WaveInTheOcean

You pulled these numbers out of your ass? Even let's pretend it's true, what prevents YOU as a current victim from becoming the top 15%? Looks? Money? Charisma? Self-Love? Check you're limiting beliefs. Grow some balls. Talk to girls. Practice self love. Watch the charisma on command YouTube channel. There are *infinitely* many things you could do to improve your situation. Trust me, I've been where you are. The victim mindset. But it's possible to get out. Hard work as you say. Rewarding AF tho. Let's go bro ?????? You keep talking from the pov of guys. What about the poor women who can't find any confident, funny, charismatic, strong guys? They're left with dog shit: shy, unconfident boys like you (and me +2 years ago) ??? Screw the good luck part. I wanna take your false victim mind set and throw in the bin. Screw that. There's no luck in this dream you're dreaming as God pretending to be Karmadhi. Absolutely speaking: Everything is happening very very very delibaretly; "luck" is just something you imagine! This is puke inducing to read for me. Look bro. Human beings, women, girls are NOT a fucking commodity you sick fuck. For fuck sake. Jesus christ. They are human beings! Go and talk to them!! Be funny, say something silly. What's the worst thing that can happen? Are you afraid they will instantly shove your pants off and bite your dick off if you approach them? Let go of limiting beliefs. The world -- existence, life -- will never be good unless you are willing to see its goodness. What you experience depends on how you look at things. When you look with judgement -- either upon yourself, the world or both -- life seems twisted and empty. When you begin to look with an open heart and mind, life becomes fascinating and full of both meaning and mystery. When you realize the perfection, intelligence and beauty of everything in existence precisely as it is (without the filters of ego; yes, drop them - let go!), you see that every outcome is a good one. You start to live life fully without fear and regret. You learn and move on. When you look with love instead of judgement, you see a whole different world. Life isn't easy all the time. You're not alone. For there to be joy, there has to be some pain. So instead of looking at the painful life-phases that you're undergoing as "bad", look at them as absolutely necessary and beneficial in the long run for your own growth and eventual happiness. Remember, nothing lasts forever, everything passes away at some point. 0. Knowledge is but a rumor until it lives in the body/bones. 1. Reality is non-dual. Non-duality means: Not one, not two. The question is: do you get it or not? For example, let's take the extreme duality: good - bad . Obviously complete opposites. Right? Well, not so fast. "Apply non-duality to it": Reality is not: bad Reality is not: good (either) Reality is not: "good AND bad" (paradox). Reality is: __________________ (Or you 'could' say: "bad-good"). 2. To let go of power is to gain power. 3. To let go of control is to gain control The real unreal The unreal real Form is Emptiness, Emptiness is Form. You can't eat the menu. The map is not the territory. The finger pointing to the moon... is NOT the moon. Stop trying to live life in your head! Can you bite your own teeth? Can eyes looking out ever see from where they are looking? Can a fist grasp itself?... What a caterpillar calls the end of the world..., we call a ??? butterfly. Haha more victim mindset. Of course dude, for there to be guys who are wanted there has to be guys who are not wanted. You see? You can't have light without dark, up without down, heads without tails, better without worse. Etc. Life is a musical thing. A dance. Go out and participate. Play some fucking nodes instead of wasting life on this silly forum. Dance!?????‍♂️ No, it's also about you. Problems are something YOU (as God) are imagining into existence. https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/875661.Rumi “This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all… It’s just the way it is. What’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation.. It’s not just letting go. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything.” ~ Alan Watts “When you look for your own mind, that is to say, your own particularized center of being which is separate from everything else, you won’t be able to find it. But the only way you’ll know it isn’t there is if you look for it hard enough, to find out that it isn’t there. And so everybody says ‘All right, know yourself, look within, find out who you are.’ Because the harder you look, you won’t be able to find it, and then you’ll realize it isn’t there at all. There isn’t a separate you. You’re mind is what there is. Everything. But the only way to find that out is to persist in the state of delusion as hard as possible…. So if a person believes that the Earth is flat, you can’t talk him out of that. He knows it’s flat. Look out the window and see; it’s obvious, it looks flat. So the only way to convince him it isn’t is to say ‘Well let’s go and find the edge.’ And in order to find the edge, you’ve got to be very careful not to walk in circles, you’ll never find it that way. So we’ve got to go consistently in a straight line due west along the same line of latitude, and eventually when we get back to where we started from, you’ve convinced the guy that the world is round. That’s the only way that will teach him. Because people can’t be talked out of illusions. There is another possibility, however. But this is more difficult to describe. Let’s say we take as the basic supposition–which is the thing that one sees in the experience of satori or awakening, or whatever you want to call it–that this now moment in which I’m talking and you’re listening, is eternity. That although we have somehow conned ourselves into the notion that this moment is ordinary, and that we may not feel very well, we’re sort of vaguely frustrated and worried and so on, and that it ought to be changed. This is IT! So you don’t need to do anything at all. But the difficulty about explaining that is that you mustn’t try and not do anything, because that’s doing something. It’s just the way it is. In other words, what’s required is a sort of act of super relaxation; it’s not ordinary relaxation. It’s not just letting go, as when you lie down on the floor and imagine that you’re heavy so you get into a state of muscular relaxation. It’s not like that. It’s being with yourself as you are without altering anything. And how to explain that? Because there’s nothing to explain. It is the way it is now. See? And if you understand that, it will automatically wake you up!” ... Life is not a problem to solve, but an experience to be had. However, sure - you can imagine all kinds of problems that "should" be solved (in order for you & the ? to be at peace ?️), but that is just it: imagination, fantasy, a dramatic good movie, a theater play, a book, a game... play ???. Life is what you choose to experience. The ultimate meaning of life is very simple: it's life itself! Of course! But this is so obvious that almost no one seems to buy into it, and everyone runs around in great panic and try desperately to achieve something beyond themselves. There isn't anything wrong with trying to achieve something beyond oneself, as long as one remembers it's just a cute game. But of course, we should all strive to make it a good game, a good dream, a good book, a good play, a good film...with total redemption for all dream-characters in the end ??❤️?. ------------_----------- https://youtu.be/wU0PYcCsL6o There’s aren’t enough words to describe how powerful this video is for me. It’s in my iPod and every single morning before I lift I listen to this speech. It’s absolutely stunning. Inspirational. Motivating. It’s everything to me. I would like for you to watch it and tell me what you think. We all should dream big. Without going after our dream, we cannot possibly live our best life. It is there for a reason. It’s necessary that we follow it…not just an option: "If you awaken from this illusion and you understand that black implies white, self implies other, life implies death (or shall I say death implies life?), you can feel yourself – not as a stranger in the world, not as something here on probation, not as something that has arrived here by fluke - but you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental. I am not trying to sell you on this idea in the sense of converting you to it, I want you to play with it. I want you to think of its possibilities, I am not trying to prove it. I am just putting it forward as a possibility of life to think about. So then, let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream you wanted to dream, and that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time, or any length of time you wanted to have. And you would, naturally, as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes. You would have every kind of pleasure you could conceive. And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each you would say “Well that was pretty great. But now let’s have a surprise, let’s have a dream which isn’t under control, where something is gonna happen to me that I don’t know what it's gonna be." And you would dig that and would come out of that and you would say “Wow that was a close shave, wasn’t it?”. Then you would get more and more adventurous and you would make further- and further-out gambles what you would dream. And finally, you would dream where you are now. You would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today. That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have. Of playing that you weren't God, because the whole nature of the godhead, according to this idea, is to play that he is not. So in this idea then, everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality, not God in a politically kingly sense, but god in the sense of being the self, the deep-down basic whatever there is. And you are all that, only you are pretending you are not." - Watts up, Alan? -------_------- "It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for. The damned thing in the cave that was so dreaded has become the center. You find the jewel, and it draws you off. In loving the spiritual, you cannot despise the earthly." - J. Campbell. From the english wiki about <Lila> ('divine play' in hinduism//sanskrit) : "The basic recurring theme in Hindu mythology is the creation of the world by the self-sacrifice of God—"sacrifice" in the original sense of "making sacred"—whereby God becomes the world which, in the end, becomes again God. This creative activity of the Divine is called lila, the play of God, and the world is seen as the stage of the divine play. Like most of Hindu mythology, the myth of lila has a strong magical flavour. Brahman is the great magician who transforms himself into the world and then performs this feat with his "magic creative power", which is the original meaning of maya in the Rig Veda. The word maya—one of the most important terms in Indian philosophy—has changed its meaning over the centuries. From the might, or power, of the divine actor and magician, it came to signify the psychological state of anybody under the spell of the magic play. As long as we confuse the myriad forms of the divine lila with reality, without perceiving the unity of Brahman underlying all these forms, we are under the spell of maya. (...) In the Hindu view of nature, then, all forms are relative, fluid and ever-changing maya, conjured up by the great magician of the divine play. The world of maya changes continuously, because the divine lila is a rhythmic, dynamic play. The dynamic force of the play is karma, an important concept of Indian thought. Karma means "action". It is the active principle of the play, the total universe in action, where everything is dynamically connected with everything else. In the words of the Gita Karma is the force of creation, wherefrom all things have their life." My metaphysics right there. Believe in the story that gives you most inner joy. Anything else is a form of silly autism.

Haha true enuff

No need for anything at all Just love Exactly. I don't want to. It's a silly game you're playing and I don't wanna waste time participating, yet here I am?! Disturbing indeed. Hehe. The last part about the dog whistle, can you elaborate? I feel autistic for not fully getting what you meaning; you're saying my unintelligent vulgar post is just more wood to the incels bonfire?

Why are such low conscious topics like this allowed? I'm getting nausea just reading three lines of op To op: grow some fucking balls you fucking pussy

Nice

What you call "the materalistic world" is just pure Consciousness. Of course Consciousness can create Consciousness.

Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Dont blame Leo lol The dude made his own decision Tragic of course Fucking hell And yes, maybe Leo/this forum/nahm could improve in communication to help prevent ppl take such retarded decisions as suicide. But don't you fucking blame Leo Love ya all ?????

You know how there is this meme/joke about girls telling men that when girls take a shit, what comes out of their ass is rainbows and unicorns? Every man *knows* it's a cute joke, ofc, right? No one actually believes it. Yet, how many of you have actually seen a mature girl's poop?:D To me, the feeling of spiritual enlightenment (realizing Goodness/Oneness/God/Love/Norhingness/Leela would be sort of the same as realizing that girls ACTUALLY poop ? rainbows? ? Imagine if you saw a girl poop rainbows. It would be a giant mindfuck on the one hand, but on the other hand nothing would change; girls always pooped rainbows, you just didn't know until now;) Before enlightenment, poop rainbows - after enlightenment...

Eternity and beyond The finite is approaching Infinity, and because it can never arrive, and can never die, it goes on growing, approaching Eternity and beyond. Just like all numbers in math already exist on a number line, all of Eternity already exists in an imaginary never-ending stream. Time is the road. Your light, the car on that road. This road will go on forever and ever. So don't rush - just enjoy the ride towards a destination which is infinitely far from you. You have unlimited time to get there. The realization is thus that the journey itself is the destination. Do you remember to enjoy the spectacular views on this infinite rollercoaster ride?

Loosely edited from RIP - you will be missed. ❤️❤️❤️

The reason why death (most of the time, especially if you have a decent life with decent opportunities) is so silly, is because it - ultimately speaking - changes nothing. That/he/she which thinks he/she can be killed/die/reborn/go somewhere/trip IS already death. Life = dead = life = dead = .... The dualistic view of life & death as opposites is an egoic, selfish, false, illusory view. In Truth life&death is identical. Completely identical.

I'm moved to tears to read this. I cannot offer any help, other than giving you this metaphor about hell (depression) and heaven (enlightenment): When you knock a bouncy ball very hard down into the hard ground, what happens to it?.... All my Love and prayers and thoughts to you and your family. I'm deeply moved :'(

Permanent enlightenment = God = Love = Truth = is always the case What matters is your Awareness/Consciousness of IT ... - which can vary a lot, yes (depending where your character is in "this dream-life", maya, Leela).... ???⚡⭐???????⚖️

The classical enneagram type 5 trap: replacing direct exp with concepts Go out and live boys. Stop wasting time here.

Good consideration bro!

it can be anything. what came to me was just girls & drugs lol, cos I seem to be into that right now. You know, 2CB, sex, DMT, Changa, more sex. <3 "i like the idea tho i think you might be right, i think i need to just dissociate from this world/identity in some cathartic way " Yeah. Do it somewhat mindfully, tho, right! I mean, maybe you should finish college first. Be smart. But being smart is also letting go of EVERYTHING, some times. Just time it right. Before We can Ascend, We must first Descend. Right? <3

Glad to see Leo finally getting to the level of Alan Watts =D Haha <3 I've only watched a hour of the video yet. Good stuff. I'd say the reason I cannot manifest 100.000 USD in my bank account out of thin air, is because I don't want to. If I really wanted to, of course I could, and I would. The "I" that thinks it wants sex, achievements, money etc, is mostly just a fantasy-I. The real 'I' doesn't want anything other than Love, i.e. Myself. And Love is always Now. Like Now. This. It's never x or Y. It's nothing and everything. It is Eternity. The present moment IS Eternity. Infinity. Absolute. Consciousness. God. Love. Infinite Intelligence. Tao. Étc;)) So Love can be anything. But the ego isn't in control. I am imagining a separate self (ego) that thinks it's in control, cos that's Love:D For some avatars it is Love to have millions of USD. For other avatars it's to have 0 USD. For Me, though -- Me as We that is Imagining All-Things -- it's all just ... Loveeeeeeeeee <3 Lose your mind & gain Mind.

your highest fear seem to be to stop. with "stop" I mean stepping outside the fucking hamster wheel for a minute or month or year or decade. Stop working on yourself. Start feeling. Take a break. Let go of everything. Go to an island. Meditate. Hang out with like-minded people. Take drugs. Watch stars. Talk to birds. Fuck someone you connect with. Etc. FEEL. LIVE. WITHOUT TRYING TO GET ANYWHERE. LIfe is NOT a journey. LIFE IS A MUSICAL THING. THERE IS NOTHING TO GET. JUST ENJOY IT. Ask yourself: What am I afraid of ? Then jump right into that fear. Life starts outside your comfort zone. You think you will fall into the abyss and get destroyed. But the Universe will make you a feather bed. I promise. It's all Good. Just magic.

Humans are imaginary. So of course We can imagine "humans" that can sustain all modes aka Infinity aka "We" . :-)

Ah the magic of it. Got ya. Well as long as you want to become aware it, you won't be, hehe. Paradox. DMT helps tho.

You don't create sound silly. Just as you don't know how you close your hands; you just do it. What I'm saying is just that there is nothing to understand You just create sound cos you're a magician! You very well know how you do it -- you just do it! Like how you work your thyroid gland... you just can't explain it. There is nothing to be explained

Nice ??????

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