Leo Gura

@Sugarcoat You simply intuit your own infinite potential. And why would you settle for something less? You are having visions of your higher self.

Yes, you have stumbled upon the source of God's power.

@Jakuchu @Thought Art Stop

You can either hire a stylist consultant or simply look for styles in fashion magazines and online, and then shop for similar things until slowly you develop a killer wardrobe. It takes years to develop a killer wardrobe. It cannot be done in one month. Start with a single set: shirt, pants, shoes, belt, jacket. Get all that to fit and match well. I have wasted thousands to develop my wardrobe. And it was worth it. Now I know how to dress cool and people compliment it all the time. It might take you 3-5 years to build a really awesome wardrobe.

Since it is One is has absolute power since there is nothing other that could stop it. It can materializes whatever it wants without any restrictions. Not even the restriction of needing a method. Notice that to require a method is already a limitation/restriction. Notice that if you had no restrictions you could pull a rabbit out of thin air, because nothing would stop you. So this is how reality creates itself. It doesn't need anyone's permission.

Selfish and selfless are one, obviously. You became selfish because you were selfless, and you will become selfless because you are selfish.

Obviously monks are very selfish people because they abandon everything for the highest joy. The issue isn't selfishness but intelligence. How intelligent are you being with what you're chasing? The most intelligent people chase the highest things, the least intelligent people chase the lowest things.

No It is for the purpose of eliminating confounding variables.

It would be wise of you guys to stop demonizing, judging, and repressing masturbation. That will not solve your problem. Chimps jerk off all the time. You don't see them feeling guilty or butthurt about it. You are creating a self-interference pattern. The solution is to indulge your desires mindfully and in moderation. Then maybe one day you will outgrow them. But at least they will not hinder you too much.

Basically just sit, relax, and listen.

It has been written from day one that PMs are moderated. Underlined even. I am not here to babysit you. You are here as a guest in my house, using my time. If you don't respect that I will shut it all down. I am not Facebook and I'm not here to build you a spiritual social platform.

Yes you are

High conscious leadership does not work unless the people are also high consciousness. Which means they need to be doing the inner work. There are fairytales and cute stories in spiritual circles about how high consciousness will heal the devils and save the world. No! Those leaders are simply killed. Reality is brutal. It does not work according to hippie ideals. Leading devils to God is much harder than it seems. Most devils would rather attack the messenger than surrender their devilry.

If you spot habitually problematic users, PM me about them and we will discuss it. Don't just ban people without consulting me. There is a reason tyrannies exist. They are suitable when people refuse to behave. I try not to go overboard with it. Power is always corrupting to those who wield it.

This is correct. This is the Progressives' biggest blindspot. They are utopians and idealists at heart. They refuse fo compromise and accept society where it's at. It's both their greatest strength and weakness. Guys like Jimmy Dore are especially bad examples of this. But TYT, Secular Talk, etc are also guilty of this to a degree. That "Bernie or bust" mentality is problematic.

That is why I am very careful not to read PMs unless my hand is forced, and no Mods are allowed to read them. Obviously it is a power ripe for abuse. It is like the ring from Lord Of The Rings, and I am Frodo putting it on once in a while as it turns me evil. I do not want the ring, but I have it in my pocket to protect the kingdom.

No

I will try to be less biased in the Dating subforum.

You can appeal warnings to me. Bans are hard to appeal by their nature. Mods are not supposed to be banned people other than in extreme cases, and also consulting with me about bans. Occassionally Mods maybe make a bad call, since this work is subjective. I try to overlook those cases. Sometimes warnings are reversed and Mods are corrected. But mostly they make good calls.

I want people feeling somewhat like they have to walk on eggshells here. This place has been too much of a free-for-all playground for too long. Notice that some users have been here for years and have zero warning points. How come they can do it but you can't? What are they doing that you're not? In general, think twice before you post something. Sometimes it's better to just be silent rather than spouting off. Find ways to communicate that don't create a trail of drama and chaos.

You can't really prepare yourself. But allow yourself to feel throughout the process and not to rush it or avoid stuff or get reactive. Go through it day by day feeling and being mindful. And be gentle with yourself.

@Preety_India Cope with it as best you can for now. Try to minimize drama and then focus on getting a job and moving out. It's a terrible idea to live with parents once you're an adult and doing personal development and living your life on purpose. Parents must be kept at a safe distance because they will hold you back. You can visit them but never live with them.

The further to either extreme of the political spectrum one goes, the more whining there is. Extremists whine because they are fanatics. And the center usually doesn't care enough. These are the trade-offs of caring. The more you care the more extremist you become. The less you care the more complacent you are, the more the status quo dominates. So there's no clean solution.

He's dead alright

Less work than fucking a girl.