Leo Gura

That's what alcohol was invented for. Absent that, you build state by talking to lots of people and practicing self-amusement.

Because in stage Blue marriage was so strictly culturally enforced that you didn't even have a choice in most cases. Now people have way more freedom because survival is easier, so they sleep around and treat relationships flippantly. It's easy to stay married when you have a gun to your head. The easiest way to stay married is to lock yourself into such a survival bind that you have no other choice. This was the case for much of human history. Things paradoxically become easy when you have no other choice.

For most of human history people have been fucking from the point of sexual maturity, which is like 12-14 years old. And even younger when you consider that most marriages were arranged and lifespans were low. Now people will call me a pedophile, but those are just some basic facts of human biology and history. People take for granted how strong cultural and moral norms are and how much they have shifted over time. I am not making any prescriptions here. But debating the morality of pedophilia is a very poor choice of topic for a Spiral Wizard type. You are not going to win that game because it's way too loaded. It's like: "Hey guys, let me introduce you to stage Yellow, where you develop empathy for pedophiles! Who's eager to join me?!" But overall what this guy gets right is that reality is Perfection/Love, so hating and criticizing others is a form of stupidity. He doesn't yet comprehend how deep the Love goes. There is literally no difference between a pedophile and a saint. But good luck convincing Vaush and his audience of that. Debates about morality are stupid because badness simply doesn't exist. It's just a relative survival bias. And this is not understood by people who debate morality.

This kind of statistical thinking is stupid. To even be worrying about this kind of stuff sub-communicates that you a lame bitter insecure victim. Shut up and go out and talk to girls. You can date them exclusively if you want. A successful marriage is not going to hinge on how many bodies you or she slept with, it's gonna hinge on your level of development, maturity, love, commitment, communication skills, and values alignment. If you want a flourishing marriage absolutely nothing is stopping you from it but yourself. I submit that you don't actually want to do the developmental work necessary for a solid marriage, so instead you come up with narratives like above. I don't mean you specifically, I mean Redpill type of guys in general. For society it's actually valuable for people to date lots of different people so that they can find strong values alignment between each other. Knowing how to select a serious life partner is a skill that requires lots of experience. You're not born with it. But I suggest that most guys don't even care about all that. They are just desperate to get laid and bitter when they can't. If you were able to get laid a lot, marriage would not be so appealing to you unless you were really developed and conscious, which these Redpillers and PUAs are not. Marriage requires making a lot of sacrifices which these traumatized man-children are not willing to make.

Hahaha He couldn't even tell you what enlightenment is.

It's not delusion if you succeed. Flying to the moon was delusional until it was done. Now it is considered science.

His political commetary is not so great. His non-political work is insightful.

You must distinguish signal from noise. That's hard to do with JP, but if you can do it, it's worthwhile to listen to his apolitical stuff.

He just needs to learn social calibration.

I think that illiteracy rate is very skewed though because most of those people are probably recent and even illegal immigrants.

Yeah... it's gonna sting for a few days. The one that's really gonna kill ya is when you find your perfect girl, perfect values alignment and everything else, and then still she rejects you. That's when you'll learn the sting of true rejection:

Yeah... that's not a good sign. She obviously lost attraction.

@Hardkill Being alpha is not the same thing as abusing women. And yes, most abuse becomes further into the relationship, otherwise she would run away.

Sorry, my bad.

Lol I have no fear about women cheating on me. I spend zero time worrying about it. I just told you a fun story. I'm not some Red Pill or Incel guy who has a negative view of women. The women I've been with have been super loyal to me. Most women are loyal to a fault.

@Hardkill Stop trying to be edgy and practice being chill and friendly. But with sexual intent. The point of verbal game is to make her giggle. You say things that should make her giggle. In contrast to being boring and logical. Forget about negging. Just build solid chill and friendly game, WITH sexual intent!

Dude, many marriages and relationships are already in the death process. Obviously I'm not going to lead a girl to break a good marriage. It was obvious that her marriage was mostly a formality and that her heart wasn't in it.

Dude, what the fuck? I never told you to say anything like that. I deliberately go out of my way NOT to insult girls. Sometimes it happens by accident and kills the set. Teasing and flirting is not insults. << Get that through your bean brain You never want to say anything what she would perceive as an attack on her core self. Don't say hurtful things to people. Saying hurtful things is not game, it's just cruel. You also shouldn't be aiming to say sexist things. You say funny things and if they happen to be a bit sexist you will skate by. If she is not laughing then you are failing.

Things are not so black and white.

@Bioclassifiers I honestly re-watched it 3 times and didn't see anything but the dust on my screen. Maybe I'm going blind.

Where is the UFO? This kind of footage is what makes UFO people seem crazy.

Where is the UFO? This kind of footage is what makes UFO people seem crazy.

I am exploring the edges of what's possible. I am not interested in stealing girls from guys and usually self-eject from bf or married situations. I'm not above pushing on social norms as I learn. You have to understand that girls are not angels.

I have talked about this in my How To Get Laid series. Ideally you start with the player frame and then switch to the boyfriend frame once she's slept with you a few times and is seriously invested into you.

Bro, I know. I used to be the biggest nice guy. Yes, if you are stuck in nice guy mode then a scummy PUA is a good counter-balance. Just be careful, it's easy to go to the dark side. The dark side will get you laid so much with such hot girls you will forget the word integrity exists. Haha, good luck. While you're at it, teach your son to ignore looking at tits.