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Depends on the major and school. I studied business and they actually thought it and also gave more credits if you made a company.

I understand I also tend to get angry towards masculinity as I grew up in a sexistic environment. Still working on that.

Shadow work helps to find which parts of you are pulling you down. Is it stress of work? Are you punishing yourself too much? Is it physical or mental tiredness? Do you want to stay as a writer and on the spiritual path? In what other ways your ego is playing with your mind and body? Having a good nutrition plan and meditation routine and also other routines for exercise, reading, etc helps a lot too. It makes you get used to the hours you work after a while and your stamina increases to stay focused. Someone shared this link before somewhere, if you didn't check it before https://medium.com/the-mission/supercharge-your-productivity-motivation-mood-and-happiness-right-now-by-hacking-your-feel-4e750b9d1c23

Women just don't want to fuck the first guy they found! It goes the same for guys more or less. I did not justify male shaming at all! Read what I said again. I feel your anger towards some unfairness you've experienced is just making you misread things. Equality looks like it is about women and the parts that are, were meant as arguments and rebellions against most of the societies that didn't give a shit about what women as individuals thought and wanted. Humans just tend to ruin things by overdoing them and forgetting why they did them in the first place!

@billiesimon The problem with what you are saying is not exactly about if you want to control the woman, but it is in your frustration over the half truth you feel as the whole truth. Don't you think women also feel the same when their guy goes on tinder and cheats? These things go both ways and people really should understand it. In most societies women are still counted as sluts if they would want the same amount of sex as men, and here we are listening to overly feminism movements saying if a man wants sex, he is a pig! Just if we could just open our eyes on how unfair all of it is.. In any case, if you see yourself as a person who could have tinder and still be loyal to your partner (if that's what agreed), then for sure you can find someone like you. It's not the end of the world yet.

One world with Infinite possibilities of everything in it. Including those two you mentioned. I think that's pretty much it.

I don't know your diagnosis, but in my case DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) has helped a lot. You can check it out online or ask your therapist about it.

Agreed. We have this strong tendency sometimes to have one answer for everything and desperately find black or white conclusions. We just want a few laws and rules to apply on most (if not all) cases and be done with things.

In Islam there is another reason for not eating only pig, but dogs, half of rabbit's body, snakes and a big bunch of others. The reason as I've understood is that firstly some of them eat their own feces, and for others is that when you cut their throat, their blood doesn't rush out. Each religion has some of these rules that vary from another. Still don't know how chicken is not forbidden in Islam as it sometimes eats its own feces

I have had similar problem since I got out of a long relationship 2 years ago. I think some of it comes from me becoming more independent and having a life that I want alone, and some from the fact that I have been observing and noticing how many relationships with certain people just won't work. Generally I've become a bit picky. If you feel the same, it is fine. Of course we are aging but on the other hand, being alone is a lot better than being in a bad relationship. Unless you want to take the challenge with some one that you feel fit.

If you really didn't have any other in this 2 years, probably general neediness is just pumping up, not necessarily her as a person. Of course she may be special in some way, but in these cases, logic of you seeing already that it won't work, is so much stronger.

It is safe if you both know what you are doing, have boundaries, enough attraction and similarities, and most of all, are able to communicate about what you really want and are willing to fight for your relationship! I see most people probably have the rest of the good stuff but when it comes to actually working for the relationship, read some books and face the problems, they give up. In my opinion that's on of the main reasons (if not the biggest one) how relationships fail so much these days.

I think they are mostly for in the beginning when you meet someone. Later on those attractions get a bit reduced and what is left is deeper personality connections and similarities.

It feels like a long way when you have rush reaching the end that you imagined for yourself as a goal. Those small hills give so much great results and also boosts to the next one.

@Joseph Maynor My question was based on one of Leo's older videos when he described that we don't have a free will but there is kind of another deeper head which has a choice and we want to be and choose with that deeper self. I'm not sure now anymore if I understood that one correctly as newer videos are more related to not having free will. I personally believe that we don't have any free will and we are going through life and watching it as a movie. Some of us get into the path of actualization and enlightenment and some just don't. Of course we affect each other but it doesn't mean we have free will. Also infinity makes the most sense to me too.

Yeah! It's one of those movies that you can't stop analyzing its clues desperately trying to understand the hidden meaning of it.

Thanks for the explanation I think we find the best ways for our growth. I just watched this movie "Annihilation", feeling high of it, it's gonna take some hours for me.

@eputkonen @tsuki @Stoica Doru @Nahm @Truth Addict Thank you guys Glad to be understood and helped in this part of the movie/travel place.

@Shin Yea that makes sense.

Lol this is amazing! I know how much it could work for me as I have strong sense of other beings staring at my face while meditating to be scared of. Though it could mess me up badly too. I really should stop watching those horror movies.

I guess others answered great, nothing to add there. But in my experience (female INTP, male ENFJ); my focus was more in thinking in the philosophy and spirituality (T and P) but his was more in science, order and justifying (F and J) things. The judgement over unproven things by science (J) and getting strong emotions (F) of disappointment just became too much for me. But of course things happen and not all come from the personality types of some questions they answered to be counted in that category.

I think that studying gives you these benefits over starting a business right away: A degree related to the field of your work: which comes handy when/if it is required for you some time somewhere in the future. Knowledge: Depending on how usefull are the courses they are giving you, they can get you ready to become a better and more skilled entrapreneour. You can do it yourself if you seek it right. Connections: Studying with and spending time with the people in the similar place, gives you ideas and connections for your work later on. You also can do this yourself if you know where to look, join seminars, meetings, etc. But as I said, you can do some of them yourself and in that sense maybe studying would be a waste of time depending on what kind of business you are gonna have, are the target group gonna get reduced by then or not, are you gonna change your mind, etc. It really depends in that sense.

There are a lot of sources for how you can increase your skills and knowledge to become a better teacher who can know the answers to possible questions and can be a good role model. But one thing that comes to my mind while remembering my teachers in the past is that the best ones for me were the ones who took time to understand their students. Not just being passionate and caring towards them, but amazingly understanding their potentials and how to trigger them to get the best out of the lessons given. I remember I had this Math teacher in middle school, she was mostly disliked/hated by students but years later we all appreciated her being straight forward about what she thought we were lacking.

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I'm glad to be able to help. I feel the same many times when I want to get closer to my family members. For everyone family is a tricky thing because the more you care for them, the more their judgments, opinions and hurtful words hurt. Of course the opposite applies also, their niceness warms the heart a lot. But the general thing is that you didn't choose them like you chose your friends, they may not know at all what you really are and they most likely think way differently from how you and your friends do. For me it works the best when I interact with them with a more open heart and a bit more of closed judging perspective. The speech was great! Thanks