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Everything posted by Leo Gura
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The truth is that Tinder works entirely off your photos. If your photos are good all you need to do is open with "Hey". And if your photos are bad nothing you say will work. Spend less time perfecting your opener and more time perfecting your photos. And if you don't have good looks don't bother with Tinder at all.
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I used to be very cheap (still am), so I understand this situation well. First, you have to understand his POV. If someone is that cheap it's probably for good reason. He probably has trauma around money in his past. Or he's being very cheap to save that money for some important higher goal, like starting a business or taking care of his parents. So it's good to ask him where his cheapness comes from and what positive function it serves in his mind. Try to understand the deep psychological reasons why he's cheap by talking about it with him. Second, in order to get him to change, you have to get him to see how being cheap can be positive but also negative when taken too far. He needs to see how cheapness backfires on him. Specific examples are necessary here. For example, cheapness could cost him his girlfriend. Cheapness can actually cost him more money in the long-term. Cheapness could strain his relationships. Cheapness could ruin his reputation. Etc. If he truly becomes aware of this, then he will be motivated to change his behavior. Thirdly, it's important for a man especially to see that part of what it means to be a good man is to be generous with your resources. A good man is generous and not too fearful about resources because he is confident he can earn more. So actually, cheapness detracts from being a strong man. This is a deep point which he is missing. Saving $4 on chocolate is not worth the hit he takes to his manhood. If he can see this, he will start to change. Something a man should aspire to is to become so abundant in resources that he never again has to worry about sharing them freely with loved ones. You can discuss all these things with him and see his reactions. If he has a lot of trauma around money he might be stubborn about seeing these deeper points I made, and he might need some years to see the light and start making corrections. The key thing for him to understand on this point is that it's not about money, it's about generosity. Generosity is worth more than money. The bottom line is that your BF is not conscious of all these subtle points, thus his cheapness continues.
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Of course you can make money doing that. Addiction recovery is a huge business with people makings tons of money from it. Addiction retreats and rehab centers are a huge business. This is a great LP if done properly.
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You can't save a man who doesn't want to be saved.
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Leo Gura replied to BlessedLion's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
No one man can teach you everything. -
The biggest danger is not from the chemical itself, it's from you getting so high that you lose control and do something reckless like jump out the window or slip and hit your head on a coffee table.
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Inhale deep and slow into empty lungs and hold as long as possible. That's all to the technique. Nothing in the mouth or throat will get you high. It only absorbs in the lungs.
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Leo Gura replied to MellowEd's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You are Consciousness. -
Unspecial people deserve love too.
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Just the pickup rant video.
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Leo Gura replied to Princess Arabia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Empathy has a genetic and neurological component. Some people just have more empathy than others for those reasons. -
Leo Gura replied to Princess Arabia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Empathy has a genetic and neurological component. Sme people just have more empathy than others for those reasons. -
Leo Gura replied to Bulgarianspirit's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Death is Infinity. That is the highest awakening. -
That is a great quote.
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Leo Gura replied to LoneWonderer's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
New Age clown. -
I only cook with stainless. It's easy.
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I am not aware of any such accusations against Chris.
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That's what game is. Guys who don't know game are, ironically, unable to create rapid emotional connection. Which is why they struggle to get laid. Emotional connection has little to do with love.
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If you just pre-heat your pan enough most things won't stick. Non-stick pans are good for tricky stuff like crepes.
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I never said he created the entire culture of misogyny. Obviously misogyny is a much larger issue. But he facilitated it. And RSD was the most influential pickup company by far. It was a failure of leadership. The only reason I even bring this up is because he is blaming civilization at large for his own mistakes. Turning to vague conspiracy theories.
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Owen was certainly responsible for creating a culture of misogyny.
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The entire RSD brand was destroyed by Julien's toxic, abusive, juvenile crap, and Owen's hands were not clean. He also encouraged highly manipulative, toxic, sexist stuff. This was karma 101. Had nothing to do with censorship.
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Lol No. His game content was censored because it was deeply unethical, misogynistic, and abusive towards women. Nobody has censored my game content. Because I emphasized an ethical approach. Owen created his own downfall. Now he blames civilization for it. Owen's a worldclass bullshitter. And in the end he's bullshitted himself. The biggest mistake Owen made in his work is to completely neglect the issue of ethics. That's the real truth that isn't being discussed in the pickup community. Because if PUAs seriously confronted that issue they would have an existential crisis.
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You don't need all this elaborate theory. Just go out, be social, and talk to girls. The rest is BS.
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Lol Nonsense.
