Leo Gura

You have to distinguish between the attraction phase vs the relationship phase. Being selfless and loving in a relationship works, as long as you are also a strong man.

Well, in this case obviously focus on the other girl who slept with you. How many girls must sleep with you before you feel secure? It's a holistic equation that factors in everything. Just reaching hook point. Enough that she would be willing to sleep with you if things moved forward smoothly. Attraction usually happens within 5 mins. The rest is just follow-thru. Less than 20% of girls will get attracted to you. Don't make it personal. You are attracted to less than 20% of girls so its only fair.

God damn, dude. Such a primadonna. That's gonna be a tough life. You should be thanking God each morning that even one girl in the world finds you attractive. P.S. She prolly ghosted you cause your vibe was off. Video-calling someone is very revealing of their vibe and personality. Your mistake is doing these long video calls. Just get her out for a coffee. But just the fact that you assume it was your looks reveals how insecure you are, and that's something to drop. That insecurity itself makes you unattractive. It is impossible to even get 20% of girls attracted to you.

Oh, pussy will activate for a man who is truly spiritual. Trust me But you must still learn to be a MAN. Spirituality is not a shortcut around that. The core fundamentals of game are still operative. You can use spirituality to ground yourself deeply in an authenic masculinity. But you still have to leave your basement and talk to girls to get girls. There is no shortcut for that. If you are too scared to approach a hot girl and look her square in the eyes then what does your spirituality really mean?

There is a silver lining. What you lose in quantity and raw material hotness you can make up many fold in depth of connection. You are going from shallow as an oil spill to deep as a well.

Consciousness goes way beyond functionality. What humans called "enlightened" is just a drop in the ocean of states of consciousness that are possible. Imagine becoming an enlightened werewolf. Consciousness can create that state/reality, but your human mind cannot fathom it.

You can try honey from different parts of the world. The pollen types vary a lot. You could also compare to something like maple syrup or agave syrup.

If you knew how much sex I sacrificed you would cry. I didn't say no pussy. I said less.

@Karmadhi You can copy the exterior of a player while maintaining a spiritual core. At least to some degree. But generally speaking the more spiritual you are the less hot pussy you will get.

Haha, But Leo, how do I get what I want?!

Girls are super flakey in general before sex. Expect zero respect for your time or your needs. Solution is to just make very low investment and keep talking to many girls at once. Don't do dumb things like courting a girl for months. You have to set standards and don't let them waste your time. If you suggest a date and she isn't eager for it, next. Do not try to win her over. Girls who are willing to sleep with you don't need to be won over. They will readily agree to a date without manipulation. It's a big mistake to try to work hard to get a girl. Instead invest that energy into talking to lots of new girls. It's a huge numbers game, not a manipulation game. Less manipulation, more numbers. Get 5 phone numbers per night and you will stop caring if 80% flake.

1) This is why it's important to develop an eye for the kind of girl you like. This requires practice and experience. Train your eye to quickly identify and decide whether a girl is hot enough for you or not. There's little point in sleeping with girls you aren't attracted to. It just creates a lot of problems and wastes a lot of time. 2) Once you find a girl you actually like, then you push yourself to close no matter what your anxiety level or insecurities or mood. Push your mood and just get it done. Your mood will catch up. 3) Then again, you can also learn to have fun with girls who aren't your ideal type. Takes some practice. Once she's naked you should basically just push yourself to finish the job. You don't have to marry her.

Strong eye contact, get close to her face, see if she flinches or moves away.

Your sexual subcommunication should be so strong that she tells you about her BF within a few seconds or minutes herself. If girls are not telling you about their BF until much later that tells you that your intent is too weak and needs work. Sexual eye contact is key. Work on that.

Might be allergic reaction.

I interpret models to suit my needs and my audience's needs. If you don't like my take on Spiral Dynamics, don't listen to it. That's not really my problem. That's an issue general to how people apply SD. I have warned against this trap many times. The irony is Beck himself misused it. That's some sick shit to say to me. The difference is, if someone creates their own forum on their own dime, I will not come take their forum down. You can create whatever forums you want, just don't leech off this forum to do it.

Exactly. And now there is a culture war over how to define it.

It has nothing to do with quenching curiosity.

Even definitions of sex are relative.

They are conscious in a different way. Likely, although I think it is a mistake to only look for DMT. There could be many other tryptamine molecules responsible for mystic consciousness. You'd have to test for them all. Well, DMT is more potent usually in the way it is taken.

Very good share.

The issue is one of relative definitions. Who gets to define what "man" is? Our definitions are not absolute. That's what you're missing. That video is an example of Blue & Green talking past each other.

It's not so simple because studies also seem to show that if you give LSD to schizophrenics they say that the LSD trip is not the same as their schizophrenia. But if you give the meth it deepens their schizophrenia. So schizophrenia is not merely a psychedelic state.

Boomers gonna boom

Yeah, well, I have a right to twist things however I want. I twisted it for a reason: because SD is misleading when it comes to understanding the highest levels of human consciousness. I am not loyal to any model or to Beck. I teach whatever I feel is most helpful for people to grow to their highest level. Beck does not get to say what I can and cannot say about SD. He could make his own videos if he wanted. And trademarking the name of a scientific model is a dick move. Imagine if I started teaching some new perspective on General Relativity and then Albert Einstein trademark striked me for it. Calling Ken Wilber stage Red is not perfectly reasonable. Beck had some serious biases. I am not the only one who twisted SD. Ken Wilber felt the need to do so too because he saw its limits at the higher stages.