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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The projection, blaming, demonization, us-vs-them, and over-generalizing is gonna be off the rails on the right. Watch for it. These are all unconscious egoic mechanisms to avoid taking any responsibility for anything. -
You are never going to predict if it happens again. The current one seems minor. He might live for another 15 years, or go next year. No way we will predict that.
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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Holy moly! Finally some law and order. If only we had that in American politics. That's how to preserve democracy. No slaps on the wrist for coups and insurrections. -
You missed a lot of hardcore stuff that I published this year. Every video I publish these days is essential. There is no more fluff. If I grow from creating it, you will grow from consuming it.
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There are no shoulds in the Universe. You can live as a total monster. The only reason not to is that it will probably backfire on you and create misery for yourself and others. And of course, it will restrict your consciousness. There is no moral difference between a monster and a saint. But the monster will not know God/Truth/Love.
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Contemplation and inquiry. By deep questioning and deconstruction of beliefs, ideologies, and fantasies. Through radical introspection. Through research. You can literally find anything you want on Google. These are relative truths. Not all relative truths are knowable. But the truths about the working of your own mind, reality in general, are available.
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Yes, of course. It doesn't follow that you have to feel joy about it. Some truths are bitter-sweet or even revolting. How you feel is independent from what is true. You may feel joy, you may feel hate, you may feel horror, you may feel sadness, you may feel nothing. Most realistically, your mind will go through a range of conflicting emotions. Remember, anger and hatred are acceptable and valid emotions. Just don't act them out on others.
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I see a chronic problem on this sub-forum, which is young males who complain about lack of success with women and failing to take responsibility for their situation. The #1 rule of all growth and personal development is taking 100% responsibility for your situation. I know how hard that can be when you're struggling with women/sex. It feels very much like life is treating you unfairly and that it's the women's fault. Let me tell you right now: this is a total ILLUSION! It's not the women. It's not society. It's not post-modernists. It's not the Marxists. It's not the feminists. It's YOU! This is not me blaming you. This is simply how all personal development works. Whatever problem you have in life you must begin by getting honest with yourself how you created it. Sometimes this is difficult to accept. It's much easier to blame someone else, or even blame yourself (for being too ugly or too short or too introverted). I am not suggesting you blame yourself. Rather, take ownership of the fact that you are the creator of your life. Whatever is missing in your life, you can correct, but only if you stop blaming yourself and others. Be very mindful of how your ego-mind creates narratives which justify your sense of lack, brokenness, or inability to attract women. All of these narratives, justification, rationalizations, logic, "facts", scientific studies, proofs, etc are sneakily fabricated by your own mind! Your own mind is the enemy! Watch it like a hawk. Your mind will try to come up with reasons and excuses for why your life is unfair and how success with women is impossible. This is all horseshit! Do not believe your own mind here. Your mind is clouded by fear, insecurity, and neediness. That is totally normal and understandable, but you cannot resolve your problems from such a place. From such a place your problems will get worse as you start to blame the world and solidify your victim worldview with cherry-picked evidence, "science", and "logic". Be extra suspicious of "logic" and "science" here. There is nothing logical or scientific about your victim attitude or lack of success with women. It's purely about meeting the survival needs of your ego. Sex is a very powerful survival need which will drive your mind towards all manner of mental gymnastics to ensure that you get it, or at least feel better for not getting it. There's good news and bad news. The good news is: Your looks are NOT the problem! The bad news is: your personality, attitude, and mindset are terrible! The good news is, it's possible to change that. The bad news is, it won't be easy and you will resist it like the devil that you are. So what's the solution? Take ownership of your problem and commit to resolving it. For this you need faith and confidence in your ability to self-actualize. You must have enough hope and vision to see yourself get much better with attracting women. This is NOT a pipe dream or fuzzy thinking. The reality is that any man can become 100x better at attracting women if he really takes ownership of the matter. Yes, it takes serious work. But it's also highly worth it. Imagine that within 3 years you're able to attract pretty women and feel confident about yourself when it comes to dating. Isn't that worth the effort? It sure is. This is not a fantasy. I've done it, many men have done it, and so can you! Your looks are NOT the bottleneck, your mindset is. So what do you do after you've established this vision? You must do lots of research to educate yourself about how dating actually work (not how you think it works). Find videos, find books, buy online courses, hire a coach, take a bootcamp, take a workshop, etc. There are literally hundreds of excellent resources available online these days. Most of them are legit, not scams. Study them hard and then get into the field. Start talking to women. Start approaching women. Start flirting with women. Start being much more social. If you struggle attracting women I can tell you right now what your top problems are. It's not lack of money, looks, muscles, car, height, or dick size. Remember, attraction and dating is EXTREMELY counter-intuitive. It's works exactly the opposite of how you initially think. Your top problems are: You live in your mancave and never go out! You must go out into social spaces where real women hang out. You spend WAY too much time online, indoors You spend WAY too much time on Youtube, Netflix, and playing video games You work too much You are never around cute single women You never start conversations with strangers You have terrible body language due to lack of experience You are not comfortable doing small-talk and being emotional and random in conversations You are far too logical You approach zero women on a regular basis You are terrified of approaching a women who you find attractive, talking yourself out of every approach You have terrible eye contact, you don't smile, and you don't project your voice properly You are crippled by fear and tongue-tied You are unable to start and sustain an interesting conversation with a human being You are disconnected from your body, your heart, your feelings, your emotions You have terrible self-image issues. You hate yourself, you hate how you look, you judge yourself way too harshly. You judge yourself just as harshly as you judge women. You have a bad sense of dress style and you don't groom yourself well You have no experience with physically touching women in a non-creepy way. You don't know how to rapidly physically escalate on a women without creeping her out. You don't know how women think or what they truly value in a man You don't know how to flirt and be authentic You are trying to be masculine in all the wrong ways -- fake masculinity You are needy, needy, needy You are terribly inexperienced You have no sense of passion or purpose in life, which robs you of confidence and masculine vitality Your attitude sucks: you whine, complain, bitch, moan, blame, and are so negative You think you understand life, reality, and how attraction works -- you don't! So work on fixing all of that before you go blaming women. All of the above can be deliberately worked on and fixed. You need to learn how to be a real man. Being a real man has nothing to do with big muscles, big dick, or a fast car. A real man is grounded on the INSIDE. It's ALL about inner game! You need to cultivate that confidence. It doesn't come naturally. You must build it! 80% of getting good with women is just actually being much more social. You need to deliberately re-structure your life so that you're automatically being more social. So that you're going out every weekend. So that you're bumping into new people constantly. So that you're making new friends all the time. This kind of re-structuring is very doable. You just have to be willing to change your lifestyle. And stop watching or listening to any of the following: Jordan Peterson, MGTOW, RedPill, Incel material/forums/reddit All of that is cancer of the mind. It's reinforcing your victim mindset and robbing you of your ability to change yourself. I've been where you are. I know it's tough. But hang in there, hold your vision, have hope, get to work, and things will dramatically improve for you. You will become a new person by the end of this journey and you will be so proud of yourself. You will become a real man, not some whiny JP fanboy. The #1 thing a real man does is take 100% responsibility for all his problems. A real man NEVER blames anyone, and certainly not women or feminism. A real man is a feminist. A real man fearlessly works on himself. So start right there! Start by fixing that.
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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Yes. Not as a factual account of Owen's life, but as an intro in what pickup is. It's a classic book to read when getting into pickup. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Not directly, but the fascistic MAGA base celebrates political violence and delights in it. This is consistent with far right psychology. They did it with the Paul Pelosi violent attack and even blamed Paul for it. They love to talk about civil war. They hold the Jan 6 insurrectionists as pariots and Trump pardoned them. The Proud Boys and various patriot militia groups. This is part of a larger psychological pattern of dimissing empathy as important, and eagerness to battle leftists because they feel they are more masculine and will win the war. Kirk was a key leader in this large political movement, racheting up the polarization of American politics. The entire problem with this kind of politics is that it ends up devolving into violence and the leaders themselves become victims, including Trump. Those who study political history understand that this is how authoritarian movements unfold. None of this is to justify Kirk's murder. There are just larger patterns at play here which a student of history sees. -
Obviously Trump will not face justice for writing a perverted letter 30 years ago.
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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Clear video of the sniper here. This is definitely him: -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It's been so long I don't even remember him in the book. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Do you know how risky it would be for a Mossad agent to do this operation? How risky it would be of Israel. This would be an insane gamble for little benefit. If the guy was caught Israel would have a total PR disaster on their hands. The entire MAGA right would turn against them. It just makes no sense. MAGA is good for them. Killing a top MAGA actor is stupid. Charlie helps MAGA win elections. You don't kill a guy like that. He is an ally. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Good analysis of the sniper. There is a few seconds of video footage of the sniper on the rooftop dressed in all-black. Note: the trans photo of the shooter seems to be a fake, so be careful. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Except we have no idea what in that book is true. That book was half fiction and exaggeration. You are trusting a book written by a PUA to maximize sales. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It makes no sense for Mossad to assassinate him. Mossad agents are not going to risk their own asses to snipe a MAGA conservative on American soil. That is a stupid plot that is likely to get the agent killed for no reward. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Back when I was learning from him he had no political stances. He got radicalized with Covid and the collapse of RSD. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Suffering evokes empathy. This does not need to involve a moral judgment. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
On a personal level, yes. On a political level, no. You can watch Hitler get killed and feel bad for him. This idea that you kill Hitler and feel happy about it is childish. There is sadness in the death of any organism regardless of what it did. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
On a personal level, yes. On a political level, no. -
Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
A cold-blooded murder is lamentable regardless of who it is. -
It gets so much worse than EP3. AI can write better episodes than EP6.
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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It does follow. This event is very bad for democracy. Trump is a monster but killing civilians is not okay. No contradiction. -
That's awesome man. Who did you rob? Just kidding
