RendHeaven

Self-made prison

lmao, God weeping for someone else to come save him. Dude wake up. Love comes from YOU, and nobody else.

Who said they're disliked? The question in the title comes loaded with assumptions.

Click link below. Godspeed brother

they're not, who said?

Life does not have to be framed as a 'battle.' 'Winning' and 'Losing' are constructs. 'Meaning' is a construct. To be 'a warrior' or not to be 'a warrior' is a construct. This is false. I see you take a spiritual turn on your blog which is well appreciated. Just be careful with your definitive-sounding statements

LMAO Hilarious topic

Plotinus got it.

Very relatable. You're not alone

Now imagine the pain of the billions throughout human history who've been dumped/cheated on by their sworn partners Your pain is not so deep or unique. That's a good thing though! It means we're all in this together.

So much "subtle" bragging, and you really said "Just wanted to post this in case is useful for anyone" as though your intention was NOT to get personal gratification through attention lol

LOL!

that's so ironic because the O.G. empiricists were the closest to non-duality, and they were full-blown philosophers modern science has bastardized the word "empirical" ...

You should read the academic paper I'm working on ;D

Oh my, a business opportunity!

bruh lmao loosen up and have a casual chat

I feel the exact same way. Which might make you laugh, because you know what I'm like. You would probably assume I have lots of friends lol (and yes, I suppose I do, but that doesn't make me feel any less alone). But yeah, no matter how good you have it, feelings of not-belonging seem to creep through the back door. It really helps me to remind myself that other people feel just as - if not more - isolated than I do. When I trick myself into thinking that I'm the only one suffering from alone-ness, the world really begins to look that way. But when I recognize that 99% of people are actively suffering from alone-ness (even when they look happy and social... many of them fake it) - i.e. feeling deeply misunderstood or disconnected from others - suddenly, it becomes less about me and more about us. When we're all misunderstood and disconnected, that paradoxically makes it easier for us to understand and connect with each other.

@intotheblack Gotcha

Field report?

bahaha so you're telling all of us that you'll initiate sex by tearing off your clothes and spreading your legs for a new man on day 1 based on pure attraction alone? Bullshit. Your "game" is staying coy and passive; waiting for him to initiate, or otherwise postponing sex until days later. Doesn't matter how attracted you are. In fact, arguing that "if the man has to manipulate, the girl was never attracted" is naive as hell. If that was true, same-day-lays would be physically impossible. you say "she will come to you naturally" but that is exactly what happened with Leo. She was there with him the whole damn night. The fact that she didn't just leave shows us she was attracted.

bro this IS game/pick up. Lol.

Don't allow yourself to be friendzoned in the first place...

Don't emotionally vomit on her. It'll be perceived as weird and creepy if you've been acting totally uninterested for months, and then suddenly the dams burst and you spew your sappy feelings all over her like "I loved you all along~" It's perceived as weird and creepy because you'd basically be saying: "I've been lying to you this whole time, I was afraid of you. Please please please accept me!" It's comes off as manipulative and weak. It also puts her in a tense spot where she's basically forced to make a decision between "yes or no." That is so fucking stressful, and her instinct will be to protect herself and block off the external world (aka - no). Indicating interest towards a woman should (at first) be as simple and clean as: "hey - you're cute" It shouldn't feel like vomit, or a burden. There should be no manipulation or weakness. It should not put her in a stressful spot where she has to make any decisions. Notice that if I call a girl cute, with strong eye contact and a smirk, there's no doubt that I'm showing interest. I'm putting myself out there, but I'm doing it in a way that doesn't weird/creep her out. I'm not obligating her to respond yes or no. Now she's free to giggle, or compliment me back. Also - if you are going to point blank call a girl cute, do it AS SHE LAUGHS (to something said prior). Don't blurt it out while the conversation is dry (with negative emotions like boredom, awkwardness, etc.). You want to say it when she's already feeling good, so that the "cute" comment is tied-in with positive emotions.

You have no spine. You play to not-lose, you don't play to win. Hence, you never get outright rejected, but you also don't get the girl. Try this: 1. Meet. 2. Slowly build attraction for her (aka interact with her). 3. Flirt. Don't constantly scan if she likes you or not, that comes from fear. Share your energy and don't give a fuck. 4. YOU MUST INDICATE INTREST. No shit she friendzones you. You friendzoned yourself to begin with lmao. By not showing any interest (again, out of fear of rejection) you're basically screaming "I'M YOUR GAY BEST FRIEND!" 5. Lead. Someone has to make shit happen. This is a logical inevitability. Between the two of you, if you are to ever get together, one of you has to step up and take a risk. Right? Well, it'll never be the girl. It's in her nature to be passive and subtle. I know in your mind you wish she would make shit happen for you. But what if she's thinking the same thing? You goof. 6. Things happen. At the end of the day, it's between taking a risk for the possibility of reward, or the guarantee that nothing will ever happen. Stop being afraid of failing!

uhh wtf didn't you break up why are you acting together again.