Leo Gura

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It's a silly idea. Just go have sex. A strong bond is developed over time and sex is a crucial part of that development process. You need to look at the brainwashing you received which is sourcing your resistance to sex. Because it is brainwashing. You didn't come up with that idea by yourself. Someone lodged it into your mind and now you're running that mind virus. It's going to kill your results with girls and your ability to find a quality partner. No girl worth dating these days is gonna wait until marriage to have sex with you. She will just move on to a guy who knows how to fuck her properly. Quality sex requires experience and training. It's gonna be very lame for you to dating girls who have way more sexual experience than you. And dating a girl with zero sexual experience is nothing good either. The bottom line is that you want lots of experience, you have none right now, and your strategy is to keep your experience at zero. This is not a smart strategy. If you don't fuck a girl within a few weeks of dating her, she's just gonna lose interest and leave you. You will actually deeply disappoint her because she will think, "What's wrong with me? Why doesn't we want me?" Eventually she's figure out that you're not man enough to fuck her and she will lose all attraction for you. A girl gives you a relatively short window of time to close her. If you hesitate to pull the trigger, the window will close and you will lose the girl. She wants a man who's clear about what he wants, and clear that he wants her, and willing to act boldly to take her. It's actually healthy for you to stop putting sex up on a pedestal. Sex can be special but it doesn't have to be and shouldn't always be. If you treat it as something so special you will actually become way too needy and it will become dysfunctional. Sex doesn't start off very special. It becomes special as you have it more and more with the same girl.

That's just how girls have sex. You will rarely find a girl on psychedelics other than Molly. And those girls are super annoying to deal with. They will not fuck you because they will experience a Molly crash. Eject and move to a sober girl. You don't want to be babysitting a girl on Molly.

Something like the Catholic church, or MAGA, or Incel stuff is about as bad.

For me it's pretty easy/obvious. The best way I can put it is: it feels like you awoke from a dream. It sounds like an awakening but it still lacks the depth, fullness, and clarity that is possible. You just need discover more facets to the awakening. This will make it fuller and you will realize what you are. You're definitely on the right track. Keep going.

Awakenings are a subset of mystical experience. Mystical experience is a more broad term which covers all sorts of trans-materialistic experiences like visions, aliens, angels, devils, religious experiences, out of body, astral, etc. All awakenings are mystical experiences but not all mystical experiences are awakenings. Many religious people have mystical experiences but they do not awaken from the dream nor realize themselves as God. It's easy to get lost in the content of mystical experiences (like seeing an angel), whereas awakening cuts through all content (the angel is realized to be one's own Mind). Awakening is the trump card. It answers EVERYTHING.

No. It must be done with skill. It's not a function of some number. It's a function of developing skill. Stop expecting some kind of guarantees for mediocrity. Not so. Do not underestimate the power that slut-shaming has over girls. It's baked into her mind even if no one ever calls her a slut. Even in Vegas, even party girls, even slutty girls, will not sleep with you if they catch of whiff that she will be perceived as slutty. The power this holds over girls is insane. This is why girls will sleep with you one night, and then pretend they don't even know you the next. It's like they erase you from their minds.

It's easily possible because self-deception is always at play and this guy is obviously ignorant of all the nuances of spiritual work, epistemology, government, developmental psychology, etc. When you give a fundamentally ignorant and immature person a dose of legit spirituality he will turn it into his unique brand of devilry. This is why we spend 100s of hours talking about the deep theoretical foundations of this work. There is much nuance to learn which this dude obviously does not comprehend.

Any psychedelic can do it at a high enough dose. Just be careful what you wish you.

Could? Hahahahahahahahahahahaha....

They sleep around but hide it. The loss of value is largely a perception game.

Because a woman's sexual value peaks early and is displayed externally. Women are also extremely social. This strategy allows women to play the buyer role while guys play the seller role. Women have to be much choosier because they are only looking for one guy. Guys are looking to sleep with dozens of women. It's fundamentally asymmetrical. A guy's survival is enhanced from sleeping around, a woman's survival is threatened. The one who needs sex less has the higher leverage. Women need it less. Unless the guy is sleeping with multiple women. So the hottest women implicitly want men who sleep with lots of women. The more women a guy sleeps with, the more attracted she gets to him. The hottest women are attracted to guys with crazy sexual abundance because hot women have crazy sexual abundance.

When you trip so deeply that you forget you even had a human life prior to this trip. When the impossible becomes your new reality.

The point is not to lose all connection with the body but to realize that you are God -- that body is God.

In practice many people kill themselves each year thanks to low self-esteem and lack of self-love. Or they suffer depression, anger, and other issues. But also don't kid yourself. You have not approached nearly that many girls. If you did, you would be getting laid. And most girls have no problem getting laid.

Maybe it's not a dead end but a never-ending upward spiral towards God.

I don't sleep with wasted girls. Most girls have one or two drinks before having sex. This is normal social convention. I would rather girls were totally sober if it was up to me. If I'm pulling a girl I actually discourage her from drinking more because I don't like her drunk. When you got game, having girls drunk is not an advantage. It often creates needless problems. But most people are not good at building their own state while sober. They drink to let loose and get playful. This is how most people have sex. They use alcohol because they haven't taken the time to master inner game.

A man's self-esteem does depend on how well women respond to him. If you suck with girls that can't but tank your self-esteem. Just like if he cannot hold onto a job, that will tank a man's self-esteem. And if a girl is never approached by men, that will also tank her self-esteem. People want to feel sexually desirable.

Outdoors can be tricky. More things can go wrong. 1g is a good starting dose. I would not give her more. Also, be careful giving psychedelics to others, as that technically makes you a dealer.

@actually Channel that mental energy into making yourself a stronger man for other girls. The truth you're avoiding here is that you're not as strong a man as you thought you were. Okay, that's good feedback. Take that feedback and go make yourself stronger. Note: this is not about sleeping with other girls to get over your ex, this is about growing yourself into a stronger man so that next time you're in relationship you feel secure and grounded. It's about raising your value so that girls don't want to leave you. The hotter the girl the more grounded she will need you to be for her.

Aight, party over.

This.

I am happy where I am for now.

It's not possible to buy a new house next to the Strip. New construction happens on the edge of town. There are far more important considerations that go into buying a house than gaming girls. I'm not going to buy some shitty place just because it's closer.

Texas has fewer mask mandates and wearing than Vegas. Austin nightlife is best Thurs-Sat. It's pretty slow the rest of the week. Things are usually slower everywhere during the winter cold.