Leo Gura

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  1. I would not. You can do whatever you want.
  2. You can do whatever you want, but the wise course of action is a firm no. Learn to set a boundary and enforce it. Do not bend over backwards for girls. They will not respect such a man. She needs to know from the very beginning that you are the kind of guy who does not put up with her shit like all the other guys. You are clear and decisive. You know what you want and you are clear about how you expect others to act around you, or they are cut from your life. This attitude is what then makes people respect you and treat you well.
  3. I'm not clear what this means. - - - - - In general it is important to accept that as a living organism you do have to be selfish and your survival in necessarily hurt others. You cannot be alive without hurting others. Life is brutal. Life is a zero-sum game to a large degree.
  4. I have explained this in detail throughout many of my videos. I'm not going to do it again here. Yeah, well, stop assuming that. Notice that that's nothing but an assumption. Take psychedelics. The problem is that you assume that anyone is looking at stuff. No one is looking. Stuff just exists. What you see at all times is noumena. You just fantasize that it is something else, like "looking" or "subjective experience". There is no subjective experience. There is only noumena and you have confused it for experience because you needed to construct a sense of self out of that noumena. You're spinning a fantasy. And you are deeply insecure about your confidence in this fantasy, which is why your mind is active in playing games and why you are afraid of truth.
  5. You set a rule that if she cheats on you, there are no second chances, she loses you forever. And then you stop caring. You let her free to do whatever she wants, see whoever she wants, doesn't matter to you cause you know your value and you can replace her with another girl and she knows that too. This is the proper frame for keeping hot girls.
  6. Lol, welcome to learning game. You will start attracting hot girls when you stop caring about them. The hotter she is the less you gotta care. Talk to thousands of hot girls, sleep with plenty of them, and then you will stop caring and they will love you.
  7. A Robbins seminar is multiple full days of intense teachings. JP is not doing seminars. He's just giving a lecture/rant for a few hours. It's like an RSD free tour, except you pay him $300, Lol. Quite the grift.
  8. Obviously any such statement as "X is the most or best" are childish. These are the result of a childish mind. As your mind matures you realize that reality is far too profound for making such gross oversimplicifications. And you also realize that everyone is trying to play up their victimhood narrative as part of survival. Notice that everyone is trying to act the most innocent, the most wronged, the most oppressed. It's a game you play. Quit that game.
  9. They have to deny it because if they don't their whole worldview will unravel like a sweater. What they are unaware of is that materialism is a dogma, like religion. But they cannot admit that because their identity is wrapped up with "I do not believe in fairytails like those religious morons. I am scientific and science is above that." What they fundamentally fear is the collapse of science.
  10. Being this needy is the surest way to get your ass cheated on.
  11. If it is as you describe it, it's nonsense and you did nothing wrong. Own it and don't worry about it. Don't feel ashamed for physically escalating on a receptive girl. Girls don't like taking responsibility for sex, so they will offload it onto guys as much as possible, sometimes to the point of absurdity. The solution is to just own that you got a dick and if a girl is around you she should expect to get nailed. If she doesn't like it she is free to leave. Your sexual intent should be obvious and if she doesn't like it she's free to blow you out. So just own your sexuality and masculinity and don't let girls play dumb with you too much. Hold your frame. If anything, work on sharpening your sexual intent even more and physically escalate more but with keen calibration to her receptivity. Get good at feeling when a girl is receptive to touch or not. If she is, escalate heavy and own it. If she is resistant, smoothly back off and try again a bit later. If she keeps being resistant, leave her for another girl, don't play her games. You did good in that you did what you wanted and didn't try to be meek or shy. Don't let this silly incident spook you.
  12. That's what you get for dating an extreme extrovert.
  13. Sounds like he has been neglecting his life and development for over a decade and is now in a deep hole from which it will be difficult to climb out. The bottom line is that he has to want to develop himself. Maybe try to introduce him to the idea of personal development and its potential. Help him envision a better future for himself. A future where here is fit, healthy, has girlfriend, has fun job, etc. You can share with him how and why you do personal development and what results are possible.
  14. For $5000 you get to eat lobster with JP after the show while he rants in your ear about how the sky can't be blue because sky means everything.
  15. None of your ideas of awakening are awakening. So yeah, you'll have to let them go. Don't worry, you're not losing much in doing so. Awakening is way beyond any idea. How to realize all your ideas of awakening ain't it? 5-MeO-DMT will quickly bitchslap them out of your mind.
  16. You guys are insane. I should be charging you more. It's $300:
  17. Developmental psychology models have been tested a lot more than just in the West.
  18. Cheers! Namaste
  19. Of course there is a close relationship. Of course understanding has to understand itself. The self-referencing is not a bug, its the feature.
  20. Given this, I'd suggest you stay away from psychedelics. Seems like they will destabilize you and interfere with your career work. This is such a broad question and hinges on many variables. It all depends on what kind of business specifically you are trying to run. Obviously marketing & sales are good skills to learn for any kind of business. Beyond that, you can combine all sorts of skills. There are so many potential biz combinations where you use psychology plus something else. Psychedelics can of course make you more creative and supercharge your contemplations. But this assumes your mind is able to handle them without destabilizing and spiraling out of control. Given your past experience with psychedelics this is a significant risk for you, so I would caution you against it. In general, psychedelics and starting a biz does not combine well. Starting a biz requires a lot of disciplined work while psychedelics tend to undermine that kind of work. The same way you contemplate without psychedelics. I have several videos explaining how to do contemplation and how to ask powerful questions. You can contemplate on any dose, or no dose at all. As your doses become higher the contemplation will tend to lose focus and just devolve into a mindfuck which you cannot guide or control. That's not necessarily bad, but it won't be productive per se. The problem is that psychedelics are too profound to be used to contemplate something as petty as business. Perhaps that might work at very low doses. But at high doses you will forget you even have a business. It just won't matter because the issues that will arise will be way more significant than business concerns or even life purpose concerns. You will be busy struggling with matters of life and death.
  21. There are dozens of things to try. Start with doing lots of research: https://www.reddit.com/r/SIBO/
  22. Understanding is not the same as insight. Although they are related. Understanding is a very subtle thing to observe. Perhaps even more tricky to understand than understanding is misunderstanding -- which is also a thing. What is misunderstanding?