Leo Gura

@Endangered-EGO I never speak about Jnanas and I consider all Jnanas to be bullshit in the end. God-realization is not a Jnana at all. And from my best understanding, Daniel Ingram is not conscious of what God is. His book certainly does not suggest so. You say Leo is playing games. But maybe it is Daniel who's playing games. How would you know the difference? Who's playing the Buddhist arahat? I don't go around calling myself an arahat. I'm simply claiming you're God imagining Daniel Ingram. So who's playing whom? If you are open to masters or teachers or teachings, you haven't realized that you're God. Kill the fucking Buddha. He's just your dream. Or keep dreaming you're a Buddhist.

Dating is a game tho. Flirting is a game. Enjoy it rather than fighting it. It's a dance.

That's the power of God. Like moths to a flame. Everything in the Universe flocks to Love.

This whole thread was predicated on the notion of withholding sex from men. Lol Look how the tables have turned! Withholding orgasm is the most powerful technique for mindblowing orgasms. Try it sometime.

True. Except, almost everyone is a lazy fuck, so almost everyone is vanilla and mediocre. So trying hard will get you amazing results. "I rejected that guy because he had style" said no woman ever.

It doesn't have to be fake. And it works amazing. True game is indistinguishable from reality. Which is why it works. If it's fake it isn't good game. The things I'm talking about will make a woman fall in love deeper than she's ever been before with "real" guys. "Real" guys are lame and don't give good love. You're not gonna great love from the typical lame ass guy. The stuff I'm talking about will make a guy more addictive to women than meth. Because it gives her the deep emotions and value she craves that no normal guy can give her. Understanding how the deeply satisfy a woman requires the work of a master. Almost no guy is willing to put in the work.

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Being neutral and vanilla is not a good attraction strategy. The most attractive guys are polarizing. Women who love them really love them, and women who don't love them really hate them. As a guy you don't want every woman to love you. You only want like 10-20% of them to love you, but REALLY love you. It's similar to business. You don't want a bunch of lukewarm tire-kickers, you want rabid fans who will buy your entire product line and tell all their friends about it. Most people probably hate Actualized.org, but those who love it love it more than anything else. Ta-daaa!

It could come from insecurity but doesn't have to. Most girls actually want their heart owned by the guy they fall in love with. Think about it. Detachment is a universal principle of power. God is infinitely detached and infinitely powerful. Coincidence? There's nothing more intimate than God I never said to control people. Controlling people is dumb.

Let's put it this way: What has the highest self-worth in the Universe? God. God has infinite self-worth since it is everything. And what is God's level of neediness? Zero Ta-daaa! Be like God and chicks will love you. God has the ultimate Game. God is the ultimate Player Value is a relative thing. Your standards of value do not run the game for anyone else but yourself.

Cessation is imaginary.

Every point within Infinity is simultaneously its beginning and end. It's like trying to find the beginning of a line which is a circle. You'll never find it. Reality is a perfect circle, which is the only way anything could exist. What you must grok is that there cannot be a beginning or an end, otherwise nothing could exist.

There is nothing more exceptional than realizing you're God. When you realize that, your need to be unique will drop away, since God is one of a kind by existential definition, and God is excellence second to none. Furthermore, your seeking of uniqueness or excellence is just a seeking for love. And there is no higher love than realizing you are God.

Caveman walked around in a mink coat, tribal tattoos, and jewelry. You wish you had as much style as a caveman

That's because you're needy yourself. The guy has to be less needy than the girl to maintain attraction. If the girl is super needy and low value she will tolerate a fairly needy low value guy. But the highest value girls are the least needy and will drop needy guys like flies. It's a value game. If you don't expect high value the game is much easier. As the value approaches zero the game approaches zero.

Actually, for you thirsty guys, one of the biggest boss moves you can make is once you got a girl hooked, you withhold sex for a few dates until she is clawing for it like a cat. This will build insane attraction. The only downside is you gotta truly be non-needy, which is hard. Takes skill and experience to pull that off. That's like a grand-master move. You get her super horny, and then you just drop it and never have sex with her that night. This is SO powerful that it borders on sadistic mind control. You can totally own her heart with that one. So be careful what you wish for ladies. You just might get it. Counter-intuitive moves

Most people are stuck in desperate and miserable relationships that they are too terrified to leave because they know they will be lonely for years to come. Social, relationship, and sexual abundance is a rare thing that requires serious work to build unless you're really lucky. People would kill to have it, but no one wants to do the work to develop it, because the work is so emotionally challenging. Building my social skills is one of the most challenging things I've undertaken in my life. It is easier for me to earn $1 million dollars. If I could pay someone $1M to do it for me, I would, and it would be worth it. Unfortunately no one can do your pushups for you.

Yes, some guys are lucky enough to be "naturals" but that's not a dependable strategy for solving this issue for most guys. That's like saying to a bunch of entrepreneurs: But aren't some people just born billionaires? Everything I talk about assumes that you're trying to become self-made. You start with nothing but brains and ambition, and then you build the life of your dreams. To me, the whole point of life is to become self-made.

Easy for you to say because it's not your job to create it. Guy has to lead so he cannot be passive about it, he has to architect it. And that requires practice. What you're really saying is you want a master architect who's made the process so smooth it looks indistinguishable for spontaneous. But that's like telling a stand-up comedian to not write any jokes and do it all off the top of his head. Sounds easy, but very hard to pull that off in practice. Master comedians spend 1000s of hours training. I've spent many many hours training my humor just so I can deploy it spontaneously with girls. Now it is natural, but man, training it was anything but natural. Being vulnerable Sharing life stories and dreams Sharing your values Eye contact Physical touch Finding commonalities and common interests Getting emotional together You gotta learn to consciously create all that on a dime. Don't just sit around waiting for it to happen. CREATE it. Well, of course intimacy is a relative notion. You're not going to create in 2 hours the kind of intimacy you get with a 2 year sexual relationship. Sex itself creates intimacy. But you'd be amazed how much intimacy can be created in 2 hours if you're really shooting for it. Certainly enough for the girl to want sex. It doesn't take much for that. But of course that's still all shallow and it will continue to grow from that point. The techniques for building intimacy are the same whether it's 2 hrs or 2 years.

Pat is so stage Orange it oozes from his face

You need to approach your fashion and look holistically. It's not about any one type of thing, it's about the whole package which must suit your body type and personality too. Best advice is to hire a professional image consultant and follow her recommendations to buy a whole new wardrobe. She needs to help you develop a style which you will then shop in alignment with from now on. It's hard to develop a style on your own unless you got a knack for that sort of thing. Invest some money in a consultant. It will pay dividends for the rest of your life. Style matters a lot. You can increase your attractiveness several fold just by figuring out your style. Women are very keen to notice if you got style or not. It's all part of your whole vibe that she feels upon first impression. If you are dressed in ratty stuff you will be losing girls.

Reddit is a toxic cesspool. Stop consuming such low vibration information from losers. Find a good pickup forum where guys are taking action and not making any excuses. The narratives your mind spins will make or break you in pickup. You must become your own cheerleader, even if you have a shitty night you gotta immediately reframe it as: this was a good lesson for next night. All future nights will now be better. Like bad trips, your worst nights are some of your best for growth. Failure at getting a girl is not failure in growth. Not at all. Never judge your night based on whether you got the girl. Judge your night based on how much action you took and how many new lessons arose. Losing the girl is what teaches you the deepest lessons. You will lose 100s of girls, so get used to it. Do not consume attraction information from anyone who isn't going out at least several nights per week. Only their advice and opinions matter. Do not allow keyboard jockeys in your mind. Most guys online are keyboard jockeys. They don't approach.

Dude, stop reading such negative shit. If you actually start talking to girls you'll see that you mostly get positive reactions. You need to bask only in positivity when you're doing this. You need to practice delusional levels of positivity here. Do not allow a single negative thought into your mind no matter what happens. Clubbing solo is one of the hardest things a guy can do. But damn does it grow you if you can pull it off. Get some wingmen to bolster you. Going out solo as a newbie is not usually sustainable. You need some emotional support structure from wings when starting off.

Hence you must practice it. Become selfless. Or suffer your selfishness.

Joke's on him. The only point of philosophy is to realize that death doesn't exist How the fuck could death be real? Who is dying? Where would you go when there's no difference between anywhere?