Leo Gura

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  1. Game sober. Learn to manage your own emotional state. You need to literally just practice leading for like a solid month. Go into a club, just walk up to a girl, don't say anything, gently take her by the hand, and walk her over to the bar. Do this 100 times and just see what happens. Some girls will reject you hard, but a few will just come along. This will teach you leading. Treat the girl like she is yours from the get-go. Take her wherever you want. That is the proper attitude. It's her choice not come along and you never take that personally. You should always err on the side of leading too much rather than second-guessing yourself. The worst that will happen is she will say No. And even then you can still continue flirting with her and try again in 5 minutes. As soon as you see a girl likes you, take her by the hand and lead her somewhere, anywhere, if only 10ft to the left. Once you succeed at that, try leading her 100ft. Then 1000ft. Then to your car. Then to your house. Then to your bed.
  2. 1) You shouldn't be high when doing pickup. Ever. 2) Don't waste your time trying to pick up girls who are high on Molly. Their state will crash soon and you'll just be babysitting an emotional mess, not having sex. Whenever I meet a girl on Molly in the club, I just immediately move on another girl. I don't wanna deal with her bullshit. Pulling girls who are drunk or high will come back to bite you in the ass. Focus on more sober girls. Other than that, it doesn't matter the location as long as there are girls you like there. Approach every girl you find hot, talk to her, screen her quickly for being too drunk or too high. You should be screening for the pull right off the bat. If she's not pullable, don't waste your time, move on to the next girl. Keep your game tight. You're not there to waste time on nonsense.
  3. It's funny you mention this because all this guilt and shame you feel is selfishness/ego at work. True senselessness has a different quality to it. You do things out of love, not guilt. I used have that same reaction you describe with homeless people. After my numerous awakenings, now when I see a homeless person I usually given them $20. But not in all cases because there's just too many homeless people around to give all of them money, and sometimes my mind is busy on other things. But I don't feel bad about it. Keep in mind that many of these homeless folk are drug addicts and will just piss your money away. So giving them endless money is not necessarily gonna help them much. The reality is that giving a person money who didn't earn it doesn't change anything fundamental about their life. If you give $10k to a homeless person he will likely just burn through it and end up right back on the street. Homelessness is not a problem of lack of money, it's a much deeper problem of people having such poor minds that they are not able to control themselves. I have established a loose rule with myself that if I see a homeless person I give $20 if I got it in my wallet. I feel this is fair enough. I walk away feeling good and so does the homeless person. It's a win-win. No, I meant that you should be worried that by not meditating and doing serious inner work but instead focusing on selfless action, you will actually never become selfless. That is the true danger. You can give all your money away to the homeless, but after all that's done, you will still fundamentally be as selfish as you ever were. If only selfishness could be cured so easily! It's much deeper than that!
  4. Lol Ahahahaha You actually think Tate would care about your friendship? Lol
  5. Don't worry about that. You should be worrying about the opposite. And giving half your salary to a homeless person is foolish. You shouldn't strive for that. What you demonstrate here are egoic fantasies of selflessness, not the real thing.
  6. It is a mistake to focus on what most people can have or do. Focus on what you can do. Life No one is actually stopping you from producing value. People and institutions hardly care about you or know you exist. Society will do whatever you create it to do.
  7. You can try to act more selflessly, but it's not gonna hit the root of the problem.
  8. By sitting in silent meditation for many hours. You can't really act your way into selflessness. You must raise your consciousness to realize that self is a constructed coping mechanism.
  9. Try chocolate sex for extra consciousness.
  10. History does not paint a kind portrait of political mobs, revolutions, and coups.
  11. Of course you can have some more realizations without psychedelics, but there are many other realizations you will be missing.
  12. @mr_engineer Dude, you just keep digging yourself deeper into a hole with each post and rationalization.
  13. Don't whitewash Bush conservatives. They were also exceptionally stupid. The country was just in a different place. America is slowly losing its power as the world globalizes and American government refuses to evolve and make wise choices. It's a downwad spiral. As stupid people run the government it becomes less and less effective, until things are so broken that mobs of people get riled up and act in even more stupid ways, putting ever dumber leaders into government. The errors of Bush naturally lead to someone like Trump.
  14. Right wingers are so cringe. See, this is what happens with anti-wokeism.
  15. Of course, but then that same logic will apply to every spritual aspirant. Also, you have no idea how depressed you'd get if your life turned the wrong way. Your ideas of invulnerability are a fantasy. Some people are depressed because they have objectively worse lives than you.
  16. And you can raise a feral baby from Africa.
  17. The opposite point can also be made: regressive conservatives push Green into absurdity. When Andrew Tate and Kanye West say the things they say, can you really blame Green for cancelling them? Are we supposed to sit around and wait for Tate and Kanye to publically rape women and deport Jews before we call them out on their depravity? Is it gaslighting and virtue-signaling to ban Kanye West or Alex Jones from doing his right-wing rants? By its fundamentalist nature the right wing is not going to moderate itself. It will keep pushing for more and more regressive policies unless checked. If you let the right wing they will ban birth control and interracial marriage. And then they will start deporting people and reeducating the gays. And they will force their religon down everyone's throat. That's the anti-woke vision. You are not going to get "true liberalism" this way. Anti-woke reactionaries are precisely anti-liberal.
  18. DeSantis will have a hold on that place for a long time.
  19. Not necessarily so simple. Case in point: Alan Watts, who died a depressed alcoholic. A spiritual person can still get depressed in practice if their life takes a wrong turn. Spirituality does not make you invincible.
  20. Because it's just not satisfying. Relationships are burden enough. It makes no sense to pay the cost but not get satisfaction out of it -- which you will not get if there is not strong values alignment. The more conscious I get the less satisfaction I get from socializing with unconscious people. Not because I am closedminded, but because I have nothing to gain from it. For example, if I approach a girl who is a fundamentalist Christian I just walk away. There is no satisfaction I can get from her. I would rather be alone than keep the company of a fool. Why would I torture myself? When you relate with someone long-term they need to be roughly on your level.
  21. You just gotta face them with consciousness, without squirming away, and apply understanding, love, and surrender.
  22. They don't. Critiques of Green from above rare very rare. And even when they are made by people like Wilber or Teal, they are still misguided because the political battle doesn't stop to accomodate Yellow. In practice what would happen if Teal's political advice was followed is that American democracy would be overthrown in a fascist coup by mouthbreathing religous fanatics. the ironic thing is that the woke are the only thing standing between Teal being burned at the stake for the witch that she is. Once the MAGA take power then you'll really see "free speech" and "cancel culture". As intolerant as the woke are, anything less than woke is far more intolerant. And that intolerance will be felt by Teal and her tribe first and foremost. Teal's whole audience is full of soft Green crybabies who will be raped and trafficked by the likes of Tate and his Red Pill wannabes. Teal's role in an anti-woke society is either as a housewife or burning at the stake. She should know better having grown up in Mormon Utah. Green is not merely virtue signaling, Green is keeping corporations, fascists, and religious fanatics from enslaving you. You can't speak of the evils of Green without speaking of their positive function in society.