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If you think it would really benefit you then go for a diagnosis. My advice is not to get hung up on it though, I think it’s nice to know as it can help you explain things but don’t let it get you down if you can help it.

Thank you genetics! I can reach things easily, see over crowds and get lots of “did you play basketball?” comments. I’ve always wondered what it’s like to be short.

I'm 6' tall and I strictly won't date a man shorter than me. This is only a recent standard I've implemented.

Of course

You can message me if you want!

Tough breakup? Haircut Bored? Haircut Welcoming a new stage in life? Haircut

@Leo Gura No hair is beautiful, too

wow wow wow!!! Such a good read thanks for sharing.

It's both real and imagined! I don't know about that second part. We are going to inherently be selfish so I wouldn't worry about it. We need a certain amount of rules and principles to exist.

I get plenty of vitamin D now but I am from a cloudy area and I somewhere heard it's pointless to take a supplement so I never did but it may have helped me! In the end, I'm much happier now that I have consistent sun exposure

Life's a trip in so many ways.Saying that life is an illusion shouldn't be used as an escape from dealing with feelings or to naively think there are no rules. Things are still Real and must be lived and experienced regardless of them being an illusion

Hair is beautiful. I've been especially interested in the special qualities of long hair. There are many stories and instances where it is associated with strength, devotion, intuition, patience. The first time I shaved my head I did because I wanted to break some of my attachment to it and it actually did a little.

@Michael569 is vitamin D difficult for our bodies to absorb in a regular pill-type supplement?

You don’t have to do those things if you don’t want to. Women often put a lot of effort in.

Being gay is not easier. Yes some aspects are but overall the challenges even out.

You can cultivate your femininity. Yes it will always be there, but it does get hidden and pushed down in today’s way of life. It’s interesting to see how men respond to that as well. When you are in touch with your heart and how you feel, you’re basically unfuckwithable.

I think pick up is freaking awesome. I’ve even learned a lot about myself through it. I feel flattered when a man asks for my number. Any interaction with a man is another opportunity to deepen my relationship with my feminine essence.

What the heck.

Oh my goodness this thread! More of us women need to get out there and experience men!! There are so many different types of men, relationships and interactions that exist and can only be experienced in real life. Become aware of your own games! The less aware you are of these games the more likely it is you’re playing them. You can consciously use the fact that men like sex to your and their advantage. Become the sensual, feeling, emotional being you are!

Look for a therapist who specializes in “contemplative psychology”. When in the hunt for a new therapist it’s helpful to call several and ask them about their specialities. Many offer a free session to see if it’s a good fit.

The Game of Life by Florence Scovel Shinn

Oh man you’re so close! I feel like you should hold out and finish regardless but you have to follow your heart on this.

4 pictures is good! Especially if they look nice.

Pictures that others have taken of you are better than selfies but selfies are also fine. Ask your friends or family if they have any of you or set a self-timer on your phone. Don't put up a group photo, or one with your sister or girl cousin. Write an about me...I'm drawn to men who mention a couple hobbies or what they're passionate about. Complete your profile. Don't upload fewer pictures than they suggest and don't leave out questions. You don't have to fill out everything about yourself, however. "Verify" your profile. Makes you appear more legit and like you care. It's not ideal to keep a running conversation with someone on the app. Look for the right opportunity to ask her out shortly after matching. Many of the matches/conversations you have will go nowhere so don't stress it. You'll get better at it the longer you do it. It took me a few months to kind of get the hang of things, though. There are sub-forums on Reddit that will review your profile for you. Or you can ask a friend. I can also give you a review if you want.

Weed is such a tricky one because it can be used for some great spiritual growth. The nature of the plant itself is sticky so it also comes with a propensity for addiction and abuse so we gotta be careful. I’ve struggled with it quite a bit honestly. My reasons for quitting are mental sharpness mostly. I feel drawn towards it as a creativity enhancer.