Leo Gura

I want to understand you better, to better tailor future content to your needs and to be a better teacher. To that end, post here your biggest challenges and obstacles with self-actualization, personal development, success, productivity, etc. Leave out obstacles related to enlightenment and spirituality because we'll have a separate thread for that in the Spirituality sub-forum. I don't need to hear your entire life story and all your petty problems. Try to condense it down to two or three core issues that you feel really stuck on. These might include challenging life circumstances like not knowing how to get a job, or a deep-seated fear that you can't seem to shake, or something you feel you don't understand about life which is causing you to stall, or a bad case of procrastination, or not being sure which career to pursue, etc. What's bugging you? What's keeping you up at night? What's triggering you emotionally? What's keeping you stuck? What's got you confused? Note: This thread is not meant to be me coaching you or giving you solutions to your problems. I just want to gather some data to better understand you. In the process, you may also better understand yourself. Thanks!

@Seed It's a toxin. It will ruin your liver.

Why does heroin feel so good?

Why the hell are you approaching a girl when she has a bf/husband? <insert Picard face palm> It's very obvious when the girl is walking alone. You def need to time your approach properly. Don't just approach like a bumbling fool.

Musk says plenty of hypey things. You ain't saving no state of mind, Lol. He has no clue how mind works.

Yeah, the Nothingness cannot be known. You can only BE it. Because knowing is dualistic but Nothingness is nondual.

Curt Jaimungal from the YT channel Theories Of Everything will be interviewing me on August 26th. He likes to ask audience questions. If you have questions you'd like him to ask me, you can submit your questions here: https://www.youtube.com/post/UgzBhcJpHS2wpYglo9N4AaABCQ You need to be logged in with your YT account to post your question on that page.

You can talk and theorize all you want, but the fact remains that a highly feminine girl would rather get fucked by a strong asshole than by a weak guy. You do not understand the woman's survival needs. You are projecting your own needs onto her. I wasn't quoting Incel dogma at you. I was telling you to create an online dating profile and actually test your theory. I have done so and I exactly know the results. The results are extremely predictable and mechanical. Run the test and see. Incels are not entirely wrong. They took some basic facts about female attraction and blown it way out of proportion and turned it into an excuse not to develop themselves in to strong men. There is no doubt whatsoever that women are highly attracted to status and leadership qualities. This doesn't guarantee anything, but it is a very consistent trend and a man would be a fool to not develop this factor in himself, just as a woman would be a fool not to wear makeup when trying to attract a man.

Obviously not in one day nor one week. 100 daytime approaches should take you months to complete. I would usually do 2-5 daytime approaches per outing within about 2-3 hours. And that was at a busy mall with 100s of women walking around. I was very selective during the day. The less picky you are the easier it will be. But I would only approach like top 2%-5% of women.

Be careful fooling yourself with these stories. Both of you. The ego will invent any story it can to stop its awakening. Including stories like: "I'm already awake enough" "I've had enough psychedelics, I get the gist of it" "I'm not ready to awaken"

Sometimes I would just scout around at first. But eventually I got a decent wingman and it was just our attitude to approach. I never bothered with indirect. It's not so hard. Your first few approaches will be aweful. Just keep at it. It helps to have an experienced wing, not some noob, who can demo a solid approach for you. Or at least watch some videos of how to do a solid daytime approach. Stop expecting anything good without practice. You haven't even done 1 approach and you are already complaining. Do 100, then complain.

There exist such risks. I hope you recover and ground yourself.

Stop being a pussy and just do direct approach. You are making too big a deal out of it.

Seeing clearly but narrowly.

Watch it or you're gonna get kicked out of here for spreading misinformation. You don't understand what Love is.

I have an opposite practice: contemplating that my death is imaginary. Even more powerful

@Gianna See my video: Body Awareness You have to feel into the energy and relax into it. Do that over and over and over again until it becomes natural and automatic. Shamanic breathing can also help. Then there's stuff like Reichean therapy. There are many body work modalities you could explore which I rarely talk about on my channel.

Love is the only reality.

I've been planning a philosophy vid for a long time.

Try to find therapists who actually do some spiritual practice themselves. Without spiritual practice a therapist is gonna be pretty clueless, especially relative to the kind of stuff we talk about here. You can also find life coaches who have paranormal abilities and are very spiritually attuned. Although these New Agey folk can also be bad listeners and project their New Age ideas on you.

@28 cm unbuffed Realistically you need to complete a coach training program. You have no idea how to coach people without that. Once you have the coaching skills, then it's all about finding clients.

You need a really good reason for why you must be free.

That means I speak from direct experience.

That's a wise observation.

Much farming these days is done by automated tractor robots. In the future all farming will be automated. Why would anyone want to work in the fields for 12 hours per day? This is like slavery. If kids can learn 12 years of mathematics, they can certainly be taught Spiral Dynamics and everything that Actualized.org teaches. It's not like this is rocket science. This stuff should be basic learning material for kids. It should all be known by the end of high school. There cannot be an advanced society without such education. So it will happen. You're just forgetting that we live in the Dark Ages.