Leo Gura

Well, friends often just grow apart or drop away due to higher priorities elsewhere. Sustaining a deep friendship usually requires constant maintainence work.

It's interesting to read my own words from years ago. I was reacting to a lot of toxic stuff I saw within RSD at the time. Admittedly, it's very tricky balancing between the dysfunctions men run into when they can't get laid vs the dysfunctions of being stuck in stage Orange. I do see pickup as serving a need in men, but it comes with the cost of trapping men in a stage Orange level of development. The thing is, the craving for sex has a way of warping one's entire worldview. And I am not immune to that dynamic. I have realized lately that part of my evolution and self-love involves fulfilling some of those base cravings rather than denying them. The trick is to not get lost in that. It's easy to create rationalizations for pickup and rationalizations against it. From the man's POV, there is a problem that most women are not turned on by high consciousness behavior, there if one wants to attract attractive women one is forced to stoop to a lower level that causes the women to get raw attraction. It's a similar problem to selling high consciousness things to the general population. The general population won't buy it and you might go broke. So there is a very challenging trade-off between sex vs consciousness.

Seems like this is just a tool for inventing more and better drugs

I want his costume!

Tis difficult to live without jerking off either

No girl loves you unless she is sleeping with you. Except maybe your mother or sister. You got major friendzoned. Were you expecting it to get romantic? If so, it failed because you were too needy and soft with her. For a girl to sleep with you she needs to feel like you challenge and dominate her. To be less needy you have to be socializing and flirting with lots of girls on a regular basis so you don't hinge your hopes on any one of them. Then from that situation you can pull a girlfriend. And as you get with more girls you will become less needy. You just need to be around a lot more girls. You're stuck in deep scarcity which makes you extremely needy and repulsive to women. The thing women hate most is neediness and creepiness. You need to change your lifestyle such that more women flow through your life on a regular basis.

Of course your first approaches will be awful. Dude, the embarrassment is all in your head. She forgot about you 60 seconds after you left and on one else knows. She will never think of you again. This line/frame is too needy and clingy. A better frame would be: "Good, you can dance for me." Or if this was a nighttime conversation you could make it more sexual and flirty by saying something like: "I hope at least 1 of those years they taught you how to give a good lap dance ;)" And rather then telling her she must be really good, you flip it around and say, "You must really suck then". Just think of communicating with girls as opposite-land. Everything is the opposite of what it seems. Often times saying the opposite of your gut instinct is the best move. If she tells you she's a dancer, take the opportunity to misinterpret that she is a stripper and tease her on it. And when she says, "I'm not a stripper!" you could tell her something like, "I will teach you and then your dancing will pay for our mortgage ;)" You have to learn to flirt. - - - - - But don't worry about it. For a first approach you did fine. Learning to flirt will take 1000s of approaches.

1) Even guys with the best game in the world lose girls ALL the time. Game does not gaurantee you results with any specific girl, it just raises your odds. 2) Most girls will flake on you even if you build attraction and rapport. Simply because she has zero investment in you until sex. This is expected. 3) The fact is your game still probably sucks and so the attraction you built wasn't as great as you might imagine. There are MANY degrees of attraction. Your attraction was probably luke-warm. 4) It's simply possible that after getting to know you (via rapport) she found that you weren't a good fit for her. This can also happen. You're not going to fit every girl. 5) Stop investing so much hope into any one girl. You will lose girls by the dozen so get used to it and stop caring about it. Go talk to more girls who are down. 6) Girls are so flaky and fickle that they will flake you even after dates. Which is why closing is so important. You have to really grasp that a girl has nearly zero investment in you until sex. Their moods will change, their lives are chaotic, they have no idea what they want, obstacles arise, etc.

It's funny that no one who was abducted by aliens ever reports them wearing fancy watches or other bling.

Destroying property is illegal and people are sentenced and fined for that if caught. Rightly so. Doesn't matter if they are progressives. Also, many rioters are not progressives, rather they are venting their anger or exploiting a situation. There is not a rioting culture.

Well, that's said tongue-in-cheek and what it really means is: you're having sex with yourself.

5-MeO-MIPT is amazingly erotic.

It's easy to be celibate when you're so hairy chicks can't even find your dick

You will find them, but it's not solid game. You should be capable of handling groups too.

Get used to approaching girls in groups. Girls are mostly found in a herd. You can't rely on solo sets. There's never enough of them. A large group can paradoxically be easier because the rest of the girls can entertain themselves and may not even notice you pulling one girl away. Soloing 2-sets tends to be the hardest.

@diamondpenguin Banned

It's in the What Is Paradox video.

@Thought Art Sounds like your brain/genetics just isn't primed for it. Move on to other chemicals.

You are God

You got 4 options: 1) I'm out solo tonight. I'm a man, not a herd animal. 2) My friends are around [point in random direction] 3) Meeting up with them in a bit. 4) I'm too shy to have any friends. [must be said while being very obviously charismatic and extroverted] And change topic.

15-30 mins is not distant. You can easily set up dates. Pulling will be tough at 30 mins. In which case you pull to her place, or car, or public restroom, or in some dark alley, or buy a hotel room on the spot. Don't be afraid to buy a room if your girl is really into you.

@SQAAD Stop being in your head about it and start taking corrective action.

The hottest girls are usually the lowest consciousness simply because their life is so easy that developing consciousness wasn't necessary. People whose lives are too easy or privileged end up spoiled. Even good looking guys will often have shit game because they are too spoiled to actually do the hard work necessary to develop game. I would never have developed game if I had girls throwing themselves at me. And this is why women don't need game. Because it's so easy to get laid as a woman that getting laid isn't even a thing women think about. That's how easy it is. To a woman the idea that getting laid could be a problem hardly even makes sense.

Again, only if your perspective is limited enough. In the highest possible perspective everything is insignificant. Fixing a stutter is not some impossible task. You're just making excuses.

Because you're looking at this whole dating situation from your POV. Girls on this forum do not accurately represent the general population of girls that guys will be approaching. I understand your experience, but your experience does not change what it takes for a guy to attract women. Yes, for guys, getting laid is a very practical survival issue. That's the guy's agenda. The getting laid videos were not designed for women, and I don't expect women to like them or to understand how attraction works. Because that is not your agenda and you do not care about the guy's agenda. If I was making a video series for women, it would be totally different, honoring your agenda. It's like you walk into a guy's restroom and complain about the urinals. Yes, I get it that you don't care for urinals. The fundamental issue here is that men and women have different reproductive agendas. Which is why these videos have a very specific and clear target audience. Women should not be watching videos about how to get laid. It's just going to rile you up. When you take the position that "getting laid doesn't matter", that is your agenda. That's not the guy's agenda. But you want guys to adopt your agenda as the one true agenda. And therein lies the problem because our agendas are different and there is no one true agenda. Which is why I don't bother explaining game to girls. It is not in your agenda to understand it.