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@flowboy awesome list thank you for sharing

@uriel have you heard of rOCD? Relationship OCD. It's where you obsess about things regarding your partner. Including breaking up. There's a channel on YouTube called Awaken Into Love. It's run by a woman so you may feel differently watching it but she's got a TON of wisdom on there. Take a breath and focus on something other than your relationship for now. It may be that right now, you don't have the information you need one way or another. Message me if you have any questions. I went through this for many years in a couple relationships and it is paralyzing.

@Gianna Walking away is just as good especially if you feel uncomfortable.

You say exactly that. Don't be wishy washy. I don't know your exact situation but it's always good to know what you will and will not put up with. Practice having the strength to walk away when you know in your heart it's right.

@Gianna It's not going to be easy, but make a clean break.

Ok so I was originally against it, said I would never, that its dangerous etc. But in the spirit of being open minded I said fuck it, I will. I work at a chain drugstore so I was able to get it early as they had extras. It felt good to abandon my ideology surrounding the vaccine and just go for it.

@trenton you're doing a really good job. Its normal to take those things personally and it doesn't mean you have a flaw. Try and do things you love. Nature helps to calm the mind as does exercise. Talking to someone can help you gain more coping skills too. Sorry you had to endure abuse like that.

They get better at hiding it as they get older hahaha.

@thisintegrated Hmmm do you know many people part of the community? You are generalizing a large and diverse group.

@Gianna At 24, 35 still seems old, even if you mentally know it's not. Many 35 year old men are immature. Sometimes they want something casual and fun or maybe don't even know what they want. Some men at 35 have there life very together. It varies

Yo, I had a simple misunderstanding of the concept. It's not that big of a deal.

@Leo Gura A recent actualized clips episode talks about how you get out of life what you put into it and that life is very fair in that way. I was wondering how race plays into that. Do a black person and a white person who put the same amount of work into their life get the same results?

I know Leo has talked a bit about this. Do you have any ideas or resources in order to learn more?

I feel you

You're gonna get all paranoid if you're always on the lookout for unhealthy behavior in a woman.

Only concern is with this. I'm assuming you're already familiar with it. It gave me more anxiety as well as heart issues. But if your body does ok with it you should be fine!

A little challenging to understand what exactly is going on, but I think you're on the right path with expressing the energy through movement!

I think there's a difference between sacrificing your needs for others and being truly selfless. It seems that you have to think of yourself first and transcend through that in order to be selfless. For instance, you can't just always favor other people at the expense of your own hopes, needs and desires.

Because it feels better and more fulfilling. I see what you're saying though, maybe I am doing it for selfish reasons. I don't know though. There seems to be a difference in quality to it. Still figuring that out.

Have you read the whole thing?

Thank you

That's one of the things to figure out.

@lmfao The textbook. Omg me too!! Except for me, Christian. So they use a lot of those Christian terms, but then go directly against what the bible says and I was highly triggered. And yea, like you I was worried about getting into another belief system and as I kept reading I was like, is this book even worth it?? But so many people like it so I don't know...

I have that book. Cracked it open but have lots of resistance to the material. Not totally sure what that's about.

Men and women are simply different. A woman attracting a woman is not comparable really at all to a man attracting a woman. Yea, a lesbian knows what women like, but from a woman's standpoint. And the way she attracts other women is by default going to come across as different than when a man attracts a woman. A lot of hot, masc lesbians have no problem picking up women because it's novelty and fun.