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You gotta take it slow. If you are recovering from addiction, your attention spans and levels of energy are impacted. So in the beginning its going to be hard to train the mind to focus on anything. However this is just a temporary phase and soon your concentration and energy levels will go up.
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If you're going to do something to me that I don't like or appreciate, I will not call it love. Because it's simply not. Watch Leo video if you want. Love is also feeling loved. You can't do things to me that I don't like at all and then say that you still love me and it's all out of love. Please explain me how this works. Because in my mind, a person also has to feel the love that you are giving them. I find it to be psychologically abusive to violate someone's interests and then tell them that you love them If you hurt someone, take responsibility instead of calling it love.
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ENTJ ENTJ: The Commander (Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging) Other people often describe people with this type of personality as assertive, confident, and outspoken. Key ENTJ Characteristics People with this personality type enjoy spending time with other people. They have strong verbal skills and interacting with others helps them feel energized. ENTJ types prefer to think about the future rather than focus on the here-and-now. They usually find abstract and theoretical information more interesting than concrete details. When making decisions, ENTJs place a greater emphasis on objective and logical information. Personal feelings and the emotions of others tend not to factor much into their choices. ENTJs are planners. Making decisions and having a schedule or course of action planned out gives them a sense of predictability and control. They are highly rational, good at spotting problems, and excel at taking charge. These tendencies make them natural leaders who are focused on efficiently solving problems. ENTJs are not necessarily good with emotions, but that does not mean they are intentionally cruel. They are prone to hiding their own emotions and sentimentality, viewing it as a weakness that should not be made known to others. Strengths Strong leadership skills Self-assured Well-organized Good at making decisions Assertive and outspoken Strong communication skills Weaknesses Impatient Stubborn Insensitive Aggressive Intolerant Dominant: Extraverted Thinking This is an ENTJ preferred function and is expressed through the way they make decisions and judgments. ENTJs tend to speak first without listening, making snap judgments before really taking in all the information about a situation. While they tend to make snap judgments, they are also very rational and objective. They are focused on imposing order and standards on the world around them. Setting measurable goals is important. Auxiliary: Introverted Intuition People with this personality type are future-focused and always consider the possibilities when approaching a decision. ENTJs are forward-thinking and are not afraid of change. They trust their instincts, although they tend to regret jumping to conclusions so quickly. Tertiary: Extraverted Sensing This cognitive function gives ENTJs an appetite for adventure. They enjoy novel experiences and may sometimes engage in thrill-seeking behaviors. Because of their outward sensory focus, they also have an appreciation for beautiful things in life. They often enjoy surrounding themselves with things that they find attractive or interesting. Inferior: Introverted Feeling Introverted feeling is centered on internal feelings and values. Emotions can be difficult area for ENTJs, and they often lack an understanding of how this part of their personality contributes to their decision-making process. When this aspect of personality is weak, ENTJs may find themselves feeling uncomfortable or awkward in settings where some type of emotional response is called for. Personal Relationships Since ENTJs are extraverts, they gain energy from socializing (unlike introverts, who expend energy in social situations). They love having passionate and lively conversations and debates. In some cases, other people can feel intimidated by the ENTJs confidence and strong verbal skills. When they have a good idea, people with this personality type feel compelled to share their point of view with others. Despite their verbal abilities, ENTJs are not always good at understanding other people's emotions. Expressing emotions can be difficult for them at times, and their tendency to get into debates can make them seem aggressive, argumentative, and confrontational. People can overcome this problem by making a conscious effort to think about how other people might be feeling. They may struggle to understand or get along with more sensitive personality types. While they are extraverts, they are not emotionally expressive and other people may see them as insensitive. Career Paths Thanks to their comfort in the spotlight, ability to communicate, and a tendency to make quick decisions, ENTJs tend to naturally fall into leadership roles. These individuals sometimes find themselves taking control of a group without really knowing how they came to be in such a position. Because of their love for structure and order, the ENTJ is also good at supervising and directing others and helping groups complete tasks and achieve goals. They can quickly see what needs to be accomplished, develop a plan of action, and assign roles to group members. ENTJs do best in careers where there is a lot of structure, but plenty of room for variety. Jobs that allow them to meet and interact with lots of different people are ideal. People with this type bring a lot of desirable skills to the table, including excellent leadership and communication skills, a hard-working attitude, and an ability to plan for the future. Popular ENTJ Careers Human resources manager Company CEO or manager Lawyer Scientist Software developer Business analyst Entrepreneur University professor Friendships ENTJ are social people and love engaging conversations. While they can seem argumentative and confrontational at times, just remember that this is part of their communication style. Try not to take it personally. They tend to have the easiest friendships with people who share their interests and views and may struggle to understand people who are very introverted, sensitive, or emotional. Parenting Parents of ENTJ children should recognize that their child is independent and intellectually curious. You can help your child by allowing them to pursue their curiosity. Understand that your child will often need your reasoning explained to understand why certain rules need to be followed. You can also help your child develop their emotional understanding by talking openly about feelings. Point out how people might feel about different experiences so that your ENTJ child can learn to better interpret both their own emotions and those of others. Relationships An ENTJ partner can often seem quite dominating in a relationship. Because dealing with emotions does not come naturally to them, they may seem insensitive to their partner's feelings. It is important to remember that this does not mean that ENTJ’s don’t have feelings—they just need to feel completely comfortable in order to show their emotions. They are very committed to making relationships work and are always looking for ways that they can improve their relationships. If you have an issue with your partner, be upfront and honest. Your partner would rather hear the truth than try to guess your feelings.
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ENFJ ENFJ: The Giver (Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging) People with ENFJ personality type are often described as warm, outgoing, loyal, and sensitive. Of all the personality types, the ENFJ is often perceived as being the strongest "people person." They are capable of forging friendships with all personality types, even with more introverted or reticent individuals. Because of their ability to sense what others feel and affect how people behave, they do have the ability to influence and even manipulate others. This is balanced by their strong value system and desire to help other people be the best that they can be. Key ENFJ Characteristics ENFJs are strong extraverts and enjoy spending time with other people. ENFJs have great people skills and are often described as warm, affectionate, and supportive. ENFJs are great at encouraging other people and derive personal satisfaction from helping others. ENFJs are often so interested in devoting their time to others that they can neglect their own needs. ENFJs also have a tendency to be too hard on themselves, blaming themselves for when things go wrong and not giving themselves enough credit when things go right. Because of this, it is important that people with this personality type regularly set aside some time to attend to their own needs. ENFJs are good at bringing consensus among diverse people. For this reason, they can be outstanding leaders and bring enthusiasm to a group that can be motivating and inspirational. One common myth about the protagonist personality is that they are always sociable. While they love people, they do need time alone in order to assimilate and organize their thoughts. Strengths Outgoing and warm-hearted Empathetic Wide social circle Encouraging Organized Affectionate Persuasive Weaknesses Approval-seeking Overly sensitive Indecisive Self-sacrificing Rigid and uncompromising Overprotective Manipulative Dominant: Extraverted Feeling ENFJs express this cognitive function through their engaging social behavior and harmonious social relationships. They are in tune with other people's feelings, often to the point that they ignore their own needs in order to please others. People with a protagonist personality place a stronger emphasis on personal, subjective considerations rather than objective criteria when making decisions. How a decision will impact others is often a primary concern. Auxiliary: Introverted Intuition ENFJs like to think about the future rather than the present. They may often become so focused on the larger goal that they lose sight of the immediate details. As ENFJs take in information about the world, their introverted intuition processes this data in order to create impressions, ideas, and thoughts. This allows them to spot patterns and make sense of complex or abstract data. Tertiary: Extraverted Sensing Extraverted sensing causes ENFJs to take in the present moment, gathering concrete details and sensory information from the environment. Because of this, they will often seek out novel or interesting experiences and sensations. People with the protagonist personality type tend to be very aware of their present environment. This can lead to a great appreciation of aesthetics and a desire to create a pleasing space. Inferior: Introverted Thinking ENFJs are organized and enjoy structure and careful planning. Sticking to a predictable schedule helps ENFJs feel in control of the world around them. Because this is an inferior function, ENFPs may not have a great deal of confidence in their own ability to be logical and organized. Developing this function can help people with this personality type feel more balanced and in control of their decision-making process. Neglecting this aspect of personality can lead to relying solely on personal values when making decisions Personal Relationships ENFJs value other people highly and are warm, nurturing, and supportive in personal relationships. At times, they can become very wrapped up in other people's problems. They are altruistic and interested in helping others, which can sometimes come off as a bit overbearing. Despite this, they are usually very well liked and people appreciate their genuine concern and care. As parents, ENFJs are nurturing and warm, although they can sometimes be accused of being so-called "helicopter parents." They are directly involved in their children's lives, although they can sometimes be quite strict and even rigid at times. ENFJs need to remember to give their children room to explore and express their individuality, particularly as children age into adolescence. ENFJs have an outgoing personality and enjoy spending time with other people. Being in social settings helps them feel energized. In friendships and other relationships, people typically describe people with a protagonist personality as supportive and fun to be around. They are particularly good at relating to others and are known to help bring out the best in the people with whom they spend their time. Career Paths ENFJs often do best in careers where they get to help other people and spend a great deal of time interacting with others. Because of their strong communication and organizational skills, ENFJs can make great leaders and managers. They are good at organizing activities, helping each group member achieve their potential and resolving interpersonal conflicts. They strive to create harmony in all situations, and always seem to know what to do to ease tensions and minimize disagreements. Popular ENFJ Careers Counselor Teacher Psychologist Social worker Human resources manager Sales representative Manager Friendships One of the best ways to be a good friend to an ENFJ is to accept the care and support that they naturally offer. People with this personality type enjoy helping their friends, and it is important to show that you accept and appreciate what they have to offer. However, it is also important that you offer your support in return. ENFJs are not always good at asking for help when they need it. In many cases, simply being willing to listen to whatever they have to share can be very helpful. Parenting Children of ENFJs might find it difficult to live up to their parents' high exceptions. At times, the ENFJ parent's hands-on approach to parenting can be stifling and make it difficult for kids to explore the world on their own terms. Parents of ENFJ children should recognize that their children are extremely empathetic, sometimes to the point that they may feel overwhelmed by the strong emotions that other people evoke. These children are giving and caring but may find it difficult to burden others with their own struggles. If your child has a protagonist personality, encourage your child to care for others while still taking care of their own emotional well-being. Relationships Because ENFJs are so sensitive to the feelings of others, your happiness is critical to your partner's happiness. Remember that your partner may even put their own needs last in order to ensure that your needs are met. Let your ENFJ partner know how much you appreciate all the support and care that they offer and be willing to provide the same support in return—even if they struggle to ask for help. Like all personality types, ENFJs have their own set of strengths and weaknesses. Learning more about your personality type can help you understand qualities that might affect your relationships and well-being. The protagonist personality tends to be altruistic, caring, and loyal, but they can sometimes be overprotective and manipulative. They care about others and strive to help make the world a better place, but this sometimes means that they neglect their own needs.
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ESFJ ESFJ: The Caregiver (Extroverted, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) ESFJ, also known as "The Caregiver" or "The Consul," is one of the 16 personality types identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. People with an ESFJ personality type tend to be outgoing, loyal, organized, and tender-hearted. ESFJs gain energy from interacting with other people. They are typically described as outgoing and gregarious. They have a way of encouraging other people to be their best and often have a hard time believing anything bad about the people they are close to. Key ESFJ Characteristics People with an ESFJ or Consul personality tend to: Enjoy helping others Need approval Expect their kind and giving ways to be noticed and appreciated by others Be sensitive to the needs and feelings of others Be good at responding and providing the care that people need Want to be liked by others Get easily hurt by unkindness or indifference Derive their value system from external sources, including the community at large, rather than from intrinsic, ethical, and moral guidelines ESFJs raised with high values and standards tend to grow up to be generous adults. Conversely, those raised in a less enriched environment may have skewed ethics as adults and are more likely to be manipulative and self-centered. ESFJs also have a strong desire to exert control over their environment. Organizing, planning, and scheduling help people with this personality type feel in command of the world around them. ESFJs are naturally geared toward understanding other people. They are careful observers of others and are adept at supporting and bringing out the best in people. Because they are so good at helping others feel good about themselves, people feel drawn to ESFJs. Although ESFJs are people pleasers, they are not pushovers. Strengths Kind and loyal Outgoing Organized Practical and dependable Enjoy helping others Conscientious Weaknesses Needy Approval-seeking Sensitive to criticism Dislike change Intolerant Controlling Dominant: Extroverted Feeling ESFJs tend to make decisions based on their emotions and concern for others. As a result, they tend to think more about the personal impact of a decision rather than considering objective criteria. ESFJs tend to judge people and situations based upon their "gut feelings." They often make snap decisions as a result and are quick to share their feelings and opinions. This tendency can be great in some ways, as it allows them to make choices rather quickly. However, on the negative side, it can sometimes lead to overly harsh judgments of others. Auxiliary: Introverted Sensing ESFJs are more focused on the present than on the future. They are interested in concrete, immediate details rather than abstract or theoretical information. Tertiary: Extroverted Intuition This cognitive function helps ESFJs make connections and find creative solutions to problems. ESFJs are known to explore the possibilities when looking at a situation. They can often find patterns that allow them to gain insights into people and experiences. Inferior: Introverted Thinking ESFJs are organized and like to plan things out in advance. Planning helps people with this personality type feel more in control of the world around them. This aspect of personality helps the ESFJ analyze complex information, but it is often a point of weakness, especially when making sense of abstract or theoretical concepts. Personal Relationships As extroverts, ESFJs love spending time with other people. Not only do they gain energy from social interaction, but they are also genuinely interested in the well-being of others. They are frequently described as warm-hearted and empathetic, and they will often put the needs of others ahead of their own. They typically feel insecure in situations where things are uncertain or chaotic. While this makes ESFJs well suited to positions that involve managing or supervising people, it can also lead to conflicts when they try to exercise control over people who do not welcome such direction. Because ESFJs are so dependable and loyal, they tend to build strong friendships that are long-lasting. Career Paths Because ESFJs enjoy helping others, they often do well in practical settings that involve taking a caregiver role. Social service and healthcare careers are two areas in which ESFJs may excel at applying their helping nature and desire for order. ESFJs have many traits that make them ideally suited to certain careers. For example, their dependability and innate need to take care of others mean that they often do well in jobs that involve supporting and caring for people, such as nursing or teaching. Popular ESFJ Careers Childcare Nursing Teaching Social work Counseling Physician Receptionist Bookkeeper Office manager Friendships ESFJ can be selfless to the point of overlooking their own needs to ensure that other people are happy. Being a good friend to someone with this personality type means you should express your appreciation of their giving nature and make sure that you reciprocate their kindness. ESFJs get along best with people who value them make them feel appreciated. Relationships are important to people with a Consul personality, and they tend to avoid relationships where they might face a great deal of conflict or criticism. Parenting ESFJ children are responsible and enjoy spending time with their families. However, your child needs regular encouragement. Show your involvement by showing enthusiasm and support for their interests and activities. These children also have a strong need for routine. Establish rules and stick to them. ESFJ children feel more assured and confident when they know what they can expect. Relationships In romance, ESFJs are very devoted, supportive, and loyal. They are not interested in casual relationships and are focused on developing long-term commitments. You can support your partner by showing how much you love and appreciate them. Being responsive by showing affection and returning gestures of love is important. In terms of romantic relationships, ESFJs tend to look for relationships with honest people who are open with their emotions. In addition, they value closeness, intimacy, and long-term commitments.
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ESTJ ESTJ: The Director (Extraverted, Sensing, Thinking, Judging) ESTJs are often described as logical, take-charge kind of people. They are assertive and are very concerned with making sure that things run smoothly and according to the rules. They are committed to tradition, standards, and laws. They have strong beliefs and possess sensible judgment, and expect that other people uphold these same principles as well. David Keirsey, the creator of the Keirsey Temperament Sorter, suggests that the ESTJ personality type is the "Guardian Supervisor," one of four "Guardian" archetypes (Supervisor, Inspector, Provider, Protector) Key ESTJ Characteristics Individuals with this personality type tend to place a high value on tradition, rules, and security. Maintaining the status quo is important to ESTJs, and they often become involved in civic duties, government branches, and community organizations. Because of their orthodox approach to life, they can sometimes be seen as rigid, stubborn, and unyielding. Their take-charge attitude makes it easy for ESTJs to assume leadership positions. Their self-confidence and strong convictions help them excel at putting plans into action, but they can at times appear critical and overly aggressive, particularly when other people fail to live up to their high standards. People often describe ESTJs as predictable, stable, committed, and practical. They tend to be very frank and honest when it comes to sharing their opinions, which can sometimes be seen as harsh or overly critical. Strengths Practical and realistic Dependable Self-confident Hard-working Traditional Strong leadership skills Weaknesses Insensitive Inflexible Not good at expressing feelings Argumentative Bossy Dominant: Extraverted Thinking ESTJs rely on objective information and logic to make decisions rather than personal feelings.4 They are skilled at making objective, impersonal, and impartial decisions. Rather than focusing on their own subjective feelings when they are making judgments, they consider facts and logic in order to make rational choices. People with ESTJ personality types tend to be very practical. They enjoy learning about things that they can see an immediate, real-world use for, but tend to lose interest in things that are abstract or theoretical. ESTJs enjoy concrete facts as opposed to abstract information. They are good at making fast and decisive choices, but they may often rush to judgment before considering all the information about a situation. One positive side, this trait makes them good leaders, but it can sometimes lead them to being viewed as harsh or abrasive. Auxiliary: Introverted Sensing They are good at remembering things with a great deal of detail. Their memories of past events can be quite vivid, and they often utilize their recollections of past experiences to make connections with present events. Because their sensing function is focused inwardly, they tend to be less concerned with novelty and more focused on familiarity. They enjoy having habits and routines that they can depend upon. While this gives them stability and predictability, it can also make them stubborn and unyielding at times. Tertiary: Extraverted Intuition This aspect of personality seeks out novel ideas and possibilities. It compels people with this personality type to explore their creativity. As they process new ideas and information, they may explore the possible meanings in order to spot new connections or patterns. This allows them to look at incoming information and recognize that there may be more than one interpretation or possible outcome. Inferior: Introverted Feeling When this function is used, it may lead ESTJs to make decisions based more on feelings than on logic. These are often internal valuations that lead to "gut feelings" about some situations. While this function is not used as often, in some cases a person might allow their subjective feelings to override their objective interpretation of a situation. ESTJs tend to give much thought to their own emotions, so this function often operates on a largely unconscious basis.. Personal Relationships As extroverts, ESTJs are very outgoing and enjoy spending time in the company of others. They can be very boisterous and funny in social situations and often enjoy being at the center of attention. Family is also of the utmost importance to ESTJs. They put a great deal of effort into fulfilling their family obligations. Social events are also important and they are good at remembering important events such as birthdays and anniversaries. They look forward to attending weddings, family reunions, holiday parties, class reunions, and other occasions. One potential area of weakness for ESTJs is their tendency to be rigid when it comes to rules and routines. They take their own opinion quite seriously, and are often less inclined to listen to what others have to say on a subject. Career Paths Because they appreciate order and organization, they frequently do well in supervisory roles.4 When in such positions, they are committed to making sure that members of the group follow rules and traditions and law established by higher authorities In school and work situations, ESTJs are very hard-working and dependable.4 They strive to follow directions to the letter and show a great deal of respect and deference for authority figures. They are thorough and punctual about completing their work, and rarely question or complain about the work they have to do. ESTJs have a wide range of personality characteristics that help them excel at a number of different careers. Their emphasis on rules and procedures make them well-suited to supervisory and management positions, while their respect for laws, authority, and order help them excel in law enforcement roles.. Popular ESTJ Careers Police officer Military Judge Politician Teacher School administrator Business manager Accountant Banker Friendships People with this personality type are sociable and enjoy getting their friends involved in activities that they enjoy. ESTJs often value dependability over almost everything else. If you are a stable friend who sticks to your commitments, you will likely be able to forge a strong friendships with an ESTJ. Parenting ESTJs children tend to be very responsible and goal-directed, but be cautious to avoid placing too many expectations on your child's shoulders. They enjoy structure and routine. While they are good at being self-directed, they still need guidance and rules to give them the security they crave. Relationships ESTJs are dependable and take their commitments seriously. Once they have dedicated themselves to a relationship, they will stay true to it for life. They tend to avoid emotions and feelings, which can be difficult for their partners as times. While they may not express how they feel through words, remember that they will often convey their emotions through actions.
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ENTP ENTP: The Debater (Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving) ENTP is one of the 16 different personality types identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.1 People with this personality type are often described as innovative, clever, and expressive. ENTPs are also known for being idea-oriented, which is why this personality type has been described as "the innovator," "the visionary," and "the debater." ENTPs are less interested in the here-and-now details than they are in generating ideas and theories. Because of this, they sometimes tend to come up with one idea after another without actually going forward with plans and actions to bring their creative notions into fruition. Key ENTP Characteristics ENTPs enjoy interacting with a wide variety of people. They are great conversationalists and love to engage other people in debates. They are more focused on the future rather than on immediate details. They may start projects and never finish them because they are so focused on the big picture rather than the present needs. ENTPs enjoy being around other people, particularly if they are able to engage in a conversation or debate about something in which they are interested. They are usually fairly laid-back and easy to get along with. However, they can sometimes get so wrapped up in their ideas or plans that they lose sight of their close relationships. They tend to reserve judgment. Instead of making a decision or committing to a course of action, they would prefer to wait and see what happens. ENTPs are immensely curious and focused on understanding the world around them. They are constantly absorbing new information and ideas and quickly arriving at conclusions. They are able to understand new things quite quickly. One common myth about ENTPs is that they love to argue simply for the sake of arguing. While people with this personality type are often willing to play the devil's advocate at times, they enjoy debates as a way of exploring a topic, learning what other people believe, and helping others see the other side of the story. Strengths Innovative Creative Great conversationalist Enjoys debating Values knowledge Weaknesses Can be argumentative Dislikes routines and schedules Does not like to be controlled Unfocused Insensitive Dominant: Extroverted Intuition ENTPs tend to take in information quickly and are very open-minded.4 Once they have gathered this information, they spend time making connections between various complex and interwoven relationships. They are good at spotting connections that others might overlook and tend to be focused on possibilities. They have entrepreneurial minds and are always coming up with new and exciting ideas. Auxiliary: Introverted Thinking This cognitive function is expressed in the ENTPs thinking process. People with this type of personality are more focused on taking in information about the world around them. When they do use this information to reach conclusions, they tend to be very logical. ENTPs are logical and objective. When making decisions, they place a greater weight on rational evidence instead of subjective, emotional information. This function works to help the ENTP understand all the information that comes in through the extroverted intuition function. This involves imposing logic and order to help make sense of many disparate ideas and pieces of information. ENTPs don't want to just understand that something works - they want to understand the why and how behind how things function. Tertiary: Extroverted Feeling As a tertiary function, this aspect of personality may not be as well-developed or prominent. When developed, ENTPs can be social charmers who are able to get along well with others. When this aspect of personality is weaker, the ENTP may be insensitve to others and can even be seen as aloof or unkind. Inferior: Introverted Sensing The introverted sensing function is centered on understanding the past and often applying it to current experiences and future concerns. This is often a point of weakness for ENTP personalities. They are often focused more on possibilities and may fail to consider how past precedents may help predict outcomes. ENTPs also tend to overlook many of the more mundane details of daily life, especially if they are deeply involved in a project or plan. Personal Relationships Since they are identified as extroverts, it may come as no surprise that ENTPs have very good people skills. They are skilled communicators and enjoy interacting with a wide circle of family, friends, and acquaintances. In conversations, other people often find them quick-witted. ENTPs will often engage in debates simply because they enjoy having a good battle of the wits. Sometimes, their love of debates lead ENTPs to take on the role of the devil's advocate, which can sometimes lead to conflicts with others who feel like they are being intentionally combative and antagonistic. Career Paths Routines and boredom are not good for the ENTP personality. They are non-conformists and do best in jobs when they can find excitement and express their creative freedom. ENTPs can be successful in a wide range of careers, as long as they do not feel hemmed in or bored. As debaters with great communication skills, careers in law can offer the challenge and diversity that ENTPs crave. Jobs in the business world that combine the ENTPs rationality, creativity, and natural leadership abilities can also be very rewarding Popular ENTP Careers Engineer Lawyer Scientist Psychologist Inventor Psychiatrist Journalist Friendships ENTPs are great at getting along with people no matter what their personality type. While they are usually laid-back, they can be quite competitive. If you are friends with an ENTP, be careful not to get into the habit of trying to out-do each other. Be aware of their love for debates and be careful not to escalate good-natured discussions into combative arguments. Parenting ENTPs have a fun-loving nature and are excited to share their sense of wonder with their children. Parents with this personality type are supportive, but they have a tendency to try to turn every situation into a learning opportunity. Parents of ENTP children should be aware that their children may seem argumentative at times, it stems from their natural love for discussion and debate. They may also seem inconsistent at times, being warm and affectionate in one moment and then withdrawing in the next as they become wrapped up in new ideas. Parents should encourage their children to focus on goals and finish the things that they start. Relationships In intimate relationships, ENTPs can be passionate and exciting. They are warm, loving, and good at understanding their partner's needs. You may find that they may struggle to follow through on promises that they have made, which can be a source of frustration at times. Be aware of your ENTP partner's need for spontaneity. You can help balance your partner's impulsiveness by helping them work toward their goals with enthusiasm and practicality.
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Thank you Entity John. I'm sorry I'm crying. The demon has made me infinitely happy. The demon is helping me Yesterday I cried. The demon said to me, "why do torture yourself Babloo."
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At least something that is good
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Preety_India replied to Preety_India's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Talk about the weather. No?
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So what happened?
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Realized that I lack emotional self awareness.
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ENFP ENFP: The Champion (Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving) People with this type of personality are often described as enthusiastic, charismatic, and creative. People with this personality type are very charming, energetic, and independent. They are creative and do best in situations where they have the freedom to be creative and innovative Key ENFP Characteristics ENFPs have excellent people skills. In addition to having an abundance of enthusiasm, they also genuinely care about others. ENFPs are good at understanding what other people are feeling. Given their zeal, charisma, and creativity, they can also make great leaders. People with this personality type strongly dislike routine and prefer to focus on the future.3 While they are great at generating new ideas, they sometimes put off important tasks until the last minute. Dreaming up ideas but not seeing them through to completion is a common problem ENFPs can also become easily distracted, particularly when they are working on something that seems boring or uninspiring. ENFPs are flexible and like to keep their options open. They can be spontaneous and are highly adaptable to change. They also dislike routine and may have problems with disorganization and procrastination. Strengths Warm and enthusiastic Empathetic and caring Strong people skills Strong communication skills Fun and spontaneous Highly creative Weaknesses Needs approval from others Disorganized Tends to get stressed out easily Can be overly emotional Overthinks Struggles to follow rules Weaknesses Needs approval from others Disorganized Tends to get stressed out easily Can be overly emotional Overthinks Struggles to follow rules Dominant: Extraverted Intuition ENFPs generally focus on the world of possibilities. They are good at abstract thinking and prefer not to concentrate on tiny details.4 They are inventive and focused on the future. ENFPs are good at seeing things as they might be rather than focusing simply on what they are. They have a natural tendency to focus on relationships and are skilled at finding patterns and connections between people, situations, and ideas. Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling When making decisions, ENFPs place a greater value on feelings and values rather than on logic and objective criteria. They tend to follow their heart, empathize with others, and let their emotions guide their decisions. ENFPs have a strong desire to be true to themselves and their values. In an ideal world, their world would be in congruence with their values. Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking This cognitive function is centered on logically organizing information and ideas. When looking at information, the ENFP may use this function to sort through disparate data to efficiently spot connections. For example, an ENFP might "think out loud" as they are working through a problem, laying out all the information to create an easily followed train of thought. Inferior: Introverted Sensing ENFPs express this function by comparing the things they are experiencing at the moment to past experiences. In doing so, they are often able to call to mind memories, feelings, and senses that they associate with those events. This allows the individual to seek patterns and form expectations for future events based upon their previous experiences. Personal Relationships ENFPs are extraverts, which means that they love spending time with other people. Socializing actually gives them more energy, helping them to feel renewed, refreshed, and excited about life. While other types of extraverts tend to dislike solitude, ENFPs do have a need for some alone time in order to think and reflect. ENFPs tend to be warm and passionate in relationships. As extraverts, they are naturally upbeat and gregarious. In relationships, they are always seeking growth and ways to make their partnerships stronger. They tend to be attentive and spontaneous. Their willingness to take risks can sometimes be stressful for those who love them. Career Paths When choosing a career path, it is a good idea for people to understand the potential strengths and weaknesses of their personality type. People with the ENFP personality type do best in jobs that offer a lot of flexibility Because they are empathetic and interested in people, they often do well in service-oriented careers. They should avoid careers that involve completing a lot of detailed, routine tasks. Popular ENFP Careers Psychologist Journalist Actor TV Anchor/Reporter Nutritionist Nurse Social Worker Politician Counselor Friendships ENFPs make fun and exciting friends. They enjoy doing new things and usually have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. They are perceptive of other people's feelings and can figure people out quite quickly.6 You can help your ENFP friends by being the emotional support they need to achieve their goals. Parenting Because ENFPs dislike routine, their children may sometimes perceive them as inconsistent. However, they typically have strong, loving relationships with their kids and are good at imparting their sense of values. Parents of ENFP children will find that their child has a strong sense of imagination and a great deal of enthusiasm for life. Your child's energy may seem overwhelming at times, but you should look for ways to help your child explore their creativity. One struggle they may face is with providing structure and limits. While they recognize the need for such things, they are not always good at setting or enforcing such limitations. Parents of ENFPs should encourage their kids to be creative, but provide rules and guidelines. Relationships ENFPs tend to be passionate and enthusiastic in romantic relationships. Long-term relationships can sometimes hit a snag because people with this personality type are always thinking about what is possible rather than simply focusing on things as they are. In order to keep the romance alive, it is important to look for new ways to bring excitement into the relationship.
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ESFP ESFP: The Performer (Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling, Perceiving) People with ESFP personality types are often described as spontaneous, resourceful, and outgoing. They love being the center of attention and are often described as entertainers or “class clowns.” Key ESFP Characteristics ESFPs tend to be very practical and resourceful. They prefer to learn through hands-on experience and tend to dislike book learning and theoretical discussions. Because of this, students with ESFP personality types sometimes struggle in traditional classroom settings. However, they excel in situations where they are allowed to interact with others or learn through direct experience. ESFPs live very much in the here-and-now and sometimes fail to think about how current actions will lead to long-term consequences. They will often rush into a new situation and figure things out as they happen. They also tend to dislike routine, enjoy new experiences, and are always looking for a new adventure. In addition to having a strong awareness of their surroundings, they are also very understanding and perceptive when it comes to other people. They are able to sense what others are feeling and know how to respond. People tend to find them warm, sympathetic, and easygoing. While ESFPs are fun-loving and do not shun the spotlight, they are more interested in simply living in the present and doing what feels right at that moment. Strengths Optimistic and gregarious Enjoys people and socializing Focused on the present, spontaneous Practical Weaknesses Dislikes abstract theories Becomes bored easily Does not plan ahead Impulsive Dominant: Extraverted Sensing ESFPs prefer to focus on the here-and-now rather than thinking about the distant future. They also prefer learning about concrete facts rather than theoretical ideas. ESFPs don’t spend a lot of time planning and organizing. Instead, they like to keep their options open. When solving problems, they trust their instincts and put trust in their own abilities to come up with a solution. While they are reasonable and pragmatic, they dislike structure, order, and planning. Instead, they act spontaneously and do not spend a great deal of time co Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling ESFPs place a greater emphasis on personal feelings rather than logic and facts when making decisions. People with this personality type have an internal system of values on which they base their decisions. They are very much aware of their own emotions and are empathetic towards others. They excel at putting themselves in another person's shoes, so to speak. Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking This function is focused on enforcing order on the outside world. It is centered on productivity, logic, and results. Because this tends to be a weaker aspect of personality, ESFPs may not always feel secure sharing their judgments, especially if they feel it will disrupt the harmony of the group. Inferior: Introverted Intuition While this is the least prominent aspect of personality, this function can help the ESFP spot patterns and make connections in things they have observed. ESFPs are usually not particularly adept at using logic to sort through abstract concepts, but this sense can sometimes lead to flashes of insight and epiphanies about themselves or the world. Personal Relationships As extraverts, ESFPs enjoy spending time with other people and have excellent interpersonal skills.2 They are good at understanding how other people are feeling and can respond to other people's emotions in productive ways. For this reason, ESFPs can make good leaders and have a knack for mobilizing, motivating, and persuading group members. ESFPs are often described as warm, kind, and thoughtful, making them popular and well-liked by others. ESFPs enjoy meeting new people, but they also have a thirst for new experiences. They are generally focused on the present and will often be the first person to try the newest ride at an amusement park or try out a new adventure sport. Career Paths With their strong dislike for routine, ESFPs do best in careers that involve a lot of variety. Jobs that involve a great deal of socializing are also a great fit, allowing individuals with this personality type to put their considerable people skills to good use. Careers that involve a great deal of structure and solitary work can be difficult for ESFPs, and they often become bored in such situations. Popular ESFP Careers Artist Actor Counselor Social worker Athletic coach Child care provider Musician Psychologist Human resources specialist Fashion designer Friendships ESFPs grow weary with the same old routines and are always ready for a new adventure. To keep up with this personality type, you need to always be ready for new experiences - from exploring new places to meeting new people. Keeping things interesting is important, but ESFPs love to have a reliable co-conspirator who is as ready for fun as they are. Parenting ESFP children are enthusiastic and energetic, which can be both fun and exhausting for parents. You can help by providing plenty of outlets for this boundless energy. Sports, hobbies, and outdoor adventures are all good sources of fun for ESFP kids. While these kids are people-loving extraverts, they may need time alone to process their feelings when they are upset. Be sure to give them some time before drawing them out to discuss their emotions. Relationships ESFPs tend to be honest and forthright in relationships. They don't play games and are warm and enthusiastic in romantic relationships. One thing to remember is that ESFPs dislike conflict and tend to take any critical comments quite personally. While it is important to be straightforward in your relationship with an ESFP, try to avoid being overly harsh or confrontational
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ESTP: The Persuader (Extraverted, Sensing, Thinking, Perceiving) People with this personality type are frequently described as outgoing, action-oriented, and dramatic. ESTPs are outgoing and enjoy spending time with a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. They are interested in the here-and-now and are more likely to focus on details than taking a broader view of things. People with this personality type are logical. When making decisions, they place a higher value on objectivity rather than personal feelings. ESTPs don't like to be pinned down by excessive planning. Instead, they like to improvise and keep their options open. Key ESTP Characteristics ESTPs tend to exhibit a number of characteristics centered on their tendency to be extraverted sensors. They tend to be decisive thinkers with strong people skills. ESTPs also tend to: Make decisions quickly: When confronted by problems, people with this personality type quickly look at the facts and devise an immediate solution. They tend to improvise rather than spend a great deal of time planning. Prefer the practical over the abstract: ESTPs don't have a lot of use for abstract theories or concepts. They are more practical, preferring straightforward information that they can think about rationally and act upon immediately. Have strong social skills: They are very observant, often picking up on details that other people never notice. Other people sometimes describe them as "fast-talkers" who are highly persuasive. In social settings, they often seem like they are a few steps ahead of the conversation. Act impulsively at times: ESTPs are not planners. They react in the moment and can often be quite impulsive or even risk-taking. This 'leap before they look' attitude can be problematic at times and it may lead them to say or do things they regret. Strengths Gregarious, funny, and energetic Influential and persuasive Action-oriented Adaptable and resourceful Observant Weaknesses Impulsive Competitive Dramatic at times Easily bored Insensitive Dominant: Extraverted Sensing Extraverts gain energy from social engagement. Because of this, they tend to be outgoing, engaging, and novelty-seeking. Because they are more outward-turning, they also tend to seek stimulation through the senses. Reality focused: Because they are so focused on the present world, ESTPs tend to be realists.2 They are interested in the sights, sounds, and experiences that are going on immediately around them, and they have little use for daydreams or flights of fancy. Sensation seeking: As sensors, people with this personality type want to touch, feel, hear, taste, and see anything and everything that might draw their interest. When learning about something new, it's not just enough to read about it in a textbook or listen to a lecture – they want to experience it for themselves. High energy: ESTPs also have lots of energy, so they can become bored in tedious or in learning situations involving a great deal of theoretical information. Action-oriented: ESTPs are the quintessential "doers." They get straight to work and are willing to take risks to get the job done. ESTPs enjoy being active, but they also like that activity to feel practical and productive. For example, they might grow bored by the same exercise routine or by running on the treadmill; they'd prefer seeking novel activities or doing something useful. Auxiliary: Introverted Thinking When making judgments about the world, ESTPs focus inwardly and process information in a logical and rational way. Because this side of personality is introverted, it is something that people may not immediately notice. Highly disciplined: This inner sense of control gives ESTPs a great deal of self-discipline. They are skilled at working independently and can be very goal-directed when they want to achieve an objective. Very observant: They have excellent observational skills, noticing things that others may overlook. As they take in information, they then apply their sense of logic to look for practical and immediately applicable solutions. Tertiary: Extraverted Feeling This function focuses on creating social harmony and relationships with others. While emotions are not an ESTPs strongest suit, they do have a great need for social engagement. Outgoing: They enjoy being at the center of attention and are good at establishing a friendly rapport with other people. People pleasing: While they are social, ESTPs are sometimes less comfortable sharing their opinions and judgments with others. Rather than rock the boat, they are more focused on pleasing others and maintaining harmony. They may overlook their own needs at times to ensure that other people are happy. Humanitarian: This aspect of personality also drives ESTPs to want to use their skills to help others and make the world a better place. They feel concerned for others and are able to see practical solutions to problems Inferior: Introverted Intuition This aspect of personality focuses on looking at information in order to see patterns and develop a "gut feeling" about situations. It allows ESTPs to gain impressions of incoming data and develop a sense of the future. Seek connections: They may look for connections that will help them gain a sense of what to expect will happen next. Sometimes distrust instinctive reactions: Intuition is not an ESTPs strong suit, but they will sometimes develop strong gut reactions to a situation that may actually be completely inaccurate. Because of this, they may feel that they do not have good instincts. Because this aspect of personality is not as strong, it can sometimes become something of a weakness. When well developed, people with strong intuition will use the ability to take what they have learned through their senses to look for patterns and make connections. When poorly developed, people may make leaps in judgment that are not backed up by evidence. Personal Relationships As extraverts, ESTPs gain energy from being around other people. In social settings, people with this personality type are seen as fun, friendly, and charming. Strong people skills: According to Keirsey, people with this personality type are particularly skilled at influencing people. ESTPs are not only great at interacting with other people, but they also have a natural ability to perceive and interpret nonverbal communication. Difficulty with commitment: While they are great with people, ESTPs prefer to live in the moment, which can sometimes make it hard for them to commit to a relationship. Because they are so focused on the present, it can be difficult to think about their long-term plans. Can seem insensitive: ESTPs sometimes have a hard time tuning in to what others are thinking or feeling. As a result, they can sometimes say things that might be perceived as insensitive and may need to put in extra effort to pay attention to their friends and partners. Career Paths The MBTI also suggests that certain personality types may exhibit preferences and strengths that align them with certain careers.3 People with an ESTP personality type feel energized when they interact with a wide variety of people, so they do best in jobs that involve working with others. They strongly dislike routine and monotony, so fast-paced jobs are ideal. ESTPs have several different personality characteristics that make them well-suited for certain careers. Because of their strong people skills, ESTPs tend to do very well in careers that involve sales and marketing. Because they are action-oriented and resourceful, they are great in first-responder positions that require fast-thinking and quick responses, such as emergency medical personnel and police officers. Popular ESTP Careers Computer support technician Detectives Entrepreneur Marketer Paramedic Police officer Sales agent Friendships ESTPs have an inexhaustible thirst for adventure. You can be a good friend by always being ready to head out for a new experience, or even by coming up with plans that offer excitement, novelty, and challenge. Parenting ESTP children can be adventurous and independent, so parents need to set boundaries and ensure that fair, consistent discipline is used. Kids with this type of personality need lots of hands-on activities to keep them busy, but they may struggle in classroom settings where they quickly grow weary of routines. Relationships ESTPs are exciting and fun-loving, but they can grow bored with routines quickly. They do not enjoy long, philosophical discussions but like to keep the conversation flowing as they talk about shared interests and passions. Be aware that your partner prefers to take things day by day, may struggle with making long-term commitments, and have difficulty making plans for the future.
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Basically a guy wants a woman to be sexually free when she is with him But the moment she thinks of dating other guys, he immediately puts a chastity lock on her. Hmm.
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INTP: The Thinker (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving) People who score as INTP are often described as quiet and analytical. They enjoy spending time alone, thinking about how things work, and coming up with solutions to problems. INTPs have a rich inner world and would rather focus their attention on their internal thoughts rather than the external world. They typically do not have a wide social circle, but they do tend to be close to a select group of people. Key INTP Characteristics INTPs are quiet, reserved, and thoughtful. As introverts, they prefer to socialize with a small group of close friends with whom they share common interests and connections. They enjoy thinking about theoretical concepts and tend to value intellect over emotion. INTPs are logical and base decisions on objective information rather than subjective feelings. When analyzing data and making decisions, they are highly logical and objective. Tends to be flexible and good at thinking "outside of the box." People with this personality type think about the big picture rather than focusing on every tiny detail. INTPs like to keep their options open and feel limited by structure and planning. Strengths Logical and objective Abstract thinker Independent Loyal and affectionate with loved ones Weaknesses Difficult to get to know Can be insensitive Prone to self-doubt Struggles to follow rules Has trouble expressing feelings Dominant: Introverted Thinking This function focuses on how people take in information about the world. INTPs express this by trying to understand how things work. They often like to break down larger things or ideas to look at the individual components to see how things fit and function together. INTPs tend to be highly logical and efficient thinkers. They like to have a complete understanding of something before they are willing to share an opinion or take action. Auxiliary: Extraverted Intuition INTPs express this cognitive function by exploring what-ifs and possibilities. They utilize insight, imagination, and past experiences to form ideas. They often go over what they know, seeking patterns until they can achieve a flash of inspiration or insight into the problem. They tend to spend a great deal of time thinking about the future and imagining all the possibilities. Tertiary: Introverted Sensing INTPs tend to be very detail-oriented, carefully categorizing all of the many facts and experiences that they take in. As they collect new information, they compare and contrast it with what they already know in order to make predictions about what they believe will happen next. Inferior: Extraverted Feeling INTPs tend to seek harmony in groups. While they are introverted, INTPs can be quite outgoing when they are around people with whom they are familiar and comfortable. In situations where they feel stress, however, INTPs shut down their feelings and struggle to connect with others. Under stress, they tend to rely on logic rather than feelings. Personal Relationships As introverts, INTPs prefer spending time alone for the most part. Unlike extraverts, who gain energy from interacting with a wide group of people, introverts must expend energy in social situations. After being around a lot of people, INTPs might feel like they need to spend some time alone to recharge and find balance. While they may be shy around people they do not know well, INTPs tend to be warm and friendly with their close group of family and friends. Because INTPs enjoy solitude and deep thinking, they sometimes strike others as aloof and detached. At times, people with this personality type can get lost in their own thoughts and lose track of the outside world. They love ideas and place a high value on intelligence and knowledge. In social situations, INTPs tend to be quite easy-going and tolerant. However, they can become unyielding when their beliefs or convictions are challenged. Their high emphasis on logic can make it difficult to not correct others in situations where other people present arguments that are not rational or logical. Because they rely on their own minds rather than others, they can also be very difficult to persuade. Career Paths Because they enjoy theoretical and abstract concepts, INTPs often do particularly well in science-related careers. They are logical and have strong reasoning skills, but are also excellent at thinking creatively. INTPs can be very independent and place a great deal of emphasis on personal freedom and autonomy. In some cases, they can be aggravated by authority figures, particularly those that they feel are trying to suppress their ability to think and act for themselves. Because of this, INTPs typically do best in careers as they have a great deal of flexibility and independence. Popular INTP Careers Chemist Physicist Computer programmer Forensic scientist Engineer Mathematician Pharmacist Software developer Geologist Friendships Shared interests are one of the best paths to forming a friendship with an INTP. They tend to value intellect over all else and can be very slow to form friendships. While this often leads to fewer friendships, the ones that an INTP does gain tend to be very close. Remember that your INTP friends may not be the best at dealing with excess emotions, but they love to bond over deep conversations and shared passions. Parenting If your child is an INTP, it is important to remember that they may respond better to reason and logic rather than appeals to emotion. Encourage your child to develop their intellectual interest, but also look for situations that may help them foster friendships. This can be an area where your child struggles, but putting them in contact with other kids who share the same interests can be helpful. Relationships INTPs tend to live inside their minds, so they can be quite difficult to get to know. Even in romance, they often hold back until they feel that the other person has proven themselves worthy of hearing these innermost thoughts and feelings. One thing to remember is that while INTPs do enjoy romance in the context of a deeply committed relationship, they do not play games. Be honest and forthright. Because INTPs are not good at understanding the emotional needs of others, you may need to be very direct about what you need and expect in that regard. INTPs also struggle to share their own feelings, so you may need to pay attention to subtle signals that your partner is sending.
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INFP: The Mediator (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving) The INFP personality type is often described as an "idealist" or "mediator" personality. People with this kind of personality tend to be introverted, idealistic, creative, and driven by high values. INFPs also have strong interests in making the world a better place. In addition to wanting to gain a greater understanding of themselves and how they fit into the world, they are also interested in how they can best help others. People with this personality type spend a lot of time exploring their own purpose in life and thinking about how they can use their skills and talents to best serve humanity. Key INFP Characteristics INFPs tend to be introverted, quiet, and reserved. Being in social situations tends to drain their energy, and they prefer interacting with a select group of close friends. While they like to be alone, this should not necessarily be confused with shyness.2 Instead, it simply means that INFPs gain energy from spending time alone. On the other hand, they have to expend energy in social situations. INFPs typically rely on intuition and are more focused on the big picture rather than the nitty-gritty details. They can be quite meticulous about things they really care about or projects they are working on but tend to ignore mundane or boring details. INFPs place an emphasis on personal feelings, and their decisions are more influenced by these concerns rather than by objective information. When it comes to making decisions, INFPs like to keep their options open. They often delay making important decisions just in case something about the situation changes. When decisions are made, they are usually based on personal values rather than logic. Strengths Loyal and devoted Sensitive to feelings Caring and interested in others Works well alone Values close relationships Good at seeing "the big picture" Weaknesses Can be overly idealistic Tends to take everything personally Difficult to get to know Sometimes loses sight of the little things Overlooks details Dominant: Introverted Feeling INFPs experience a great depth of feelings, but as introverts they largely process these emotions internally. They possess an incredible sense of wonder about the world and feel great compassion and empathy for others. While these emotions are strong, they tend not to express them outwardly, which is why they can sometimes be mistaken as aloof or unwelcoming. Auxiliary: Extraverted Intuition INFPs explore situations using imagination and 'what if' scenarios, often thinking through a variety of possibilities before settling on a course of action. Their inner lives are a dominant force in personality, and they engage with the outside world by using their intuition. They focus on the "big picture" and things will shape the course of the future. This ability helps make INFPs transformative leaders who are excited about making positive changes in the world. Tertiary: Introverted Sensing When taking in information, INFPs create vivid memories of the events. They will often replay these events in their minds to analyze experiences in less stressful settings. Such memories are usually associated with strong emotions, so recalling a memory can often seem like reliving the experience itself. Inferior: Extraverted Thinking This cognitive function involves organizing and making sense of the world in an objective and logical manner. While this is a largely unconscious influence in the INFPs personality, it can show itself in times of pressure. When faced with stress, an INFP might become suddenly very pragmatic and detail-oriented, focusing on logic rather than emotion. Because they are typically ruled more by intuition and emotion, INFPs can sometimes struggle to feel productive and efficient. Learning to develop the extraverted thinking function can help people with this personality type create a better sense of balance. Personal Relationships INFPs are idealists so they tend to have high expectations—including in relationships. They might hold an idealized image in their minds of their perfect partner, which can be a difficult role for any individual to fill. People with this personality type care deeply about other people, yet as introverts they can be difficult to know. They do tend to become very close and deeply committed to the few that they forge close relationships with. They also dislike conflict and try to avoid it. When conflicts or arguments do arise, they usually focus more on how the conflict makes them feel rather than the actual details of the argument. During arguments, they might seem overly emotional or even irrational. However, they can also be good mediators by helping the people involved in a conflict identify and express their feelings. Because they are so reserved and private, it can be difficult for other people to get to know INFPs. They tend to be quite devoted to their circle of close friends and family and place a high importance on the feelings and emotions of their loved ones.Much of their energy is focused inwardly and characterized by intense feelings and strong values. They tend to be very loyal to the people they love and to beliefs and causes that are important to them. Career Paths INFPs typically do well in careers where they can express their creativity and vision. While they work well with others, they generally prefer to work alone. INFPs tend to be very creative, artistic, and spiritual. They are often skilled with language but may prefer to express their thoughts and feelings through writing rather than speaking. Because they have strong ethics and values, they also become passionate about advocating or defending their beliefs. While they feel strongly about their own values, INFPs are also interested in learning more about others and are willing to listen and consider many sides of an issue. Popular INFP Careers Artist Counselor Graphic Designer Librarian Psychologist Physical Therapist Social Worker Writer Friendships INFPs typically only have a few close friendships, but these relationships tend to be long-lasting. While people with this type of personality are adept at understanding others emotions, they often struggle to share their own feelings with others. Social contact can be difficult, although INFPs crave emotional intimacy and deep relationships. Getting to know an INFP can take time and work, but the rewards can be great for those who have the patience and understanding. Parenting INFP parents are usually supportive, caring, and warm. They are good at establishing guidelines and helping children develop strong values.6 Their goal as parents is to help their children grow as individuals and fully appreciate the wonders of the world. They may struggle to share their own emotions with their children and are often focused on creating harmony in the home. Relationships As with friendships, INFPs may struggle to become close to potential romantic partners. Once they do form a relationship, they approach it with a strong sense of loyalty.1 They can sometimes hold overly romanticized views of relationships and may have excessively high expectations that their partners struggle to live up to. They also tend to take comments personally while at the same time struggling to avoid conflicts. If your partner is an INFP, understand that they may struggle at times to open up, be overly sensitive to perceived criticisms, and often place your own happiness over that of their own.
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ISFP: The Artist (Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, Perceiving) People with an ISFP personality are frequently described as quiet, easy-going and peaceful. Key ISFP Characteristics ISFPs like to keep their options open, so they often delay making decisions in order to see if things might change or if new options come up. According to Myers-Briggs, ISFPs are kind, friendly, sensitive and quiet. Unlike extroverts who gain energy from interacting with other people, introverts must expend energy around others.After spending time with people, introverts often find that they need a period of time alone. Because of this, they typically prefer to intermingle with a small group of close friends and family members. While they are quiet and reserved, they are also known for being peaceful, caring, and considerate. ISFPs have an easy-going attitude and tend to accept other people as they are. ISFPs like to focus on the details. They spend more time thinking about the here and now rather than worrying about the future. ISFPs tend to be "doers" rather than "dreamers." They dislike abstract theories unless they can see some type of practical application for them and prefer learning situations that involve gaining hands-on experience. Strengths Very aware of their environment Practical Enjoys hands-on learning Loyal to values and beliefs Weaknesses Dislikes abstract, theoretical information Reserved and quiet Strong need for personal space Dislikes arguments and conflict Dominant: Introverted Feeling ISFPs care more about personal concerns rather than objective, logical information. People with this personality type deal with information and experiences based upon how they feel about them. ISFPs have their own value system and create spontaneous judgments based upon how things fit with their own idea. Auxiliary: Extraverted Sensing People with ISFP personalities are very in tune with the world around them. They are very much attuned to sensory information and are keenly aware when even small changes take place in their immediate environment. Because of this, they often place a high emphasis on aesthetics and appreciate the fine arts. They are focused on the present moment, taking in new information and then taking action. They have a strong sense of their immediate surroundings, often noticing small details that others might overlook. When remembering events from the past, they are able to recall strong visual imagery and sights, smells, and sounds can evoke powerful memories associated with those senses. Tertiary: Introverted Intuition This function tends to run in the background, feeding off of the extraverted sensing function. As ISFPs take in details about the world, they often develop "gut feelings" about events and situations. While they generally do not like abstract concepts or ideas, this introverted intuition function may lead them to experience epiphanies about themselves and others. Inferior: Extraverted Thinking One weakness that ISFPs may have is in organizing, although they may use this function more prominently in certain situations. This function is all about looking for the most efficient way to do something. An ISFP might become focused on being very precise about the details and finding the most effective way to express an idea. Personal Relationships ISFPs are introverted. They tend to be reserved and quiet, especially around people they do not know well. They prefer spending time with a close group of family and friends. ISFPs are very private and keep their true feelings to themselves. In some cases, they may avoid sharing their thoughts, feelings and opinions with other people in their life, even their romantic partners. Because they prefer not to share their innermost feelings and try to avoid conflict, they often defer to the needs or demands of others. ISFPs have strong values but are not concerned with trying to convince other people to share their point of view. They care deeply about other people, particularly their closest friends and family. They are action-oriented and tend to show their care and concern through action rather than discussing feelings or expressing sentiments.. Career Paths People with ISFP personalities love animals and have a strong appreciation for nature. They may seek out jobs or hobbies that put them in contact with the outdoors and with animals. Because ISFPs prefer to focus on the present, they often do well in careers that are concerned with practical, real-world problems. Jobs that offer a great deal of personal freedom and autonomy are especially appealing to ISFPs. Popular ISFP Careers Artist Composer or musician Chef Designer Forest ranger Nurse Naturalist Pediatrician Psychologist Social worker Teacher Veterinarian Friendships ISFPs are friendly and get along well with other people, but they typically need to get to know you well before they really open up. You can be a good friend to an ISFP by being supporting an accepting of who they are. ISFPs can be light-hearted and fun, but they are also quite intense at times. Recognize that there will be times when your friend wants to share and times when he or she will want to retreat to a more personal space Parenting ISFP children tend to be perfectionists and can be their own harshest critics. Because they place such high expectations on themselves, they often underestimate or undervalue their own skills and talents. If you are a parent to ISFP child, you can help your child by encouraging them to be kind to themselves and recognize their value. Relationships ISFPs are very considerate in relationships, often to the point that they will continually defer to their partner. Because they are usually not good at expressing their own feelings and needs, it is important that you make an effort to understand your partner. When making decisions, ensure that your partner's voice is heard and his or her feelings are given equal weight.