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Hah just wait for page 3 where I recall how I felt "replaced" when she immediately found a new boyfriend It's common practice for me to have chill 1-on-1 zoom/discord chats with forum members. I'm super down for that if you're feeling comfortable, either way DM me from my forum profile

I'm really not a fan of this "nice guy" vs "asshole" framing. These words are masks for what's really going on. You can be nice as fuck and simultaneously sexy. You can treat every woman as a queen and have your cock worshipped. (I recommend this) On the flip side, you can also be a degenerate asshole who repels women. The vice versa (common notion) can also be coincidentally true. It's possible that you can be "nice guy" trash or "asshole" king. So fundamentally, your "niceness" has no effect whatsoever on your attractiveness Stop associating "niceness" with attractiveness whatsoever! There is no causal relationship. If you're spiritually inclined, strive to be nice. It's good practice for getting in touch with the Love that you are. If you're concerned about your attractiveness, focus ENTIRELY on improving your sub-communications: tone of voice, eye contact, posture, smile, looseness, balancing your edge and humor, clarity of intent, freedom from outcome, embracing sexuality, holding warm sensual energy and gently teasing her into it, leading, being trustworthy, showing her your presence and attentiveness through small gestures in non-qualifying ways, learn to "read the room," feel her internal energies and apply pressure-on pressure-off in ways that make her feel good, have a beautiful rich internal world as an ever-present backdrop from which you extend an invitation of adventure. You're welcome, that's everything you'll ever need to learn if your goal is to have women with soaked panties fighting over your cock. Notice that none of that stuff - the stuff that actually matters - says anything about niceness. You can master the above list and be a saint or a devil. Or you can be a total noob at the above list and be a saint or a devil. So please y'all, drop the terminology of "nice guys finish last." That's like saying "men with cousins finish last." The claim just lacks substance. Whether or not you have a cousin doesn't mean shit regarding your attractiveness, just as your "niceness" doesn't mean shit. How about this for some nuance: Guys with shit tones of voice, shit eye contact, shit posture, no smile, body tension, no balance in edge or humor, no clarity of intent, total attachment to outcome, rejection of sexuality, cold calculating energy, inability to tease, inability to lead; men who are untrustworthy, who have no presence or attentiveness who self-qualify, who cannot read the room or feel internal energies, who don't have any regard to making the girl feel good, who do not have a rich internal world - these guys FINISH LAST. In fact, they don't finish at all. They get ruthlessly destroyed by women for being sexually repulsive yet acting entitled to sex.

oh my god lmao I... agree

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Are tears of joy normal for you?

I love that. Ground your trust in impermanence. Then it becomes easy to love.

He recently openly claimed to have a SD yellow bias. I don't think he's ever announced himself to be fully SD turquoise... careful with the accusations! Excellent. This I agree with. I was a non-psychedelic user following Leo for nearly 4 years. I faired perfectly fine. Did the sober practices where they were called for. INTP love looks different from more flashy, mainstream appearances of love.

Inappropriate?? Explain...

Maybe. Maybe not.

Lmao I read this dude's post on SD turquoise and it completely misses the mark. Totally laughable. The author sounds SD stage orange tbh, thinking he understands higher consciousness but is not aware that he has to take his orange sunglasses off first and literally become turquoise before being able to say anything intelligent about it.

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lmao you summoned the great one with a single word

@Michael569 Jesus Christ every post you make is a banger. I'd give you a testimonial just for these lol.

If only we listened.

Really funny to me that male answers here generally exclusively notice how women unconsciously hurt men, while female answers generally exclusively notice how women unconsciously hurt themselves or other women.

The more Truth-Realized I am, the less "lonely" I am (in any problematic sense). If I ever feel lonely in a way that feels problematic, I immediately know I am not aligned with the Truth. Oh no! Ultimate Union, Connection, and Intimacy! Whatever shall I do about it! ???

Yes yes yes yes yes @soos_mite_ah You're far stronger than you give yourself credit for.

@bazera https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1UgnEo0cnySuJZOOICaGUi0sMEdAJbNum?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1iEmq4uiNAUFGaPoJhMr1Gc0Jodr2DqGx?usp=sharing YW. Don't let this learning opportunity waste. Get to work

Is this a joke? lol

who the hell told you that lol

what.

From whom?

Lol I love you