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Go approach 5000 women and go on dates. The pain of women rejecting and dumping you for your weakness will make you strong. You are not going to learn this skillset other than through massive pain and rejection. Get rejected so much you stop caring. Die inside from all your mistakes. Rapport is built AFTER attraction already happened. You need to learn basic pickup theory. Stop trying to reinvent the wheel. Attraction theory is 100% known and proven. Just study it. There is zero mystery to what attracts women. No
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Leo Gura replied to Tealeave's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This was explained in every Spiral stage video of mine. I have lists of how to move up to the next stage. No, not knowledge per se but understanding and perspective, Without a nuanced understanding you will be lost fighting other people and yourself. To live in 2nd Tier requires a very sophisticated understanding of how the mind and world works. This is not about accumulating a bunch of theory, it's about a deep contemplation of the mechanics of life and self. See my video on Nihilism where I address this very problem of relativism and aperspectival madness that you're going through. "Not knowing" is too easy. That's not good enough to survive effectively in life. You have no choice but to know, and Tier 2 requires very sophisticated sense-making. It's not impossible at all. Educate yourself. Read books. Over a decade you will develop a much richer understanding of the world and yourself. Also, this requires serious personal reflection and contemplation. You are citizen of a democracy (I assume), and you are citizen of the world. It is your duty as a conscious being to care about politics and social issues, even if you live in private. You are a social animal. Social issues are not optional. The only question is whether you will do them poorly or well. Part of Tier 2 is that you take much more responsibility for life and the world. You cannot just live "privately". That illusion flies out the window. It means what videos Yellow and Turquoise say. And what the Spiral Dyanmics book says. Read the book. Stop being lazy. At least read the Spiral Dynamics book. YES! Welcome to Tier 2, and welcome to life! Life is complex. Tier 2 is less that 1% of the world population. It is not easy to develop. Now you understand why. People are too lazy to do the development work or to even read a book. If you are not willing to read at least 100 books, then you can forget about Tier 2. You're not serious about this work then, and you're not serious about life. Tier 2 is NOT about reading books, but if you are unwilling to read 100 books then that shows you are not serious about understanding reality, and therefore you are doomed to be deluded. And as a deluded and ignorant person you will be in Tier 1. Spiral Dynamics is a complex model that requires at least 50 hours of study and research to begin to understand. It's not hard, but it does take work. None of this work is rocket science, but it does take a serious commitment to personal growth and mastery of life. - - - - - Your fundamental problem is lack of seriousness and engagement with life. If you don't change your attitude, your life will be wasted. Life works like this: you only get what you give. And right now it sounds like you're not interested in giving much. So you won't get much. If you want to change, make a commitment to life-long education and to reading at least 100 books from my book list. Now you can get somewhere. But still, that's less than 3% of the work necessary to really master life. That's just the first step. That merely opens the door. It takes about 5 years to move up 1 Spiral stage, and that assumes active, serious work at it. So it might take you 15 years of personal development work to reach Tier 2. Before you balk at this, ask yourself this: what else is there to do? You got something more important to do? Hehehe.... -
Leo Gura replied to Tech36363's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Sounds like they are as unhelpful as you. Be the change you wish to see. The way to get over it to realize that you can either live with hate/fear or with love. Which way do you want to live? -
Bloating, gas, and burping are obvious signs of bacterial action. Sounds like your problem is not lack of acid but SIBO. You likely have a bacterial infection in your gut. Traditional doctors are basically clueless about treating SIBO, even gastro-entrologists. You need to do a SIBO breath test and research how SIBO works: https://www.reddit.com/r/SIBO/ Your microbiome is probably badly screwed up and needs correction. You need to look for a functional/holistic doctor who specializes in treating SIBO and knows what it is. SIBO also causes depression and many other negative mental effects. SIBO can also cause constipation and gastritis. To heal you need to go on a strict elimination diet, kill the SIBO off entirely with antibiotics, and then slowly rebuild your gut microbiome and reintroduce foods one at a time.
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Women want a lovable jerk, who treats her like a princess but is willing to bash some skulls in elsewhere. To get attracted to you she needs to feel that you have the capacity to bash some skulls when called for. She wants that feeling of safety because she is not gonna bash skulls herself. She outsources that to you in exchange for sex.
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Oh... you don't understand women. But I don't recommend going that far. Like I said, don't be abusive. You can be brash but still treat women well.
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@DefinitelyNotARobot Practice embracing the brutality of survival. It's really not much different than a wolf hunting rabbits to feed his pups.
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You can't work to embody something you don't even understand conceptually.
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Stop asking women for advice on how to game them. That's your mistake. When it comes to deciding who she's gonna sleep with, her biological instincts will take over and she will not sleep with a nice guy. She wants to sleep with an alpha guy. Of course! Women like dick. They don't need a man with a pussy because they already got one. Attraction is very counter-intuitive. With that said, you can be strong and cocky without being mean or hurtful. That's the balance you should aim for: strong, assertive, cocky, playful, but also polite, respectful, and grounded in Love. You want to be a lovable jerk, not an abusive asshole. And this goes beyond women. In general, all people, men and women alike, respect strength, confidence, authority, leadership, and assertiveness. These are the qualities of a leader. And women want to sleep with leaders. You can't lead people effectively by being too nice and meek. Be a leader without being abusive or cruel. Temper yourself with Love.
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Leo Gura replied to Sempiternity's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This has nothing to do with spiritual practice. -
https://www.reddit.com/r/SIBO/
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Leo Gura replied to tatsumaru's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You can do physics of any video game world and code whatever physics you want. There is nothing special about our physics. It's all relative. All the laws are imaginary and could be otherwise. Ask yourself why you take consistency vs inconsistency as proof of anything? Just because a thing is consistent does not make it any more real or true. A thing that melts and lasts 0.0001 seconds is as real as a thing that sticks around for 10 billion years. They change in your dreams, they change inside a virtual world, etc. Of course they work locally, within a narrow contect. These laws do not work inside a dream, for example. The only ultimate law is: consciousness is completely unlimited. INFINITY is the only law. -
Leo Gura replied to StarfoxEpiphany's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It is misleading to claim that Sweden has no capital gains tax. -
Leo Gura replied to Kalki Avatar's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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You certainly can. I lost 65 pounds while eating shit simply by cutting back volume. But it won't be sustainable. It's too easy to over consume calories on junk food. Eventually you will become fat. It's much easier by just cutting out carbs and cleaning up your diet.
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Rather selfless actually. Selflessness is not necessarily all rainbows and butterflies.
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I have discussed it in my health blog videos.
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Leo Gura replied to Alan Reji's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
There are hundreds of factors which are too complex to ever map. Genetics play a massive role, just as with anything else in life. If you had the wrong genetics you wouldn't even be able to read the word "enlightenment", never mind achieving it. People seriously take genetics for granted. If you had the wrong genetics, you would be a kangaroo. Just think about that. -
This is not exactly true. It's a generalization. Some health problems are genetic or environmental and outside of human control. If your mother was toxic with chemicals when she gave birth to you, that's something you might suffer from your entire life and have little control over. If you got some weird genes that make you more sensitive to chemicals in the food supply, that's also very difficult to control. But also many health problems ARE within your control if you change your lifestyle. It doesn't matter how conscious or woke you become, you can still have health problems. And many awakened people do. The body is easily broken. BTW, I have improved my heath A LOT through improving my perception. If I hadn't done that, I would probably be dead by now. The bottom line is: Consciousness of Absolute Truth or God will not give you good health.
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If you want to lose weight, cut out carbs entirely. No pasta, no bread, no rice, no potatoes, no cereals, no pastries, no sweets, no sweetened drinks, no juice. << THIS is what makes you fat. Not lack of exercise.
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I got better things to do than tend a farm.
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To be fair, most food production is corrupt. Meats, veggies, fruits, organics... they cut corners on everything possible. Why would it not be safe? Yes, of course. Fish from small lakes and ponds are some of the most toxic fish possible. I would never eat a small pond fish. So toxic.
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This is false. Exercise is not issue, diet is. It's all about the junk you eat. If you ate healthy you would keep a slim weight effortlessly and naturally. Cut out all refined carbs, sugars, junk food, and grains.
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I had bad brain fog over the last few years which I cured with heavy metal detox and diet. So I know very much how terrible brain fog can be. But for me this has zero to do with porn or fapping. Keep in mind that your mind/brain will decline with age too. This is just natural. But if you have brain fog in your 20's something is seriously wrong. Probably your diet + chemical toxicity. - - - - - A general trend I see on here is you guys make way too much of a deal out of fapping. To the point of dysfunction. Honestly, I just can't relate on this issue. And I don't think I am special.
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Leo Gura replied to StarfoxEpiphany's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It sounds like you don't even understand what capital gains is. Capital gains is profits earned from holding stock.