Leo Gura

You're in for a mindfucking at 20mg

It's not so arbitrary. You just take for granted that God is responsible for maintaining your sanity. If you could easily break material reality you would quickly go insane. Don't take sanity for granted. Most people's minds are so toxic and out of control, if their thoughts could materialize they would be living in a self-created hellscape of madness. You guys have no idea the things consciousness is capable of. Straight up madness and horror, if your mind is not pure. You think your life sucks now? Wait till you experience infinite hell.

Now do it 1000 times and you will stop complaining about girls.

That's like saying that brick walls are imaginary so you should be able to walk through them. This isn't possible from your current state of consciousness and your human mind is incapable of just changing your state at will. There are deeper layers of consciousness which run you which you have no control over. You barely have enough self-control to not eat junk food. Yet you expect to have enough self-control to walk through a brick wall? Who are you kidding?

They get laid the most because instead of sitting on their computer all day doing philosophy, like you, they are out at social venues all week long being social and having fun. Meanwhile you are here mental masturbating and inventing narratives of failure. Who gets laid are highly social people who aren't stuck in their heads.

The principles of attraction are all 100% known. Just follow them and you will get girls. Stop whining and stop making things complicated. Do what works. It's like you guys are looking for reasons to fail. Your mind is your own worst enemy. The fundamental reason you cannot get girls is because you cannot even walk up to a girl, look her square in the eyes, and hold a normal conversation. Stop blaming spirituality for this or "being a nice guy". You just suck at the fundamentals.

@Majed That was mostly fine except for the line: "Your desires are orders, babe" This is a super beta line. Stop supplicating to attractive women. Just for that line alone you don't deserve a hot girl. Why would she even talk to you after you said that to her?? Think about it. What woman wants a man who kisses her ass out of insecurity and desperation? A woman will not sleep with you unless she perceives that you are above her and can lead her.

Well, it does feel like you're trying a bit to hard to game her. The paradox of game is that your game has to feel non-gamey. Girls are very sensitive to fake, gamey tactics. So you should work on trying to be more natural and normal rather than so edgy and clever. Too much cleverness gets you in trouble. Think about it this way: Would a high value guy like Brad Pitt be investing a bunch of energy trying to game a girl with a barrage of really clever lines? No. If you're going to tease a girl or say something edgy, make it rare. Like a bit of spice added to a dish. The problem here is that you opened well but then kept pushing the teasing and edgy stuff too far to the point where it makes you just seem like a weirdo. In general, complimenting really hot girls on their physical appearance is a very bad idea because it makes you like very other desperate horny guy. With a girl like that you need to treat her very normally, like a normal human, and try to find things about her to compliment which are not her physical appearance. This will make you stand out. Your opener was great because it was unique and different. She responded well. At that point you should have moved into building some genuine human connection rather than trying to pummel her with clever gamey lines. Great game is all about exquisite balance. Don't give two compliments when one already did the trick. Don't use two openers when your first one worked. Don't try to build more attraction when she's already attracted. And try to be genuine. She's not going to sleep with you unless you develop rapport with her and come off as a normal human. Things that make for bad game: Being weird & socially uncalibrated Being creepy Being desperate/needy Being angry/upset Being gamey Being try-hard Being supplicating Bragging Over-compensating Being fake Being mean/cruel Being sexual/vulgar Complimenting hot girls on their hotness

You have to distinguish between the attraction phase vs the relationship phase. Being selfless and loving in a relationship works, as long as you are also a strong man.

When you awaken the only ethic becomes aligning yourself with God's infinite intelligence. And then the only question is how selfless can you stand to be to align yourself with that. It's nothing personal and it's nothing human. And it makes no difference whether you do it or not.

Well, in this case obviously focus on the other girl who slept with you. How many girls must sleep with you before you feel secure? It's a holistic equation that factors in everything. Just reaching hook point. Enough that she would be willing to sleep with you if things moved forward smoothly. Attraction usually happens within 5 mins. The rest is just follow-thru. Less than 20% of girls will get attracted to you. Don't make it personal. You are attracted to less than 20% of girls so its only fair.

God damn, dude. Such a primadonna. That's gonna be a tough life. You should be thanking God each morning that even one girl in the world finds you attractive. P.S. She prolly ghosted you cause your vibe was off. Video-calling someone is very revealing of their vibe and personality. Your mistake is doing these long video calls. Just get her out for a coffee. But just the fact that you assume it was your looks reveals how insecure you are, and that's something to drop. That insecurity itself makes you unattractive. It is impossible to even get 20% of girls attracted to you.

Oh, pussy will activate for a man who is truly spiritual. Trust me But you must still learn to be a MAN. Spirituality is not a shortcut around that. The core fundamentals of game are still operative. You can use spirituality to ground yourself deeply in an authenic masculinity. But you still have to leave your basement and talk to girls to get girls. There is no shortcut for that. If you are too scared to approach a hot girl and look her square in the eyes then what does your spirituality really mean?

There is a silver lining. What you lose in quantity and raw material hotness you can make up many fold in depth of connection. You are going from shallow as an oil spill to deep as a well.

Consciousness goes way beyond functionality. What humans called "enlightened" is just a drop in the ocean of states of consciousness that are possible. Imagine becoming an enlightened werewolf. Consciousness can create that state/reality, but your human mind cannot fathom it.

You can try honey from different parts of the world. The pollen types vary a lot. You could also compare to something like maple syrup or agave syrup.

If you knew how much sex I sacrificed you would cry. I didn't say no pussy. I said less.

@Karmadhi You can copy the exterior of a player while maintaining a spiritual core. At least to some degree. But generally speaking the more spiritual you are the less hot pussy you will get.

Haha, But Leo, how do I get what I want?!

Girls are super flakey in general before sex. Expect zero respect for your time or your needs. Solution is to just make very low investment and keep talking to many girls at once. Don't do dumb things like courting a girl for months. You have to set standards and don't let them waste your time. If you suggest a date and she isn't eager for it, next. Do not try to win her over. Girls who are willing to sleep with you don't need to be won over. They will readily agree to a date without manipulation. It's a big mistake to try to work hard to get a girl. Instead invest that energy into talking to lots of new girls. It's a huge numbers game, not a manipulation game. Less manipulation, more numbers. Get 5 phone numbers per night and you will stop caring if 80% flake.

1) This is why it's important to develop an eye for the kind of girl you like. This requires practice and experience. Train your eye to quickly identify and decide whether a girl is hot enough for you or not. There's little point in sleeping with girls you aren't attracted to. It just creates a lot of problems and wastes a lot of time. 2) Once you find a girl you actually like, then you push yourself to close no matter what your anxiety level or insecurities or mood. Push your mood and just get it done. Your mood will catch up. 3) Then again, you can also learn to have fun with girls who aren't your ideal type. Takes some practice. Once she's naked you should basically just push yourself to finish the job. You don't have to marry her.

Strong eye contact, get close to her face, see if she flinches or moves away.

Your sexual subcommunication should be so strong that she tells you about her BF within a few seconds or minutes herself. If girls are not telling you about their BF until much later that tells you that your intent is too weak and needs work. Sexual eye contact is key. Work on that.

Might be allergic reaction.

I interpret models to suit my needs and my audience's needs. If you don't like my take on Spiral Dynamics, don't listen to it. That's not really my problem. That's an issue general to how people apply SD. I have warned against this trap many times. The irony is Beck himself misused it. That's some sick shit to say to me. The difference is, if someone creates their own forum on their own dime, I will not come take their forum down. You can create whatever forums you want, just don't leech off this forum to do it.