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Dude, seriously, this one line will get you laid like 10x more than you currently do, if you stick with the girl to the bitter end. The magic rule for getting laid is to be next to her bed at the end of the night. The #1 reason you're not getting laid is because you're not within proximity of her bed. No amount of game or fancy flirting with get you laid if you are not next to a bed. No matter where the girl says she's going, just keep asking her, "Can I come with you?" If she likes you she will almost always say Yes. And that's all you need.

Realistically most new girls you number-close will flake you. Because dating someone from cold approach is a bit unusual. Girls mostly date from social circle. If you're pulling a girl from the club, you should almost certainly expect her to flake on you the next day. Which is why you gotta close the same night. Don't settle for phone numbers from the club. They are nearly worthless. Because the girl is in the club to party. She is not going to date your after the party, so close her that night or lose her forever. This is not because you aren't attractive. This will happen no matter how attractive you are. The girl's mood completely changes the next day. It also has nothing to do with the fact that you are aboard or visit home regularly. If you are going for phone numbers, grab many numbers per night and don't party too much with the girls. Make your interactions rather short (15-30 mins). If you're going to stick to one girl the whole night and party with her, you must pull her for sex, not ask for a number. Decide which kind of game you wanna do. If you danced together for so long, why didn't you go back to her place to close??? Don't just split up at the end of the night, you need to seed an after-party at your place or just ask her, "Can I come with you?" if she is going home. That one simple line will get you laid many a time. Do not leave the girl unless she tells you, Go away! Stick with her to the bitter end. Also, don't party with her too late. You need to pull relatively early so she's not burned out from partying. The goal is not to party or dance. The goal is to end up alone with her. Keep your goal clearly in mind and don't get misled by mindless partying late into the night.

Being too cheap ultimately hurts you. So relax and spend a little when it is reasonable The key is not to let girls use you for freebies or to think that buying them stuff will get them to like you. Attract them with your personality and then spend a bit if it helps smooth things along. And if she is your GF, treat her well. There is no reason to be cheap after sex.

They feed SIBO so absolutely not for me.

The answer is the same. But what you're missing is the actual consciousness of INFINITY. When you finally reach INFINITY it will all make sense. And until then it won't.

You can ask this question of literally any thing. The answer will always be INFINITY. You cannot understand how any one thing can exist without realizing that all possible things must exist within INFINITY. So the simple answer is: any thing exists because EVERYTHING exists. Consciousness is an Infinite Mind which imagines every possible thing that could ever be imagined. Gravity just so happens to be one of those things.

Given how weak and pathetic this opportunity is, you'd be best off just going out and meeting new girls. Of course you can try to ask one of them out. It's just so obviously thin on attraction. You're basically hoping for a freebie lay. Even if you get it it won't teach you anything because you didn't really create it, just fell in your lap. Focus your mental energy on building your skills and creating serious attraction, not licking up crumbs you find on the side of the road.

You are actually assuming that experience/perception is a veil that keeps you from the Truth. What you're missing is that experience/perception is Absolute Truth. Direct experience is NOT an assumption. But all assumptions are a kind of experience.

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The fundamental problem here is that you are way too focused on these particular girls when you should be focused on meeting dozens of new girls each week. You cannot be successful with girls by hoping that one of them will like you. This is like waiting for lightning to strike your house.

I don't hate Facebook.

It's odd to want to date someone you haven't even seen. You need to see them and pick one target.

For a turkey the sun rises every day except Thanksgiving

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Figure it out for yourself.

That's what happens when you don't learn proper physical escalation.

Yeah, well, most scientists are shit scientists. A few might know it conceptually, but they don't really understand what I am saying. You guys are not taking this issue seriously enough.

You let go of all effort and manipulation of yourself and your experience. Zero manipulation. No, it makes you stronger. Not being able to let go of a thing is a weakness.

To realize the Infinite Self requires awakening. It is not a logical deduction. So that's what you are missing. Meditation requires a deep letting go. I recommend the do-nothing technique for you, so that you let go of trying to meditate as you meditate. It takes practice to get the hang of it. Yes, the ego-mind want to control meditation and this obstructs true meditation.

@DocWatts Thomas Kuhn was on the right track, but he himself had no clue how deep the problem of science goes. Science is imaginary. Good luck finding a single scientist in the world who understands that.

Seriously developing yourself as a man will never be as popular or mainstream as stuff like blackpill, redpill, incels, etc. Because the most popular stuff is designed for lazy people who don't want to do any work. And becoming a powerful man requires enormous work. Of course you can teach whatever you want. But just understand that real success cannot be turned into a meme or an ideology. It's the same problem as trying to popularize God or enlightenment. Pickup is not dead. There are more guys doing and teaching pickup than ever. Just don't go about it in a toxic way. All the core principles of attraction and how to be a man have been discovered and articulated long ago. The problem is that it's so challenging that most guys don't want to do the work to actualize it.

Do not bring this toxic attitude here.

@StarStruck Just keep quiet and do the practices. You don't need to whine about it constantly. You are creating this extra layer of suffering. This journey is not about getting any specific girl. It is about growing yourself as a man. Therefore it doesn't matter if you lose any particular girl. Keep your eye on the big picture, not one girl or one date. Notice that every time you go out and talk to girls you improve a little. Focus on the positive. Focus on what is working.

@StarStruck How about you just stop making such a fucking drama out of approaching girls? Just approach and stop caring so much about outcome. Enjoy the process and stop complaining about every thing. Not every girl you interact with is supposed to sleep with you. Less complaining more approaching.