Preety_India

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  1. Today is action day.
  2. Im going to describe 2 concepts here. One is Emotional Cleansing. And the other is Emotional Upliftment Emotional cleansing is getting rid of toxic emotions and toxic causes. Emotional upliftment is like a juice that nourishes you. It's a supply that is needed to feel active, loved, supported and emotionally energized everyday. Everyday you need to feel emotionally energized in order to feel active and motivated in life. I have to ask myself, "Do i feel emotionally energized today?" Emotional cleansing - - - - - leads to-- - - - >emotional freedom and less damage or impact of toxic emotional states. Helps to recognize toxic states, helps to heal faster, saving oneself from damage or further damage. Emotional upliftment - - - - leads to- - - - - - >you feel emotionally energized and motivated to do things and helps heal or prevent toxic emotional buildup.
  3. This thing is really helping me so much now. All I have to plug in are words like the whole G thinv "loneliness" same as deprivation "depression" ". Deprivation " lack of love or affection and attention " Inadequacy " low self esteem, feeling inadequate " dispiritedness" discouragement, absence of encouragement, motivation, upliftment, absence of support and boosting. Because all i have to do is just plug in those words and i realize my state of mind.
  4. They say it right in the native American Indian culture. You should have a spirit animal.
  5. Twin flame guardian. ❤️❤️????❤️❤️❤️❤️?
  6. Twin Flame. Twin flame can be used as a tarot. Twin flame can be a guardian but not a provider. The affection a guardian is closest to the love felt with God. There is a distinction here. A romantic partner or spouse is just a partner and can be called Twin Flame Partner. But a guardian is different. With a spouse you have fights but a guardian will stay true despite the fights. You break up with a spouse. But you never forget your guardian. Guardian shows unconditional love just like God. Therefore we have two here - Twin flame partner and Twin Flame Guardian. God shows the same love as a guardian. But God is also a provider. Whereas a guardian is a supporter.
  7. Alter visualization helps in alignment of goals. It's the entire set up along with the alter ego. It's based on 3 principles Law of attraction Law of dividend (through visualization) Law of flexibility Law of attraction You attract whatever you think or love Law of dividend - you derive the most from an experience visualized, at least a fraction of what that experience might in real time. Law of flexibility , you can change your circumstances in any way you want but there will be limitations. The last concept is "Emotional Cleansing." you cleanse everything unwanted, emotionally, mentally detrimental and everything toxic from your life. Alter Ego is based on promotion of healthy ego or zvether. Although disengagement from ego can be practiced during detachment contemplation.
  8. What has Godzilla taught me A lot.
  9. This is a nice list And Emotional cleansing which is explained in the post after the post below. Twin flame Guardian Twin flame partner.
  10. Techniques of alienation Keep minimum contact No show of affection Block on the main account Decision to break up Avoid inflammatory topics Do not fight Be passive No affectionate words or expressions No appreciation Monotonous replies No fights 5 word replies Silent treatment Keep acting like I'm busy Keep acting like I'm sleepy, bored, passive, uninterested, not feeling well, miserable, forgotten, forsaken, depressed, listless, like talking to an uninteresting person.
  11. I'm putting end to this toxic relationship at last. It's not ok to continue with it. It's toxic. Since I'm not able to completely block him, I'm going to use alienation as a strategy to get away from him. I'm going to alienate myself from him. That's the best way to get away from him He is a bipolar narcissist. He is very selfish. I will just avoid him as much as possible. I will communicate with him every 2 days and mostly avoid as much as possible. I will put my own conditions on my communication with him. If he wants it he can communicate with me that way, if he blocks me, I have no problem. I have already blocked him on my main account. That's not gonna change. He deserves that for being a dick head. This has gone too far and it needs to stop. I won't be humiliated anymore. I am not even affected by his flirting. It doesn't matter.
  12. Some days I'm going to write about the godzilla theme. Godzilla movies have always fascinated me.
  13. You have to put in a lot of effort in removing him from your mind. A lot of effort. Keep pushing this bipolar piece of shit out of your head. Stop thinking about him.... Focus on other things. Stop wanting his attention. Stop looking for him.
  14. You could ask questions to Sam Harris on reddit i guess, not sure .
  15. Alter visualization helps a lot with trying to achieve goals It helps in aligning the goals to how you want them to be closest to how your mind wants.
  16. This guy has a mental illness and he is a hater and he constantly gets evicted. Keeps picking up fights with everyone even on a bus, so bizzare, He loves to provoke, trigger, hate, get offensive. He is moody stubborn, bipolar, obsessed with women and popularity and fake charms. He thinks talent is everything. What a piece of shit. Past 5 days he's been acting like a mean mean bully
  17. I'm getting this new concept today and I will call it heath Heath is a piece of uncultivated land with a lot of shrubs. Last time I talked about the peaceful road and closure. And I called it natural living. The joie de vivre. The blur basically. But I don't wanna feel the blur. I came up with some more. I will call it heath. Heath is a special place where there is no hate, away from all the hate and aggression, beautiful place of only love.. Protected from all the hate. My own cocoon of love and peace. Now I've assembled all of it together. Spirituality Spiritual struggle or war Divinity Peaceful road and closure, natural living, eudomonia, joie de vivre. Heath - my own cocoon of love and peace. Guided spiritual meditation for filling the empty space , Swan manual, tarot cards, the spirit exercise(water exercise), contemplation exercises, parts of mind exercises, review contemplation, brail exercise. Cup exercise. Amazonian tea trip report Tremendous Spiritual experience or SLSCE, or SCE or Self love Soul Communication Experience, or Soul Communication Experience. Good considerations and bad considerations Spirituality Podcast Endless rumination and endless loop. Emotionally complicated individuals Types of truths Ways to solve a problem. Expansion of the field of awareness Alter Egos. And alter visualization.
  18. Relationship advice to myself Have a lot of friends. It gives you exposure It helps you to match and compare abusive patterns It helps to cut off toxic people easily It acts as a support system for advice in the absence of therapist Have therapists or life coaches if you can afford Read about different personality disorders like NPD, bipolar, borderline. Read advice about relationships Cut off people who do not agree with you or do not show harmony like constant disagreement and constant contradiction, criticism, even mildly critical, lack of appreciation, big red flag A bad relationship is where a person is not ready to have a sit down after a fight. Like they dont Care. There is no sign of conflict resolution. Biggest red flag. When the person is telling you that they don't like you and they still call you or want you. That's very abusive . A normal person will cut off the relationship when they have stopped liking the person. Don't be vulnerable Hate is strong. Do not be with a person who hates you. Learn to easily spot passive aggressive behavior Minimum 6 months. Relationship withdrawal. Red flag Stop caring. Save yourself from caregiver Burnout, compassion fatigue. Use exposure tricks Abusers and manipulators are good at rationalizing their evil or bad behaviors. Do not wait for a tragic end time. Psychology of patience and hope should be avoided. In fact it should be opposite. Be a little impatient and quick. Use the theorem or mantra "better now than later".
  19. I'm thinking about the peaceful road. The road to peace and closure ---------------------------- You have to build your own road. Your peaceful road through life. Your home of peace, your living or livelihood of peace. You have to assemble the necessary parts or things for it, build it, and sustain it and maintain it, that's natural living, you have to build that peaceful life. You have to build that peaceful road by yourself. An existence where you will only have peace even in the middle of all the chaos. You have to seek closure, you have to bring closure, a point where everything starts to make sense and nothing more needs anymore figuring out, where you can have a stable life living peacefully and happily and blissfully oblivious and just feeling normal tiil the end of life. It's called the joie de vivre (pronounced as zwaah duh veev, this pronunciation screwed me) of life, seeking the joy in normal living. ❤️❤️
  20. This week I'm far away from my home. After a week, I'll try to make peace with my mom.
  21. I thought about it. My knowledge should exist out there for the world. I will help humanity in whatever way I can. So yep, one day when I feel I have not much to write, I will write a book out of whatever my thoughts have collected over the years, I will fear it might look like an encyclopedia but I don't care, I will keep stuffing my book till it becomes fatter and fatter. Thanks for your thoughtfulness. Appreciated.
  22. Are we spiritual beings having a human experience or are we human beings having a spiritual experience? ❤️
  23. I don't know exactly how to frame this question. It's complicated. I'm not so much of a realist. I'm more on the idealistic side. But there is always this conflict in my mind about two things that have bothered me for some time. It's a conflict between reality and morality. I am not good at articulating so it might appear like I'm all over the place. Sorry for that. So here's the thing. I and my friend always have this argument about things like kids, obesity, mental illness, beauty, money etc. And she is a bit on the harsher side. That is she does not find any problem in fat shaming, she would not like disabled kids, she would not find them worthy or productive, she is more about money and achievements in life and success and having good genes. So she gets very judgemental about people in general, like if someone is obese, they are automatically losers in her eyes, or if someone is unemployed they do not deserve respect or value. And when I argue with her, she tries to give me logical reasons behind it like "how are these people productive or how unsuccessful they are," I can say I'm more of the hippie type who believes in living a free life untethered to social standards of what's desirable and what's not. In my mind, I use morality to defend my perspectives, that God created everyone equal and that I shouldn't judge anyone, everyone is beautiful, every child is worthy, but she doesn't like my perspective and says that I need to be practical. So I was in this relationship where the guy was, you know, not making much but I was happy with him, but she was constantly referring to his lifestyle and being critical of me being with him and that I needed to be with someone having more money and status. And I said to her that these things do not matter to me and she argued saying that I'm stupid and being unrealistic and that I wouldn't make it far in life with this attitude. I am honestly confused with this whole conflict between reality, social engineering and morality because I'm on the spiritual path and here such things don't make much sense. So I really don't know which side to pick or how to think, sometimes I feel she may be right because if everyone was unrealistic like me, then we wouldn't progress on a social scale or end up creating a society of hippies or losers with no rational aim in life. I do not call them losers, but that's how a lot of people in society think of those that do not focus on wealth and status. So this conflict is bugging me. I feel like I'm right and sometimes I think I should think more like her. I'm not able to make up my mind as to which perspective is the right one. She tells me to look at facts and not emotions, to use logic and reasoning. But I find her reasoning harsh and judgemental and critical of those who need understanding rather than judgment and I find it ungracious and unaccomodating. Sort of myopic. She is not a bad person, she is just logical but I'm confused how I should think about everything in life.
  24. @nistake My sign is vital. But my hands are not cold.