Leo Gura

Well, this very much depends and is subjective. Just don't be creepy or threatening. That's basically all the etiquette required. Hot girls are not that common during the day. If you see one, you should approach. I've never had the problem where there are too many hot girls in one area to approach. This would be a very high quality problem. You should approach every girl you're genuinely attracted to. And even some you aren't. 5 day time approaches is about right. Try to make them solid. Depends on location and availability of girls. Don't worry about what other people think of you. Just focus on doing a solid approach. You can approach a girl at a dinner table with 10 people and ask her to stand up and talk to you. It doesn't matter. I've literally opened girls by reaching my hand across a dinner table of 10. It's quite the showstopper if you manage to stay cool as you do it. Push yourself to do some ballsy approaches. Just don't be fucking creepy. As a real test, try hitting on a girl at the mall while she's walking with her mother and father. That'll grow some hair on your balls Make sure she looks over 18.

In this context, if sex is close to happening, she's already attracted to you. We are talking about a much further phase in the process. Attraction >> Rapport >> Seduction. This is the Seduction phase. If your seduction is failing, you fucked up at the Rapport phase. Once you're past the Attraction phase, she is guaranteed to sleep with you as long as you handle the Rapport and Seduction properly, and you squash all the logistical obstacles. You gotta practice and master each phase. Attraction and Rapport are the hardest.

I mean the planet is safe in the relative sense. Human life ain't going anywhere. C02 will not even put a dent in it. Which is not to say we should not move to green energy. We should! I endorse a Green New Deal sort of plan. But also it cannot happen globally yet because developing countries would suffer too much and they simply aren't capable of it. No Read my words with more nuance. As a good rule of thumb, rather than assuming I'm saying something dumb, assume I'm saying something intelligent, and you'll be more right than wrong All relative problems need to be properly recontextualized within the Absolute, otherwise you get devilry. It's a tricky act to pull of well. I understand your frustration.

Mostly just boredom. I know too much to keep it all to myself. Groundwork also needs to be laid for when I fully awaken.

How can you have one without the other?

Aahahahaha The creeper fine. Don't be too creepy.

Turn that shit on it's head! Tell her that she reminds you of a pig. In a joking way. "Okay, okay, I guess you're kinda cute, but I bet you snore like pig." "Awww... Look, you have little hairs on your leg. Reminds me of a pig." The hotter the girl, the less you should compliment her beauty. Hot girls get complimented ALL THE TIME. What the hot girl really wants is a guy who has the balls to call out her bullshit and who is not impressed with her hotness. You have to be strong enough to be able to own her. You must treat hot girls as though they are not hot at all. She must feel that her hotness does not impress you. My general rule is I don't compliment women, and if I do, I try to do it sarcastically. Mostly chumps compliment women. It's a low value move. Make her work for a compliment. She's not the prize. I am the prize! << That is the proper frame of a high value male. Attracting hot girls is deeply counter-intuitive. You're doing everything backwards, which is why they run from you.

Buddha enters the chat.

What else is there to do? Doing nothing is also a doing. Doing happens regardless. No evasion at all. The planet is not going anywhere. The planet is safe. You're not going to kill the planet with some CO2 emissions. The planet is not so fragile. Maybe don't be so fearful They are only an issue in an illusory, relative sense. The planet dying does not even rise to that level of problem because it's not going to happen. You might as well stress out over the sun dying out. Well, the Absolute escapes all problems. That's sorta its point. Yes, I use the Absolute to not worry about shit as much as I am able. Doesn't mean I'm perfect at it. Yet. Because I enjoy it and there is nothing better to do until I'm dead. My work has no importance in any true sense. It's a game I play with myself and you can come along for the ride, if you dare. There is no importance in saving the life of anyone. To think so would be a narcissistic delusion. You will never be free so long as you think people need saving. The only one who needs to be saved is yourself, from your own delusion that anything is wrong.

@Brivido Awesome! That's you.

It's Love.

I would talk to JP or Sam Harris or the Weinstein's -- the problem is I very much doubt they would be open to it. And I don't know how far the conversations could go. We would get hung up very quickly. My conversation with Charlie was smooth and we went deep. But that's only because he's got the right kind of mind for this work, which is rare. People like JP, Sam Harris, Weinstein's, etc tend to have a lot of personal agenda clouding their minds. Which makes going deep rather hard. I'd be curious just to see how far it would go. There would be a lot of defense mechanisms triggered very quickly because they have a certain worldview to defend on behalf of their loyal audiences. Then it becomes more like a debate, which isn't good. What's needed is hosts who don't have a worldview that they are defending/promoting -- because of course their worldview cannot be ultimately true. Because all worldviews are biased and partial.

@Javfly33 If you are decent-looking and your standards are sorta low, you can get laid off OkCupid, Tinder, and Match. But Twitter? Dude, this is like looking for sex under a bridge.

Sigh... Watch how you conflate the relative and absolute. If everything is love, then me not teaching you anything is too. Nothing matters, and it matters especially little to bend oneself over backwards to teach fools.

Woooosh -- over your head

Seek or don't seek -- up to you. But enlightenment is certainly a state. And you ain't got it yet.

Stop asking dumb questions and go talk to girls.

Yeah, but if you didn't demonize it you would be awake and thus not need any more help. The people who need the most help are precisely those who will bite the hand that feeds them. Nonsense. It is just largely pointless trying to force wisdom down the throats of fools. Wisdom, Truth, Love, Goodness, and Consciousness are not things that can be forced on others. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. But hardly anyone is ready. Haha! How naive. The majority of the world's wealth was accumulated through theft, exploitation, lies, deception, fraud, tax evasion, corruption, bribery, monopoly, backstabbing, extortion, slavery, murder, assassination, and war. Where did Trump get all his money? Hint: It wasn't through providing massive value to the world. Look at all the richest men in the world. Every single one of them stole or exploited to get it -- if not worse. It is impossible to earn a billion dollars without some serious, world-class levels of exploitation. Only a deeply selfish and unconscious man could stomach it.

Because most guys are so lame. When she finally meets an awesome guy who knows how to stimulate her emotions it will be a no-brainer. Most guys don't even know how to fuck a girl properly. When it comes to women, most guys are as interesting as a DMV application.

Because everyone is spammed to death online all the time. Ain't no high value girl checking her DMs for a boyfriend request. Because doing a street approach takes balls. For every 99 online approaches she gets 1 real life approach. The real life approach is an honest signal. Very few guys can pull it off well. If you can pull it off well you automatically place yourself first in the line into her pants. The reason you hate doing real life approaches is precisely the thing that makes them so effective. They cull out all the losers and pussies. If you're wise you should want approaching hot girls to be as difficult as possible. So that nobody else does it but you. When you take the easiest path, so does everyone else, and you all end up with scraps. But he who takes the hardest path ends up with the whole pie all to himself.

Flake rate is high regardless of what you do. It's a numbers game. Even a 5% close rate would be awesome. But of course you can improve your conversion rate. Always push for an instant coffee date. If you can get her into an instant coffee date this will increase your rate a lot. The biggest problem is that you need more time with her to build a connection. This is very hard to do in 5 minutes. So the more time you can persuader her to spend with you, getting to know you, the more of an impact you'll have and the more she will remember you when you text. Also keep in mind many attractive girls have boyfriends. You should screen them for it early on so as not to waste your time. If she has a boyfriend she will not text you back. Don't waste your time. Screen girls. Push for instant coffee. Don't let her run off with empty promises. A promise from a girl is less than worthless. Never do that. You clearly failed to attract her and she was just looking for any excuse to leave without a hassle. Yelling at her to call you back is needy as fuck and therefore she never will. Girls will give out their number easily just to get to you leave them alone. So shooting for numbers is pointless. You need to shoot for building attraction and connection. If you don't build attraction + connection the number is useless. One deep connection is worth 50 numbers. Two things: 1) Nothing is going wrong per se. Most girls will simply not sleep with you no matter how good you are. Just increase your numbers. 2) You are not grabbing her attention enough. You are not being attractive enough. You are not being memorable enough. You are not building connection enough. You are not stimulating her emotionally enough. You are not being fun and playful enough. You are not telling her enough about yourself. The bigger problem is simply lack of building connection. She has little reason to call you back because in her mind you take up as much mental real estate as an ant. You need to do something to grab her attention and get her invested in you. Your job is to give her a strong sense of who you are, how cool you would be to date, how lucky she would be to date you. But without saying that explicitly. Tell more cool and interesting stories about yourself. You need to strike a chord with her and draw her in with interesting stories that display your value. For example, tell her about cool places you've traveled to, spiritual work you're doing, business projects you're working on, your dreams, etc. And, of course, flirt with her and make her laugh.

For the 100rth time, YES.

Not all the way.

Because it doesn't matter. And casting pearls before swine is exhausting. Helping lots of people requires accumulating power, which is antithetical to Truth, Consciousness, and Love. If Gates was conscious he would not have billions to spend.

It's hard to say for sure. Depends on many factors. I would make sure to exhaust all material options first. Don't use a spiritual technique to heal what can be healed at the material level.