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Chapter 126 3rd sequence box

Chapter 125 December 5 2018 The relationship ended on 16 November 2018, when he said he was waiting for her. Waiting for her to take him back. It was over then. He loves her of course.

Maybe the person did not have those intentions initially but the building up of resentment planted those intentions. Or the resentment and frustration were the seed for the intentions.

Chapter 124 Im trying to learn I'm trying to move from naivety to maturity. Hopefully I will get there some day.. Not easy I know. But I will make it. I've already made tremendous progress.

Chapter 123 4 things in a relationship Do not be in a relationship with a married person no matter what. Second let's say they are divorcing. So even if he gives this picture that he is sad and that he is just going to separate from his wife, it's all bull, he or she is manipulative. They are seeking their needs or in other words trying to take advantage. He is keeping a cloud of doubt whether the divorce will really happen or not. Maybe it wont, maybe it will. This is a situation of high uncertainty. It's very chaotic and toxic and best to avoid.. Do not be in a relationship with a person who is already divorced. Let's say he is trying to involve his ex. That's again uncertainty. He may not have completely gotten over or moved on. Again there could be another love triangle. This can be unnecessary psychological burden or stress. Do not ever play second fiddle to his family, friends, ex, wife, boss etc etc etc... You have to be number one priority any case. Move on immediately when a person makes an odd comment and it didn't make any sense. Do not wait for him to cover his bases and justify himself. In other words do not give him a chance to manipulate you and make you forget the situation. This is dangerous. You could get too lenient in the name of love. So the moment you see a red flag, you can confront and argue but stick to your decision at the back of your mind and dump the person promptly. Ignoring red flags can be very dangerous. Right there when an inappropriate thing has happened which doesn't feel right to you, just walk away. Fall in love. That's not a bad thing. But try to figure out next whether this is healthy or not. Love is something else, relationship is something else entirely. See if it is toxic in any way to you. And if it is not healthy for you mentally to be involved with someone who is either manipulative, creating a triangle situation with someone else, not committed, emotionally abusive, uncaring, not trustworthy, not faithful, all these situations and more which are basically signs of unhealthy behaviors or unhealthy relationships, get out of it, love is fine but the relationship needs to end at the earliest and you gotta save your time. Love is not so cheap to be wasted on an unhealthy relationship. Save this love you have for someone who is more deserving.

Chapter 122 When a discussion is confusing, you are talking to a narcissist. A wonderful quality is called decency. And people who are decent just avoid certain behaviors and words. Decency is a representation of humility, innocence, purity, intelligence. High IQ folks bring peace and humility and talk with grace and are productive and understanding. Low IQ people are destructive, less cohesive and bring chaos and misery. They are not growth oriented. They create problems. And they are not humble. They are either bratty, arrogant, snobbish,.aggressive.

Chapter 121 Back. 2nd box is

Chapter 120 It's finally over. November 28.

Chapter 119 Ist box. Today is

Chapter 118.. So tired right now Innocence can be expressed in 3 ways Innocence of intent - that is there was no intention to cause harm. The innermost intent is pure and free from blemish or corruption. It's not fraudulent. It is pure and it does not want to harm. So any wrong that happened is a result of accident or retaliation or self defense but not with a cold hearted bad intention. Innocence of natural instinct - whatever happened was genuine and not cold hearted or premeditated. It was the spur of the moment or many moments and raging instincts that cannot be controlled. It might also have been caused by drugs. So it is innocent because it is purely out of uncontrollable instinct and not by setting the mind or heart to it. Innocence of admittance. Now admitting to some wrongdoing can happen in 2 ways- pre or post. Before the wrong act or after the wrong act. Before the wrong act means maybe you are looking for a solution or preventive measure. You want to prevent the wrong thing from happening. Admitting after the wrong act means you are looking for a curative measure.. What is innocence aimed at It is a foundation or a stepping stone towards the building of morality and good behavior. Maybe that's why it's attractive. It's like the number zero, where any positive integer starts from it. And all negative integers end to it. There is something naturally appealing about sincerity, honesty, innocence, purity that makes it more vulnerable and also more deserving of fair treatment. Justice is done to those who have innocence in their hearts.

Chapter 117 When you wake up in the morning, you can ask yourself. That's the very first thing "what do I want to have accomplished today?" Make a list... Short one. At the end of the day, Say, "my day has been very fulfilling" "today I'm fulfilled." Remember brick by brick and sequence boxes and building.

Chapter 116 Zvether is the outer ego and zvethiss is the inner ego. God's beauty is reflected through us. For this we need to connect to his greatness. God works through us. God's greatness is shown through the journey of our life. God can turn our lives into a beautiful piece of glory and memory. Into a work of art. What do we need for life Survival.... Conditions and provision. Food... Provision Work...... Provision Wealth... Provision Material resources... Provision. Purpose... Grace Adventure and Passion.. Grace Inventions and creativity.. Grace. Talent, ability and skill.. Zvether and Grace Health..... Zvether Beauty...... Zvether Protection from harm/toxicity... God's Guardian spirit Problem Resolution... God's Intelligence and Guidance Motivation /Will....... God's nurturing spirit. Challenges... God's tough love. Love...... God's love and grace Good nature.... Zhin Knowledge.... Provision Longevity... Provision Family... Provision Joy... Love and grace Strength.... Zee. Life force... Zveth.. Grace. I'm fulfilled by God's grace.

Zveth Zvether and zvethiss Zhin and Dzhin Zee.

Chapter 114.. Desiring - - > visualization - - >crystallization - - >manifestation

nothing will be impossible. Only good intentions are needed. And the power of divine grace will always take care of the rest. You only need a honest pure heart with goodness and purity.

Chapter 112. Two great qualities are empathy and innocence and honesty. God does not create anything. Because his creation cannot be imperfect. God heals everything. Godliness heals.. Godliness makes all the good happen. Everything gets tainted when there is a selfish motive behind it. For example, love is considered sacred. But when there is a selfish intent in love, then it's selfish love, it's no longer sacred. Therefore there is always a human aspect to everything and so it cannot be perfect or sacred. It is sacred only when it comes from God or when its pure and with good intentions. Otherwise it's neutral or selfish.. So even the best emotions or qualities or virtues can be tainted when there is human selfishness attached to it.

Chapter 111 The truth is everything is all about intentions. There is something that is human, something selfish or something sacred or innocent. Human kindness and divine kindness. Human compassion and divine compassion. Human love and divine love. Selfish kindness or fake humanitarianism..

The person who loves you deeply will show blind devotion, unbreakable loyalty and trust, no judgment. All judgment is selfishness and emotional manipulation. Those who love you truly will also be truly invested in you. If they get calculative and savvy then they can't love because they are selfish. They are not showing devotion or loyalty. They are using their brains and not their heart. When someone shows deep trust and unquestioning loyalty, that is they choose to ignore your wrongdoings or your flaws it could be for many reasons 1. They truly love and they are weak in love. They choose to let go and forgive because they don't want to lose you. They are weak and so they show complete loyalty. They don't want to judge you. They want to love you beyond judgment. Despite knowing everything about you they still want to love you. They don't seek their good, rather they sometimes sacrifice their good for your happiness. They love you no matter what. So they try to get along with you. They can even put up with abuse because they don't want to lose that person. 2. They are getting something from you. Therefore they don't care what you are, what good or bad you do. They are using you. So as long as they can use you, they don't care if you are good or bad. 3. They have a selfish loyalty to you. They want to keep the relationship. They don't want arguments and conflicts. All they care about is you and them being happy. Rest does not matter. They are not wanting to offend the spouse. As long as they get along with their partner and they are happy together, someone else's suffering does not matter. They are like, "I don't want to ruin my relationship." 8f they are happy together, nothing else matters, everything is fine and happy. They are like a team. So they show a lot of loyalty to each other and do not disagree or fight with each other especially not when other's feelings are concerned. They are not going to fight with each other over other people. They are not going to allow others to become a problem between them. There is this eternal battle between love and morality.

Chapter 109 Sequence building and boxes Every sequence box contains information which is useful to carry the next set of tasks or goals. Boxes connect to each other in a cohesive fashion to contain both related and unrelated pieces of information and help build a sequence throughout the day. These boxes also contain bricks. This is exciting. Once all boxes have fallen into a symmetry or a flow or a rhythm then a sequence or pattern develops and follows.

Chapter 108 I'm trying to explore the idea of love. From philosophical perspective, love should be ethereal innocent, Empathetic, beautiful, giving, caring, discerning, wise. In reality love is blind, sometimes foolish sometimes smart, emotional manipulation, self-centeredness, love is control, a contract, abusive, stockholm syndromish, selfish, bonded, not generous, love is selfless sometimes,love is weak, love is submission and control, turning a blind eye to the bad things that the spouse does. Love is unquestioning uncritical unshakeable, unbreakable, selfish blind devotion and loyalty. Love can take two forms. Selflessness and Selfishness. Both are forms of love. Wisdom lies in protecting everyone's interests. Wisdom is above love. True love is not selfish. Love which is selfish is just a bond. True selfless love is sacred. Good people seek the good of all, not just themselves.

Chapter 107 I will be discussing sequence building and sequence blocks and the role of Solis. The role of Solis An Empathetic listener Imparts justice Resolves troubles Understands pain Does not judge Helper Sculptor or Designer Giver of grace or provider Guardian Safekeeper Friend Guide Imparts powers.. Spiritual and emotional Opens a path Opens possibilities Heals Improves Strengthens Supports Never abandons Builds Loves Fulfills

I believe negative energies can come from fights and the presence of a negative or destructive person. I've experienced this in my childhood home. One negative person is enough to upset the positive vibe of the home. Try to find who is responsible for the cause of the negativity and avoid such people. Also maintain peace and quiet and less noise or fights. Work on yourself to be more peaceful and happy. I've seen that happiness makes a difference. It compensates for the sadness created by the person. It offsets the negative energy at least in your own room. Flowers make a difference. Fresh flowers arranged in a vase. An open window letting in sunshine and lots of air. A few potted indoor plants. A Buddha statue or any religious idol if you are a religious person. Incense also brings a positive feeling. Praying and meditating in the room will also disperse the negativity. Also listen to happy music as soon as you wake up early morning. Watch humorous shows or clips to keep you in a good mood. Your good mood will uplift the energy of the room Hope this helped.

Chapter 105 Human is ordinary. Divine is extraordinary. Representations for Zveth, zvethiss and Zvether. Zveth by the Celtic knot, or flame or ocean. Zvethiss by the inner voice or inner feeling. Zvether by the outer voice or just words that the ego speaks. The desires of the zvethiss arise in the soul. The soul is spiritual therefore stronger. However it's not sacred. Therefore the desires of the zvethiss can be compromised by the Dzhin. Zveth is the ocean and the zvethiss is the waves. Your innermost feelings. They could be right or wrong, for your better or worse. They are not necessarily perfect. But they are internal and hence more attuned to your inner soul. More compliant to your spiritual nature. Hence better than desires of the physical nature or desires of the Zvether. But are they completely perfect and righteous? No. They can be impure too. They are pacified by the higher forces of the Dzhin. At the end of the day, even the spiritual part is still human, not divine. Just spiritual. Zvether can be described or represented by a tree because it's static and immutable. Very stationary and unchangeable.

Chapter 104 Solis Strengthens the zee Purifies the Zhin Improves the Zvether Pacifies the zvethiss plants benevolent desires in the Zveth. Brings growth and hope Gives grace. Resolves problems /troubles or instability. Provides support Restores harmony and peace Keeps the heart pure. Brings ultimate positive transformation and creates a beautiful haven. Fulfillment The Zveth or soul is like an ocean in which emotions and desires emerge like waves. It's like a ocean that keeps flowing and moving. A flame that keeps burning.