Leo Gura

Just throw Bayesian reasoning in the trash. People who use it are idiots.

1) Nothing works for everyone. 2) Psychedelics have a HUGE range of variety in how they affect people. I keep stressing this point and you guys keep underestimating it. Wait till you hear about my weed trip report.

But a football match is something important, unlike your feelings Part of the reason why is because masculinity is defined by confidence and lack of insecurity. So it gets strange-loopy. It takes confidence for a guy to look girly. Yup, it's a complex balancing equation. Lots of trade-offs in both directions.

Ask yourself

Suffering is the greatest teacher. Or maybe love

Works for me 100% of the time. Never got any of that shit. Just 100% God-realization. Every psychedelic I've ever tried has put me into an nondual state of some kind and some degree. Tested something like 20-30 of them.

The only one who is conscious is you. You guys are getting lost in dreams of others dreaming. This conscious AI stuff is something you're dreaming up to keep yourself asleep. But hey, have fun dreaming.

So half-crazy when everything is going according to plan, haha

Feminine women are emotional and chaotic. This is not a bad thing per se. It has its pros and cons.

Very impressive. This basically passes the Turing test.

Many of the guys I know who game also have day jobs. One of my wings is a doctor. But he still goes hard Fri & Sat. Really depends on how much energy you have. You should be able to manage an LP and still go out twice a week, or do some day game on the weekend. Most important thing is that you move to a good city.

It is once you get over all your fear. What you fear is just yourself.

This is very wrong and where you take a lot of what men do for you for granted. Yes, we absolutely live in a society where we have to kill. Who butchers your meat? Who polices your streets? Who manipulates to get you oil for your car? Who cracks skulls to get you those cheap Walmart prices? Who enslaves the 3rd world on your behalf? Who fights your wars? Who strongarms foreign governments for you? Who carries out espionage and covert assassinations for you? Who protects your government from falling into the hands of far-right Nazis? Who chases down drug traffickers who would poison your kids with fentanyl? Who quells your school shootings? Who negotiates the business deals that are required for your job to exist? Who handles the wild animals when they chase after you? Who stops the bar fight? Who runs your prisons? Who guards your bank vaults? Who builds your nuclear weapons? Who drops your bombs? Who rapes mother nature to get you oil to drive your kids to school? Who mines the diamonds for your wedding ring? Who mines the cobalt using child labor for your electric batteries? Who forces workers in China to manufacture your iPhone for half the price it would otherwise cost you? Society is built on a foundation of killing and enslaving people and stealing their resources and labor. There is no society without that. Your children can go to school and feed and clothe themselves because some men decided to kill, plunder, and enslave a bunch of other men to allow for it. And empathy is an obstacle to all that. Look at what is happening in Ukraine. The dirtiest work is done by men who cannot afford empathy or caring about feelings. Because to care about feelings you first have to be alive. You underestimate the role sociopaths play in making the world run. Who rules men? Femininity is not up to that task. Yes, but this is quite rare and requires a lot work to develop. And the girl then has to be developed enough to be attracted to it, appreciate it, and match his level. Eben above is that kind of man. And of course he found himself the right girl to match. Yes, because that's where most people are at and what most women are attracted to. I am teaching regular people, not saints.

Yeah, well, you ain't awake. It's as simple as that. Just because you did some DMT does not mean you woke up. Joe Rogan does plenty of DMT and weed and he is clueless in many ways and nowhere near awake. I'm not even gonna bother explaining self = other to you because you are nowhere close to getting it. You have a lot of work to do.

Good point. Women want emotional stimulation, not rationality.

Yes, of course. That's the ideal peak. Yes, which is why I said that you cannot do such a relationship as in the video above with 99.99% of people. Conscious ultra masculine is as rare as conscious ultra feminine. Because conscious humans are rare, period.

I don't know how to describe it exactly. Think of frat boy culture or military culture. There's little tolerance for emotions and whining. You are expected to suck it up and not be a pussy or gay. You're not given the luxury to cry over your problems, you must deliver solutions. You can say this is toxic, but it delivers solutions. Sometimes your feelings just shouldn't matter. 1) There are trade-offs to it. Nothing here is all positive or all negative. It can harm but it can also create. A sociopath can be very effective and very attractive. 2) Empathy is not all positive. It has downsides when you need to get shit done. Relationships are not the only factor in survival. You girls are overly focused on relationships to the point of overlooking other important domains of life and survival. Because you tend to outsource that dirty work to men. When the need comes to kill some people, empathy and emotionality is not a virtue.

You are creating them saying that because you must in order to maintain your sense of self and other. You constructed this illusion to fool yourself that there are others. Because you can't stand to be alone. People in your dream are telling you exactly what you want to hear because you imagine them for your own benefit. If you asked your mom, "Are you real?" and she said, "No", you could no longer have a mother. So what it means to "have a mother" is for her to insist that she is real and for you to believe it. You must deny that you created her, otherwise she could not have given birth to you. You're one tricky bastard, eh?

The way guys treat guys and the way girls would not accept guys treating them. In essence, not giving a damn about your precious feelings. Of course guys are emotional and often irrational. But you girls have cornered the market on that It's not black and white. These are general trends. Yes, being overly emotional does make a man less masculine. This doesn't mean the man cannot be emotional at times, in extreme situations. But overall a man should be icy and not give a fuck. Bus ran over your dog? Tough, let's move on to more important things. This is how a strong man must operate to get shit done in the world. You may not like it, but you also crave the results it delivers and the containment it confers. You're simply not going to be attracted to a man who's more emotional and whiny than you are because such a man is a liability to your survival and the survival of your tribe.

The problem is what the ego mind thinks the ego mind is. Ego mind is so twisted that it cannot understand itself and it cannot know what non-ego mind is. The ego has completely co-opted experience to create itself. You actually believe that your experience is something personal as opposed to absolute. You actually believe you have a life and that this life can end while other lives continue. You actually believe there is stuff outside your life. All these are illusions of the ego, and when the ego collapses all of that will get radically recontextualized.

What you're swooning over is masculine containment. Every feminine girl craves that. But that does not make the girl any more reasonable. The greater the masculine/feminine polarity in a relationship the hotter it will be but also the more difficult conscious communication will be. Most people will eagerly sacrifice consciousness and health to get that burst of hottness. And then it all goes to shit and spirals out of control. Hot but totally dysfunctional and unsustainable.

Oh, there is no doubt he will make you melt. But that will not create a conscious communication or relationship. And you do not want him to treat you rationally, you want him to be rational. Which is of course what the feminine wants from the masculine because the feminine lacks it. But the feminine will not allow itself to become rationalized and the feminine will not behave rationally when triggered. The problem is that conscious communication is biased towards the rational in order to function. It will get distrupted by emotional upheaval which the feminine is prone to. Put simply, you cannot have a conscious communication with an enraged ax murderer. Conscious communication has some significant prerequisites. Hence the "train wreck".

It's not a false dichotomy, it's a very important point to keep in mind when dealing with women. God help the poor man who tries to treat his woman in a rational manner. He will be punished mercilessly. A huge issue with conscious communication is that it has to be symmetrical, but a masculine/feminine relationship is asymmetrical. Bridging that chasm will be the real challenge.

Again, the issue here is that you are imagining some "other" dimension. You keep creating other without realizing it. If you were fully awake there could be no other and no doubt about it. Doubt means you're not awake. Infinity has no outside, no beyond. Seems like you are just defining "mind" in a finite way. My definition of Mind is infinite and absolute. You can't go beyond it and it includes the infinite void of course. Formlessness is part of Mind. Notice that my definition is an absolute Unity, yours is a duality. Well, guess what, you are creating that duality by insisting on it. See my above point about trying to weasel your way out of this. You can try. Notice how your minds uses every trick it can think of to create the possibility of other. OTHERS ARE YOU!

Yes, this is the reality of the problem. When things get heated the rational methods will break down. And realistically the girl will need the guy to ground her chaotic emotions, not via a rational conversation but in a more primitive way. And also, both of you will try to blame the other and hold yourself as innocent, thereby pissing the other off. And then there will be gaslighting, projection, denial, and all sort of other sneaky defense mechanisms at work. Expecting your girl to be a rational actor is not realistic unless she is basically almost a man.