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Follow Dima's advice!!! it's aweseome! I have some other tips on how you could get more views. 1) you said on your video that your channel is for everyone, I'd suggest narrowing down your audience to something really specific 1) Read "CRUSH IT By Gary Vee, it will show you how to get lots of traffic from your social media pages to youtube! 2) Do video collabs with well know people in your industry 3) Find a few platforms who do similar blog posts to you, ask them if they would share your content on their page in exchange for something. 4) learn search engine optimization, there are lots of free 10hr courses about this on youtube 5) keep on posting, you have only been doing it for 2 months. On avarage it take 6 months to a few years to build a loyal following in many cases

has anyone here experimented with heavy metal detoxing seen a massive improvement in their spiritual practice as a result?

@Monkey Mind it sounds like it's time for you to part ways with Leo's teachings. After 6 years of watching leos content you should be self sufficiant by now.

Yes, there is alot which gose into creating a biz

Watch Leos video on "infrastructure for success" that is crucial for setting up a business Make sure your biz is not breaking any laws Buy a business licence Research how to set up an LLC for your business Research how to write a legal disclaimer for your business When you have an idea for a product or service, test it out by using an online survey. I recommend allcounted, its free and really flexible for surveys, ask people if this service would help them in their lives, ask them if they are willing to pay the price you offer, ask them what they would do to tweak the product or service to better suit their needs etc, this can be done in a day, test whatever idea you have out asap! You want to market this survey on Facebook where you can literally type in your audiences demographic, intrestes and age range etc so only your ideal target audience can see your survey which brings me to my fourth point which is. Learn social media marketing, a great book for this is "CRUSH IT By Gary Vee" this book is awesome and will teach you how to market yourself effectively on Facebook, Instagram, twitter YouTube, tik tok, podcasts, you need to check it out ! Become a master of SEARCH ENGINE OPTIMIZATION, there are tons of books and whole 8hr to 10hr YouTube video courses on this subject so go and research it !!! LEARN THE NEUROSCIENCE OF SUCESSFUL SELLING! There are many excellent books written about this subject which talk about the neuroscience of selling, I'd recommend is "brainfluence by Roger Dooley" this is an awesome book! Learn email marketing and test / build a freebie product or service people can only get if they sign up to your email Always subtly market your products, services, website, email sign up etc at the end of your YouTube videos. And lastly make sure you have a few years worth of high quality content to share with people !!! Set proper expectations, on avarage it takes 6 months to 3 years to build a sucessful following Good luck bro

@Rookie and @TheAlchemist thankyou very much for both of your responses I found them very helpful so thank you very much !!! and I wish you two all the best !!!

Does anybody know if Estonia mostly a spiral dynamics greenish society and if its ot green then which level is it at? thinking about moving there in the future.

hi guy, I took Leos life purposes to course a while back and as a result I am currently creating a 1 on 1 counselling practice, creating workshops, webinars, a free blog, etc, so that is my plan and I want to do it all where I live which is in the UK. Now because of Brexit happening, I feel that the possible longterm recession coming I predict that I will be struggling to make ends meet with my life purpose career so i have been debating to move to a completely different country such as Canada or Australia or somewhere else. my plan as of yet is to stay in the uk for 1 year and see how everything goes, and if the recession affects me lots then I will start counseling people overseas through skye and also plan to move there asap. my question is do people think this is even necessary? will Brexit affect my life purpose that much as a small business owner? and are there any other factors i should be taking into consideration which i may be missing too? many thanks for reading

@Light Lover and yesss i know !! i need to fully research the ecomomic and political state of which every country i am moving to first, lol there all working at such a low level, i cant just run away every time a country i am living in faces a recession, I need to position my business in such a way where it dose not even matter if there is a recession. and if you are in the same situation as me iv just started reading a book called "dont lose your home over it, stratagies to recession proof your business" iv had a skim through it and started reading it today, it seems like a good resource you should check it out man !! and i wish you much luck on your jounrey !!

@Dumuzzi yes i think i may do that if it gets bad over here. Iv been thinking lately i might even if it does not get worse over here !!! i do fancy a change-up in my life !! I will have to fully contemplate it though tho and see if it is what i really want. and thank you for the info !! iv just bought a book on how to prepare your business for a recession, I'm going to read it and have a go at implementing some of the theory this year n seehow it goes. iv also decided that i might counsel people oversea through skype too.

I am tempted to read this book called “the multi orgasmic man” it’s basically all about how to orgasm without ejaculateing. My reasons for this is becuase I want to stop watching porn and I always feel depleted and lethargic after fapping. I’m not a fan of no fap and I think this is a better way to do it. I feel this practice could enhance my life and spiritual practice if I taught my self how to orgasm the tantric way BUT I do have a daily Kriya yoga practice. Do people think doing these two practices daily could fuck you up? Let me know your thoughts if anyone has any experiance or knowledge on this

Hi @lightnessofbeing, you need to release your trauma and also experience how the situation all happened because of love. to do this do the following. firstly read this book called "keeping pain in the past" its an amazing book on healing trauma where it talks about how to release trauma you need to remember, feel, express, release and reframe in order to heal from trauma. step 1: (I RECCOMEND DOING THIS WHOLE EXERCISE WITH A PROFESSIONAL PSYCHOTHERAPIST, you could do it solo but be careful !!!!) This letter must include, What happened, how it felt at the time, how it affected you since, What you are going to do to let it go. The first step is you must recall "what happened" and you must recall what the perpetrator of the trauma did, in agonizing detail. This part of the letter documents the part of your life that has been berried ---whatever comprises the content of your pain in the past. The goal for the first step of what happened is simple to understand but difficult to express. The greater the detail, the greater the immersion into the pain, and therefore the greater the opportunity for release and healing. Secondly, you must express how it felt to be you at the time. The greater the depth of feeling that you discuss, the greater the potential for healing. In the feeling chapter, I emphasized the need to feel your feelings fully. Its especially important as part of this exercise. All the feelings that have been trapped in your memory must be felt and expressed for release to occur. Horror, fear, hopelessness, vulnerability, panic, impending doom, and thoughts of death and suicide are all common emotions felt by the traumatized and all need to be written and included in this letter. Tears are often an integral part of expressing pain and horror. Step three---how this has affected the client since then---get the client to express how their youth innocence may have been stolen, how your ideas about love and family were permanently stained, or how their world became a dangerous place etc. In this part of the letter share how this part of this trauma(s) robbed me of my naïve smile and replaced it with a sense of fear and mistrust and with avoidance of eye contact. This second and third step of the letter is to allow you the opportunity to express in writing the deepest of human agony and attach words to feelings and sensations that have been virtually indescribably to this point. By expressing and releasing the pain, you will and can achieve healing.in the next part of the letter you must release for peace, in this part of the letter explains how you are going to let go of this traumatic event. The mere expression of emotional pain is not always curative. To release pain is to ultimately let go and letting go never condones the bad behavior, letting go is merely the release of pain. Letting go is a gift for yourself.in this part of the letter explain how you are going to let go of this situation and leave it in the past for good if you can. step 4: read this letter out loud to a train therapist who you trust and have built a relationship with (or you could do with a close friend or family member you trust but I personally recommend doing this with a trained therapist because there will be a lot of negative emotions arising and it is better to be with someone who can ground you and bring you back if you have flashbacks or something depending on how much it has affected you. but yes read this letter out loud to someone word to word in great detail. step 3: let a week pass and then watch Leos video on "what is love part 2" and "all criticism is untenable" and also used the information you learned in this weeks episode on self-love and contemplate how the whole situation happened because of love, how self-love works and that all criticism is untenable , this will help you contextualize reframe the situation in your mind, some psychedelics would really help in this part process !!! Id also recommend going to 5 or 6 reiki sessions for 5 or 6 weeks in a row and see how you feel off it in conjunction with all the other steps !!! hope this helps and sending much love to you !!!

@ajasatya and that sounds interesting, thank you for your suggestion and I will look it up

hey guy, so I really, really really need to sort this problem out once and for all asap !!! over the past 3 years of self-actualization work I have been minimizing my lifestyle so much to the point where I literally have fuck all to do with my free time after work in the evenings. to give you an idea of my lifestyle I work at a coffee stall 2 days a week and I also work at a special needs school after I finished the coffee stall on those same 2 days also in the morning before I got to work on those two days I have already done 1hr of contemplation and 20mins of meditation. I then the rest of my week doing 4 days of self-actualization work such as 1hr contemplation, 20 mins meditation, 1hrs blog writing, 4hrs working on my business, 2hrs of reading and i just I have 4hrs of the evening left before I go to bed and in those 4 hours i usually tear my hair out and have no idea what to do with my self, i want to work on my business but i know if i do that when i will create a workaholism addiction. I have also quit tv, youtube, random internet surfing, porn, class A drugs, drinking and many other things over the past 3 years so i literally have fuckkkk all to do with myself and over the past 3 months my old addiction for weed has come back into my life so every evening I smoke a few joints and just blitz out to music and i know its really really really bad and it will destroy my life in the long run due to health issues and motivation issues, potential creativity issues, pre mature or erectule dysfunction issues etc so i really need some new ways to entertain myself in the evenings which is not smoking weed. has anyone got any suggestions of how to consciously entertain one's self which does not have anything to do with personal development or spiritual development? i have done plenty of self-actualization work by the time i smoke weed in the evening so the last thing i need to do is fill my evening s up with more self-actualization work

@Leo Gura I used your simple advice to just sit down and force myself to meditate for 4 hours every evening and to be honest I thought id just get really bored and not be able to pull it off but it's been going well over the past 4 days, iv been meditating for 3 years so my minds can be pretty still if i force myself to sit down and meditate, iv had no cravings for weed anymore and I also wake up 3hours earlier than usual because iv been getting a better sleep because of it so all is sweet !!! thank you for your wisdom as always man !! I stopped my spiritual work for about 6 months or so because I was focusing on my business and I think that's why I picked up the bad habit again because i was disconnected from my spiritual work but i think I'm going to get back into it and keep it up and try to balance it with building my life purpose !!! will see how it goes and thank you very much once again

oioioii, nice man !! and yess manya journaling and contemplations !!! and yeah man most people are not intrested in this work, trust me I went through a phase of trying to poswade people that self-actualization is the way forward, I was highly unsuccessful lol. and I didn't realize that my self on psychedelics I watch that video by Leo and then did the psychedelics and the psychedelic was 5 meo dmt but you can realize this stuff on other psychedelics to

Hey everyone thanks you very much for your reply !!! @Serotoninluv thank you for your advice, @Inliytened1 yes I have thought about going to a stream room but there are non where l live although i may be moving to a city near my house this or next year so it will hopefully be possible to do them !!! @Leo Gura Aha yess that was in the back of my mind, that would be the ultimate ideal but im not sure if my baseline level of consciousness is that high to be able to pull that off consistently which means the answer to my question is to just raise my consciousness to the point where i could do that, over the past 6 months I have put my spiritual development aside so I can focus on more basic personal development stuff like my career and basic relationship self-help stuff, i find it very tricky to balance no mind while trying to startup a business at the same time becuase after a mediation retreat with lots of psychadelics im so conscious and comftable that i stop being so motivated to work on my business and I also have fewer addictions becuase im already statisfied but then when i work on my busienss loads and neglect my spiritual developent i start picking up all sorts of bad habits again like weed etc. but i think what im going to try to do is get back into my meditation retreats once every 3 months and replace my 20 mins of meditation daily with 30 mi of kriya yoga daily and just sit in silence during the evenings, im going to try to do this for the next 90 days and see how it goes (maybe a few 5 meo sessions may help me get back into the groove lol) im going to try that and see how it goes, maybe ill have a massive ego backlash and it be too much for me or maybe i can pull it off lol well see how it goes. I did my last meditation retreat about 6 months ago and i had a massive ego backlash and have not planned another retreat since but im going to play it by ear and see how it goes. Thanks for the advice man !!! Anyway thanks for the suggestions everyone has been a massive help !!! sorry if iv left some people out of my tags but many thanks to you all !!! @Nak KhidNak Khid my self-actualization has been tremendously beneficial, long story short i was depressed, anxious, filled with self-hate, addicted to class A drugs, had bulimia, was horrible at sex, was horrible socializing etc and now i am a completely different person through the whole self-actualization process and i have that big picture leo talks about which is like a superpower were i can do whatever i want with no limits basically but i still have problems and i still probably have like 10 years of self-actualization work to do as im still really really inadequate at embodying al the deep insights i understand intellectually but i need to work on embodying them energetically which will take many years but yeah to answer your question my self-actualization has definitely been beneficial.

you need to outgrow and transcend your stage orange needs and desires before you can stop manipulating for your stage orange purposes. Also, you need to realize that most people don't have a chance in hell of fully self-actualizing so its no use trying to convert everyone, people need to stumble upon this stuff when they are at a time when they are ready and you should watch Leos video titles "what is the purpose of life a life-changing explanation" I think its called, you need to watch and contemplate that on some psychedelics then you will realize that the point of life is to experience life from every possible perspective and you will start to realize that is all perfectly cool where everyone is at, there's no need for most people to self actualize because the point of there life is to experience whatever they are experiencing in life, then you realize that you will stop trying to get everyone to self-actualize. BUT obviously, if you meet someone and they are at a point of there life where they may be ready for self-actualization and are into this sort of thing then obviously expose them to parts of it and see what they think if they but that will not be most people you know and meet.

this is teal swans video on depression notes, have a read, follow the step by step proccess and see if it works or not, now there are a few thngs in this video i am unsure of which i need to contemplate etc it seems like pretty good advice and i hope it helps !! Depression (The Truth about Depression that No One Sees or Understands) Depression is one of the most poorly understood conditions on the planet. All the ‘experts’ weigh in on what causes it and what solves it. But these causes and solutions are all over the map and often contradictory. And this can in turn add to the depression that people suffering from depression feel. Before I get into this episode, I need to say that depression is not a weakness and it is not something that you should be ashamed of. It is not a character flaw. You can in fact understand depression as well as how to solve it by understanding the nuance in one single sentence. I’m going to give you this sentence and then use the rest of the episode to explain it in complete detail. Here it is: There is a big difference between resisting futility and accepting futility. Everything you feel has a cause, dysfunctional brain chemicals are not the cause; they are the symptom. We are creators at our core. For us to feel good, we have to be able to perceive ourselves to be empowered so as to be able to alter our life so that our needs and desires are met. When we cannot do this, we feel powerless. Depression is caused by a situation in our life or many being something where no matter how many times we try and try and try, we cannot cause it to turn into what we want and what would meet our needs. Therefore, we feel it is futile. Futility and depression are synonymous. What you will find is that life is relationships. If we talk about our home life, what we are talking about is our relationship to our partner, mother, father, siblings, children etc. If we talk about our career life that is still about relationships, but this time to customers, bosses, colleagues etc. So what this futility is really about is that you perceive that in order for something to become what you want and need it to become, you need cooperation from other people involved in the situation because you can’t create it or change it by yourself. But they will not collaborate and cooperate. Therefore, this incapacity to change the situation because you “can’t do anything about it” makes your self esteem go out the window and you perceive yourself to be forced to surrender to the tortured ended-ness of the fact that your life is suffering. This is pure futility. It is terrifying to learn that you cannot make someone take your best interests as a part of their own, and collaborate towards you feeling good in a situation. This causes anxiety. But anxiety in this scenario is simply like the phase before someone hits a sense of futility. However, instead of accepting that futility, you resist that futility. Part of you does not give up which means you’re still in resistance to it. This creates a sensation that a person is not lost in a kind of darkness, but instead that they are becoming the darkness. To comprehend the way this works, imagine a person who wants to be let inside a gate to a village so badly that for years, they try every way to get it open and eventually slip into futility. At this point, they sit down motionless for years, still emotionally resisting that the gate is closed, hanging on to the strange possibility that one day, it might, so it’s just something you have to hang on through. All of this is done instead of getting up and walking to a different village. Part of you has not given up. Part of you is not willing to let go completely. You refuse to cut your losses. You are so tied to the image of how you need something to be that you wont give up on it. This resistance to the futility is what makes you so exhausted all the time and keeps you stuck in endless futility. And people who suffer from depression tell themselves they “can’t” cut their losses, when this is really about choosing not to. And you have very valid reasons for not being willing to cut your losses. But no matter how good your reasons are, you stay powerless in this way. It is critical to become aware of just what you are so attached to that you can’t let go of by accepting that it will never come to be. What are you afraid will happen if you accept it is and always will be futile? It is worth mentioning that some people use depression as a way to avoid committing suicide. This is because some people feel if they accepted the futility of a certain situation, they wouldn’t have any will to live anymore and would instead want to die. They would see no future. This often happens in situations where someone cannot conceive of wanting something else other that the specific thing they want and in the way they want it. For example, if they can’t get someone to love them back, they refuse to be loved by someone else. It is only ok if that single person loves them. People who suffer from depression also tell themselves that their needs are NOT going to be met anywhere other than in the situation that is futile. This is also more resistance to cutting their losses. They have to see that they subconsciously choose to commit to a dead end by doing this. It is a common assumption that depression is about suppression. This is both true and not true, which means there is a subtle nuance here to understand. A person with depression isn’t actively suppressing. After years of trying (through not suppressing) to create the thing they wanted to create and get people to change in the way that would get their needs and desires met, nothing worked. So expressing their truth also feels futile. Communication does absolutely nothing, so there is “no point” in expressing. While this means that a person has to suppress their truth, it is a different flavor of suppression. It is not active suppression so that a situation can be what the person wants it to be. It is suppression because there is no point screaming for help if no one is around to hear it. Again, back to the futility. If you have depression, you are not authentic, because you think being authentic is futile. So many children are stuck in this respect because the situation they often have to change (but that is futile) is the dynamics and arrangements of their family relationships, something that they are totally out of control of. If they try to express this, it only infuriates their parents and caregivers and thus makes matters worse for them. Childhood is prison where one’s happiness depends on the benevolence of the wardens. With a parent who is unwilling to help a child shift their life so they can feel good, a child is in hell and captive, powerless to change the circumstances of their life. Here is where the spiral gets worse. Because of the unwillingness to actually accept the futility and focus on any other way of creating your desires and needs, you stay in the situation that is futile. To do this, you have to betray one part of yourself. And this part of you gets VERY mad at the other part. So it feels like part of you is destroying another part of you. It emotionally feels like self-digestion. People who struggle with depression are both totally unaware of free will because they feel it is their responsibility to control the uncontrollable and get people to be how they want them to be (something they hate themselves for failing at). At the same time, they are all too damaged by free will. The grief they feel is that no one will participate in creating their version of a feel good life. They feel other people are all taking action, intentionally or unintentionally (and often idiotically as if oblivious) against it. You hate them for it because you feel so hurt by it. You can’t accept that other people have free will and with that free will, will not choose what is best for you. You also can’t accept that it is possible for you to do what isn’t best for yourself. You don’t understand this because it is an unhealthy relationship between two of your internal fragments. But because of this refusal to understand and accept that this is the case, you are just waiting for this to stop one day. As you wait, you feel more and more futility and more and more resistance to that futility the more people disappoint you by proving it is a futile situation over and over again. And then the third aspect of this spiral of depression sets in. You look around and notice that no one feels this same futility that you feel. So you make it mean something about yourself. “Something is wrong with me because I can’t feel good”. But because of the magnitude of the amount you care about this situation and the magnitude of the futility in the situation, doing little things to try to feel better (things that seem to work for other people) does not work. It feels like throwing a tic tac at a charging rhino or trying to feel amazing about an ice cream cone, when an asteroid is headed for earth. Or watching a comedy show to laugh when someone you love and need is dying in a hospital bed. They are acutely aware that these little things will not make the overall issue any better. What I am about to say is going to make some people very angry, but I have to say it. Depression is the byproduct of relationship dysfunction. Most people don’t want to see that depression is not chemically caused mental illness (remember the imbalance of chemicals is the symptom), but is the result of relationship dysfunction because most people don’t want to admit to the futility itself in the relationships they have. They would rather make it about how they feel. It is a coping mechanism for them to focus on brain chemical issues because this feels more empowering and promising than focusing on the real situation in their life that causes futility. It also offers hope that if someone sees they don’t feel good and are in fact ill, people might just feel enough pity to participate in creating their feel good situation instead of resisting it. For this reason, anti-depression medication is like shutting up the very voice telling you that an aspect of your life has to be changed, instead of actually changing it. So what should you do if you struggle with depression? Face your futility. Overcoming depression is all about becoming consciously aware of and facing and resolving the futility that is occurring in your life. Yet again, this could be a specific situation or multiple situations. Now that I have made you aware that depression is about futility and resisting instead of accepting that futility, look at your own life and recognize how this is playing out in your own life now. People often never get out of their depression because they keep trying new ways to make a futile situation not futile and therefore try to solve things in all the futility resistant ways they can think of, instead of facing the fact that futility in and of itself is the issue and especially, the resistance to that futility. This is why you should never approach healing from depression by “fighting depression”. Do The Completion Process with the feeling of futility specifically. If you are depressed, the futility is about a situation you are currently in. But this pattern of futility is a pattern that began in childhood and this current situation, is a repeat/reflection of a situation in your past of this same kind of futility. To learn how to do this process, you can get a copy of my book that is quite literally titled The Completion Process. And if you want to be helped through the process instead of doing it on your own, you can find a practitioner who is trained to lead you through it at www.thecompletion process.com. Work directly with the part of you that refuses to accept the futility and refuses to cut your losses. This is the part that continues to keep you adapting to the futile situation in ways that are detrimental to you. And this sets up a pattern of self-hate and internal anger. Also, work with the part of you that is opposite of that one. You don’t need to know what that part is specifically. You can simply say, “I choose with my free will to become the opposite part to the one that refuses to accept the futility and cut my losses” and allow yourself to really be overtaken by the energy of that part of yourself. To understand how to work with a fragment of your own consciousness like this, watch my video titled: Fragmentation, The Worldwide Disease. Also, to increase your understanding about the internally focused anger that is created by this part of you, watch my video titled: Bulldozing (The Way To Ruin Your Relationship With Yourself) Having accepted the futility, look for the ways you can move forward and the options you do have. You have to do something new. Resisting a futile situation puts you in a rut in life. Depression is all about focusing on what you can’t change and refusing to accept you can’t change it so as to focus on something else or do something else. Ask yourself, “If I accepted that what I want is never (and I mean never) going to happen, what would I do then or instead? It’s the thing where if you stop focusing on the door that is closed, you might see a window that is open. It may be hard to believe that your needs or desires can be fulfilled in any other scenario or even that any other option exists. For this reason, you might benefit by watching my videos titled: The Zebra and the Watering Hole and How To Meet Your Unmet Needs. Do something new even if you are simply doing it just to get out of your rut. The more drastically new, the better. The darkness you feel is the symptom of being disconnected from parts of yourself, and from what you really want in life. You must develop safe relationships. Depression is about relationship dysfunction that makes you powerless to create the life you want. Most specifically powerlessness and un-safety when no one will be an ally to the creating of the life you desire and need. This means, you need to go to places where people see, hear, feel and understand you. You need to heal the trauma of no one choosing to align with you so as to participate in what you want to create with them. But to do this, you can’t keep trying to get people who have no interest in doing this, to do this. For this reason, one of the most important videos you will ever watch is my video titled: How To Create A Safe Relationship. Also, depression is an intensely isolating and lonely experience. Being a situation that is in fact set up by the relationships in your life and one that is resolved by creating safe relationships, I encourage you to read my book titled: The Anatomy of Loneliness, which clearly outlines what causes this sense of loneliness as well as how to go from loneliness to a sense of connection. The more little things you do to make yourself feel like you have more power and control over creating the life you want, the better. If you are suffering from depression, understandably, you are super disempowered. On top of creating safe relationships, where people do cooperate in creating a life that feels good to you, you need to do lots of things in life, which don’t depend on other people to make you feel more empowered. Most of the suggestions people make about solutions to depression fit well into this category. Some examples might be deliberately eating foods that make you specifically feel good (especially mood boosting foods), spending time with animals, getting a massage or other form of touch, exercising, getting enough sleep, setting attainable and achievable goals and scratching them off the list when they are accomplished, taking on responsibilities which enable you to see your positive contribution, visiting and making new friends (this prevents you from isolating), taking control of your focus through positive focus or gratitude exercises or working with your core beliefs, sitting out in the sun, meditation, creating a routine, setting things in your schedule each day that you can look forward to even if it is as simple as watching a comedy show, picking up a new hobby, changing up things such as home décor or what room you sleep in or where you habitually go to eat etc. If someone in your life is struggling with depression, do not treat them like you are afraid of them. There is nothing to be afraid of. Depression is not contagious and people need your presence, not for you to solve a problem you don’t know how to solve. Also, there is nothing shameful about depression and this includes resisting futility. You know how desperate it feels to not be able to create something you want to create. It feels like accepting that the person you love more than anything else has died and never knowing if you will ever get love again. So it is a great deal more complicated than simply deciding with your free will to stop resisting and accept that futility and do different things that are empowering instead. It is a great deal more complicated than just deciding to jump out of a hole or be more positive. No one chooses to feel depressed any more than they consciously choose to resist something that is futile. This is a person that feels despair and desperation about a situation that is futile. And in their situation, anyone would feel that way. Lovingly help them to really focus on and face the pain they feel, don’t try to get them out of that darkness. Its better to hold their hand and dive consciously into it. My personal request to you is to become less afraid of other people’s suffering. Become less afraid of the way that watching other people suffer, makes you feel. All too often people abandon other people because of running away from feeling the feelings that seeing other people suffer, stirs in themselves. If you are struggling with depression, it is my promise to you that the feeling of wanting to be alive and feeling inspired and energized is on the other side of realizing that you do have the power to create what you want in life. You can create your desires and fulfill your needs. And there are people in the world that want to participate in that process as an ally instead of an antagonist. But all of that is on the other side of no longer focusing on the absence of what you want. It is on the other side of accepting and facing and resolving your futility, instead of being unconscious of it and therefore subconsciously resisting it.

that was an awesome 2 part series on fear. I was wondering if you are going to go into more detail on the emotional body and how the chakras relate to emotional mastery and how energy works in the body, and what the bodily energy's relationship is to consciousness.

and thankyou very much as always, your work is fucking awesome !!!

yess try it out !!!

Thankyou @Leo Gura I will defoss do some googling on that !!! and hope I hope your having a nice day !!!

I have abit of a low level question to ask... leos video on how to make a girl squirt can I use that exact same fingering technique for the purposes of just making her cum without any squirting? or dose it only work for squirting? planning on having sex with this girl and we haven't slept together before and I want to use that technique just for the purposes of just making her cum without the squirting is this possible or is it a bad idea? @Leo Gura I guess you'll probably know since your the squirting master

cheating happens because there are sooooo many compatible people out there in the world and most of the time in many relationships there is always someone better out there than your current partner and so its a question of weather you bump into this person or not. another reason is beucase relationships are full of selfishness a devilry. we use each other as toys to fulfil each others base needs and many times your partner may get complacent or fed up and stop giving you your base needs for things like love, sex etc. and also cheating happens because your love for someone is never permanent and sometimes your love will change from time to time and you can just fall in love with someone else without you intending to do so.