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@Gerhard Very nice! Thanks for sharing your experiences so clearly.

Yes, if you would not like to be robbed yourself.

Dawkins is God If Dawkins ever realizes that, he will naturally beg for forgiveness for being so stupid. And then he will realize that since he's God/Love, no forgiveness is necessary. And that will be God's forgiveness. God's forgiveness is that there's absolutely nothing wrong and noting to forgive. God's Love is eternally unshakable. And this Love is YOU! Sophisticated jargon is often a defense mechanism against Truth. Notice how academics love to talk in complicated ways about reality while having no clue what reality is. This is not an accident. This is a clever game their ego plays. It fools everyone around itself, including itself, that it knows more than it does. Academics cannot admit to themselves that all knowledge is groundless and impossible from the absolute perspective. Consciousness must be prior to all knowledge. It is a mistake to try to get in the weeds of his technical work. The deeper point is: all of his work is pure concept & symbols. But God/Infinity cannot ever be symbolized because all symbols are finite. No matter how good your models of God are, they are not the same as being conscious of yourself as God. God-realization cannot be symbolic. You cannot think your way into God-realization. Langan is simply not in a high enough state of consciousness to realize that he's God. It's not his fault. He just isn't conscious of higher states. With that said, his models and descriptions of Oneness are pretty good -- as models. He gets a lot of stuff right. But it's still not God-realization and pure nonduality. Good vs evil is a duality. The easiest way to understand that Langan is wrong is simply to ask yourself, "What kind of God would punish people? What purpose could it possibly serve?" It's obvious that God cannot have any need of punishing anyone. Such a God would be evil. And evil cannot exist God cannot punish you because God is so conscious it knows it is you. Why would God punish itself? This would be pure stupidity. So Langan's God is evil and stupid. Your heart knows this is wrong. Deep down you know you are not evil. Neither is anyone else. The most you can be is confused about your true nature.

Where does the present exist? Where does anything exist? Where did whereness come from? That could be your koan

It exists in this dream of yours as a concept. A fundamental part of how your Mind constructs "material reality" is by creating a distinction between actual vs conceptual things. But of course you could stop dreaming that distinction, which could allow a Flying Spaghetti Monster to materialize. But the ego has no control over this. Therefore you don't take the possibility seriously and dismiss it as "fantasy" or wishful thinking. But if you took enough Salvia or LSD, you could see a real material Flying Spaghetti Monster. Of course afterwards you would probably rationalize it away as "unreal". But you're doing that in order to maintain your construction of a "material reality". If you didn't actively do this, material reality would start to dematerialize, which you would perceive as going insane. Understand this: if you allowed yourself to see a physical Flying Spaghetti Monster you would think you lost your mind and start taking anti-psychotic medication just to curb the fear of losing your mind. People don't realize how much their "reality" and "sanity" are connected. The highest spiritual insights and experiences would be considered insane by most people. This must be the case in order to maintain the illusion of "material reality." If someone like Jordan Peterson took enough psychedelics or meditated long enough, he would start to go insane and freak the fuck out as his whole sense of reality collapsed around him. It would be quite dangerous.

I call them Love. Existence is Absolute. Nothing can be against it. Oneness cannot be against itself. But also it can If your consciousness rises high enough, you will see that nothing in reality is against itself. It's PERFECT. God is PERFECTION. And since there is nothing but God, everything is PERFECTION. Perfection is a function of selflessness. You literally cannot perceive perfection unless you are selfless. - - - - - - Langan is a Trump supporter. That tells everything you need to know. Langan has not reached God-realization. It's quite obvious.

Girls love getting fucked by an attractive guy. Don't forget that. She's not some angel.

It's not that they are unaware. It's just that they are attracted to strong men. And the strongest men are very detached because lots of girls are attracted to them, so they have little reason to commit to any one girl. She wants to cuddle with precisely the guy who doesn't care about cuddling with her. She is seeking to get max value, just like guys are seeking max value by approaching the hottest girls. Both sides are just trying to max out survival value for themselves. It's pure selfishness. It has nothing to do with truth. It's just a game both sides play unconsciously.

Obviously that won't work because you're asking for too much compliance too quickly. But what can work is: "Hey, let's go to my friend's afterparty. It will be fun and you can leave whenever you want. It's only 2 blocks away. Come with me. We'll play beer pong. It's better than here." Girls are extremely social. So if you design easy social scenarios they are very likely to go along and never question it. And along the way they get to know you and get attracted.

Yeah, I get it. I am the same way. But girls are not attracted to that. They don't care about cuddling with you until you fuck them. Of course you could run all of game and just never close. But in practice game is so challenging that by the time you reach the point of closing you will be eager to close and also she will want you to close. She will feel bad if you take it that far and then just reject her. Girls suck at handling rejection like that.

Well, girls are attracted to assertiveness and leadership, so simply by being very strong at leading her you may flip on her attraction when otherwise she would have been cold. But hey, test it out and see what works. This is not something to philosophize about. Test it emprically.

That's a very difficult issue. In practice to get good at game you have to not settle down for a while. But girls will not like it. So there is an ethical trade off there. If you are pulling from clubs it's gonna be easier not to settle down vs doing dating. Dating sets up an expectation that you want her as your GF. She will tend to expect that. So one way to go is to wear your player frame very upfront, so she's not confusing you for BF material. But even so, most girls will want to make you exclusive if you sleep with them more than once. There is a good reason why most guys are not great at game: you basically have to have very little empathy for the girls to pull it off. The more selfish you are, the more girls you will get. There's no way around that. Girls love to sleep with detached sociopathic players. I am not telling what to do, I am telling you the realities of attraction.

Bartending and sales to women are probably the most obvious.

This is not an issue at all unless you're a total vulture.

The thing is, compliance and attraction are going to be connected. If she's not attracted she's not going to comply enough. Of course going for compliance very early on is a good way to feel girls out and quickly screen who is down or not. Of course assuming attraction helps. But many girls will simply not be attracted or compliant with you. Logistics is a huge part of outer game of course, and guys who get laid a lot are extremely good at handling logistics and very strong at leading.

Women are not attracted by logical facts! Age is a logical fact. It doesn't matter. Just make her feel good and she will get attracted.

Lol Evil does not exist.

@Nyseto Banned for being blatantly ideological. This is not how we behave here. This forum is not a place for spewing political dogma and tribalism. If you are going to talk about politics here do so in a non-ideological and non-partisan way.

It's planned

Why does rape mess people up but not sex?

@Adodd No, those are meant to be watched after the stage videos.

Of course you could. But then you got a frog to take care of.

You have no idea what you're saying.

Most socialization is shallow. Not everything in life needs to be profound or "spiritual". You're not gonna get laid or find your soul mate sitting at home reading philosophy books. Chances are you will meet your husband/wife through some shallow social activity, not anything profound. Why do you disparage it as "fake"? A party is a party. Vegas parties are just bigger and cooler than most other parties. There's nothing any more fake about it than a tribe of 20 naked shamans dancing around a bonfire in the Amazon. Humans have been partying and getting laid since the dawn of time. A party is not supposed to be profound.

As I said many times, it's not about the sex. It's about developing oneself into a strong man and building skills and charisma. A good escort in Vegas will cost $1000+. And she will not be as hot or nice as a girl you develop a genuine connection with. It's not just a night of sex. These girls can be converted to a girlfriend, wife, whatever. Think of what it does to a guy's self-esteem if the only way he knows how to get sex is through prostitutes. How would you feel if the only guys who wanted to fuck you, you had to pay them? You would want to kill yourself. Most nights I get into the best clubs for free. If pay cover I see it as an investment into a life-long skill set. A good self-help or biz seminar might cost $2000-$5000. Investing $10,000 into building game is a great investment for a guy.