Tom T

Thankyou man I will do

My recent nn-Dmt trips have lead me to wanting to research the astral world. Dose anyone know a good book or documentary etc which explains the 5d astral world and how its right in front of us but we can't see it normally etc? I have been searching for books about the astral realm but they all seem to just explain how to astral project instead of describing the astral world it's self. Any suggestion would be muchly appreciated

but at the deepest levels on 5 meo dmt and your just sitting on the couch I doubt sex will cross your mind

Yes !! I was enlightened as fuck on 5 meo dmt walking along a country side pasture and a hot girl walked by and I wanted to fuck her !!! I thought I was wayyyyy beyond that while enlightened until that happened !!!

heres my list of cool dates if anyone is stuck on date ideas Trampolining Have a living room campout. Get a tent, forts, blow-up mattresses, and sleeping bags... Ice skating Play twister Aquarium Go to a cate cafe Country dancing classes Comedy shows Wacky weird films at the Cinema Go to a spa Write a shared bucket together A walk in the country side if possible depending on where you live Sorna Yoga Salsa dancing Card against humanity Badminton Go to a city for a nice day out Go to a quiet weekend festival together Go watch the sun set somewhere nice Star gazing somewhere !!! Cooking classes Lazer tag Go see a play performance Sex in fitting rooms Go to an Improv show An Mdma date A psychadelic date A climbing wall date A night where we both bring photos of our selves and laugh at them and talk about us as kids etc. Hot air baloon date Etc.

@Leo Gura Ooooh I just seen a big thread on the forum, Happpppy birthday man I hope you've had a nice day and I hope you have a nice evening blissing out in infinite consciousness later on man you are truely awesome !!!

yess I have done but I didn't think they explained how the astral realm worked I thought the ones on astral projection were of people just describing their experiences but not actually talking about how the astral realm works it self. iv had a second look tho and I think I know which one to get !!! thanks man

And also dose anyone know any good books on parallel universe to?

So over the past year i have been building skills and trying to build my life purpose from scratch which has been a challenge but it has developed massively. Anyway My life purpose is all about helping people with issues such as shame and self-hate etc. I am no master in this subject but i know a lot and i know enough to get started. I have built a workshop that helps people overcome childhood shame which i will be doing live for the first time in two weeks and i also have plans for a few online courses over the next year or so. So my business model is basically selling face to face workshops and also selling digital online courses that help people over come shame and self hate etc. Now my issue is I want to create a free video blog on the different facets of self love and healing etc videos on shame, how the inner child affects romantic relationships, how narcissism is different from authentic self love, what is therapy?, self hate and all that stuff i have lots of ideas for a videos for a video blog BUTTT i believe i will have zero followers. The reason i believe i will have zero followers is because if you take my online courses or one of my workshops ideally you would of fixed that problem you came to me for. Therefore you wouldn't need to watch a video of mine each week for new insights into healing etc because you won't need it after taking my online course\workshop. This means i can't build a tribe of loyal followers so wouldn't my business risk being highly unsustainable? Because who ever buys my online course or one of my workshops and dose the whole thing will not need to come to me for advice again which is awesomeeeee from my healer perspective but bad form a business perspective. Most businesses are low conscious and get you hooked onto unhealthy stuff so you always come back for more but this is the opposite. This business helps you so you never need to come back which is awesomeeeee but bad from a business point of view. But anyway i have created a survey that was inspired by one of the books on Leos book list that asks people questions such as What do you wish services in my industry would offer? Is there a particular workshop that you wish existed that help you in some unique way? If so mention what it would be about below. And a few more questions like this so i can create things my already existing customers would want and id create some kind of mailing list so i could send it to them all once it's finished but I'm still stuck on this free video blog idea. I'm afraid noone will want to watch it because I'm only solving a narrow problem for people in there lives and once they buy my course or workshop they won't need my videos anymore. I don't understand how many people in the world own YouTube channels who only talk about one thing can have constant loyal followers who watch every single week. Like there's people out there who have YouTube channels which only talk about the law of attraction, or they only talk about dating, or they only talk about relationships, or they only talk about enlightenment etc. You would think people go to the channel, take some good advice, applie it and never need to go back and watch more videos by that person again? That's what i usually do so i dont understand how people who only talk about one thing are able to keep consistent followers. I can see how leos dose it with self actualized.org where there's so many different facets to research and understand that you just have to watch a video every single week and be reading daily at the same time because there's just an overwhelming amount of stuff to understand and research in order succeed at the kind of goals we have as self-actualizers but my business is just about helping people with a specific psychological issue and once they fix that psychological issue they won't need me anymore so I'm stuck on how to solve this issue as i want to create a free video blog but i can't see how i could keep a consistant following due to the reasons above. So yeah if anyone has struggled and overcame this issue or has any advice that would be muchly appreciated, thanks for reading much love to you all xxx

ohh and im not sure how to stop pre mature ejaculation but this girl also has a video on that here. it may help it may not help. I haven't had that problem so I haven't experimented with what she says in this video but see what she says and see if it works or not for your self

im in now way really qualified to talk about this and give people advice but im studying how to do it as I am in a similar situation to you man.. im new to dating and sex and I suck pretty bad at sex but its cool tho because we can get wayyyyy better within the next 6 to 12 months if we practice/fail enough times and learn from our failures and also learn from good resources l!!! but anyway I have some sources to share with you that might be useful. Firstly for your fingers getting tired Id recommend setting a timer for 10 minutes daily for a few weeks and train yourself to do the come here motion for fingering her g spot so you can build up tolerance in your fingers for being able to do it for 10 mins etc. Secondly I have a really good video on how to stimulate her g spot using the come here motion. I only found it a few days ago and I realize I have been doing the technique wrong apparently you put your two fingers in with a slight bend (not straight) and when you Find her g spot you do a SLIGHT "come here" motion (the key word being slight) you might of already of knew that but I had no idea until the other day. This video also shows you how to stimulate her citreous with your fingers to as well as fingering her g spot. id definitely recommend checking it out and taking some notes. Thirdly I have a web article on how do lick her citreous (it dose not say in the article but I think it's best if you lick side to side but I'm not 100% sure). But yeah this video shows you a way of licking her citreous. I tried it once and it seemed to work unless she was faking the orgasm lol. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-give-girl-amazing-oral-sex-4-simple-steps thirdly I have leos how to make a girl squirt video which looks awesomeeee !!! I also have some other resources that I have found that might be useful to you on your journey towards getting better at sex !!! and also I have a few note that might help you on your journey to !!! "the next time you make love with your women feel through your own physical and emotional boundary's into her. Feel into her so deeply that you become unaware of yourself and totally aware of her. Feel yourself move into her, your boundary's dissolving so that you become her, utterly aware of her breath, her movements, her emotions. Love her with abandon than you've ever allowed yourself before. Feel through not only your own boundaries, but also her boundary's so that you are both dissolving in the immense force of your loving. Relax into the force of love so completely x that only love remains. Allow this love to ravish your women to bursting, filling her heart and body beyond compacity so she has no choice but to surrender to the depth and force of your loving. With your relaxed and spontaneous body allow yourself to penetrate her so deeply that she is overwhelmed, to the point of tears, as you yield yourself, letting go of all fear, only giving love.In the midst of this self-yielding and giving love, allow your entire masculine desire to manifest, dark and light. Do and be everything you've ever wanted with her, in love, spontaneously, and with deep feeling into her and through her. From time to time, take special care to allow space for her energies and desires to take you to places you would never have gone on your own." David Deida Leo talks about this in his sex videos which is dirty talk. spend a few hours jotting down tuns of dirty stuff you could say to her during sex. also when you get good at having sex in the bedroom you could move on to having sex in different places such as restaurant bathrooms, on your kitchen table, in the cinema, in fitting rooms, on roof tops etc get creative with it !!! so yeah, theres a tun of information here but it all jells well together. i hope it helps you and remember failiour is the key to success !!! fail so many times you succeed !!! its abit painful and shit in the short term but after 6 months or 1 year youll be pro porn star level at sex if oyu practiced and failed enough times !!! Maybe find a new girl to have sex with if your girlfriend is reluctant to have sex? because if she never wants to have sex then you will have this problem for a long time and its also best to develop yourself into someone who has lots of options with the opposite sex then your fear of someone cheating on you may reduce significantly !!! anyway I hope this helps man and I wish you all the best of luck !!!

Ahh yes !!! Thankyou very much man !!! I will do lots of journaling over the next few months on what exactly will be the key thing people resonate with my personality on my channel. I have thought a lot about this about the business itself but not to much about how people will resonate with my personality etc. And yes your second point !!! Thankyou very much. That's what I'm hoping happens !!! You've made me feel a lot more confident about creating this free video blog !!! Thankyou very much man I'm going to do a lot of journaling and contemplation over the next few months on your first point and then create it and see what happens !! Thankyou very much man sending you all the love from the UK !!!

I’m currently building a workshop for childhood shame and one of the exercises is to contemplate weather good and bad is objective or subjective. now I do realise that a stage blue person would be closed minded to pondering such a question to begin with but let say they were open to it and they pondered this question for a few months and they realised good n bad are illusory. Dose anyone think they could regress into stage red since a stage blue persons sense of what’s okay to do and what’s not okay to do is completely held together with the firm belief in good and bad??

Yooo personal message me!!! I will try to help you !!! But I need to know abit more about you first since not all self love techniques will work for everyone !!!

I’m also not sure weather to set this exercise for homework becuase it could lead to people becoming nialistic and negative. I could describe how it’s actually okay in detail but you kinda need a positive mystical experiance to understand I recon. What do people think?

Listen to this at full volume with head phones while doing the do nothing technique or looking at yourself in the mirror while sitting down !!! This is currently my fav practice !!! Check it out !!!

I personally love teals work you can tell she has researched and contemplated 100s of perspectives so you can definitely learn a lot of her. She has high quality information on shame, guilt, self hate, self love, fear of intimacy, fear of commitment, dysfunctional relationships, healing, authenticity, taking responsibility, multiple personality’s, integrity and tonssss of other psychological content. She also goes really deep on how romantic relationships work and all the neuances there. She has a wealth of psychological information on her channel. I would not consider her teachings to be metaphysical or spiritual their more purely psychological in my opinion. If your looking for psychological advice to fix a specific dysfunctions or your just intrested in psychology then defos check her out. her advice is awesome but I don’t think it will get you to the highest levels of development. I think her life purpose is more to do with helping people overcome traumas and other psychological problems in their life which is slightly different from selfactualized.org but it is sub related. Hope this helps man

@John Lula I know. Porn corrupts the mind !!! I actually just naturally stopped watching it in October and November but recently iv been sucked back into it. I think I just need to naturally transcend it with deep long term spiritual practice instead of trying to go cold turkey tho.

@Salvijus that’s awesome !!! How long did it take to get to that state? And looking up that yoga now. There seems to be diffrent variations of it. Are they all basically the same? And is this technique specifically for stopping you waste sexual energy to become more conscious do you personally find that it just dose that for you? Is it common for many people to stop feeling hornet after doing this kriya?

@Salvijus no iv never researched his work before I just came across his book a month or two ago. Haven’t read it yet it looks good tho !!! And yess that sounds interring I’m going to follow up on that shambhavi kriya by sadguru thank you very much man !!! Do you personally really Feel the diffrent from transmitting your sexual energy? @Elisabeth and yes that’s what I was thinking that you for the advice @Psychonaut I haven’t read the book yet and to be honest I have no idea. I just presumed it is a tantric technique.

On the other hand it would most likely make my kriya practice more powerful if it’s fine to do

I’m not sure, doing kriya yoga and also having a powerful tantric masterbation session daily might get in the way of my kriya practice and mess it up??

Also has anyone here had a tantric orgasm before ?? If so how effective did you find it for raising consciousness ??

Thankyou very much everybody for the reply’s. I actually accidently made 2 posts of this I was only supposed to make one. But. I’m glad I made two now aha. @How to be wise it’s not that there is anything particularly wrong with my environment at home. The only problem is that I’m to distracted with my career, relationships, learning and many other stuff to the point where it’s impossible to be mindful of the absolute 24.7 it just feels impossible. And @TheAvatarState I could just sit and hike in comfort for a few years but the only issie is I couldnt afford to just sit on the sofa before 3 to 10 years and not work. I can’t afford to just not work and sit on the sofa lol so the cave seems ideal. And yes I do see the wisdom in what your saying how the more I need enlightenment the More I block my self off from being that’s a pretty useful insight. But at the same time if I didn’t want or need enlightenment then why would I care about being? But I do see your point tho I am actualy going to take that with me somehow and try to reconcile that with my desire for enlightenment somehow thankyou !!! And yes that is the idea lol. Well the plan is to build really build up my conceptual understanding of reality even deeper over the next 5 years while doing enlightenment work and stuff and then if I’m not enlightened by 5 years then go live solo and mediate for a long long long time until I become enlightened. And then becuase I will be enlightened as hell and also have a mega deep holistic conceptual understanding of reality to then I think I’d be a sage. So yes @TheAvatarState I think life would be pretty preachy by that point. I dunno what I’d do afterwards. I’d have money saved so I could just chill for quite a while until I decide what to do afterwards. And also @TheAvatarState iv had a lot of 5 meo dmt so I think I know what enlightenment is and lastly @Anna1 you are right but it’s more about distractions than my own mind. Like if I’m not doing anything and just sitting on the couch I can zen out but I have many life distractions that stop me from being. Mindful 24.7. That’s the issues. But thankyou for all your responses guys !! Mega appreciates it !!! Sending you all Massive love !!! ??? !!! Xxxx

Iv Been thinking that if I don’t become enlightened within the next 5 years then I may go live in a Spanish cave somewhere and just meditate 24.7 for like 3 to 5 or 10 years or so. I would just meditate at home but a cave is rent free so I’d rather do that. Im just wondering has anyone else also thought about this and if so have you given any thought as to how or what you would eat as I doubt there would be any shops close by and I wouldn’t want to hunt. I know @Leo Gura has mentioned this many times, Leo or anyone else who has thought about this, have you thought about how you’d eat in this cave you speak of? If so lemme know