RendHeaven

*I could be so much more as a person

I am. But I could be so much more. Paradox. It was 2 years outdated. I'll have a new picture soon.

No, the goal is to get the self-belief/confidence to rival a narcissist/sociopath but not to actually become one yourself. You're retarded if you think that being an egomanic is genuinely gratifying or fulfilling. If this is to say that women deserve abuse and trauma, stop. No, this builds dependence and makes you sloppy. Your financial lack is a direct reflection of your inability to provide value to the world. You are a leech, you have nothing to give. It's repulsive, and you know it deep down. It has nothing to do with how others perceive you. It's a matter of how YOU perceive you. Go work fast food (or whatever labor is a step-up from where you are at now) and you'll be slightly less of a leech. Yes because you're a leech. Change that. Completely avoidable. I don't have this fear. You are always free to say whatever you want. There is no such thing as "I can't say..." The most successful men say whatever the fuck is on their minds and women suck their cocks for it. So what's the difference between your communication and a successful man's communication? For starters, you preemptively assume rejection and your bodylanguage/tone becomes defensive and contracted, and that comes across as unattractive at best, threatening at worst, and you get bad reactions, which further solidifies your negative self image causing you to contract and defend even more. It's likely that you go into interactions with women as though it's some sort of battlefield, equipped with mental armor and ready to take a beating. Since you're so eager for a fight, it's no wonder women comply. If you really love women as much as you claim, how about you try 100 approaches where you show nothing but appreciation and reverence. And if they disrespect your frame, calmly put them in their place with a genuine smile as though they were a cute puppy whos barking too much. See them for who they are - a perfect, flawed human being in need of grounded masculine authenticity. Be done with this lazy leech shit. If you respond to this with more complaints, you simply don't deserve sex and that's that. If you want sex, shut up and grow yourself.

I feel just like you

Yes that is legit, but only if you have more self-belief than literal billionaires. Owen is talking about genuine sociopaths and narcissists. They have a warped sense of reality unlike you or I. To sense even a fraction of that confidence from your current state of crippling lack is triple black diamond slope difficulty. In a first world country like America, 99.999% of broke guys are mentally handicapped (they limit themselves). They're "flat broke" for a reason. You can't even make minimum wage to support yourself? Good luck having more self-belief than a billionaire. And although yes, you could technically free your mind without changing your material circumstances, it would be significantly easier to just go make a mild amount of money to self-sustain. Flipping burgers at McDonalds is better for your self esteem than doing nothing all day and seeing $0 in your checking account. Your mind needs physical proof of your capabilities, not empty promises. One does not simply wallclip to invincible confidence overnight.

I thought I was the only one who had something to say about this 😭

sounds like standard body load. no big deal happens every time for me and my friends this i'm not too sure about.

do not expose to heat, light, air, moisture. pretty standard procedure. bare minimum = keep in plastic baggie in a cool dry dark place

lol you're such a scallywag we would be great friends

New Orangina bottle shouldn't be too hard to find these days ; )

There's hope for you The wealth part is only semi-true. There are ways for you to be average-wealth at 40 and bang hot 20 year olds (but you would have to be abnormally self-actualized). Being flat broke is pretty unacceptable. But even then, my reaction to that information would be: "Ok then, time to get wealthy." or, "Time to get self-actualized." Dude, fucking awesome. Now go do that every day. Being honest with your words is a good thing, but don't go out of your way to announce low self-worth.

that's wassup

:')

Yes, but the ramifications: If the bottleneck is her perception, then whether or not you have "objective" (consensus) status measures is secondary to the illusion you cast. you can spin status out of thin air but also "genuine" status (A list celebrity, etc.) is also spun out of thin air the appearance (of status) is its own substance, a self-fulfilling prophecy that snowballs out of control with just a tinge of group think (human minds pinging off of each other building a web) there is no such thing as status, except when the mind pretends there is. the goodies associated with this pretense makes one want to participate, and at that point status is made concrete and the consequences of such manifest By piercing the charade and integrating at a cellular level, one unassumingly acts like someone with enormous status 0 desperation, 0 fucks given, unafraid to voice and pursue desires, barely perceives losses (if at all). After all, we are all the same. What am I so afraid of? ALL low-status tells stem from fear by being congruently fearless you can short-circuit the status-ladder (and ironically receive the associated goodies which would physically cement your place at the top as well) in thinking that status is independent of perception, you are permitting "status" to be an entity that further dominates and controls your human behaviors and states, making you more fearful and stripping you of status All that being said, If I were at a bar and Chris Hemsworth showed up out of nowhere, he would completely mog me and likely all attention would go to him. How to reconcile the fact that status seems to be simultaneously vapor and solid? Women flock to perceived status like moths to a flame (whether or not they admit it lol). Sometimes you can do everything "right," and still the man next to you will have spun a more vibrant illusion than you. Also let's be honest, we're NOT doing everything "right." Still so full of fear. Fearlessness is Infinite. none of us have control over whether girls give us attention, validation, love, sex, or not. We can only control our degree of fearlessness over time, which correlates favorably with female attraction (but is not guaranteed)

What's your age? I'm 24, still got my whole life ahead of me. Therefore no rush. If you're 40 or 50, I can understand your angst. But even then, you must ask: are there 40~50 year olds out there in the world getting laid right this second? Objectively, yes. So let's not count ourselves out. When was your last cold approach and how did that go?

This is somehow extraordinarily profound

Proud of you

🤝

Problem with skepticism is that its first principle is negation, therefore division. Cognitively this seems harmless, but energetically the skeptic aligns with untruth (without even realizing what he's doing) because he has alienated affirmation (of what is)

Thanks for the reminder

Take it from a guy who has done excessive rounds of LSD suspended in eternal bliss states, no matter how thoroughly you escape the facade of time, when you come back down the next day, having not eaten for 24 hours, neglecting sleep, you're gonna feel that one like a bitch!

If anything, I would say losing your psych virginity to 5meo is optimal. I did the conventional wisdom route of a dozen mushroom trips and a dozen LSD trips before ever attempting 5meo. In hindsight, starting with 5meo and never looking back would've gotten me here in twice the time. shrooms have a poor noise-to-signal ratio, and LSD lasts so long it derails your whole day and your human goals take a hit. 5meo is pure signal, short and sweet. no recoil. The only prerequisite to a positive and life-changing 5meo trip is your ability to surrender. Everything else is secondary. try clenching your fist around an object, notice the tension, the grip, the effort/exertion, the labor. Now release the object, let it drop, notice the unwinding of your effort and exertion. This is the same "unwinding"/release movement you must do with your soul when the 5meo consciousness is about to kill you.

6 years ago you wrote to me: "Because everything is you. If you judge any aspect of that "you" as invalid, it is relegated to unconsciousness. And enlightenment NECESSITATES perfect love. If your heart is heavier than a feather, you will not pass. And enlightenment is also the only way to truly recognize your unshakable validity. "

lol, real.

@Emotionalmosquito I'm rather fond of you, but you're honestly lame as fuck. Listen to Leo and Princess Arabia and stop whining. A sliver of me really feels for you and relates to your woes. The difference between us is that I know that in this lifetime I am destined for obnoxious amounts of sex with the sexiest girls alive. That is not my current reality, but there is no rush. You're better than this. You're on the damn Actualized.org forum, which means that you know to dig deep and dispel your own bullshit. You want sex? You can have it. Become a masculine gift unto the feminine. Strong, loving, unwavering, abundant. "But that's not me!" you cry. Lol, alright then. More girls for me I guess. You say you love women but hah, looks to me like you have maybe 1% of the desire that I do. I love women so much that I will stop at nothing to become the best man I could possibly be, for their sake. Hope to see you prove me wrong 👊