Leo Gura

@somegirl Everyone wants someone with higher reproductive value than themselves. It's just selfishness 101. You want the best deal you can get. When someone's reproductive value is lower than yours, you don't find that person attractive. That's what attractive means: someone who's a good deal for you. The reason you don't find a homeless bum attractive is because he's obviously a bad deal for you. You think you can get better. We all do this.

Well, maybe that's cause you don't got serious game. Of course I am talking about MEN. For women my game advice does not apply. I am not here teaching game to women.

@JTL Your problem was that you didn't build enough rapport with her first. In a dating situation you gotta build rapport and comfort, then start going for kisses and things. She told you exactly what you did wrong: "we barely knew each other".

Kissing is not always gonna lead to sex. It's totally fine to kiss and even heavy makeout without sex on the same night. Realistically many girls will not sleep with you on 1st date. But kissing on a first date is pretty much mandatory in my book if there is chemistry. No girl will have a problem with that. Of course it's more effective to have sex with her as soon as possible because she has no loyalty or investment in your before sex. She's gonna waste a lot of your time the longer you take to close. But you shouldn't be too pushy or thirsty about it. You have to accept the reality that sex on the first date will often not happen for whatever reasons, many of which could simply be logistical. You don't need to close just because you kissed a girl. Relax. Just don't make her feel slutty or cheap. That's the key. There are several reasons: 1) It develops her trust in you as the leader. She needs to get comfortable following your lead. So the more you can lead her the better. 2) It tests how compliant/invested she is in you. If she's not following your lead, that's your clue it's not going well. 3) The more locations you bounce her to, the more she will feel like she has known you for a long time. It makes 1 date feel like 3 dates. Which means things will move along faster. Why waste time doing 3 dates when you can do one date in 3 locations and get the same effect? 4) And of course eventually you have to lead her to the bedroom. When that opportunity arises she has to feel totally comfortable about following you into the bedroom. If you just try to go from a sit down date to your bedroom that is gonna feel too abrupt and awkward and she will likely not follow. You want to make the transitions as smooth and natural as possible so there is no awkwardness.

If you want to date a provider guy, be my guest. But I will not mold into your frame. My love and presence is more than enough. I don't need to be your provider. It's amusing the game you play: "Leo, you must be a provider guy otherwise you are unloving and you will never have a good relationship. And you suck." See the game you play? How convenient that your view perfectly aligns with your survival agenda.

So you're saying... "I'm not fired, I quit!" What you ladies don't understand is that you're sitting here on a forum logically analyzing who you would date or sleep with. But in real life your sexual arousal has nothing to do with logic. Don't get upset at me for not meeting your financial needs. I don't like to mix finances with love. Ask yourself why you want that. You say I don't embody love, but I don't see buying you stuff as necessary for love.

And what about the homeless in your city? Why don't you go marry one of them and take care of them? A relationship is not charity work. I have no interest in dating a broke and helpless girl. She is not worthy of dating me given how hard I work on myself. It's probably possible but you gotta offer a lot of value in the non-social areas. Great game and great sex will open many doors. But also long-term you two may not be a grear match. Sex is one thing, long-term relationship compatibility is another. Sex-wise you can basically sleep with any girl if your game is good enough.

It's just a rough estimate. Maybe you can increase it to 20% or 30%. What you're not realizing is that 10% is a lot and more than enough.

Girl, you and every other human on the planet. Because what you want is someone above you.

@Illusory Self Buddy, learn game. Your looks don't work without game. You need to become a leader and a closer. Game will teach you that. Dude, once you get experienced with physical escalation you can go physical immediately in night game with no pretenses. I open most girls with physical and just by looking at the reaction on her face I know whether I can immediately escalate further. Within 30 seconds I can have my hands holding her hips and rubbing her body in a sexy way and she is loving it. It takes practice and calibration. Do a 30 day challenge where every girl you open with physical and escalate as rapidly as she will let you. This is for night game only. Physical opens are polarizing. They force her to immediately decide if she is into you. You either get blown out immediately or it hooks like crazy. It's a great way to cut the bullshit and see if a girl is DTF.

@StarStruck Most of his content is free. Don't be an ingrate.

You are Infinity, which is every possible thing that could be imagined.

There have been server issues over the last week that I am working to resolve. In the meantime loading might be slow.

No, that is not correct. Game is way more important than anything else. I would rather not give advice to women on this because it would not be based on my direct experience. The truth is I don't know what it's like from an unattractive woman's POV.

Huge mistake. Girls will never understand why guys learn game and they will give you zero points for it and they will find it repulsive. They just expect you to have masterful game. Don't talk about game with girls. Just do it and enjoy the benefits. Don't try to explain anything to her. She does not give a fuck about your inability to get laid. And she will not fuck you out of empathy. And in general, stop interacting with girls on a serious level. You are way too serious here, trying to push your problems on the girl. Don't burden her with your personal struggles. She does not care and she will not help you.

In other words she is broke. Huge turn off. Not my responsibility if you are broke. That's fine but also depends on how ambitious your girl is. Some girls are okay just chilling at home, others demand more. The more ambitious she is the more your ambition and lifestyle will have to match or exceed hers.

Do lots of research into various niches and markets. You need direct experience with various markets so find opportunities.

Bad dualistic logic. The problem here is that you're assuming speech is something. Speech is Nothing. That's the point. Something vs nothing is a distinction without any underlying reality. Speech is something according to you, because you hold it that way.

If the girl is invested in me and it's a gf situation, I don't mind spending some money. It's less a function of buying her things and just more a function of sharing my abundant lifestyle with her. I don't buy her stuff directly, it's more about sharing with her the opportunities and adventures that my lifestyle affords. So she will feel well-treated. For example, when I cook her food, I buy high quality food, not cheap junk. When she sleeps over at my house, it's a nice house that lots of money and effort went into building. Etc. Building an awesome lifestyle is an important part of game. Then you just share that lifestyle with girls are invested in you. But I am not going to be directly paying your bills.

I used to not. These days I would pay if not-paying creates awkwardness. The only point is to minimize awkwardness.

Dude, when you meet your dream girl you will not have the skills to close her. You will fuck it up. You can easily convert casual sex into a relationship. Like maybe 50% conversion rate if you want.

It's not even the size of the city that counts, it's the opportunities present for approaching. Move to a city with great day game or night game options. Ideally both. Some big cities are still bad for learning game because they have a bad nightlife.

The point of casual sex is that it is part of a larger process of finding a good long-term partner and building up skills and experience.

Why taint your love life with financial matters? If she loves you, she loves you for you, not anything else.

Simply eating more calories already decreases your longevity and health. Never mind all the shit he was eating and injecting. Bodybuilders tend to be very stuck in stage Orange.