Rilles

I have a close family member that is very argumentative and gets heated when I offer a differing opion on certain topics, he also doesnt listen to my needs and wants so I frequently have to just give up and do as he pleases. I really love the guy but its hard to work on myself because I feel like Im being a doormat but at the same I hate arguing with him because his anger is pretty damn frightening. What would you do? Short: Family member is argumentative and has an anger management problem.

Tarantino is somebody who is a true artist to me, everything he does is just instantly classic, that takes some real fucking passion.

its very good! and not technical at all, with tons of exercises, im gonna buy it in physical form someday just because its such a treasure and i want to put it on an altar LOL

The Dark Side Of The Light Chasers by Debbie Ford I wrote down like 30 feelings that I wanted to avoid, sweep under the rug and journaled about them! Go research, its great stuff. I journaled about one feeling a day, it can get emotionally overwhelming so i took it pretty slow

@supremeyingyang I had mixed feelings about certain ethnicties, one minute i was angry at them and one minute i had extreme love towards them, I did some soul searching and realize i had some prejudices that were hiding in the background of my psyche, i dealt with and said "okay, fine, thats how it is" and the mixed feelings just went away, now i dont really mind it anymore, ive accepted myself as i am, warts and all, and i dont feel much towards them anymore, theyre just people and i dont mind them, if i have some feeling i just accept that and move on

i already figured out im a about 30% racist by doing shadow work lol

Stage Orange, I dont see how Stage Yellow would want to make a living off making fun of the other Stages. Just doesnt make sense to me. Stage Yellow would love and understand all the Stages and point out flaws where they are, but this guy is just demonizing to me.

Just grind, grind, grind! Work hard, hard, hard! Prototypical Orange... even a little bit Red.

I can definitely see that the closer you are to someone the harder it is to see their faults, especially when you need them/have deep bonds with them. Its hard to criticize... I will try to be as fair as possible.

Ok let me clarify, its more like... He thinks he knows whats best for me and its hard for me to explain exactly what I feel and getting him to tune into my feelings, I feel invalidated occasionaly. Love the dude though, this stuff doesnt happen all the time, its just something that comes up from time to time. Our dads a full blown narcissist so I can see some traits that have gotten transferred, i think thats just natural, maybe I have some narcissisitic traits too that im not aware of, who knows, im definitely co-dependent

Hes not unempathetic! Hes just hot-tempered! His energy does make me quite tense and nervous when Im around him.

Hes definitely NOT a narcissist. I do think he has some toxic anger issues though when somebody confronts him or he doesnt get his way and I have co-dependency issues which i need to/am working on. thanks Maybe some narc tendencies but then again I dont really count anger issues as narcissism, you would have to fulfill atleast 8/10 of the narcissism criteria to be that.

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erich fromm is great!

Its easy to bash him, thats one side of the coin, what are some good things he has done? Doesnt have to be alot, just something, to balance out all the bashing.

Purple: Tribal warfare Red: Conquering of empires, Persia Alexander the Great etc Blue: Colonialism Orange: Iraq war etc. Green: Culture wars Yellow: Playing chess with a computer Turqouise: Battling your own ego Coral: War? Teal: Swan

Damn... Never thought about it that way. Kudos

Ah man... dont hold out on us... Guess I will have to do the psychedelic spelunking misself...

could also be good to know what to start with, so you dont freak out

"The Indians are a beastly people with a beastly religion" - Winston Churchill

Cool! I usually intuituevly get disinterested in gurus after a month or two if I feel theyre not genuine, its a subtle feeling.

Not an example but another perspective of Spiral Dynamics from another YT-channel.

How come?

Never.