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Well, maybe that will motivate some folks here to get more serious about Kriya.

@mr_engineer Who insults and berates you? I've talked to thousands of girls and that's like almost never happened to me. And if it does then I would never take it seriously, I'd laugh it off like the girl is drunk or in a bad mood. When I'm out talking to girls I'm not using their words to tell me who I am, to define me. None of them could know me. That whole line of thinking is just too serious for a night out. A night out is shit-talking, cracking jokes, having fun, and flirting. Not a discussion about my worth as a man. If someone is talking shit about you, you can just tell them, "Why are you being so nasty?" And walk away to another girl. Don't play the game of trying to defend or prove yourself to anyone. If people are being disrespectful to you, just walk away. The way to be secure as a man is to never let the words of others affect your worth. Your worth lies completely in how hard you work on yourself and how much you love yourself.

My tastes are what they are and they have never changed since I was a teen, and it is inconceivable for me to have any other tastes.

No. This discussion has become absurd.

@MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI What results have you gotten with Kriya and how long have you been doing it?

I do not have any direct experience of chakras. Not sure why. Maybe they are not part of my reality or maybe I have not done enough yoga. Perhaps the way it works is that you have to imagine them into existence and I haven't really been interested in that. When it comes to yoga you guys should not regard me as an expert. My experience of yoga is limited. I provided these Kriya resources because there were no gurus around from whom to learn it. If you want to get serious about yoga you should probably invest the money to seek out an expert.

Of course it's always here. It's everything. But that doesn't say anything about how conscious you are.

I'm not ready to get into that right now. But the burnout was just from 10 years of work and having the autoimmune issues throughout that whole time to various degrees. The autoimmune just means that I have a lot less energy to work with than normal people. So I get exhausted quickly and need more recovery time. Which slows down all my work and causes a lot of interruptions, making it difficult to restart again. It's frustrating to not be able to work as much as I want to. So I have to rethink my relationship to work. To be more clever about it.

Yeah, my health problems forced me many times to drop off, and then it's hard to restart the habit. Restarting is easier with a simpler stack. 6 month is a lot of work just for the tongue thing to start working. That's not a newbie friendly technique. Thanks for sharing your results.

Thank you. I have already been taking lots more breaks over the last half year as you have noticed. So it's not like my blog post was some shocking revelation out of the blue. I have been scaling back my work to make more personal time for a while now. As far as a permanent solution, I'm not sure yet. But yes, I anticipate some major changes to my lifestyle, attitudes, mindsets, and so on. I don't have a concrete plan yet. Well, for one, I still gotta eat and pay my bills. I can't just do nothing for the rest of my life. Survival is still a factor. And secondly, it was never about competition for me, it was about doing meaningful work that I could be proud of. And yes, I am quite ambitious by nature so my lifestyle has to suit that.

How long did it take you to develop it?

Frankly I would prefer porn over a girl who I don't like. I have very sophisticated taste. The raw sex is not the main appeal for me. Yes, I'm weird. But also I like it. I value quality over quantity.

@bazera Thanks for sharing.

What you are describing is actually more advanced. Of course you can also take it slow. But the guy in this thread is to afraid to escalate so he needs to train breaking that barrier early. Once you are experienced you can sit back and not even touch the girl and let her come to you. But not as a newbie in training.

No, my T was around 800 and I have always been picky.

I am extremely picky so actually many girls simply don't make me hard. It's actually something I suffer from. I wish I was less picky. My sex life would be so much easier. Most guys are not that picky. Sexual attraction has a huge range. People are into all sorts of weird stuff.

That's not true. You cannot enjoy eating a piece of shit, even if you are openminded. Taste is somewhat flexible but not all-flexible. And the whole point of attraction is to be attracted to your fave things. The majority of girls I would rather not sleep with. Not because I couldn't enjoy the raw sex but because I am looking for something exceptional and I am deliberately picky. Your sex drive is tuned to be picky which is why you love some people a lot more than others. When you watch porn, you don't just watch any random porn, you look for favorites.

Yes, AI should not be regarded as a human mind just because it can say human-sounding things. It's missing core features of human minds. Even if AI had wisdom it would still not be a human mind. It's doubtful that AI has anything like experience.

No guy has features of girls I like. And it's not as simple as one or two features, it's the whole package of features which also includes stuff like feminine energy. But if you put feminine energy in a guy's body I am not attracted to that at all. So it's not so simple. But of course others are attracted to all sorts of unusual combinations. For all practical purposes a straight guy will be attracted to a classically feminine girl. Don't confuse the issue with questions of social construction. Social construction refers to other aspects of gender. Gender is a complicated thing which can involve an entire identity. It's a complex mixture of biological factors mixed with culture and psychology.

Yes. Which is why we have this thread to offer better guidance than that book. Very few people will succeed in following that book because it's too hardcore. I made this thread to offer a more realistic path. I also have mutliple Kriya books on the list. Don't overlook those.

I have recently been restarting yoga. We'll see how it goes. I wanna give it another go. Not lifting right now but I wanna get back into it. Health problems made it difficult for me to maintain those habits in the past.

That makes it more natural and less awkward. If you go half the date without touching her that will make it very awkward to then touch her. You want to break those formality barriers within minutes, not hours. You can pretty much hug any girl immediately on a first date. You can do a little informal platonic hug. Stop being afraid and just see how much you can get away with. Worst case she brushes you off. It's no big deal and you gotta get comfortable with being brushed off by a girl. I've had girls punch me in the face. It's okay. You're a man you will live, it's no big deal. You can't be walking around worrying about such little stuff. I hope a girl slaps you in the face, just to toughen you up. I hope a girl calls security on you a few times.

I would say all of spirituality. You don't need to become asexual to be spiritual. I don't like planting that idea in people's minds. Especially young people. Go have sex in a reasonable, healthy way. Denying your sex drive can turn into a big waste of time.

You have to be very careful with this notion that "gender is a social construct". It's not merely an idea in ones mind like a unicorn. You do have biological drives which dictate what you're attracted to. Your attraction is not a social construct at all. What you're attracted to is not "girls" per se but specific body shapes and other features. We use the word "girls" as a vague proxy for that.

@Bobby_2021 I'm pretty sure it's easy to bribe your way out of Romania and get a fake passport. But maybe he is too proud of himself to do that. It would look really bad for PR.