Leo Gura

I went out to nightclubs and bars for about 2 years in a row. In that time I had maybe 2 drinks, which were offered to me for free and I drank them just to be polite.

@Peter124 You are the ego and neither is real.

You aren't approaching enough and aren't letting go enough. At least one night in your life go be a party animal. Dance until you are sweaty and out of breath. Be silly and stupid. Then watch how girls get drawn to you like a magnet. Do it sober. But by the middle of the night will become naturally intoxicated on fun. You will become fearless. You will stop giving a fuck about what anyone thinks of you.

To be honest, Owen can be a weird douche. But at a nightclub this is okay. The point is to go out, let loose, and have some fun socializing. This can be done in a way where no one gets hurt. I challenge you guys to go out one night and just have more fun than you've ever had in your life. And do it sober. Girls love guys who know how to have fun.

What??? Where are you getting this?? You've badly misread the situation. The point of pursuing awakening should be a positive one: Truth, curiosity, and Love.

Exit polls ain't votes. It's absurd to assume they should line up within 4%.

Reality IS Love. The end.

Beautiful as long as it's not your ass on the line

He's got some great analysis:

Yup Everything is precisely backwards. God's Love is a tricky business. It cannot be biased the way you want it to be. God must love viruses as much as it loves humans.

@WHO IS God is you. So God is fully experiencing your ignorance and suffering every minute. Do you feel any responsibility for your Creation?

You're not getting it. You're judging God from ego. You are completely disconnected from God.

Look for that backlog of Owen's old RSD videos. Actually life is fair and everyone is special. But that requires God-consciousness to see. You know you love it

As with many other domains, school left you totally unperpared to handle the realities of dating and sex. School does not teach those realities at all. Dating and sexuality is highly context sensitive and implicit. It is also so tied in with survival that it must be tightly regulated by the powerful because they want to fuck the best people themselves. So they will tell you one thing but then actually do the opposite themselves in their own private sex lives. Harsh truths about sex are like harsh truths about spirituality. Flirting, playful touching, and being a good salesmen are not against the law. It's not even taboo. It happens in nightclubs and bars everywhere in the world and is generally considered acceptable. But talking openly about it is often unacceptable, especially in the MeToo era. Do some guys take the flirting and touching overboard into rapey territory? Sure! Some do. But you can also do it in a decent manner. Go flirt with some girls. No problem. Never force yourself on her if she isn't smiling while you do it. Her facial experssion tells you everything. If she's laughing and smiling and looking deep in your eyes, you can basically rip off her panties and do whatever you want. But as soon as her smile turns into a frown, that's when you stop. The key is to ATTRACT and CHARM her. This is very different than force.

If it was truly unnecessary we would be able to easily eliminate it. But it's not so easy. So maybe it's more necessary than you imagine? I'm not saying it can't be done. Just that it's gonna be a lot harder than vegans think.

But that's exactly what mankind has done for a million years. It's in your blood. You will do it when required or pay another to do it. We live in a complex economy where it's not feasible to do every detail of life yourself. A lot of ugly stuff is hidden within the vast complexity of the economy. And yet you cannot avoid the economy. Oil and gas might be killing the planet, but our economy cannot survive without it.

I thought maybe I could try healing it and stopping it. But the more conscious I got, the more I realized it is Love and doesn't need my stopping it. Sometimes to take away an obstacle is a disservice, weakening the student. Don't wish for life to be easier, wish for yourself to be stronger. This corona shit is just something mankind has to grapple with to reach the next level of evolution and love. You can't make all viruses disappear, more will come. We must rebuild society to function better for more people.

The source code is Infinity.

If he thought past lives weren't imaginary, then not as woke as I have been. But maybe he understood they were imaginary. Hard to know. For example, I can talk about my childhood but I know it's imaginary.

No You are not going to survive an Alaskan winter on fruits and vegetables. You are not going to survive on vegan if you have certain health conditions. You are not going to survive on raw vegan if you don't have enough money. Etc. The reason people eat what they eat is because that's what allows them to survive. Of course this can be changed, but not always. And survival is a much more complex affair than merely meeting your calorie needs.

I wouldn't confuse that with sports. You can make an artform out of using toilet paper. The depth of any activity is as deep as you make it. You are creating the meaning behind it. So as long as you're able to trick yourself into thinking it's meaningful, it will appear meaningful to you.

I never said that. Useful is whatever fits your survival agenda, which could be anything. In the end my opinion about any given activity is irrelevant. If you enjoy it and value in it, then do it.

Shooting a ball into a hole is about as shallow as life gets. But hey! Maybe I'm the crazy one. If you can think of nothing better to do with life than shoot balls into holes, have at it. Whatever. You don't have to justify it to me.

Lol, pickup in the MeToo era is gonna be seriously misunderstood. The trick with dating hot women is that they actually like be dominated. But good luck explaining that to a MeToo audience. Of course I am not advocating sexual assault or rape, but most of these Reddit people calling pickup "sexual assault" are doing a disservice to the term "sexual assault." Stuff that goes on at a strip club or night club is very different than stuff that goes on at work, for example. In a night club it is appropriate to touch women in sexual ways while obviously not at work. People go to nightclubs in order to let loose and be sexual. That doesn't justify rape or actual assault, but squeezing a girl's butt in a playful way at a nightclub is not assault. Many women expect to be manipulated into sex. It's not like you go up to a woman and ask her, "Hi there. Shall we have sex tonight? Yes or No?" That's not how dating works. The woman is going to play coy and she is going to make dumb excuses and make the guy chase her. That is the mating ritual. Of course if she ever gives you a hard "NO!", then you stop. But short of that, the guy is allowed to keep pressuring her because she will play games. It's not that big a problem. She should know if she wants sex or not. And if she doesn't, she should state so clearly and the guy should stop and things are fine. The biggest distinction between pickup and MeToo is that the MeToo sexual abuse cases often involve positions of authority at work, where a boss exploits his female staff. This is very different than two strangers flirting and hooking up at a nightclub or bar. The situation is a lot more fair and balanced at the nightclub. The girl is free to reject the guy at any time with little consequence or threat to her. Flirting and even a bit of groping and kissing at a club is not sexual assault, it's business as usual. But at work, that's a big problem because the girl has no option to leave and the boss has too much leverage over her.