Leo Gura

Power isn't some trick. If you go walk naked through the street, you will be arrested by the police. That's power. It's no trick you can weasel your way out of with psychology. Real power is a gun to your head. Once power is amassed, it's very hard to take it away by the powerless.

He forgot the Dumbinous stage

Either way is will work. The more you push yourself the faster you will grow. To see a 10 and not approach seems criminal to me. Girls that hot aren't seen often so you better learn to seize the opportunity. You need to train yourself to automatically approach any girl who you find attractive without thinking about it. But if hot girls are stressing you out, start with the average ones to build up your confidence. But you have to start correcting that somehow. So just do the best you can with your approaches and slowly things will correct themselves.

Like 4+ years ago.

It's not the girl's problem. It's the guy's problem for stumbling to speak. It is not the girl's job to carry the conversation when you open her. You have to carry it.

Very common. I struggle with that plenty. Asking her to be you gf in a serious way so early comes off too creepy and needy. But you can do it in tongue-in-cheek ways, by saying something, "So... you single?" and when says Yes, you say, "Not any more ;)" Stuff like that. Don't be serious about it. But also your vibe should already be that she's your gf. Just assume she's your gf from the opener. Talk to her like you'd talk your gf. Treat her like your gf without saying it explicitly. The vibe and frame is what matters, not the words. One of the worst things you can do is treat her like a stranger. You just have to fool yourself using your mind that she's your long-time friend to skip the stranger phase. You just push yourself to approach anyways and try to treat her like any other human. Don't think about her hotness. Your lack of entitlement is a huge inner game problem. You will never get girls you don't feel entitled to. So you just have to brainwash yourself to feel entitled to the hottest girls in the world. Cause you're God, so why not? There's no reason a 9 or 10 won't be happy sleeping with you, as long as you develop rock solid inner game. In this case it really is a fake-it-till-you-make-it situation. Confidence and security is a state of mind. The more hot girls you push yourself to approach, the stronger your confidence will grow. And occasionally some of them will sleep with you, and that will skyrocket your entitlement. Eventually you will feel that no girl is too hot for you. Because of course it was all just limiting beliefs. With hot girls your frame should be: "Yeah, you're hot. Almost as beautiful as I am." Also with you need to work on your intent. You shouldn't just talk to hot girls, you should actually desire them and broadcast that raw desire to her just by the way you look at her. You need to be able to look a hot girl dead in the eyes with desire and not flinch. Practice makes perfect.

I don't like sending out pointless emails. When I send out an email I want it to mean something.

I don't publish a regular newsletter. I will only send out emails when I have something big to announce.

If the submit button is not clicking that ought to be a JavaScript issue.

Yeah, but in practice skipping the first two will produce some very lopsided development and real-world problems.

Possible of course. That's why I want others to report problems.

Send one to JP

My course will detail and compare 50+ research chems.

I don't involve my mind in such filth any more.

You totally missed the point. When you read a novel you know it's fake. Yet you enjoy it. No one ever said, "But I can't enjoy a novel because it isn't real."

This is so wrong I can only Lol. Not wise to listen to psychedelic dabblers.

I just tested it in Chrome and it works for me. Not sure how I can make it better.

Possible of course. That's why I want others to report problems.

There is Absolute Truth. And you are it. Absolute Truth is not a perspective. It's not even right to think of it as nonduality.

By awakening deeper and more, you end up getting over it. God is dreaming and it cannot change what it dreams because the dream is Absolute. This requires a profound surrender. It takes a lot of awakenings to really integrate the absolute solipsism. It's similar to learning that Santa Claus isn't real. At first you are butt-hurt, but then you learn to enjoy Christmas anyways. It took me a couple of years of integration and further awakenings to get over it. Notice that even though you know that the actors in a movie never actually die, you can still enjoy watching a violent movie. The solution here to awaken deeper, and then to get really playful with reality. Treat it like a game of pure trickery. Really appreciate the trickery rather than resisting it. Why do you need others to be real? What does it do for you? Why can't you enjoy them being imaginary?

https://www.actualized.org/articles/how-to-forgive-anyone-who-hurt-you

@TheSpiritualBunny Plug some 4-AcO-DMT and it will be more hardcore than mushrooms.

It should work, I checked it earlier today and people have been successfully signing up. Make sure your JavaScript in enable in the browser. Which browser are you using? If anyone else is having this issue, let me know. And report which browser you are using.

God/Infinity is beyond nonduality. Although it doesn't contradict it.

@spiritual memes I wouldn't call that spirituality, I'd call that psychotherapy. Psychotherapy >> Basic self-help >> Spirituality That's roughly the proper order of things. I skip a lot of the psychotherapy because I assume you got that handled. Which of course many people don't.