anyone else for almost two months). So very much possible to love deeply and be in an open relationship. Just takes a lot of communication and two people who are ready for it.

@Soulbass Yeah we should be super fucking greatful already. So much gold this man has delivered to us.

Leo works in mysterious ways.

@1liamo78 Yeah that sounds totally terrifying. Maybe find a spiritual teacher to talk to about this experience?

@How to be wise I hope we have a safety valve on the infinite intelligence for egomaniacs like you

My whole sunday ritual is disturbed! I need my weekly reminder that I'm a cunty ego with low consciousness!!!!!

@kieranperez ah thanks man!

@Nahm ah, nice way to think about it .

@toth7, you gotta learn how to relax and breath deeply during sex. The problem is that you are probably very tense so you build up a lot of energy at your penis very quickly. Then it becomes too much for you and you come. So learn to breath deeply, relax your perineum and relax. Also, ironically enough, it really helps if you start caring less about cumming early. This just adds to the tension in your body and thus adds to the energy becoming too much. You can practice this deep breathing and relaxing the perineum during masturbation. this problem will probably take some time to go away, so also find some work arounds. If you're almost cumming maybe stop and start eating some pussy or start fingering. And while you're doing that, practice deep breathing. Good luck!

I think being funny has to do with a certain vibe you and the people involved get into. It's got to do with leaving pauzes in your sentences and having a certain 'funny' feeling in your body and your face. So I guess it would be good practice to get into that vibe as much as you can. Also try to make jokes because you like making them. Not because you care about the reaction of other people. This is super duper crucial. If you are having fun with your own jokes people will appreciate it, even if it's not really their humor. Good luck!

@Michael569 do you have some specific courses or books of Eban Pagan that you can recommend? I'm looking for some good material for learning about business too.

@SelfHelpGuy to be honest I would think you are kind of making people waste their time with a gaming channel to be honest. I am not into gaming at all though so I could be totally wrong. Just doesn't seem like a productive thing to do for your viewers. But maybe you can come from an angle that does provide actual value.

Thought I would share this with you guys. There is this amazing youtube chanel called 'Buddha at the gaspump'. It will really give you a lot of insight into the world of enlightened people. This is an example of an interview I absolutely loved:

@Viking, wait till you're on the actual retreat, see how you feel then ;).

Hi @aurum, thanks for your reply. No I can't really be more specific. The business idea I have in mind is not standard at all. It's not freelancing though. It's an actual business. So I'm looking for a high quality course about general entrepeneurship. Stuff like mindsets about sales and marketing, how to test an idea, how to be productive, how to learn about your niche, how to pick your marketing strategy. These kind of topics. Know any?

I would love to find a good video course on how to start and run a sustainable business. I've been reading a lot of books and listening to podcasts but I haven't been able to find a good course yet. Can anyone help me out? @Leo Gura can you recommend one?