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That's super common. You will lose many girls that way. Yes Very viable. Risk is quite low. Worst that will happen is you get kicked out. You just lead her by the hand. Don't verbally explain it. Just get her aroused and then lead. Ideally you want a secluded bathroom, preferably one of those family style bathrooms where you can lock the door. These are usually located outside the club. Inside the club bathroom is usually not very viable. But this depends on how busy/secure the club is. No Vegas club will allow you to fuck inside the club bathrooms. But outside is doable. Fuck no! Never explicitly mention sex to girls. You gotta be subtle about it. Nothing needs to be said. Just lead and get her horny. A better alternative would have been to close at her friend's place. You should have asked to come with her to her friends place and close there, either in the bedroom or bathroom. It's much easier in a private bathroom than a public one. Car is a great option. Some dark alley-way is possible. Under a bridge. In a dark parking garage. In an elevator. In a dressing room. In an ice room. You could also buy a motel/hotel room on the spot.

@Asayake Nils is God's costume. But since Oneness, God's costume IS God.

Look, if you were a Christian your mind might frame that part to be Jesus. And if you were a Hindu you might frame that part to be Ganesha or whatever. It doesn't matter because those are just inventions of Mind. Your mind needs some way to frame these "parts" for you with some kind of sensible form. If you were a fish that part would take on the form of some fish guru. You might imagine that the love is coming from the heart. But that's not really the case, that's just another image your mind is using to pin down Infinity. Look past such forms to the totality of consciousness and Yourself. Love is not coming from any part/form within reality. Love is the totality of consciousness/reality. Love is purely a lack of all difference and bias. When your consciousness realizes that there is no difference between any two things -- that will be pure metaphysical Love. Be ware of how your mind is trying to ground Love into some finite form like a chemical, the heart, a person, an angel, a deva, Jesus, the brain, or whatever else. And dare to see beyond all that.

You can do what 99% of girls do: just ignore. Or you can invent some comfy excuse like: I'm seeing someone.

Here's what you need to do to get an attractive girl: talk to many attractive girls. Doesn't matter how.

Yes, that's been long planned. An outline for it has already been started years ago. Just gotta finalize it.

@Tristan12 Bro, your mind is fragmented with all this thinking about parts. Fuck the parts. It doesn't matter what part is what. You are all of them. They are all fragments of your Infinite Mind. Drop the parts stuff and focus on grasping the absolute totality. When you first start to realize God your mind is still too divided to see that God is you. So you keep looking deeper and deeper until your mind fully unifies and accepts itself as God. Everything you see right now is YOU, is God, is Love. Stop breaking it up into parts. Grasp it all at once. Your mind is creating sub-parts and sub-identities in order to prevent the full, direct awakening into Oneness. 5-MeO-DMT and 5-MeO-MALT is really helpful here.

You are EVERYTHING. Tristan is a part of that. It's not that you are not Tristan. It's that Tristan is God. NO! Tristan is God. There is no difference between anything. Stop thinking God is something outside or seperate from its creation. God is not just the formless, it is equally all the form. You are trying to limit God to only the formless. Deeper awakening will show you that this is incomplete and biased.

Hahahahaha! That "part" of you isn't a part at all. It's YOU! You are Infinite LOVE! Ta-da You must awaken deeper. You haven't realized yourself as God/Love yet. You will. Just keep going. Your mind is still divided and fragmented. You are still holding God/Love as a subtle "other". They are not other. There is no other. There is only YOU. Nothing can ever exist but YOU.

Enough

No, a fool's errand. You will drive yourself batshit crazy trying to construct such a map. And in the end it will fail.

@FlyingLotus Good work

It's usually a bad idea to number close two girls at once. Looks weird and desperate as fuck. Pick one girl to be your main. They could have been trolling you. Could have been a shit test. When a girl brings up sex don't jump on the bait like a starving dog. Play it cool.

Maybe this is a cult, or maybe you are humorless.

Rarely a girl will just be sexually explicit and blunt with you. For example, you might be talking to a girl and then she just says something out of the blue like: "So are you gonna fuck me real good?" or "I'm horny" or "I'm wet" or "I want to fuck". This is very rare, but it does happen and you should be ready to capitalize on that without flinching. I've lost a few girls in the past by flinching because it just takes you so by surprise because it's a rare thing for a girl to say. You have to not flinch and just play it cool. Don't get too eager but also lead directly for the close. You can also adopt the girl frame by saying a line like: "Easy there... I'm not just a peace of meat. I need to romanced first. You have to promise to buy me chocolates ". The "promise to buy me chocolates" line is a stroke of pickup genius! It's such a powerful frame control . If a girl is coming on to you, make her promise to buy you chocolates

That's just an opener to clearly establish a sexual frame. I don't really consider it a compliment or qualification. It's just a way to let her know you are talking to her for dating purposes. Ideally you would avoid complimenting physical features period. But if there is something you genuinely like about her which is a bit less obvious, focus on that. Stuff that is not overtly sexual like eyes, face, smile, freckles, tattoos, hair, nails, piercings, jewelry, smell, etc. Once she's really into you and sleeps with you, then you can compliment her on stuff like her ass, tits, nipples, pussy, how she sucks your dick, etc and she will love it. Yes, energy is a good one. Vibe. Femininity. Passion. Enthusiasm. Submissiveness. Fashion sense. Maturity. Wisdom. Intelligence. Spiritual connection. Intuitiveness. Special skills she has like cooking. Cool hobbies. Adventurousness. Health-consciousness. The way she kisses. etc. Of course ideally your compliments are as authentic and genuine as possible. This is pretty easy. Just look for features about her you genuinely like and then tell her about it. If you are seriously attracted to a girl there should be stuff about her you genuinely love besides her ass and tits. All those openers will work. What really matters is your vibe and sub-communication behind the openers and how you carry on the conversation afterwards. The verbals of the opener are truly irrelevant.

Yes, women wish to have a penis inside them, attached to a strong man

Because neediness, desperation, and negativity is repulsive. It can be like a negativity virus that spreads to others.

A lot of times they are reading the situation holistically and unconsciously. A girl will automatically say a guy is hot or handsome if she is attracted to him. But what she is actually attracted to is SURVIVAL VALUE.

@Realms of Wonder I mean an electronic vape rig that doesn't use vape juice at all. The Vapor Genie sucks by comparison.

It's not a fetish to not be attracted to a girl's tits and ass.

Girls rarely get attracted in the first second, they get attracted more slowly as they sense the guy's vibe and energy. But of course not all girls will be attracted to what you got to offer. In such cases no amount of confidence will help you. But she's also not rejecting you purely based off looks. Girls give guys much more leeway in terms of looks. It's not 100% leeway but much more leeway than a guy gives a girl. A lot of times the girl rejects you simply because she's not in the right mood. It's not even about you in most cases but about the bullshit going on in her own life which is distracting her from being fully open to dating. Most of the time she's not even thinking of dating or sex.

Most Covid deaths and hospitalizations are from the unvaccinated. If you don't know this you shouldn't even be having this discussion. Just the fact that I have to explain such a simple and basic point to you boarders on you spreading misinformation. You are speaking on a topic that you are not properly informed or educated on, and your free speech floods the zone with shit.

To call it entertainment is insulting to the process.

Took me ~450. Learning pickup is a lot harder than it sounds/looks. If you want to be successful in life stop looking at the odds and stop quitting. If you want to get good with girls you shouldn't mind doing 1000 approaches and still not getting laid.