Leo Gura

You totally missed the point. When you read a novel you know it's fake. Yet you enjoy it. No one ever said, "But I can't enjoy a novel because it isn't real."

This is so wrong I can only Lol. Not wise to listen to psychedelic dabblers.

I just tested it in Chrome and it works for me. Not sure how I can make it better.

Possible of course. That's why I want others to report problems.

There is Absolute Truth. And you are it. Absolute Truth is not a perspective. It's not even right to think of it as nonduality.

By awakening deeper and more, you end up getting over it. God is dreaming and it cannot change what it dreams because the dream is Absolute. This requires a profound surrender. It takes a lot of awakenings to really integrate the absolute solipsism. It's similar to learning that Santa Claus isn't real. At first you are butt-hurt, but then you learn to enjoy Christmas anyways. It took me a couple of years of integration and further awakenings to get over it. Notice that even though you know that the actors in a movie never actually die, you can still enjoy watching a violent movie. The solution here to awaken deeper, and then to get really playful with reality. Treat it like a game of pure trickery. Really appreciate the trickery rather than resisting it. Why do you need others to be real? What does it do for you? Why can't you enjoy them being imaginary?

https://www.actualized.org/articles/how-to-forgive-anyone-who-hurt-you

@TheSpiritualBunny Plug some 4-AcO-DMT and it will be more hardcore than mushrooms.

It should work, I checked it earlier today and people have been successfully signing up. Make sure your JavaScript in enable in the browser. Which browser are you using? If anyone else is having this issue, let me know. And report which browser you are using.

God/Infinity is beyond nonduality. Although it doesn't contradict it.

@spiritual memes I wouldn't call that spirituality, I'd call that psychotherapy. Psychotherapy >> Basic self-help >> Spirituality That's roughly the proper order of things. I skip a lot of the psychotherapy because I assume you got that handled. Which of course many people don't.

Not differently per se, but you will need a lot more therapy-type work on the trauma to heal it.

Ask me in 3 years.

I should do a vid on How To Assess Good Character. People are bad at that in general, not just women.

Perhaps so, but I'm not about to give that up.

Don't forget that a fool cannot recognize greatness. And therein lies most of womens' dating problems.

Those things count. Especially status. Raw success, like money in your bank account, does not count. Yes, that counts as emotional stimulation. Not that I endorse it. No, don't be so extreme. We are speaking in generalities. 1) Of course most of the manipulation men do is unconscious. Although some guys can also do it very deliberately, with pure calculation. 2) You can always gets some girls through pure random luck without doing anything, just being at the right place at the right time. 3) Good looking guys and high status guys require a lot less manipulation. Also, it's a question of the quality and quantity of girls the guy wants. If you are happy with low quality girls then you don't need to manipulate as much. 4) I'm not saying that you can't get laid without manipulation. You can. You'll just get laid a lot less and with a different kind of girl. It's a bit like sales. You can still sell stuff without being a used car salesman about it. But there is also a good reason why used car salesmen are the way they are, and why you shouldn't sleep with one.

@JuliusCaesar It's all good bro. Don't fret about it.

And yet you still create subtle dualities with your thinking that keeps you from the full realization of Oneness. There is actually an awakening you can have that space does not exist -- it's a conceptual projection of your mind. For example, right now I'm sitting in my room typing on a laptop, and I'm conscious that space isn't real. I would suggest your visual field has no edge. See, in this way of thinking you create duality between form and emptiness. At the highest levels of awakening this duality dissolves away as everything becomes one. You should not be able to separate form and emptiness.

It's not God-Realization.

Because women have sex purely based off emotional stimulation. So as long as a scumbag stimulates her the right way she will open her legs like a robot. It's so predicable it like gaming a dodo bird. And if the guy does not know how to emotionally manipulate her, he basically won't get laid even if he's an otherwise awesome guy. This kind of unconscious way of having sex is foolish and leads to all sorts of trouble. The people who know best how to emotionally manipulate you are exactly the worse type of people to sleep with.

Good work. But you've only just begun awakening

Careful, it is certainly possible to fuck up your normal life. Not all your fears are groundless. You should be cautious with psychedelics. But not so cautious that you don't take them. Don't feel bad. You're not a child, you're God struggling to awaken. It's good that you care more about dessert in this case than the vegetables. Because dessert is all there is The vegetable analogy is not quite correct. It would be more correct to say that what I teach is the vegetables and the survival stuff is just candy for hungry ADD children. Exactly! That's how you anchor "reality". Yes

You can embrace any darkness and love it death until it dissolves and you are left with God. That black hole is just a part of what you as God are. You don't need to fear it.

No you aren't. Space doesn't exist. You're imagining it. Larger also doesn't hold because it's a relative notion. There is no border nor outside to your consciousness. This is not full awakening. Full awakening is so one that it cannot see any difference between from and emptiness. You are imagining emptiness without form right now.