WaveInTheOcean

It's fucking hilarious we are sitting here on a self-development forum and the advice is to go on a carnivore diet. If the whole world did that, in a few years the global warming will have made the oceans flood over your cute little luxury houses in USA. Talk about karma, biting yourself in the ass! ? Meat, especially beef, lamb and to some extent pork is terribly bad in regards to emission of green house gasses, and you all know it. Ans I'm not even talking about the other issues of mammals suffering in the billions, massive amounts of rainforest being cut down to soy plantations (to feed up the fucking pigs instead of giving those VEGAN insanely nutritious soy beans to the starving kids in Uganda), massive amounts of waste of water. Seriously, I fucking hope @Leo Gura you at least go for mostly chicken meat.

But yes, the "let girls pursue"-mindset probably fits men like Daniel (and his dad) who are far beyond stage orange in all aspects of self-development and are well-balanced and self-contained, and don't "need" to prove themselves by fucking a lot of women...They are already so at peace with themselves, exudes so much natural charisma and confidence, that girls naturally will come to them (to some degree).

If there is no self, there are no trees outside either, huh?

They just do. Not so relevant why do they do it:D They break down the default mode network, we could say (a lot of science points to that), making it easier for you to "step outside" of yourself and view your life from a 3rd person's kind of view. They trigger neuroplasticity, making you more open-minded and more able to change behaviour, beliefs, etc. They increase the entropy of the brain-signaling. Neural networks normally never "talking" to eacher other in your brain begins talkin' to each other, while other networks normally communicating stop communicating. I believe psychedelics sort of shuts down many of the survival-network-structures running in your brain, thus increasing your raw consciousness... like consciousness without focus on physical and social survival.

@ardacigin If you want some serious lifting of brain fog try: - eating mostly vegan (healthy vegan food that is) - restricting your eating-window to 8-10 hours (fasting when you wake up for like 3-4 hours is so fucking great. You feel light in body and mind and it's so nice to exercise and meditate on an empty stomach) - exercise multiple times a week. Especially running is fantastic. - meditating 30-60 min every morning pref. AFTER exercise on an empty stomach - just don't eat tuna and other products you know contain many heavy metals. Given, I live in Denmark and we have a strict food control here from the authorities, so it's harder to get too many heavy metals inside your body. But anyway, I don't buy into the whole "even 1 heavy metal atom in your body ruins your level of consciousness"-religion @Leo Gura seems to have bought into. =DD

I think some (many) girls will find it very comforting and actually attractive / be turned on, if you while making out with her (and can tell she's a bit nervous, slightly hesitant) then suddenly stop and smile and say something like "woah I don't know if we should do this, I just got so lost in the moment, I'm sorry if I did anything wrong"... Chances are she will now like you even more for saying that, feel very safe and like you really care about her (safety is one of the most important things for the feminine, necessary for her to be able to get horny) and reply: "you didn't do anything wrong, come here".

Great post! (Yes this forum is bugged a bit on phones)

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Exactly

QFT In general to Lyobuv, Emerald and others (thx for participating and giving ur thoughts): Of course the man should approach a woman he is attracted to. That's obvious, cos men get turned on easier while women's attraction takes time (and effort) to ramp up. What I'm and Daniel is reffering to is simply that after you have approached her (let's say she doesn't reject you, which is already a good sign) and have lead the way: eg. you end up on a date at your place, ate dinner, had good talks, and are watching a movie in the sofa..., then of course yes, you have to initiate with touch. And then see how she reacts to you touching her (can be as simple as crossing fingers and letting your fingers tease hers/her thumb, like playing around, being slightly dominating. If she's accepting playful touch, she's 99% ready for a kiss. So when the movie ends (it's a good movie and you want to finish it!) you naturally go for the kiss. Now, while kissing it should be very easy for you to feel whether or whether not she's in for more (sex). Is she moaning while kissing, like really enjoying it, letting you touch her all over the body and even touching you back? Well, then she has basically pursued you for sex and you go ahead. You approached, lead the way, initiated, but SHE gave the final "let's have sex NOW!" signal TO YOU, by virtue of her not hiding that she's enjoying the kissing/making out and obviously signaling to you she's ready for more. That's what Daniel means by letting "her pursue." If you don't let her pursue but instead do it yourself, that would be like kissing her before touching her, or kissing her even if she didn't seem to enjoy getting touched. Or worse: you kissed her/are kissing her, but she is giving you zero signals she's enjoying it -- perhaps even the opposite! -- but you don't give a damn, and start taking off her clothes...: don't do that! That's basically the advice given here, and it should really apply to all stages of development. Don't be a fucking selfish dick, in other words:-) That's the lesson. It's a very big thing - often - for a woman to have sex with a new guy and let him penetrate her. Emotionally, physically. On all levels. (Makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, she could get pregnant!). Therefore it's vital -- if you care about her -- that she give you the full go-to signal before you aggressively pursue sex with her (taking of her panties, touching her down there etc.) It doesn't have to be verbally of course, -- my original post was slightly misleading.

"the earth" is a concept referring directly to the whole of the "land" we live on. Therefore saying it's round is the higher and more true perspective. If you're talking about whether the ground (you're standing on right now) is flat or round, then we could say flat is more true:-)

How would you treat your best friend? What advice? What would you tell him? Treat yourself like you'd treat your best friend/brother/sister.

I got zero clue what you are referring to since I didn't say a word about what those hints could be. You got any idea? Care to elaborate? Or did you just misinterpret what I wrote?

Of course you should set the stage ready for her to pursue. Do everything that makes her want to pursue. I.e. embody your masculinity in a healthy way, be funny, relaxed, carefree, unattached, lead the way, be confident. Give her subtle hints you would love to tear her pants off and fuck her, but don't actually do"that" until she is begging you for it;) Mens sexuality is more explicit, while women's is more implicit. The trick is for the man to make his very explicit sexuality implicit and make the women's implicit sexuality explicit. That's it boys. I feel women are actually a lot more sexual than men when they first get turned on. Men get turned on easier, yes, but then it's mostly just a quick fuck and you're done/pleased. Women can go on forever, never getting enough. Make her turned on by your way of being. Then she will pursue the sex with you.

Sweet

Amazing movie. Made me cry.

The objective World is nice and fine and all, lot of things to learn (apparently), yet even the ? is imagined by you. The outside is inside ☯️?

Ppl die everyday, so yes. Obv.

Haha. No and yes. Really if you do it then yes. This is so simple and obvious and it's funny I have to say it: but hey God, hello, yes you, -- you're God! ???

The purpose is Love. What else?

Smoke dmt. Simple.

You sir, have a good taste. Watched all of those (and Really liked them) except revolver. May I recommend, to everyone, the movie Ex Machina. Simply put a class movie on all levels.

Yeah everything that happens is perfectly synchronized for everybody (everybody being One). But sometimes, the synchronicities are more 'obvious' to the separate ego-body-mind. That's what we actual like to call 'synchronicities'.

Great! Lots of neuroscience supports the brain's need for winding down briefly between bouts of deep work/learning. Keep it up.

On the way to truth there will most likely be some crises. Hard ones. There has been at least for me. Dark night of the soul and all that jazz. But once you get past that, the truth shall set you free!