Leo Gura

That's easy to say when you are a rabbit and not a hungry wolf. "Come on guys! Let's all just enjoy peacefully eating grass. Right guys? Guys? Why are you looking at me like that..."

Most women can't understand it because they have lower sex drive. It's all about sex drive. If you don't have it then you cannot understand why someone would care about sex. Imagine this: If you had no sex drive you would think that dating is insanity. That's because it is. Sex is a totally insane. It make zero metaphysical sense, but one cares.

Bingo. Ain't no rabbit coming to feed the wolf in his den

If you wanna blow a gasket, I have just the video for you: This is overseas exploitation taken to 11.

I have never dated a girl who isn't into that. I don't understand why you say American girls aren't into that. They super are.

Yup, that's how it is. It's called bootstrapping. You gotta create yourself. Same as when you launch a business, you are creating money from scratch. Of course it's hard, but doable. What you do is you take massive action and you set your vision for 1-3 years down the road. You're not doing game to get laid this month, you're doing it get laid many times 3 years from now. And every small success counts. For example, you got a girl to text you back or agree to a date, that's a big success which builds your confidence. You don't need to sleep with her to see that she likes you. In fact, since hookpoint is reached within 5 minutes of any interaction, you can basically build a lot of confidence just by reaching hookpoint with girls. Even if they never call you back, at least you know that she liked you enough to have slept with you if only circumstances were better. There are so many hot girls who I knew would have slept with me if only my skill was a little better or logistics were just a little better. You can use this to build a lot of confidence. Most of game is just struggling against unfavorable logistics, which has nothing to do with your self-worth. Also, if you lose girls due to lack of skill, that's great news because that means all you need to do is invest more time building skill. So you get motivation from seeing your skills grow. It doesn't really matter whether you are desperate or not. You just go out and socialize like clockwork. Your desperation may drive a few girls away but not so many that you can't have success. Desperation is not a concrete roadblock, it's just a lack of optimization. If you are so desperate to eat that you burn some food it's okay because you can cook again.

The notion that America is not overflowing with feminine women is insane. That is unless your definition of feminine is: go make me sanwiches. I've rarely had a problem with a girlfriend not being feminine enough. If anything the problem is that they are so feminine they're wacko. My most stable relationship was with the least feminine girl because she was sane and low drama. It's not as hot but it lasts longer.

There's nothing wrong with shopping at the store which isn't overcrowded, as long as it's not done in an exploitative way. It makes sense to shop around overseas. There are many good girls overseas who would love a chance to upgrade their life. But I feel that most guys who do this are just looking for girls to exploit and then rationalizing it to themselves.

I've said before that it's bad. Giving noobs high doses is totally irresponsible.

That's the whole field of game. Everything I said in How To Get Laid series, plus building up your career and life style. Easiest way to get noticed is to socialize a lot. You can't get noticed sitting online all day.

There are thousands for everyone. But they will not come to you, you gotta do the work to find them. You have over a thousand soul mates walking around on Earth right now. But you are too lazy to find them all.

Stop seeking unconditonal love from humans. That is improper. If you want unconditional love buy a dog.

Yes

Exactly. The key word there is "right". "Right" means of high value. If Tom Cruise gives you attention that's gonna feel "right". If Tom Cruise was blowing up my phone, I would feel good too. No homo.

Of course there's no way around having skill with handling girls. Without that skill you will screw everything up even if a girl jumps into your bed.

Of course dick pics are cringe and rude. It shows a total cluelessness on behalf of the guy about how women work.

Because you have value for a man. Because what you need from a man is very different than what he needs from you. It may sound funny, but for a man just to get noticed is 80% of the challenge of dating. For women, it's the opposite: being noticed means nothing.

The key insight here is this: There was nothing special about Hitler that made him evil. Hitler was just a far right ultra-nationalist, and when nationalism gets taken too far it turns into ethnic cleansing and genocide. It makes no difference what ethnicity or nationality the people are. The problem I see is that many Israelis want to claim a monopoly on being victims of genocide, but genocide is quite a common phenomenon that has nothing to do with your specific ethnic identity. Genocide can happen by any group against any other group, all under the rationale of self-defense. The lesson of the Holocaust should not be learned too narrowly. The lesson of the Holocaust in not that Jews need to be protected at all costs. The lesson is that ethnic cleansing can happen to anyone by anyone if nationalism is allowed to get out of control. When the Holocaust is turned into part of one's identity, it leads to the same problems that any finite identity fixation can lead to. By making the Holocaust part of one's identity it limits the mind's ability to be unbiased and sensitive to the ethnic cleansing that one's own tribe might be participating in. It's the same problem as American Exceptionalism, which is used to justify America's bad behavior abroad. America is not above devilry. Neither is Israel. Devilry is not a rare exception, it is the default condition of mankind.

@Inliytened1 Love you too.

I have girls send me unsolicited pictures of their tits just because I created Actualized.org. That, in a nutshell, is why men need to focus on creating value.

Looks is the biggest form of value in mating. No woman "just" likes a man. She only likes him to the extent that he has value to her. This is why guys talk about value. Because the most important way for a guy to attract girls is to raise his value. Once his value is raised girls flock to him when otherwise they ignored him. And then when he tells the girl that she likes him due to his higher value she will deny it because she has not conscious understanding of why she feels whatever she feels. She doesn't even care to know. She just assumes she likes him for some superficial reasons. Your explaination of how mating works is so superficial it's downright offensive to God's design. As if a living organism can just feel things without it being connected to survival. No! Survival is the only reason you feel anything about anything. Feelings are not cute arbitrary things. Feelings are dead serious. There's no room in feelings for bullshit. Feelings are how animals survive. A woman doesn't even see a low value man. She is blind to such men. That's how serious value is.

But they are part of one holistic issue. Israeli settlers right now are drafting plans to colonize Gaza. Watch the documentaries on my blog.

Feelings are based on value. When you see a 50% sale on your fave food, you feel excited. Because you are getting free value. And so it is when you see a high value man. You just aren't conscious of why you feel what you feel. Contemplate why you don't feel excited to sleep with a pig and you will quickly understand what I'm saying.

Israel has been doing ethnic cleansing for 80 years. You can see it in the documentaries I posted on my blog this week.

Why are you so black & white about this? You are intelligent enough to understand that devilry comes in many degrees. Ethnic cleansing comes in many degrees. Abuse of power comes in many degrees. Corruption comes in many degrees. War crimes come in many degrees. There is an obvious and objective similarity between all ultra-nationalist people. Hitler was ultra-nationalist and so is a portion of the Israel population. Crimes against Palestinians have been done by ultra-nationalist Israelis. There is no denying this. And there's no denying that far-right nationalist ideology has a big influence on Israeli government policy.