Leo Gura

It's no different than a nightclub. Just walk up to girls, smile at them, say Hi, and get physical. You can meet all kinds of cool people at any nightclub, bar, or social venue. Don't judge, just have fun. The louder the venue the more you rely on eye contact, facial expressions, and physical touch. See how far you can get without even talking much. Just vibe with her. You should not be having deep conversations at a rave. It's about partying, dancing, and having fun.

I don't like being pushy either. Pushing yourself at the open on a girl is actually counter-productive and bad game. What you should be doing instead is opening the girl in a fun way and quickly getting a sense of how receptive she is. Sometimes you open a girl and her whole face lights up and her body opens up to you and it's just on. That's what you want to screen for. If the girl is not very receptive, don't waste your time, move on to another girl. This is the most efficient way to game. Now, with that said, sometimes you open a girl and she's just sorta shy, not too hot for you, and needs to be warmed up. In which case you carry on with banter and fun conversation. And you keep it going until she starts to show interest. As long as a girl is willing to talk to you there is no problem with you talking. That's not pushy. You're just being social and she's open to it. The whole key to great game is being able to read the girl's face, reactions, and body language. Once you get good at this you don't need to push or harass girls, you can tell within minutes or even seconds whether to keep talking or walk away. Basically, if the girl is smiling you keep plowing and if the girl is frowning then you leave. This ensures that she doesn't feel harassed. And if a girl pushes you away or tells you to leave, you just leave. Don't keep pushing. But beyond talking you also need to learn to lead and bounce the girl around. Don't just stand in one place talking for 30 minutes. You talk for 5 minutes and then lead her to another place. When you suggest to a girl to move with you, you can immediately gauge how compliant she is. If she likes you she will move with you. Otherwise she won't. So start testing girls for this by just taking them by the hand and moving them. Bottom line: If a girl is willing to talk to you, you keep talking to her. Then 5-10 mins later you suggest moving together. And if she refuses, then that's your clue that she's not very interested and you can save your time and talk to other girls. Sometimes it takes longer to get a girl to move. Maybe 20 minutes of talking. It's up to you to decide how much time you want to invest in a girl. But if you cannot get her to move within 20 mins then she's probably never sleeping with you. When your game gets really good it's not pushy at all, it's about really vibing with the girl. You create this fun vibe between each other and then it's so on that being pushy isn't even a factor. You two are just having fun talking and moving together. That's the ideal. There has to be passion between you two. I recommend you change your whole mindset when approaching to one of: vibing, fun, passion! That's what you're attempting to create. And then it's just a matter of finding that one girl in the room who's into it. You will clearly see when a girl is into it. You will have her attention. Her eyes will lock on you. Her body will become open to your touch. She will be grinning from ear to ear. And at the point you can escalate heavy.

That's hardcore.

I think any other Democrat would be a bigger risk. Biden's not great but he beat Trump handily last time and has a good chance of doing it again, especially after all of Trump's trials.

Which is why I have the others.

What benefits have you seen?

You need to start by making videos on popular hot topics which get lots of attention. For example, you could do a video on some hot topic in the news from a self-help perspective, like Elon Musk or Trump or Andrew Tate, etc. If you do obscure topics and titles you will get very little views. Another way to break in is by doing interviews with well-known people. Their popularity can get you lots of views. Which is why interviews are such a common format. Another way is to make short but very well produced videos with graphics and very distilled content. Such videos can get millions of views if they are professionally produced and slick looking. It's hard to break in these days. You need to find a unique angle and bring lots of value to stand out.

You have been taught a very poor, shallow version of Christianity. If you actually make an effort to study serious mystical esoteric Christianity you will realize that Christianity means You are God. It's that simple. But the Christianity you were taught was just dogma and nonsense spoken by people who never actually had direct experience of God. They didn't know what they were teaching. As Jesus told you, the kindgom of heaven is within. What that means is is that you are God, if you go deep within. You need to question and desconstruct every ideas humans told you about God and spirituality. Question everything until you discard all ideas. Then you will be left with raw direct experience or pure consciousness. That's the real God. CONSCIOUSNESS IS GOD. And all ideas about it are irrelevant.

I don't know.

Assuming he doesn't win the presidency, then all bets are off. It's absurd that he can use the presidency to escape all accountability.

Trust him for what?

How long did it take you to get the tongue up your nose?

Lifting is one of the best exercises for health of the body. It keeps everything strong. Especially as one gets older. There's been lots of research on this. For me lifting is not about the muscles. I don't get big muscles anyway from lifting because that's not my body type. I look lean even if I lift a lot. I have restarted cardio lately. Ideally I wanna do some of both.

I have no idea.

@bensenbiz Sorry, I cannot commit to managing that. And such a thing would require constant oversight from me. I expend too much energy on managing this forum as it is.

So what??? Of course you will have random negative interactions with some humans throughout your life! You cannot carry that trash around with you for 20 years! Just look at what you are doing. Yes, some girls behave badly. Some men behave badly. People make mistakea. That is society. 95% of people behave well and are friendly. Focus on that. You are engaged in a blame game. This is not going to help you grow. Just interact with girls expecting the best and enjoying yourself, without needing them to be a certain way. It's like you need, need, need them to like you, or treat you well, or give you things, or to be fair to you. Drop all that and just have fun socializing.

Why adopt this kind of negative mindset at all? Focus on empowering ideas that make you feel good about your life. There are so many beautiful aspects to spirituality. Why not focus on that? You will go from many amazing states of mind and the die and go into even more profound states of mind.

You didn't get these narratives from direct interactions with live women. You got it from consuming a bunch of low-tier social media trash content.

This is all manosphere dogma. That's all this is. You have no actual experience talking to women face to face or relating to them. You have cherrypicked online stories which you've woven into a victim narrative. Please stop consuming manosphere content. It is poisoning your mind with negativity. You will never teach happiness that way.

@Holykael take @bensenbiz up on that call offer. We need to get you turned around or you will lose access to post here soon. This is the time to act and make a change. We cannot allow you to endlessly post negativity day after day for months. This is a forum about self-improvement. Show us that you have a desire to change and grow.

Sounds like you know something.

I have talked to thousands of girls and I cannot remember a single man-hating thing said. Girls do not go around hating men. This is such an absrud and delusional notion. Such a notion could only come from online manosphere ideology.

This is your warped perception because of the skewed way in which you consume media. Your mind is cherrypicking data to fit whatever biased, self-serving worldview you wish to sustain. I consume enormous amounts of media and man-hate is almost nowhere to be found. Stop consuming red pill, blackpill, manosphere content. It is slowly poisoning your mind. Positivity is what you need. Cut out all the negative victom narratives.

@StarStruck Watch out, you are engraining a toxic attitude towards women which will make it impossible to have successful and loving relationships with them. You are falling into the classic trap of pickup. Endlessly chasing hot girls is not going to lead to a happy life. Be fair to your future self and develop some depth and integrity.

@Holykael I understand you are deeply unhappy with life but you need to stop masturbating to this toxic negativity. You just keep reinforcing it in your mind every day for months. This will end very badly for you if you do not stop. Please change your thinking patterns. Stop feeding the negativity. It is impossible to live that way. Stop thinking about negative things. Stop. You need to find small bit of positive things and focus on those. Slowly you will start to feel better and heal. Please start to notice how you are creating this negativity. Take responsibility for doing it. Don't blame God for it.