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It's not the life you live it's more about how you live the life you are given..

When you are poor you can't afford to make bad choices for relationships and or health or job or anything because you eat bad and all of the stuff and stress you put yourself through and all those bad choices and habits begin to show on your health and appearance. But if you are rich and born healthy , you can do whatever you want, it only takes a certain time when you get older and that's when the burden of your bad values and choices begins to show up on you.

How you should live Give highest priority and value and respect to life and existence. Have high self esteem and give value to yourself Live an authentic life, connect to your inner self and do what you think would be right for your body and mind. Be supportive of your inner life, not antagonistic to it. Live a spiritual life where you are in union with God, so you have faith in God, and you surrender to God's will and you let God handle things you can't with full trust in him, and you use your inner spiritual force to solve your problems in life and overcome obstacles to create the best life for yourself.you use your spiritual will power or the power of the spirit to survive and live through obstacles.

Result phase Exercised today Finished 50 percent tasks on time Played games for an hour Got distracted. One major task still pending.

In my suffering, I see joy. In my weakness, I see strength In my misery, I see the sweetness of pain I might be depressed but I'm free. Unbridled and unhinged, I care for nothing I feel I've grown beyond my years A carefree moment here, a happy moment there I live from here to the next Nothing matters anymore Because life is life, we are no one to judge I smile when I can, this moment I can call mine, my joys my sorrows are mine This pain is in me and I don't need to show my scars. I'm happy being me I'm untouched like the rainbow, pure as coffee I blend into myself, this pain is my own

Know.. What you want Good health great health Beauty Fit body Steady source of income Healthy domestic environment Good healthy relationships. They should be physical and not virtual. High self esteem Do not block your energy on any of the things that you want or need. Understand the effectiveness of the positive mindset placebo You're doing only 1 percent of what you actually need to do to improve. Wanting someone to help you is your birthright. You're entitled to get help. You deserve it. Both heart and brain are important in decision making. Brain so that you are righ most of the time. Heart so that no major decision goes wrong. When you are blind in love, you make the silliest mistakes and things which are completely illogical. When you put only your brain, you forget to forsee how the decisions might impact your life. Your intuition is lacking and as a result you could make a horrible miscalculation for the future.

Being alone and single is better than a toxic manipulative relationship Stay away from toxic socialization, and toxic relationships and toxic family..

A psychopath does not deserve your love. Show love to those who truly respect you and deserve it rightfully.

Signs of psychopathic behaviors Fails to address the underlying issue behind the argument Doesn't admit fault or responsibility for actions Doesn't apologize Dominating Tries to cast your family in a bad way so you lose all kind of emotional support Suddenly shifts the topic instead of addressing the concern Blames you for questioning his behavior Mocks when you are serious Gets serious when you are being light Jumps to premature conclusions and assumes too much without evidence Manipulative Doesn't give attention or time Makes you do everything as per his whims and fancies Shows retraint with anger and good self control Hides real intentions Does not show worry or concern. If you are ill Calculates his moves Blames constantly Anger issues Suicide threats Not available when you need or want Switches off his phone when convenient by blocking you Does not give you the freedom to express yourself Spies on you Controls your every move Lies.. Big lies Tries to maintain a good public image. Helps people so that they will call him a good person. Huge huge red flag of fake humanitarian Is rude to you, not in public but at home Does not respect your work assignment or boundaries Continues to talk to people who you don't want him to talk to Gets easily jealous when there was no need to Blames or guilt trips you for wanting help Does not lay out a clear plan for the future Does not invest money Abandons you when you need Creates drama Does not respect boundaries Does not allow you to sleep because he needs to talk Evokes sympathy when you are angry about an issue Triviliases your achievements and accomplishments Hardly ever praises you Infantilizes you. Wants you to be dependent Takes pride in being complimented Harasses you till you say yes to his demands or till he wins the argument Tries to prove he is morally superior to you Switches the topic when you want to have an important discussion Compares to other people Gaslights you by constantly trying to show that you are wrong Triviliases your logic Contradicts almost every statement Never tries to get along with you even if it's easier to do it, as easy as saying yes or no Neglects you for hours Gives very trivial excuses for his negligence of you Gives more value to friends. And family. Big sign Does not tell you openly and then blames you Finds a way to blame you or show you are wrong Blames you for his losses Shows how others are superior to you and you should measure up to them Compares others bad behaviors to you Forecasts a bad outcome for your behavior. That you will do so and so in the future Emotional blackmail Doesn't bother to help Shows fake emotions Constantly talks about his ex Talks friendly to people who have been mean to you or not getting along with you. Does not respect your ego. Calls you jealous if you called out on it Blames you if you trying to point out your issues with him Does not show serious commitment Takes revenge or gets vengeful Holds grudge for too long Humiliates you publicly Does not say sorry when he is wrong. Only says it when he sees he might lose you Argues till infinity Blames you for his mistakes You are the only one who seems to be interested in calling Everything is about him always Selfish Tries to demean you or lower your worth. Does not respect space Doesn't show committment Uses abusive language Abusive, Narcissistic, manipulative

Deficiency of time and energy Positive affirmations ++ I have lots of energy in me and I continue to have energy. I feel active and I can get things done * * I am full. * * I have lot of time. Time is endless. There is too much time. "* I get lots of resources. There is no deficieny of resources. ** nothing blocks me from what I need to get done. I'm free to do whatever I like. ** ??I will get my work done and it will happen in less time ?? I get lot of love and support ??I drink a lot of water and stay healthy ??My body is healing itself ?? I'm no longer sick ?? I am recovering fast ?? My lungs are getting stronger and free ?? I breathe in easily. I breathe out easily ?? I get a lot of oxygen ??I'm breathing clean air. ?? My lungs are full and healthy ?? My heart is normal ?? My blood is pure and normal ?? My brain and alert and active ??My spirit is healing me ??I'm healthy and I'm getting healthy. ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ??

I'm going to write an article on toxic and sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors and how to spot them in relationships. Narcissism and abuse and psychopathy. Dominating Abusive Cranky Parasitic and greedy Narcissistic Judgemental Manipulative Sociopathic Psychopathic Toxic Controlling Annoying Gaslighting

The day will be divided in phases. Each phase will last upto 2 hours Every day will be called implementation day. Day 23.aug 2 Phase 1 Phase 2 Phase 3 Phase 4 Phase 5 Phase 6 Phase 7. Phase 8 Result phase. The phase system plus the to goal system. Replied: March 24 · Report 1 task to be done in next 1 hour : write the task Timestamp - 9.46pm Saturday Task - sleep on time by 10 and . Done or not done (done or not done) : Proceed to the next (yes or no): Remarks /note :- sabotaging factors. Distracting factors. There is always some source of unnecessary redundant distraction or randomness that gets in the way. Productivity Suite ✔️Phase system with result phase ✔️To goal system with remarks ✔️Umbrella list and Cursory list ✔️Focus-bridge, urgent, situation appropriate, and Context tasks ✔️Clicker points ✔️Life blueprint key functions ✔️Spirituality and health. Use of spiritual force. ✔️ ✔️✔️

The body is just a vehicle of the spirit. It is the car. And the spirit is the driver. The vehicle fulfills the purpose of the spirit. We are born to live a spiritual life. Physical is just a form that needed for survival and continuation of the spirit,its carrier for our desires and its needs to be trained and honed for the ultimate purpose of peace and love and union with God. The spirit influences the body and the body does the work. A weaker body weakens the spirit. The body is self regulating and self healing and is perfectly designed in tune with the spirit to do the purpose laid down by the spirit. Spiritual force heals the soul and the body. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Universe holds the key. We all have a strong spiritual power that is present in the universe. And this power can heal everything, solve all problems, restore peace and make anything possible. But how we use this power is important. Since there is a possibility that such power can be misused by people with bad intentions, the power only grows in people with higher spiritual vibration, that is people with good intentions. Evil people just cannot have this power since they are deficient in everything. This power however cannot bend the laws of the physical world. That is if a person is meant to die, he will and nothing can reverse it. But this power can still achieve a lot more. However just like with everything else, this power also has its limitations and those are that this power requires tremendous amount of determination, persistence and will power along with a genuine desire to heal or change.

When you are negative it's like a condition, like a deficieny. Negativity breeds evil and misery. When you are negative you need a dose of richness or abundance, Positivity, love. happiness

Life blueprint <key functions > Know Attract. Based on the law of attraction. Be connected to the universe. Desire Envision Visualize Create Focus /give attention and track Nourish Grow and build Cleanse Protect Breathe Pray - thanks, praise, worship and ask Sustain /maintain Heal/regenerate Aware Connect Accept Embrace Let go Fight Achieve Criticize Harmony Be authentic Achieve Criticize Forsee <wisdom> Balance Beauty Rest and relax Flourish Give /promote Inspire Transform and succeed Be humble

You deserve what you create. So if we feminized people then we shouldn't be surprised if they turned out to be puss. - - 1 1 - - - - Social Darwinism is extremely destructive. It can destroy lives. It can play with the self esteem of people causing massive number of people to have self esteem issues.. Self esteem issues They can last a lifetime They crop up in early age They can make a person suicidal, depressed, unable to relate to others, lose emotional or social support, cause of lack of motivation leading to diseases and especially obesity. They can be the root of many problems in life. People are mostly unaware of its dangers and tend to neglect it. A loving society or community will embrace all sorts of imperfections and even make the little imperfections seem totally worthless or insignificant. Whereas even the opposite is true. A hateful society will make self esteem the most important thing and use it to abuse others. You might even be surprised at how much value you placed on little things that impacted your self esteem and how crazy it was to feel suicidal over something that is actually insignificant. That's because the society you are in is ridiculous and it encourages or enables self esteem issues. This is how social Darwinism controls lives and breeds low self esteem leading to lack of interest and motivation and even massive depression in most people. That's why social media is very bad. Live in love. Clean out the hidden and visible self esteem issues with shadow work to remove any kind of sabotage or blockage holding you back. - - - - We live in a negative world and people get a perverse happiness by stirring trouble and demonizing others or by saying negative things to them.

First be a hero to yourself. ---- - - - - - - - - - - - Evil can also have a source of deficiency and deprivation. Wherever there is some sort of lacking and desperation, a person finds illegal ways to achieve what others acquire by ability. They don't need to be desperate therefore they can be honest, sincere and innocent. Whereas desperation that is born out of deficiency can make a person become evil. Most evil people or people who have committed horrible crimes are not very intelligent, they are careless, devoid of emotion, poor, affected by mental illnesses, addicted, all in all they are spiritually, wealth wise and emotionally deficient. I think that deficiency of any nature causes or breeds psychopathic behaviors and tendencies where the person is less empathetic, greedy, narcissisic, less generous, they develop compassion fatigue or deficient in compassion since they feel they need to tend first to their needs. If they suffer too much or are perpetually miserable then they are more immune to the suffering of others, they get desensitized to suffering, if you're needy yourself it's difficult to fulfill the needs of others. This desensitization leads to psychopathic tendencies So maybe evil is a deficiency problem. But it's considered as evil or the opposite of good. I think it should be more like the absence of good rather than the opposite of good. The deficit of Goodness and love might breed love. That's why they say misery loves company. Prosperity and abundance is the antidote to misery.

Everything is possible. Almost everything. Nothing needs to be destroyed. It can be compressed or put to good use and converted. If there is a lack of resources the resources can be increased. Evrything is perfectly flexible --- - - - - %- - + Spirituality will consist of Gut instinct and intuition Emotional growth Emotional stability Mental peace Cultivation of empathy and love Charity Communal harmony Prayer Desires Connection to God Alignment with the universe Letting go Acceptance Wisdom Meditation Soulforce Reincarnation Afterlife Divine energy Healing and balance Equilibrium Forgiveness Brotherhood Support and protection Meaning Purpose Authenticity living an authentic life Energy Will power Karma.. Most people who do good or have noble intentions are naturally protected and are comfortable with and provided for in their lives. Others who are evil tend to live in in the most disgusting conditions. Stages in spirituality 1..You will start hating the world or see everything as pointless or dysfunctional and delusional 2..You will see all the illusions created around you. 3..You will be less selfish and your prayers will be for sincere reasons. 4....You might be depressed but even in hopelessness or despair you will either be peaceful or hopeful and positive. 5...You will experience a strange kind of peace. 6..You will have a more open and bigger heart and you will be be able to accept suffering more openly without conflict. 7...Love and empathy will appear to be the most important element of existence. 8..Everything will have the perspective of love. 9..You might begin to dislike people and their behavior will appear as very selfish and immature and as a result you will dissociate and detach yourself from people and become a loner. You will begin to embrace solitude more than before. 10.....All creatures will appear equal and equally important. 11....Life will seem like a transient flow of the human breath and you will no longer be afraid of death because death will appear like a beginning of a new journey into the afterlife. 12.....Life might seem pointless 13....There can be nihilistic tendencies. 14...Death will not appear as something miserable or saddening but rather peaceful and as a cessation of suffering or a way to put oneself out of one's miseries. 15....You will be less racist and more accepting of other cultures, races and differences. You will be less prejudiced or biased. You will be less judgemental. 16....It helps you to love yourself better. In a devoted kind of way.. Not in a Narcissistic way. If you're struggling with self destructive behavior, it helps to feel more connected to your body and mind and you begin to radiate love and that love reaches to your own body and mind as well, in a way your own love that emerges from you nourishes you. It really heals self pity and self destructive tendencies 17......You begin to respect yourself and your body much more. 18....It helps heal neurotic tendencies and mental illnesses. 19...You will be less miserable and sadistic You will be empathetic to other's suffering. 20...You will want happiness abundance and prosperity. 21.. You will try to minimize problems and chaos. 22...You will understand the spiritual side and the physical nature of things. 23....You will have a better sense of intuition and inner connection. 24...You will more connected to your inner spirit. 25...You will feel liberated. 26..You will have more compassion. 27....Your will be strong and you will bravely face difficulties and problems 28...You will be more forgiving and you will see mankind as stupid and foolish. 29....You will be wiser with your choices. 30....You will value principles over materialism, gains and benefits. - - - - - - - - - + + Focus Spirituality and health and less on emotions.

The bad can be taken out and sloughed off and the good can be grown. That's called spiritual surgery. Video games are extremely addictive and destructive. More addictive than studies. They can cause a lot of trouble. They are very stressful. Women from damaged families can seek abusive partners. A healthy source of engagement, distraction and stimulation needs to be found out.

Prayer is a part of spiritual growth. It's about building spiritual will power and soulforce. -- - - - - - - - - - For God you are more than adequate. God perfectly eclipses all of your imperfections and loves you despite them. You don't need the love of the world.

Flow tasks bridge situation appropriate urgent Umbrella list Context tasks Goalboard Self criticism questionnaire - accountability buddy Breakthrough point Implementation days Know Attract. Based on the law of attraction. Be connected to the universe. Envision Visualize Create Focus /give attention Grow and build Sustain /maintain Heal /regenerate /rejuvenate

Flow tasks bridge situation appropriate urgent Umbrella list Context tasks Goalboard Self criticism questionnaire - accountability buddy Breakthrough point Implementation days

Self criticism questionnaire.

You have to build, you have to heal, you have to sustain When you are responsible with what you have, the universe gives you more. Spirituality also means not only cultivating empathy and love and living in it but also living in alignment with the universe. The forces of the universe are stronger than the forces of reality. Energy grows where energy goes. The word done excites us. Use it in positive affirmations. Bite size digestable, palatable, moments of achievement. First focus on the micro win. It takes 9 micro wins to get you to 1 macro win Lay out every single micro step that will get you to your micro win or micro goal. Every fourth step is our milestone. And celebrate. You need an accountability buddy Ambiguous goals bring ambiguous results. Be crystal clear Eat, breathe and sleep your goals. Envision your steps and achievements. Create your reality. You can create your own reality in this world of realities. You have to write down the lies you believe about yourself. Nothing matters in the end. AND that's liberating and powerful. Loving yourself is growing in love. I'm willing to forgive you not just because I am done hurting and because I wish to let go but also because I love myself more and I don't want to be hurt anymore. I want to free my spirit _ _ - - - - - - - - - - - - - The universe has everything to give you to make your life bigger and better.

Perfectly manage your imperfections and manage and embrace and be in peace with it. Your what should be so big.. Your why should be so big. Your goals need to be big. Give yourself the permission to fail all the time Use spiritual force to solve your problems.