Leo Gura

That's not why it is expensive. It's expensive because it requires lots of education and licensing to practice and working with people one on one is time consuming, inefficient, and stressful. If therapy became more popular it would become even more expensive as law of supply and demand dictates.

Mostly just two: the inner world of your human mind and the outer world which is perception or what scientists call physical reality. "This reality" has a certain flow to it that is perfect as it is and doesn't need to be fucked with. That's what you realize when you become very conscious. No, awakening does not have to dissolve any mental content or chatter. You can be awake and still think or daydream. I would say you are imagining mystics occupying constructed heavens It can't really be defined because it is absolute and total so there is no alternative against which it can be compared. All definitions are themselves generated by imagination, so you cannot use a definition to grasp imagination or the same reason that you cannot use your hand to grasp itself. But you have an intuitive sense of what imagination is. This is pretty good. Now just expand that to encompass the entire physical domain, the entire domain of your perceptions. Stop limiting imagination to something that only happening within your head. Start seeing physical objects are imaginary. Well... of course all words are relative and you can define them however you like. Fabrication to me is a more narrow term which implies that you are constructing something in the mental realm. Like fabricating a story. I would say that your life story is a fabrication. But I would not say the chair you are sitting on is a fabrication. Of course you could stretch the notion of fabrication to include even chairs I guess. If you stretched it to include all things, then it would become identical to my use of imagination. Basically, the say something is imaginary is to say that it is held in the mind. And in this case everything is Mind. The entire Universe is held within God's Mind, therefore it is imaginary.

1) Approaching and getting blown out 2) Shit talking with wings 3) Dancing & listening to good music 4) DMT 5) Going out consistently, building up momentum 6) Getting present and enjoying the environment, getting very calm in my body 7) Not thinking. Stop planning your approaches, stop thinking about "What am I going to say?" 8) Using funny, obnoxious, and absurd lines like: "Hi, I'm a douche bag. You should meet me." And in general just inventing new funny things to say to girls.

Exactly You are never going to find the perfect romantic partner. They will all have problems. Just find one who has problems you are willing to put up with and that don't drive you crazy.

The ego IS mental images and thoughts. The source of all thoughts and mental images is Infinity or God. Yes, that's what the ego is for, to control things. Whatever practices help to dissolve ego. Even something like a cold shower can help with that. But ultimately awakening is necessary.

Yes, exactly. Yes, of course. That's what a psychedelic trip is. You think of demons and then they start to materialize on your carpet. In one of my early mushroom trips I started to think that my room resembles an ancient Indian palace a bit, and pretty soon my room turned into an ancient Indian palace. But normally the human mind is not powerful enough to override outer seeing, because if it was, you'd call that going insane. People who can do that are locked up in mental hospitals and given anti-psychotic drugs. Or they are mystics living in caves. See, if you started to think that your mom was a rubber yellow duck so deeply that she turned into one, you'd think you'd gone batshit crazy. But actually, you're just employing the power of God's mind to create its own reality. Nothing crazy about it.

Well, I started off a life coach. I know the value of talking to others about one's problems. Life coaching can be helpful. The problem is it tends to be too expensive to do on a regular basis. You could pay $200/hr for coaching/therapy or you could buy 2 grams of 5-MeO-DMT, enough for 100 trips. You were using verbal games to sow doubt and confusion as to the existence of God/Love. You are a naughty girl. Tsk, tsk! God/Love exists. Absolutely. Here you are.

Fabrication is not technically as accurate. Imagination goes deeper than fabrication. This actually makes it easy to understand. Just expand your definition of imagination to include outer seeing, or all of perception. When you look at a chair, you are imagining it. Very simple. It is obvious to you that when you are dreaming, everything in your dream is imaginary. There is no inner or outer in your dream. It's all imaginary.

It would just be a 2hr video of me jerking off

Avoid explicit sexual vulgarity. Explicit sexual jokes turn off most women unless they are already very attracted to you.

If you don't have the principles of game down, when you find the one incredible person you will immediately turn them off and lose them. If anything, game teaches you to stop looking and waiting for your perfect 10. It's not gonna happen. Just look for girls who are good enough. You have to learn to deal with imperfect people.

Which is why mainstream Islam hates Sufi mystics. Sorta spoils their monopoly on Allah.

Haha Oh the irony... Be careful that what you consider someone's psychosis is not just your self-bias and ignorance. Calling Putin a psychopath is so fucking lazy.

I belittled him for it on two specific points: 1) He suggested it is effective for awakening. No one is going to awaken from talk-therapy. 2) He claimed it is more effective than psychedelics for healing and introspection. This is contradicted by science and anecdotal experience. Other than that I got no issue with people doing talk-therapy. In fact, if you struggle with mental stability then I recommend talk-therapy to work out your inner demons and such. I am not opposed to doing talk therapy myself. I might do so in the future. It's helpful to talk stuff out. But also, therapy is no magic pill. People take lots of therapy and still end up killing themselves. Yet there is a gross double-standard here. If someone listens to Actualized.org and kills himself, it's Actualized.org's fault. Yet when thousands of people every year take therapy and kill themselves, therapy as a whole is never blamed. In fact, people are encouraged to take MORE therapy! Could you imagine if someone watching my videos killed himself and my response was: Watch more of my videos! Yet this is exactly what therapists do. Any reasonable person understands that it would be absurd to blame the entire field of therapy or a single therapist for the death of an already mentally dysfunctional person -- because therapy is socially acceptable and non-threatening to the ego-mind. Yet in the case of Actualized.org people look for any excuse to blame the teachings because they don't like the teachings. That's what this is really about. Someone like Adeptus simply doesn't like the teachings, therefore his mind will find whatever excuse to demonize the teachings. The fundamental dishonesty of many Actualized.org critics is that they simply don't like teachings yet they must engage in mental gymnastics and personal attacks to rationalize it in their minds, rather than just being honest and admitting the truth: They just don't like the teachings. If you don't like my teachings, no problem. Just be honest about it. Don't make up stories. You don't need to call me a pedophile cult leader. Just say, "I don't like your teachings." Okay, good. And maybe I don't like your face, so what? Don't get cute with me. God/Love are existence itself. WinterKnight was not God-realized. And yet he was here acting like a guru. For that he was banned.

They were real, AS fictions of your mind. Then you awoke to realize that their true nature was fictions of your mind. They are still real, AS FICTIONS OF YOUR MIND! There is no such thing as "unreal". What you mean by "unreal" is that you misunderstood the nature of a real phenomenon. For example, when you are walking in the desert and see a mirage of a lake off in the distance, the mirage is real, but it is not a lake that you will be able to drink out of, therefore when you reach the "lake" you call it "unreal". But it isn't really unreal, it's just not what you thought it was. So you were fooled. An illusion is still absolutely real. It just isn't what you thought it was. A hologram is still real. A rainbow is still real. A mirage is still real. Virtual reality is still real. A hallucination is still real. A dream is still real. A lie is still real. All form will cease to appear as form if you stop dreaming. So if you define "real" as a form which stays around permanently, independent of your mind, no such form exists whatsoever. In this sense you could say that nothing is real. However, this kind of talk comes from a lack of awareness of what "real" means. "real" does not mean permanent. You are confusing reality with time. Just because the moon ceases to exist when you turn your head away from it doesn't mean it isn't real when you are looking at it.

He was not banned for advocating therapy. I encourage therapy to anyone who can afford it. He was banned for denying that God and Love exist and for teaching about awakening when he was clearly not God-realized. He was teaching things which were false. He was also arguing that therapy is more effective than psychedelics, which is also false. Psychedelics are clinically proven to be more effective than talk therapy for many conditions. Talk-therapy is not very effective for stuff life depression.

I am absolute imagination. What I imagine is Absolute Truth. I am identical to whatever I am imagining. So if I am sitting, taking a shit on a toilet, I am that toilet absolutely. You are mistaking "imaginary" here to mean "unreal". But it's the opposite. Imagination is reality. Yes and no. Yes in that that dimension is pure Infinity (empty consciousness). No in that emptiness is identical form. What's doing the imagining is Emptiness/Nothingness. But they are also identical. A blank canvas and a painting are identical, occupying the same location.

Of course, I get it. Only in your mind. But I get it. Well, what's to that is that she's a central part of your dream. - - - - - - To answer your question in a practical way, the difference is that there are many unusual and strange states of consciousness which could even be mystical, but they are not awakening or God-realization proper. And also, her ego-mind might be struggling to properly make sense of and integrate genuine spiritual insights. Or her awakenings and spiritual insights may be very lopsided and incomplete. The hallmark of the deepest awakenings is the overwhelming, intense recognition of Love, Beauty, and Perfection. Without these the awakening is incomplete and can feel negative. If your awakening is not the happiest moment of your life, then you haven't really awoken. You should be dying from joy. Awakening is literally heaven.

The answer to that question is the heart of game. The answer cannot be told to you, you must learn it by doing it. There isn't any algorithmic way to follow up. You must be so in the zone that you say whatever comes to your mind and amuses you, and whatever matches your sexual intent towards the girl you are speaking to. In other words, your follow-up cannot be some canned lines, it must be genuine and improvisational. Usually the best follow-up is not interview style questions but just fun shit-talking. Here's an example: A girl is walking out of the restroom at the club. I tap her on the shoulder, smile, and say, "I love you." She gives me a face like she is turned off. I calibrate to that and say, "Hey, come here a second. Did you just take a giant shit in there? That turns me on. You should go back in there and take a video of yourself taking a giant shit and send it to me." I say this in way where it's obvious I'm teasing her. Her face changes, now she's interested in talking to me. So I pull her in physically and talk with her about other random stupid shit. This is not a routine I run. This is a spontaneous response generated on-the-fly to a particular situation. Basically, your conversations have to be fun and random. Nothing serious. Nothing logical. Mostly it's flirting and shit-talk. Your follow up has to be congruent with how you feel in the moment and your intent towards her. For example, if I see a girl I really like, I might just walk up to her, take her by the hand, and say, "OMG, you are fucking adorable. Come here..." and give her a genuine hug. Then stare in her eyes and hold her by the waist. This is not done as some "routine" or planned line. It's a fully authentic expression of my attraction towards her, specifically her, in that moment. It's calibrated to her and to my own internal state. I am also reading her face and body to gauge how open she is to me. If she recoils, I will back off. If she is open then I will escalate further. The verbals comes spontaneously, not pre-meditated. Your follow ups have to be improvisational. This is the hardest and most important part of game to learn. You learn it by lots of trail and error. A good way to practice this is to open with a very simple opener and then force yourself not to ask her any questions and instead make statements about her. Talk to her without needing her to give you material. Also, you need to come from a fun, positive, emotional state, not a logical state. So put yourself into the proper state first before talking. When you are in the right state, verbals become effortless and fun. When you are in the wrong state, your verbals are logical and awful.

Yes, you're imagining that I have thoughts right now. No. Your body is a deeper layer of imagination than the minds of others that you are imagining. We could say that your body is "more real" than the minds of others. But ultimately it's all imaginary. Imagination is reality. The problem is that you're not conscious of that and I am trying to help you become conscious of that. The problem is that when you look at your hand you don't realize that it is imaginary, but I would like you to one day realize that. That is what I am guiding your towards.

@Tech36363 Certainly God can awaken and then fall back asleep. This is most common. You're not completely at the same spot, however. The awakenings change you, even if you fall asleep. You never go back to being totally asleep.

Well, in a true awakening you would realize that your daughter and her solipsism is something you imagined to keep yourself asleep

You also have to keep in mind that your butt hole is "fake" too. It only exist within your dream. Before you started dreaming your birth, you had no butt hole. And you won't have one after you stop dreaming. In fact, you don't really have a butt hole until you imagine it -- which you are doing right now. The claim isn't that other people are imaginary, the claim is that absolutely everything is imaginary, including your own body and life. If your own body is imaginary, what room does that leave for other people?