Leo Gura

@Reignforest If ancient humans lived to 100 I think that evidence would be quite obvious. It's very hard to live to 100 when you live in the wild without modern medicine.

Yup. However, once you discover alien consciousness, you will realize everything else is silly nonsense.

Yes, but that principle is very effective even in a relationship. Obviously in a relationship you will also need to be serious at times. It depends. In general your relationship needs to be as authentic and conscious as possible. You want to be careful not to be manipulative. But once you internalize game deeply, many of those principles will just become part of how you interact with girls in general. Certain principles are more approriate in relationships than others. For example, in a relationship you don't want to worry about the investment issue because she will actually want you to invest. If you are actively gaming in a relationship then something is wrong. With that said, girls are girls. There are certain principles to handling girls regardless. It's not game per se, it's just understanding and mastery of the feminine.

Of course you're skeptical. They just don't work on you. This issue is deeper than you give it credit.

It's easy to create all sorts of religious and spiritual meanings. Just program your mind to believe everything happens for a reason and God is your personal friend. And that will become your hallucination. I know girls who believe something mystical is happening when they see 11:11 on the clock.

No

There will be some outliers. We are talking general principles of game. As you master the principles you can then tailor your game to girls more individually. For example, sometimes you'll notice a girl gets very invested in you early on. This can happen, but you should consider this an exception, not the norm. And you should still never forget that girls are very flakey until after sex.

You could be more creative with your insults.

Another, simpler way to deal with this whole situation is with the principle of playfulness. Never respond to girls seriously, but playfully. If she sends you some stupid text, you respond with something absurd and playful, not serious. This demonstrates your detachment. Ex: "Johan told me that he doesn't love you any more." Ex: "Johan told me he stepped on a particularly large skunk."

What you are failing to take into account is that psychedelics affect people very differently. For example, DMT simply doesn't work on 5% of the popluation. This is clinically demonstrated. If psychedelics affected you like they affect me, you would spiritually shit your pants from 1 LSD trip. It has nothing to do with feeling good. In fact LSD is not pleasant for me. It feels like gross.

You used my term "stubborn mules".

Me! I was not talking about the content of your arguments. Your agruments are not bad. I just don't believe in randomness. It's a tricky question for sure.

Said the parrot.

@Vrubel It's not about acting disinterested, it's about being disinterested. If you had 3 other girlfriends, you would not have felt disrespected by that girl. Because you would have been too busy to even notice what nonsense she texted you. You would have replied to her "K" a few days late. And she would have felt like you are a valuable guy. Instead you communicated to her that you are a desperate and lonely guy who needs her more than she needs you. This stuff is extremely counter-intuitive. It will drive you crazy until you finally figure it out. Detachment is a core principle of game. The lesson goes very deep.

I will not say anything to you.

@at_anchor Write out a plan and slowly start taking baby steps towards it every day. This will make you feel optimisitic and hopeful immediately. Be patient. It will take time to ultimately break free. But just working towards it will give you great purpose and motivation. You don't need to be free to start feeling better. The worst feeling is when you have no plan and nothing to work towards.

Of course it does. But don't take that to mean it is impossible for you. Just harder. Although in some cases it might be easier. There are so many different kinds of neuro-divergence, it's hard to make sense of them all.

I had a great loving childhood and I certainly had to approach. No one came to me.

I understand God deeper than anyone here. So you'd be wise to listen. The stubborness and closedminded from you guys is truly astounding.

Truth. But game is hard. Whining on a forum is much easier.

This was your fault. You got too invested and took her too seriously. Instead you should have treated her like you didn't care. And then she would have gone on another date with you, slept with you, and then everything would have flipped around and she would have started to fall in love with you. But because you were over-invested you spooked her off with your neediness and you even made yourself feel disrespected. The mistake was that you got so invested in her that you wanted respect from her. This is a very sneaky and subtle problem in your game which you can fix if you take responsibility for it. I used to have this problem a lot. Until I realized what was really happening, how I was creating it.

You will not understand God by realizing that water is wet. That is not serious God-Realization. That's just ratty nonduality.

Some of it is stuff I've talked about in the videos but which hasn't been grasped at enough depth. But also I am sharing new insights here on the forum. You are right that I have not explained it in depth yet. I use this forum to throw out brand new insights before I fully develop them, since that takes time. So you have a point. But also, I was speaking to a growing attitude I see on this forum of people acting like they have figured out all of Consciousness and have nothing more to learn. The ones who consider themselves enlightened are especially guilty of this. This is a deep self-deception. Which I have warned about for a long time. No one here has mastered Consciousness. Not even close. Consciousness has many tricks up its sleeve in store for you. I am dropping hints about what some of them are.

You need to learn that girls have no investment in you until after sex. She is not going to care about you until after sex. The issue is, you are invested in her and she is not invested in you. Girls are not thinking about you, they are lost in their busy little lives, like rats, until after they sleep with you. Then everything flips. Your only problem is over-investment. Stop expecting respect from women until after sex.

The bottom line is that people are not thinking, they are just juggling trendy ideas that they heard and which suit their biases and selfishness.