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I will have trip reports on pharmahuasca, mescaline, ketamine, MDMA, toad, and iboga in the future. I can also report on every 4-ho, 4-aco, 5-meo subtype.

Because they just assume a hot guy is confident. They don't understand what it takes for a guy to develop confidence nor do they care. They will just unconsciously screen out meek, unconfident guys. And if you ask them, of course they will admit they like confidence. "I want to sleep with an insecure, meek, unconfident man", said no woman ever.

Have you tried chewing them or making a tea out of them? That's how salvia leaves are traditional used. The natives do not smoke it. It should give you a longer and milder trip. Just chew/brew more leaves. I haven't tried it but sounds interesting. Also, I don't see why you can't achieve the same effect with extract. Just smoke less of it. It's the same active ingredient. It's hard for me to justify saliva when DMT is so much clearer and more effective for me. I guess if you got nothing better then use it. But DMT, 5-MeO, or MALT is where the real insight is at.

@Spence94 You might appreciate this YT channel of an English China vlogger, he covers this issue a lot: Really good vlogger on China issues from the inside.

Lots of weightlifters do IF. So obviously not. Unless maybe your body fat % is super low.

Locked for low quality title. Write properly so people can understand you.

You are EVERYTHING -- dummy! You are existence itself. Stop parroting this no-self stuff you heard.

Don't ask her unless you actually care. Cut the shit and be genuine about why you are talking to here. Don't invent excuses to talk to a girl, own your desire for her. Become the kind of guy who needs no excuse. "I just saw you and felt attracted." No other justification necessary. Work on making your game as genuine as possible.

I have no problem with sticking with one partner. But first you gotta find the right partner. You are not just gonna sleep with one girl and find your partner. Enlightenment has nothing to do with who you sleep with. And learning game is not about getting one girl, it's about becoming a strong and attractive man. This requires experience and practice. If you sleep with 20 girls you will become a stronger man in the process. If you settle down with the first girl you sleep with, you're gonna stay a pussy forever. And eventually she'll leave you anyways.

Of course it's your job to make them intimate/sexual. It's not just about "making a move". You must set the entire frame of your interaction with her to be intimate/sexual from the very beginning of meeting her. And then you build on it at every chance you get. You should be looking at her like you're in love with her. Build a bubble of love between you and her. It's you and her against the world. Yes, you're failing to lead, which in itself is unattractive in a man. Don't wait for anything or any indicators. If a girl shows up to a date with you, she's willing to sleep with you, as long as you lead it properly. Yes, you need a lot of escalation experience. Force yourself to escalate quickly and stop doubting yourself. You need to get in touch with your desire for her, and then just act on that desire and take her. Stop hesitating. If her ass turns you on, start squeezing it. If you feel like kissing her, kiss her. Etc. Treat her like your doll. And watch her face and reactions as you escalate to see if it is turning her off. If it's not turning her off, keep escalating. If you over-escalate just back off a bit and start escalating again in a few minutes. A girl is not going to let you escalate like that unless she likes you. Fundamentally your mistake is that you are not being true to your desire for her. If you were, you would manhandle her appropriately and this in turn would turn her on. She wants you to claim her as your own. But you are too scared because you're still too weak as a man. So you gotta become a stronger man -- which means you act and lead without a bunch of self-doubt. You've become pussified the way you were raised, so you doubt yourself way too much with women. For you, you should escalate and even risk getting slapped. Get slapped a few times for over-escalating. This will be good for you. It's better to over-escalate than under-escalate on a date. On a date you should be pulling her panties down. See how much you can get away with. If you are not occasionally over-escalating, you're being too meek.

What I said is not polygamy. As with anything in life, experience is king. A typical attractive girl will have way more sexual experience than you anyways because sex is so easy for them. You have no idea what you even want in a girl. You would be a fool to buy the first house you see. Apply this logic to girls.

1) Stop listening to women on this matter. They are not conscious of what makes them attracted nor will they give you accurate guidance on what is required to attract them. It's like you are asking an enemy castle to tell you its weak points. 2) Once they fall for you, women backwards rationalize that you are handsome and hot.

I've actually been feeling that the US could challenge Putin with air strikes and he would still not start a nuke war. It's risky, but the US is acting way too scared. Putin isn't an idiot. He's not gonna retaliate with nukes. If the US did a no fly zone Putin would respond with conventional warfare. For Putin to respond with nuke he would have to be suicidal. It's a bad assumption to think he is.

What females are attracted do is not arbitrary, they are attracted to specific things. Beauty is not what females are attracted to. The problem is that you fundamentally misunderstand female attraction and what women need from men. Also, more practically, the reason girls haven't yet found you attractive yet is because: 1) You haven't talked to enough girls. 2) You are not good at exhibiting masculine energy, strength, and value which girls are looking for. 3) You are waiting for a girl give you strong indicators of interest and lead you into sex, which will almost never happen. You haven't learned how to approach girls and how to lead them into attraction sex. You are the man, it's your job to convince a girl to sleep with you even if she gives you no indicators of interest from the start. 4) Girls may find you attractive but if you don't lead they'll never even tell you. You need to learn how attraction works and you need to become proactive about attracting women. You don't wait for them to like you. It shouldn't even matter to you if they like you. You approach the ones you like and you do your thing. Some will hook. Most will not. It's like fishing. You don't sit around wondering if a fish likes you. You just cast your bait over and over again until something hooks. And you make the bait as juicy as possible.

Very good! You got a little taste of spirituality. Now do 100 more trips and you might understand some things

Dude, no one is forcing you. Do whatever you want.

A week is not enough time. Give yourself more time to recover.

Do not rally any outrage. Calm down and let me handle it.

@Eonwe5 You have to be careful about how you are using your mind here. Notice that a lot of mental activity is going on -- thinking -- and this thinking is putting you into negative states. This is not awakening nor consciousness, this is the ego-mind at work. Your mind is trying to compensate for lack of consciousness and awakening by coming up with philosophical conclusions and stories about reality. A thought like "I don't exist" is NOT awakening, nor is it high consciousness. I recommend a few things: 1) Stop thinking about this stuff so much and instead do a meditation practice like mindfulness with labeling so that you bust out of your mental masturbation. You have to learn to step outside your thoughts and observe them. Thinking about thinking is not the same thing as stepping outside of thinking and observing it. Taking your thinking too seriously is the fundamental problem here. 2) Make a rule with yourself that no matter how much you suffer or what you think, you will never physically harm yourself. 3) Make sure you create a fulfilling life for yourself before you go deep into spiritual seeking. Ground your life in normal stuff like career, life purpose, fitness, healthy eating, socialization, sex, relationships, friendships, learning, etc. 4) If you're going into spirituality have a rigorous practice that you do, not just thinking about spirituality. Thinking about spirituality is NOT a spiritual practice.

You take death very seriously. Stop kidding yourself.

@r0ckyreed I do an opposite practice where I remind myself that death isn't real and that I am forver.

Dude, of course people are doing to judge you. She isn't space Jesus. Girls are commonly insecure about such things. Really the solution here is read between the lines of her words, quickly realize she's being insecure, and then rather than trying to logically convince her of anything, just give her the security she craves. So you hug her, maker her feel loved, look in her face, kiss her, etc. Be careful trying to win over girls with logic. It usually backfires. You gotta learn to shower them with love instead. Basically when a girl gets pissy with you, whatever the logic is, just cut through it and realize that what she's really telling you is, "Love me more". It's not really about the porn, it's about how you make her feel. She doesn't really care about your porn, she cares how she feels. So make her feel good and then she will be fine. Rather than trying to explain yourself to her logically, just skip straight to making her feel loved. Also, take the lead. Lead her into understanding that porn is normal and trivial for guys. Lead her to understanding that porn does not diminish your love for her.

It doesn't mean that. You ARE Infinity. That's the kicker: Heaven/Love is when you realize that there is no difference between any experiences, therefore they are all the Best. When you realize this, you realize Infinite Love. It's not that you must be without bias. It's that no bias exists at the highest levels of consciousness because you are too conscious to see a difference between anything. To say "you must be without bias" is to say "you must love". And the reason you must love is because that's what God is, and you are God. - - - - - - - Awakening/Death is the experience of Infinity in its entirety. But this doesn't mean you live through every life in some linear sequence or some such thing that you imagine.

If your account is in the top 1%, they will shut you down and ask for $5k minimum.

Ahahahahahaha.... If you were clever you could have used this moment to deflect and also entrench your frame with a response like: "I was thinking about your mom." And then move on to another conversation topic. You don't have to engage girls in conversation topics which don't lead anywhere good. If she asks you who you fantasize about when you jerk off, you don't have to tell her. Which is not to say you lie to her. You just say, "Don't fill your mind with such things." and then change topics. Don't let girls lead conversations in lose-lose directions. You should already know if your girl is too insecure to handle such a conversation. For example, if my girl asks me to take her to the strip club and I sense that she's not secure enough to handle it, I will say NO. Because nothing good will come from that. A girl only gets to go to a strip club with me if she demonstrates that she can handle it. Many girls can't. Some girls can't even handle going to a nightclub with me. I once took an old ex gf to a Vegas nightclub and she ran out of there after 15 minutes crying. Because she was too insecure to handle the competition. I learned my lesson: I should have known she was too insecure to handle it and just refused to take her. BTW, it was her idea to go to the nightclub. I should have said NO. Because I knew she had insecurity issues. A Vegas nightclub will make a lot of average girls feel insecure and unworthy. Your girl is just too entitled and insecure. You tell her you were jerking off to some pornstar as if you don't even think twice about it. Your girl just sounds inexperienced with guys. She doesn't understand how guys work. Of course you jerk off to other girls. Of course. You and 4 billion other guys. If she protests about this, you tell her that you would rather be inside her, but if she's unavailable you are willing to settle for porn. You're doing her a favor here by not bothering her with your horniness. She also needs to understand that you have a high sex drive and you're going to use it, either on her or elsewhere. But again, this is about proper framing. She should sense from the moment she meets you that you're a sexual tyrannosaur. There should be no doubt in her mind that you have a high sex drive and that you own it and use it. Then it's her job to satisfy you if she wants to keep you. Again, this is not said explicitly, this is sub-communicated by setting the player frame vs the boyfriend frame. Of course you can still be her boyfriend and be committed to her, but she has to know that she is taming a player here, not some dickless chump, and that you are doing her a huge favor by going exclusive with her and that she should respect that rather than getting all spoiled and whiny with you about something as trivial as porn. Setting frames in critical for your relationships to go well. Your girl must have proper expectations about you. Once these frames are set early on, they are very difficult to reset. So learn to set them correctly right off the bat.